 But if you want to explore a relationship that have a long term game plan instead of this cavalier short term game plan, it's one of the reasons why we're seeing such dysfunctionality because here's what's happening. People are going out for a couple months and then breaking up and they meet someone else they go out for a couple months and break up and they meet someone else and go out for a year and they break up and they meet someone else and go out for two years and they break up and then they go out for two weeks and they break up and pretty soon all of this dating and short lived experience begins to wear emotionally on our wellbeing. In fact, the number one emotional health issue people are facing is I'm not good enough. I'm not lovable and I'm not likable. And I think dating amplifies this like nobody's business.