 For five minutes every day, go sit with something that does not mean anything to you. Maybe a tree or a pebble or worm or an insect. After some time, you will find you can look upon it with as much love as you hold for your wife, husband, mother, child or dog. Maybe the worm does not know this, the insect does not know this. That does not matter. If you can look at everything lovingly, the whole world explodes into a beautiful phenomena for you. You realize love is not something that you do, it is the way you are.