 When I first went out on mission tours and and in zone conferences and missionary meetings, I never talked about home I I'd refused to even acknowledge that they had a home If you listen to me you to think they were all orphans Just they were never ever going to go home because I didn't want anybody to be chunky But now with a little more maturity and a little more. I hope a little more wisdom I talked about home a lot with missionaries saying we're interested in you as missionaries For the rest of your life and for eternity sure we need you right now for 18 months or 24 That's the immediate issue at hand But we're not through with you and the Lord's not through with you when you're released from that mission So I'm I'm pretty pretty free to talk Pretty eager to talk about all the commitments that you make because I can't One of the hardest things in the world for me is to is to find a less active return missionary We're interested in your activity your your marriages your your children your service Boy for the for all your all your life I say you the two of you and and all those other missionaries out there and That's a little maturing that I had to do to really think this is this is forever This is this is life including eternal life and to have the broad view and the big picture of what a mission does So would you say that while being on your mission as you thought about coming home Do you feel like that helped you to use your mission experiences to bless your family thereafter? I'm thrilled that we now have my plan. We didn't have it and And we were always a little worried about anybody getting on this getting there you say getting on their trunk They're still on a trunk. Well, they were some of them. We're still taking great big ships Visions where they had trunks, you know So this trunk out goes back to a long ways But and so I'm delighted that that we're having a Plan now to help them get a vision a little bit of what they're gonna do later on and that can be a great blessing When I came home my parents were were actually away on a mission by then and I came home to I Didn't know what I had to find a place to live I had to come up with a job and and and my own money and it was it was Potentially a kind of a shock to the system after a very regularized life in the mission to come home to chaos and and I think my plan would have been a terrific blessing in my life I I staggered through that I got through that first-year home But to have had some concrete ideas about next steps if nothing else it would have reduced my my Frustration boy my plan I think is gonna be a real blessing really truly