 Beginning is your story obviously and by the way when you commit to a story and It becomes who you are and it will become who you are the more you repeat it You will start standing differently when you go out you'll approach people differently You'll be more confident you'll carry yourself So you don't need any tips on body language or whatever you will just start to appear and you will start to occur more importantly Different than you have been before to the same people. You will just occur that way now practically Yes, you will stop doing some things that you currently do or used to do When it comes to pushing this new not pushing this but presenting this new you okay, so let's take a context of women So instead of walking up to women with this, you know wanting desperate needy vibe where you're trying to you're gonna try to push Yourself on them you're trying to corner them trying to manipulate them trying to get them to go out with you You're not gonna do any of that anymore Right, so there's no complimenting them over comp because we don't know the difference between complimenting and over complimenting Right pursuing and over pursuing. That's why I just say Cut it out stop doing it and relax and have a good time and don't worry about it and let it happen And so you want to you're gonna give these women Some actually a moment to be interested in you for the first time in your life rather than you constantly saying stuff and trying to figure out what to say next and she's like The usual guy is standing here in front of me So it's that the story you tell yourself and then of course there are practical stuff you should stop doing So you just think about what most guys would do and what you currently do which is you walk up You're talking to some girl You're really you really are hitting on her and you really do want something and not only that not only do you want something but You're afraid you may might not get it and then what does that mean about you when you don't get it? And then you're gonna be angry that you didn't get it there's something wrong with her or not you and So then you're gonna and you're gonna say things like You know you're gonna say pursuer things like you know Oh, we should get together sometime when we should go on a date. Oh, you're so pretty you know, you're the most beautiful blue eyes and You know, I could go on and on and on we should go on all these traditional dates We want you to go to Cobblestone Lucas with me this weekend Okay, you're gonna stop doing that crap You're gonna stop doing all that traditional dating stuff that doesn't work has it worked for so long I could talk another nine hours on that or nine days on that Just doesn't work. So you're gonna you're gonna keep yourself. You're gonna discipline yourself to not do what you used to do That is in the form of overdoing things over communicating over pursuing you're just gonna stop all that and That along with your new vibe Should work There's more to it than that but that's the best way I can kind of explain it to you right now