 You want to always end the conversation first. That's another big one, guys. So most of the time, what we do is we wait around to women to dismiss us. I used to do it. I'd keep talking and talking and talking and talking until she either rolled her eyes, turned away from me. I got to go to the bathroom and talk to my friend. Just blew me off completely. I didn't understand the power of not fearing loss, or being carefree and not being attached to this one girl. So end the conversation first. It's powerful. And a lot of stuff I'm telling you guys is applicable to other parts of your life, too. So it's applicable in business, other relationships. So as soon as the other person realizes that you're going to dismiss yourself, that's powerful. So dismiss yourself and move on. Talk to someone else. Open up more opportunities for yourself. And if, in fact, you get in a communication string with any of these women that you end up talking to, over-communicating in between getting together is a no-no. Remember, right? One of the greatest things I have to tell you is when a woman is interested in you and they take action on it. I mean, that's like, for guys, you'll say that's the holy grail even though you may not get there or be open to the way I'm telling you how to get there. Really, I'd rather have someone in whatever kind of relationship it is, whether it's casual or other, who wants to be there, who's interested in hanging out with me. Not someone who I feel like I forced or tricked or manipulated into wanting to hang out with me or get together with me or hook up with me or whatever. I know that's what we're taught. That's what we've all done that. But the next level is actually being excited about having someone who's interested in being there. And this is what this allows women to do. It allows them to be interested in being there. So in other words, if you text someone and the girl doesn't text you back, don't text her three more times saying, did you get my message? Just want to make sure you got my message. None of that, guys. I've been guilty of that as well. Okay, and the other thing you need to do is you have to, so there's obviously a lot of intergame that goes along with this. You have to change your mind about a lot of things. So you have to create your own personal mantra that this is the only type of woman I meet who is attracted to me. So every time I go out, I run into women who are exactly my type. And so what they do is this. They only, right? I offer my number, they take it, they ask me out, we go out, and that's how we roll. So you have to actually convince yourself that has to be your new mantra. Be on a shadow of a doubt that this is your new life. And for those of you who have not done any inner work, I know that that sounds probably a little weird to you, but I'll tell you, you're already doing it. You're just doing it the opposite. So you already have a mantra, personal mantra, every time you look into the mirror, every time you think about yourself or your life, you're already telling yourself stuff. Just change the information you're telling yourself. Most of the stuff you're telling yourself is negative. How you're not good enough and how it won't happen for you and why it's not possible about everything in your life. If you just change that whole conversation, and right now we're talking about the context of women, if you change that conversation, it'll be super powerful. Okay, couple last things I wanna leave you with here. How are we doing on time? Okay, so if you wanna start this life with girls that you're already maybe in conversation with or you're already sort of like chasing the old way, if you want women to chase you, you have to stop chasing them, period. That's it, to make room for it, you can't be attached, you can't try to hold on to old relationships and stuff. If you want this new way, you have to be willing to clear the deck of everything you're doing. Now, that won't necessarily happen, I'm just telling you I have to be willing to do that. So here's what I suggest. If you're in a current conversation somehow with a woman in whatever way you're doing and you're doing the traditional role, where you're chasing her, you're checking in with her, trying to make her interested, let's go out on a date, she's saying, no, I can't until next week. Okay, I'll check back with you. I want you to go dark. I want you to radio silence. No more communicating at all. Stop yourself, okay? Just stop. That's number one thing. Do not contact them again, okay? Until she contacts you. Once she contacts you, that's just the beginning of a whole new thing, possibly. Now, I'm not guaranteeing that this will work. These next two things I'm gonna tell you because you've already set yourself up as a person who chases, right? So there's a precedent and people don't like you to change the way things are done after the fact. They wanna know who you are to begin with, not later. But this works sometimes, okay? So you wanna go dark and then when they contact you, you wanna, then you wanna say, oh, okay, great. But here's the other thing. Is that everything is about getting together. There's no more conversation back and forth that's idle conversation about shit that doesn't mean anything, okay? No more, that's out the window, okay? And having said that, and that leads me to the last thing here, and that's, and it's related. If you currently have a date, a traditional date with a girl that you have done everything in the traditional way with and you're gonna meet out, I don't know, three or four days from now or whatever, and you're gonna go out and have drinks or dinner or whatever, I want you to send them the following text. Or however you're communicating. Change of plan. Drinks, 8 p.m., my place or their place, whatever. And then if you would just put your address in there or ask for their address and that's it. You're gonna change the whole way things are done now, okay? And so could women respond to that badly? Of course they could, but like I said, you gotta be willing to do that. So everything has to be about getting together. And if you wanna stop all of this in this tracks anytime when you're communicating, just send the message that says, so I suppose you wanna get together, question mark, and that's it, then you know, yes or no. Don't continue trying to talk them into it. Don't have a 42,000 step system for doing it. Just move on to the next thing. He is, and I know him, he's a legend. He's been around way back in the day when we all got the. And I'm telling you, I see these guys come up to me and they show me all these super long text message threads or instant message. I mean, they must be like, you know, they go on for sometimes weeks and I say, hey, so you guys got together? No, but I think I'm gonna talk about it soon. We're probably gonna maybe get together. I'm like, really, this is your problem. This is over chasing women. This is the old way. And this is exactly why you're not getting together with her. I'm looking at all the stuff you're telling her. And it's the same thing every other guy's saying, right? It's how it's going, you're trying to tease her. And you've gotten into it and you're doing it. Is it possible that women will just switch over immediately? Yeah, it is. Because even though they're programmed just the opposite of the way we are, the passive way. So women are, of course, unfortunately programmed to be passive. So we become too pushy, they're too passive. So they kind of wait around, right? They've been taught to wait around and the right guy will approach you or he won't, right? Now some girls are assertive and I applaud them if they are, but very few. And so maybe in conversation with, you're already sort of chasing the old way. If you want women to chase you, you have to stop chasing them, period. That's it.