 Hi, she was living. I'm back. Okay, so I have had a lot of people in my comments, especially guys and I've seen a lot of posts and like I've seen a lot of older men Start to apologize for the younger men and how they're treating women and then I see a lot of the older men Who are also taking up for the younger man saying they understand? And the funny thing is none of these men have money Okay, none of these men are successful in life as far as being financially stable enough to have a family and a wife so I'm not really going to like bash them because you know not everyone is meant to be Successful not everyone is meant to have money. Not everyone is meant to be you know what they wish they could be So I'm not going to bash them for not having money and being broke. No, I'm not gonna do that But the only thing that I'm upset about is that they are acting like They deserve the same treatment and the same respect as a man who has busted his ass To get to where he wants to go so he can have a family so he can support a woman so he can Feel comfortable in respecting a woman because he doesn't feel inferior to her because she's making more money than him I am commending those guys who don't sit on facebook and troll women's videos for wanting To have a decent life And many other cultures It's Common for a woman to want to marry a successful man. I mean who wants to marry Someone who's not successful, especially You know A man You know, no one wakes up and say oh, I want a broke man. Oh, yes. That's my dream No, okay, no woman does that Uh women settle Okay, if you're broke and you have a woman she settled for you Okay, if you if you have your hand out at build time that woman settled for you You are not what she really wanted. Okay And even though you might have a good life and you're you know, you're happy for the moment and things are good You're still not her number one Choice that she wished that she could have been with and that's just the honest truth. I'm just telling y'all. I'm just I'm just being honest Okay um And y'all could beat me up for it if y'all want but that's just honest. That's just being honest just like no man, uh Gets up and say hey, I want to marry this an ugly chick Or I want to marry someone who has uh 10 kids and ugly and on you know and Can't do any better. So she chooses me no man wants that but they settle for it And the reason why people settle for things and I'm gonna tell y'all why it's because they're too lazy to work and get What they want? Okay, now A man can say oh women are lazy. That's why they want to depend on me But it takes work to land a rich man. Okay, that's work If if that was easy work every woman would have a witch or a man with money to take care of him If that was easy work every woman would have what they wanted or at least You know some of what they wanted That's not easy work. That takes mentalism That takes cleverness that takes Oh my god, that takes time. It takes effort and to put you know into what you Uh say to this person how much time you spend with them what you put in their head How you look how you approach them how you speak to them how you do things in your own life because you know they're paying attention That takes a lot of effort. Okay but Only certain women can do that just like only certain men will be successful There are morals put in place by society To keep men at a certain level and to keep women Settling for certain things if you can break outside of the box for a moment And understand that you can have whatever you like If you set down a couple of these society given morals And go for what you want in life, okay, uh, sometimes morals are just disguised for control mechanisms, okay, so Some people do not Consider certain morals so therefore it's easier for them to become successful in life And therefore it's easier for a woman to get a man with money because they're not looking at What this other lady here is looking at now? I saw this meme on facebook and it said All the good girls are or are somewhere single And all the holes and sluts are happily married and living large, okay And if you look around That's sadly true. You're going to see More women who you would look down on and say oh, they're gold diggers. Oh, they're whores or they're this But they're happily married and living large. Why because it takes brains and hustle to land a man like that and rich men want Certain type of women, okay, they're not looking for that homely, you know, do good morally correct boring good, you know Good girl, okay, they're looking for excitement. They can have any woman they want, okay They didn't have any woman they want. They're looking for excitement thrills action They they're looking for women other men Want, okay, they're not looking for This certain type of woman and if they are it's only because they're trying to settle Okay, they're trying to settle down And then usually when they land that nice good woman, they go and cheat With the type of woman they really wanted in the first place, okay Some men are selfish like that. They'll say well, you know what? I need a wifey type material so that I can have kids with her and she can raise my kids right and they'll have a Good mother, but but you know, I really want this type of woman So I'm gonna, you know, have a mistress on the side or I'm going to cheat on her and she'll never know anyway or blah blah blah because You know, that's what I like and I can't help it because I'm I mean, you know women put value on material things and comfort and security men put value on looks sex and availability Okay, that's just true Um So that's why you'll see a lot of like women who are married who you thought, you know Oh, why did he marry her? She's been with like all these guys and she's a slut. She used to strip But she's married to this rich guy now. Oh my gosh, you know, yeah, because uh rich guys You know, they don't have time to to play games They know what what you are what you can do what you're about and they're just gonna say Hey, that's the kind of woman I want, you know, I give her uh the lifestyle and you know She'll she'll have nice clothes. She'll look, you know, elegant and stuff like that But underneath it all she's still the type of woman I want, you know, um But Sometimes you just want a normal relationship with a normal guy working nine to five You know have the the simple life and that's fine. But if you're going to settle for That type of life make sure your man has a career at least or at least going in the direction of a career Not a lame job that he can lose at any time and can't get rehired Somewhere else with quickness. You need to find a man with a career. Don't settle For less than you actually deserve. Okay Now this is for all levels of income. You can be poor and happy with the guy as long as he's putting in his work. Okay Um You can be rich and happy with the guy. You can be average and happy with the guy, but don't Don't ever think That just because you're good and moral and stuff like that That's how you've got the guy because the guy can be tempted very easily and You can also understand why they're tempted and try to incorporate What he likes, you know In your life, you know, you're supposed to grow together. You're not supposed to stay the same So if you see him looking at this type of woman and you look opposite, you know, you might need to um Say hey, baby. Do you like that? You know, I can I can look better in that outfit than she could I bet, you know Challenge yourself to improve and to appeal to your man because he's going to be looking no matter what. Okay Um Anyway, I know like I know my husband. He don't like when I wear the blonde wig. He hates that wig Okay, that's why I'm hardly wearing you always see black here. He lives black here black black black. Okay. That's why I always have black uh, okay, anyway Uh He doesn't like ratchet things. Okay, so Um It's fun He really don't he don't like ratchet things. He gets offended when he sees me and my purple wig and my blonde And he's like, oh, why do you have that on? It's so trashy and That's like, I like it. I like it. But you know That's his taste. He doesn't like it. But the funny thing is The funny thing is you know what he likes, you know, don't don't find out the wrong way by catching him with somebody else um Anyway, back on track. I gotta get back on track. Um So, yeah, don't let certain rules or morals In society hold you back from doing what you need to do. There's some girls out there who A lot of guys are putting this in the comment y'all don't look good enough to get a rich man Like why why are you telling these girls lies? Like some girls look a certain way and they'll never get treated like this And they'll never get a rich man and they'll never do this But they feel like they can okay. Well when you when you're wanting something and you have Any type of standard is better than having no standards. Okay So if you have a not so beautiful girl who has all these standards She's gonna meet some of them at least. Okay, she might not land a rich man But she might land a financially stable man just from having the standards to get a rich man You know, she might not have get the the most handsome as man in the world But she's not going to get somebody who's beneath her, you know So Even if I'm giving false hope to women who don't have certain looks and certain Attitudes to get these type of men's they still gonna have standards and they're not gonna accept what anybody is just bringing to them Okay, so that's that's my That's my take on that because you right not every woman Is going to attract a rich millionaire or a rich man, but they can Attract someone who's stable and has a career. Okay You know, they how they say, uh Shoot for the stars and land on the moon. It's kind of like that. Okay. Yes. I'm going to build their confidence Yes, I'm going to make them Believe because anything is possible. I've seen rich men with ugly women. It doesn't matter You know, they might be a freak in the bed. Who knows all I'm saying Is if they have that confidence and those standards about them They're not going to let somebody use them and trash them out just because they don't they're not a perfect 10 They're still going to have value. Okay, and you're not going to men aren't going to be easily Able to talk them out of sex or treat them like a dog Just because they don't Look a certain way. These women are still going to have standards and you're still going to have to work for A woman who's not Above average looking you're still going to have to work for her Why because women should Feel good about themselves and they shouldn't let men dog them no matter how they look Okay, because you can see a man transform into the most beautiful woman in the world That woman no matter how ugly she is if she got a hold to some makeup in some weeks And some in the right outfit She could be beautiful in in in one hour Two hours tops, okay So don't ever underestimate An ugly woman y'all have seen those pictures on facebook or the transformation takes place from This type of woman To full makeup looking like barbie. Okay, we've seen that And I know men are going to say well when that all comes up y'all When that all comes off it you're ugly underneath when y'all in the club y'all are looking at You know, what's on the outside you're not looking for what's in the inside You will take that girl home with a ton of makeup on her face and you won't care Okay, you will get that type of girl pregnant and you're not You'll say hey You're not even gonna wonder about what she looks like under the makeup until what? Weeks later. Okay, because you're not even thinking about it. You can be thinking with the other head. Okay, so Don't ever let a man treat you wrong if you're ugly ladies I suggest you go and get to the matte counter with quickness and at telling to make you look good telling like look I won't look like this Go out one night with that mask and the wig on And see the type of attention you get and see how people treat you different Okay A lot of women are saying well, you know, I don't believe in false everything. Well Just try it out as an experiment and see okay, because you'll understand, you know, it's not They're not looking for what's inside A lot of men are looking for what's outside first and then they were about the inside later. Okay So ladies Gentlemen, I hope this helped you um, like I said You have to keep your standards high Yes, women deserve the best treatment. Yes, they deserve to have their meals paid for Yes, they deserve to be courted if you are a man and you're seeking the attention of a woman Then yes, you are going to have to put in work Okay, if you're a women's if you're a woman seeking the attention of a man You are going to have to put in work. Okay, if you're not that type of woman Then, you know You understand, you know, women aren't supposed to chase men. Okay. It's supposed to be the other way around So if you're a woman chasing men I suggest kind of using out of that and letting them start to chase you because You know, if a man wants you he's going to come after you no matter what. All right. I'm gonna see y'all later