 Hello everyone. If there's one thing a narcissist needs from you It's a reaction when you first meet them in the love-bombing phase They will do everything To get a positive reaction out of you. They want your attention Your admiration They want you to think that there's something impressive They want you to think that there's something desirable Something attractive They will do whatever they can to impress you because your reaction is very important to them And they will do whatever it takes to get it It fuels them it makes them feel alive It makes them feel special and important, but as time goes by your positive reaction towards them No longer has the same effect. It doesn't make them feel the same way as it once did This is the point Where they will begin to seek positive reactions From other people. They will try to impress other people They will try to get other people's attention and admiration other people's reactions because again The narcissist Needs people to react to them But it's always going to be a certain amount of time Until your reaction no longer fuels them until it no longer has the same effect and that's where it gets to a point where They begin to devalue you when they first met you You were perfect You were everything they could have dreamed of but once your reaction no longer has the same effect They can no longer get supply and that is when they have to devalue you That is when they have to make you feel like you're less than who you really are. They have to abuse you They have to put you down and by doing that That also gets them a reaction. I think they would rather be Admired by people they would rather be loved, but they can't help themselves really They always do things to push people away Because they're always thinking about themselves And they lack empathy So it's only a matter of time until you begin to withdraw your love until you no longer affectionate with them Until you no longer give them the same amount of attention admiration as you used to you take away your reactions you don't feel like Doing the things with them that you used to whether it's going out on dates Be an affectionate whatever it is Once they've hurt you once they've abused you you lose interest in those kinds of things and the narcissist picks up on that They know you're not validating their false self You're not validating the illusion that they are trying to portray But they don't ever look at themselves and think that they were the reason Why you withdrew your love Why you withdrew your attention so they begin to devalue you it's still get some attention It still makes them feel like they are something Significant and important it still makes them feel powerful It still makes them feel like they matter to someone if they don't feel loved For whatever reason even though they may not be loving you Or doing anything that's in your interest They will get very angry And they will begin to devalue you Whatever it takes to get a reaction out of you because all that really matters to them is Your reaction That's what gives them fuel That's what gives them supply they want you to notice them They want you to look at them to hear them More than you even notice yourself Because they need it if he wills them and they cannot live without it They cannot live without constant attention and admiration When it all comes down to it They're like big babies They need you to constantly look at them to constantly attend to them They're every need because they never developed emotionally. That's why they need you. They need your support You're like their crutch You sustain them You regulate their emotions Your reactions regulate their emotions Whether those reactions are good Or bad As long as it's something Anything is better than nothing They can't feed off nothing They can't feed off Neutrality And that's why my advice to you Is to rather than give them a positive reaction Or to get angry at them when they do things that you don't like Be neutral Don't feed into it practice Neutrality They can't feed off that and watch As they fade away. Yeah, they can't live without a reaction They really can't That's what keeps them going That's what makes them feel alive And it doesn't matter if that reaction is positive or negative Although they would prefer it to be positive But they always end up messing things up at some point Because they only care about themselves They don't really care about how their actions affect you Thanks for the donation Tima Thanks for the donation couch mula I appreciate you So yeah, they need your reaction. They can't live without it It's really that simple But if you practice neutrality, then they they can't feed off Your reactions then But you just you shouldn't even react. You should respond Think before you respond Breathe deeply And you'll feel much calmer more logical Rather than being in your emotions Whoop Lights out Still you All right, I gotta go Check out the website if you haven't seen it yet www.noxviver.co.uk