 Hey there, sorry for the informal dressing as usual. I want to tell you that it would get better But I probably won't because you know, I like hot places And you know, I'll spend a couple of months in Thailand soon and that would be even worse Because it's also it's not only hot there, but it's also like moist, you know, you sweat a lot more See, I you know at best. I'll wear like a short button shirts But we'll see anyway as you've seen by the title of the video I Want to have a Moment kind of like a Real moment with you guys You know you the the viewer and The topic is How I realized that that I kind of fucked up a bit and the last few Maybe two three months Since I've kind of been more back in action I forgot about something big something that was a milestone or even an essential part of me and that thing was uncompromising goal-setting basically Setting goals not based on what's Comfortable what would be realistic what would be nice but like living your life from a place of Striving towards amazing things for yourself not just like this not like just things that sound nice And the reason for that is I've been striving for nice for the last few months With what I've been doing recently, you know the whole passive income thing and it's actually been going really well Because in the month and the bit that I started doing it. I've already made a couple hundred dollars, which is you know For someone who's never done it before I guess that's pretty damn good Especially since it keeps going up But but but still I wasn't like more satisfied. I wasn't like more happy more Fulfilled I was like, okay, that's nice. Okay, cool But I didn't feel it, you know in the loins. They didn't feel the Satisfaction yet, you know, you know you feel good making sales. That's awesome, but I didn't feel like Whoa, like I'm every day. I'm working and towards my dream Like I would feel good when good stuff happened like I would get good results, but I would not feel good Unless good things happened. So I did not I was not like so, you know enthusiastic so full filled with what I was doing that I Enjoyed every moment of it that I was growing Spiritually and you know internally it was like, okay, cool. Let's go through the motions. Let's make it happen You know, I deserve this because I'm a successful person. So I deserve You know making this happen. I've done much better things in this much harder things So yeah, they deserve it. So let's just do it, you know Like imagine someone who's been like in the gym for like 10 years and but like a big, you know muscle mass and then Some guys like hey, yeah, you want to try yoga? He's like, yeah, sure. You know, I'm I'm super fit But I already earned it. I can do yoga. It's you know, it's my it's my birth right now Like because I have it, you know, and then you want it goes to do you guys like, okay It's a bit harder than I thought it's new starts stretching and like, okay, maybe it's kind of different shit But then because you're already tasted a lot of success You're not really it's harder to get yourself hungry because you you expect it to happen now You kind of take it a bit for granted which is fucked up. I know But that's the way it is, you know, it is what it is. So With me I had that realization today while listening again to my favorite book of all time The 10x rule by Grant Cardone the book that changed my life the most out of any book Another book that changed my life almost as much was The Slight Edge It helped me go from like, you know, I was into self-development, but I was really really Suffering because I didn't know how to actually become consistent and start improving my life daily And this book The Slight Edge really taught me all the philosophy. I know today of building success gradually and have and habits and good lifestyles but the 10x rule is what it takes to go from like Really nice, you know from like a Cool level to like a really really high level So that's where like the major transformation was for me and I think there are kids following me by the way so So What uh, what uh, oh, sorry, it's so confusing So where it gets really cool right now with what I'm going through is How I basically Had the realization today where I realized like hey, I'm not really Up to par with my goals and not really where I want to be right now I'm kind of like I'm building around, you know, I'm moving I am taking action and I am seeing results But what will make you happy in life is not the results It's kind of like the path that you go to actually get there And if you go through a path where you don't really challenge yourself like for example imagine someone's like a super good at something and then he he You know, you let him improve at something that he's already kind of good at It won't feel good to him if he's not really putting in the effort because he's already done in the past So it kind of feels the same and that's what it was for me Like I knew I could like deep down I could be like a 10 times higher level and I just wasn't doing it. So it felt it felt really bad about it and basically the the change is that I wrote down my goals again like I I basically decided to Change my my entire viewpoint again and this you know go back to being really based on Setting 10x goals, you know, like really really high goals that just by writing them down to get motivated And again, I kind of forgot that because like, you know, I just want to get my result I just want to get the you know, the the the five ten thousand dollars a month passively to be happy about that and And nothing else, you know, and and the thing is it didn't motivate me like when things went up and down Like it stopped motivating me completely And that's where I realized like something's wrong Something you're not right because the whole point of having a big goal is that the goal Whether it's good or bad of the goal kind of pushes you forward always So, you know, it can always go back. Just think of the goal and bam, you're just you're filled with energy again So if your goal right now doesn't make you feel like that when you think about it when you write it down or if you Don't have the energy or the Discipline to write down your goals every day It just means they're not big enough that they're not interesting enough for you to actually sit down and write them and think about them Because think about it like let's say you were dating like a supermodel or a supermodel guy I know like a super beautiful amazing sexy Amazing incredible person or I know as Trump would say like a tremendous person You would like to think about that person right like you would love to you know Sit down for like a minute and fantasize about that person, right? Like how would they look naked how would be to be next to them to hug them to you know what with them? But let's say it's your goals, you know, and you don't even want to Sit down for like a minute or two and write them Fantasize about them. Well, it means they're not that good. It means they're not that interesting for you So you really should consider changing either entirely the goal Or just making them a lot bigger so that they're more rewarding like maybe for you right now jumping from making like two thousand a month as an employee to making like three thousand a month as a businessman a Businessperson entrepreneur. That's not really a cool goal But maybe jumping from two thousand as an employee to like thirty thousand as a business person That's like incredible for you. Or maybe you know just like Having a bit more money isn't really warding but traveling the world and having a lot of the money That's rewarding. So so find what makes you tick find what makes you like really really happy about it And use it to kind of fuel yourself forward and again if your goals when you think about them You don't get excited They're the wrong goals. Just sit down think and it's okay. Just sit down think again until you find something It don't try some something realistic. This is a goal. It's it's a fantasy. You know, it's not about realistic land It's about what makes you tick or makes you feel good inside And it can use that to push you forward So it doesn't even matter if you reach the goal or not You just you'll have the energy to move forward, which is what really matters That's pretty much the the lesson I've had today as I've said, it's a pretty big lesson If you haven't downloaded my e-book yet Now is a really good time to do it because it's really really really good Just because it's free doesn't mean it's not priceless You can get it from my website if you haven't subscribed yet, please do and you know If you've got this far then comment and let me know what you think so talk soon and Glad to share my experiences with you