 Okay, number two, do you share the same values with each other, ask those deeper questions? Ask questions like when was the last time you had sex with someone? Ask the person a question. This is for those newly dating people. When was the last time you went on a first date with someone? But Jonathan, that's too personal and intimate of a question. Look, if you're going to engage your heart, you have every right to ask deeper questions. In my private coaching program, and if you need help with that, schedule a free discovery call with me, see if working with a coach is right for you. One of the things we talk about is the rules of engagement, establishing what your standards are because you want to actually scare the wrong person away.