 Bitterness is called a root because it grows and produces all kinds of unhealthy fruit. Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many. That's Hebrews chapter 12 verse 15. Bitterness is the root. This fruit can be anger, cynicism, loss of joy, frustration, and a lack of patience. Do you carry an atmosphere of tension around you? Are you defensive, irritated, and moody? Do you carry a chip on your shoulder? Do people feel as though they have to speak and act with extreme care around you? Sometimes the reason people project tension, moodiness, and anger is to protect themselves from being hurt or offended again. After all, if you can keep people at a distance, they can't hurt you. Like the body naturally recoils or maneuvers to avoid contact with an injured part, so the soul develops a method of defense. Perhaps you were legitimately hurt. It may very well be that you were truly wronged. Maybe something was done to you. Maybe someone spoke something to you. It can also be that someone wasn't there for you in the way that they should have been. Your pain and anger may very well be justifiable. On the other hand, there are also those who themselves are offended by trivial things. Now, I by no means am trying to belittle anyone's pain, but you do have to at least consider this angle too. Perhaps you were just being too sensitive and emotional about something. Sometimes it's not the experience, but rather the way you perceive and interpret an experience that leads to bitterness. Only fools get angry quickly and hold the grudge. That's Ecclesiastes chapter 7, verse 9. So there are some who have been truly wrong, and then there are some who only perceive themselves to have been wronged. But regardless of why you carry hurt, anger, and offense, it's so important that you realize there is freedom available to you. The answer is simple, but it isn't easy. When you are praying, first forgive anyone you are holding a grudge against so that your Father in heaven will forgive your sins too. That's Mark chapter 11, verse 25. Forgiveness is the key to freedom. Now again, it's not my goal to be insensitive, but it would be terribly unloving of me to withhold the truth from you. If you want to be free, you need to forgive. There's really no way around it. To forgive is to let go. You may still feel the emotion of the offense. You might still feel the anger of the offense. Thankfully, forgiveness is not an emotion, it's a decision. Just let go. People don't like to hear phrases like that. Just let it go. That phrase seems so insensitive, so harsh, so simplistic, but that's the key. Just let it go isn't what people want to hear, I know what people want to hear. They want to hear what modern preaching tells them. Modern preaching says, you can't just tell people to let it go. You don't know their story. You haven't been in their shoes. Now they never really come out right and say it, but what modern preachers are telling you essentially is that you have the right to unforgiveness. The problem is, that's just not the truth, that's not biblical. As people who have been crucified with Christ, you and I have no rights to unforgiveness. By telling you such lies, cowardly preachers are actually contributing to your staying in bondage. As people filled with the Holy Spirit, should we not have the grace to forgive? Should we not be the most humble forgiving people on earth? Again, it's simple, but it's definitely not easy. But I'm telling you this because I want to see you go free. I'm telling you this because I love you. You might be waiting for the perfect apology. You might be waiting for them to acknowledge their wrong, to humble themselves and present themselves broken before you. But that perfect scenario might never come. So we must be like Christ, well being crucified before he ever received an apology. He cried out, Father forgive them, for they know not what they do. We must forgive faster than they can apologize. In fact, forgiveness doesn't begin after we've been hurt. Forgiveness is the state of your heart before the offense ever takes place. Make allowance for each other's faults and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. That's Colossians chapter 3 verse 13. Make allowance, carry the grace before the offense takes place. Think about the word itself, forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness, forbearance, for knowledge. It takes place before. We must live prepared to forgive. Anticipating offense, we must be ready to let go. So search your heart. Is there any unforgiveness in you? Bitterness seeks revenge. Forgiveness seeks reconciliation. Bitterness lives in the past. Forgiveness frees you to dream about the future. Bitterness says, because they owe me. Forgiveness says, because I owe God. Bitterness pushes guilt. Forgiveness lifts burdens. Bitterness seeks to prove a point. Forgiveness lets go. Bitterness accuses. Forgiveness covers. Perhaps now there is a phone call you need to make, a text you need to send. Maybe there was an argument, an offense, maybe you need to go back to that church. Be reconciled to your brothers and sisters. It's time to let go. No, I don't mean that you should allow people to repeatedly take advantage of you. But what's done is done. It's time to move forward into freedom. For the sake of your spiritual well-being. For the sake of your soul. For the sake of your joy and peace. It's time to let it go. It's simple, but it isn't easy. Thankfully, the Holy Spirit will help you to do it. I'm David Diger Hernandez and that is your Moment of Truth. For more content like this, sign up to my emailing list. It's absolutely free. 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