 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're gonna be talking about how to understand men and so There's kind of two things that you need to remember about what drives men, but before we talk about that You know if you really want to understand men here's what my suggestion is my suggestion is that you read you make a study of men You know go and read books about men Go learn about men go read articles about men You know visit my website and find some books and resources on on how to understand men better Because the more you read about it the better you'll understand men even though I think there's kind of this thing where there There's still gonna be some mystery between men and women no matter how much we read and study about each other So there's two things really that you have to remember about what drives men and the first one is that Men are driven by their sexuality They're they're driven by sex, right, which is probably nothing new to you but if you want, you know a lot of what I do is talking about how to be desirable to men and so if you want to understand men and and how they behave a lot of what they do is about Being desirable to you not just you being you know desirable to them. And so if you think about What he's doing in the context of you know, is he? Is he trying to make himself more desirable to a Woman or women in general? I think that you might have a good chance of understanding a little bit more about his behavior and the second thing is Men are driven by their masculinity They're driven by the need to feel like they're men and feel like they're respected and appreciated for being a man and The more they feel like they're not being appreciated or respected the more they're going to push away from that and Do things and try behaviors and be around people that they feel like they can be appreciated and respected around So that's it for today's video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship make sure you visit my website at commitment connection comm I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon