 This is what it's titled, What the hell is wrong with my ex? Dear Tyrone, I'm a 16 year old high school student and I just changed semesters at my school and I have class with my ex-girlfriend who I have not talked to in about 6 months. She broke up with me last summer to be with a dude she called her brother. She completely cut me off and is with this dude who looks like eagles shit, but anyway a couple days ago she sent me an IM on Facebook. She got a new phone and asked for his number. She said she didn't have her phone all summer so that's why she didn't hit me up. But we all know that's BS. As I asked people if it's true and lots of people said she had her phone but fast forward she has been flirting with me in class and texting me in class lately. What's wrong with her and what does this mean? Why do women and girls do this? Well, there's a few reasons. First of all, she got what it looks like eagles shit over you and y'all broke up. The fact that she's talking to you again either, okay I'm gonna break it down. One reason could be she misses your friendship. That could be it. She may miss your friendship. A lot of times you make a great boyfriend but even better friend. So she may have felt awkward about talking to you while she was with him but now a certain amount of time has passed so she feels more comfortable with coming back and trying to at least keep a friendship with you. Another thing is that she may be getting tired of this guy and starting to miss you. Which is what I think it could be. She's flirting, texting you, I am in you. That could be it man. I mean to me that's where everything's pointing you know. I think she still cares about you. She may also not know what she wants. She left you, now she's with this guy and she doesn't know what she wants now. Maybe she likes both of you which can happen. She can actually love both of you. That crap can happen. People will say oh you can only love one person, no it's not true. You can actually love more than one person at the same time. You know it's just what happens especially when you date multiple people. Now I'm going to tell you this, if she's 16 you're going through an awkward time in your life emotionally. I'm just letting you know. I've been there and you're going to grow, I'm 35 years old, been there done that. You are not going to be the same person when you get to my age that you are now. So what I'm trying to say is that she's also changing as a person. I'm almost guaranteed that. It doesn't mean that it's a complicated issue but it just could mean that like I said I think she doesn't know what she wants or to me she doesn't know what she wants or she wants you back. That's what I think. And what I think you need to do is ask her what's up. Say listen you've been flirting with me, you know be straight up. One thing that you do when you're younger a lot of people do is they beat around the bush. Don't beat around the bush. Even people do it as adults in their relationship. Don't do it. You need to be directing. You need to ask certain questions up front so it's not bothering you. You know you got that pit in the middle of your stomach it's bothering you because you're worried you don't know whether somebody likes you or not ask period. So next time you see her you need to ask well you know what's up with how you're acting. And she says well what are you talking about? Well you've been flirting with me. You know you've been texting me, you've been eyeing me and you know yeah what ever about what you say about losing your phone maybe you did maybe you didn't. But I need to know do you want me or do you want him because here's the thing if you can be her friend and leave your past relationship behind go ahead and do that but you didn't let her know if you just want to be friends that's fine with me. But don't flirt with me because that's confusing and personally I don't like it. If we're going to keep to stay friends keep it friendly don't flirt with me. But if you want me back then we need to talk plus you need to get rid of eagle shit okay so that's what I'm talking about alright. Hope this has helped you man if you need anything other questions just make sure you email me. Talk to you later.