 But I know that in many cases, the only reason why I tell people that I'm autistic is because I know them and I want them to know because it's a big part of me and not for any benefit in our relation, not for any reasonable adjustments or anything, but just to let them know that this is a big part of me and if they want to get to know me better, it's probably a good idea to understand a little bit about the autistic experience. It doesn't come across that way, I wish it did, but, you know, we have a long way to go in terms of autism awareness and so whenever you tell people this in any setting or context, it always appears to be a cry for help, which, in many cases, is not.