 You can even experiment and see the moment you let yourself go and you give in to him, he'll start running again. Until the day comes when you're very quietly sitting, and by the way, this is not a male-female thing. It can be that the male is the one who's chasing and the female is the one who's running. It is not a gender thing in that sense. It's a soul-based thing. And what is happening is that these two polarities can only be near each other. If you, in this case you, completely go into surrender.