 you want to connect with him on a deep emotional level. So I get a lot of women that come to us and they're, you know, they're like, oh, guys just want sex. Why are you guys are just interested in sex with me? And a lot of times they're not really connecting with men on anything more than just a surface level. And then they wonder why a guy only wants a surface level relationship with them. Well, if you want him to want something deeper, then go somewhere deeper with him. If you want the relationship to be deeper, and if you want him to miss you more, then go somewhere deeper with him. And so how you do this is you become curious about him and learn about his struggles, learn about his successes, learn about his childhood, you know, how he's gotten to where he is with his life and his career. Find out what really makes him tick. Why does he do what he does? You know, what gets him excited about life? What are his passions? What are his goals? What are his dreams that he has in life, right? Because those are like the deep, those are the deep emotional things that that rest at the core of his identity of who he is and what he wants to be and what he wants to create in the world. And when you connect with that, when you, when you can pull that out of him and have him share that with you, that's a great first step in connecting with him on a much deeper level. That's what you want to do. There's a bunch of different ways that you can do this. One of the ways is just ask him, ask him what his goals are, ask him what his dreams are. Another way is to ask him about like when he was a kid, like, what is he, what did he want to be when he grew up? Because a lot of times what ends up happening, as you probably know, is that we have goals and dreams and ideas of who we want to be when we're children. And then when we grow up, sometimes life gets in the way, right? And that doesn't end up being what we do for our career, for our life. So sometimes we have hobbies that we fulfill our passions and dreams in life. Sometimes we don't go after them at all. And if he isn't going after them at all, it can be really powerful to find out what those things are that he did really love, because that will pull that out of him and remind him of those things, whether he's going after them or not. And that can be incredibly, incredibly powerful.