 and we have a fear that if I'm really who I am will she still love me? Will they still love me? The truth is they'll probably love you more and the truth is they'll probably be inspired by the courage it took you to become who you really want to be in the years that you have left. But it's not without difficulty and it's not without pain and loss and suffering but that's okay is what I'm here to tell you. That's a price that's totally worth paying to come home to yourself, to your authentic self.