 What's going on fam? Anthony Johnson here today co-founder of the red man group founder of 21 studios 21 convention 22 convention the patriarch convention 20 university and 10 dozen of things on the internet. I've created over the past 16 years Today I got a special episode of the red man group for you episode 171 We have a returning guest to the show today a yende from authentic alphas down in Miami He's got back to America recently and this time we're gonna have he's on the show recently probably about two months ago And it was a good episode, but the internet was kind of choppy and stuff So this episode we're gonna be revisiting some of those topics and getting into new ones as well I'll more advice and stuff and look forward to his audio and internet connection today is like crystal clear So it's gonna be good before we get into the show quick shout out to our sponsor Which is our own event that we do the wood stock of the man is fear the Superbowl the man is fear the longest Running man is your event in the world by about 10,000 miles. 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So it's customized each event with a custom lineup and There's a woman's event as well if you're a female Probably not too many females watching this today given that it's the red man group But if you are a female and you don't want to be at a generous skank and you want to be a great woman Go to the 22 convention and I have a great time bring friend free If you have a boyfriend for example to her husband He can go to the men's event and you can come for free to the 22 convention Where you'll get the best mansplaining in the world that even a few female speakers like attorney Melissa Isaac right here Jennifer Molesky and couple others Without further ado though become the ultimate alpha female, right? Anyway, without further ado, let's get into today's show appreciate you guys being patient with the five-minute commercial there for our event Please let me welcome to the show a yende from authentic alphas linked to his channel in the description How's it going man? AJ what's up, brother? Hey, man doing good appreciate you coming back on the show Not always always man. I wanted to do something with you a little bit earlier, but it's all good man So how's everything going? How's your fourth act your fourth of July go? Good. Yeah, I was out at the beach on 4th of July. I think I wanted to go visit my buddy Tony Bruno Or is it the next day? No, that was 4th of July. Yeah Yeah, so it's just simple like that I think I say on the beach was on use with your girl something like that. Oh, that was even more recently That was last weekend. Yeah, that was a different beach on the West Coast Yeah, I'm a West Coast Florida man. I grew up near Fort Myers gift coral But uh, both beaches are both side to the state are fucking awesome. So yeah, I'm Definitely, I mean there's a ton of things to get into man. Whether you like camping hunting. Yeah Jetski in the beach surfing is a ton of things in South Florida for sure. I'm actually a Trying to get out to the Tampa Pearl, you know a big bodybuilding enthusiast So the biggest bodybuilding competition in Tampa is First weekend in next month, so I might be out on the West Coast might be out there. Yeah Yeah, I love it man It's it feels like home to me the West Coast, you know, East Coast is awesome too But it's just different to me the salt kind of the environment the geography is different What's coast is like, you know, two-foot waves if that if that's flat brackish water and show where I grew up Yeah, you provide different culture. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, it's funny. You mentioned that picture me and my girlfriend Let me pull up. I could buy that real quick. Actually How do I overlay that shit? I wanted to let's actually talk about that because I think you'll find this pretty funny Here it is So one of the reasons I took this is to show that most now you're not one of them obviously But a lot of the red pill alfamil is in the man's fury. They can't pick up their woman because they're beluga whales as you may have heard and You know like my buddy Conovan my buddy Conovan sharp if I throw his back out trying to pick up miss Piggy So Love our boy Conovan right here. I Mean at a math a mathematical You know angle I actually disagree with you because most Implies more than half and I think most of these guys don't even have a girlfriend to begin with so Numerically that's it's impossible. I think more like 10% 5% of them Only 20% of them have a girl Well, they have a they have a five-finger girlfriend in a lot of cases You know, it depends on who they are that depends on the guy now But I always find that interesting because I know part of the topic for today is you know fake versus real Yeah, and one of the things I find real interesting is When guys are like giving this and a minute vice on on marriage or a definitive opinion on marriage And have never been married. Yeah, and then and then when they'll be like absolutely don't ever live with a female guys And then it's like you've never lived with a female before Or they're talking about the dynamics of boyfriend and girlfriend and they They don't maintain a girlfriend. They don't like have a Relationship whether it's long-term casual or whatever like yeah, like majority of their life That's the majority of their adult life was without a girlfriend Whether it's a girlfriend for a few months or girlfriend for years or girlfriend you were living with there's no girlfriend And I'm just like how are we talking about because there's certain things you could say that are true Whether or not you're experiencing it or it happens to be your personal situation or not It's a true statement, but these guys are like giving definitive advice on these things and in-depth opinions on it and it's like Bro, but you don't have a you don't you don't have a girlfriend man You don't live with a woman. So I don't know I find that part a little little awkward But I I think that the man is fair is oversaturated with men that don't even have relationships Let alone a relationship where they're Like this dominant male that they're telling guys you have to be either this dominant male in this relationship Or you do not you don't date a woman at all. It's like yeah, but you're not dating a woman at all Yeah, and they never have in a lot of cases. Yeah, exactly. They never have so it's just kind of weird to me And I mean I think I think I think it's I think it's a really important point though The fundamental point I think what you're saying is that there's constant constant speaking definitively but out of hand out of hand they have no first-hand experience or almost Right and like these hard line fucking stances on shit It's like you don't even know you read that off of red pill reddit three years ago And now you're just vomiting it on a YouTube for beta males who are even more clueless than you So it's like the sheep the sheep following the sheep following the betas off of a fucking cliff to nowhere And it's like to me the issue is Primarily the definitive You know statements like these red pill laws, you know, like that we all have somehow took a vote and agreed That is a hundred percent true. You never do that and I feel like even if Even if you were at the other end of the extreme you were a guy that had a lot of experiences with relationships You still can't say these things definitively Because you could say listen, I've lived with five women before and each time it's been terrible each time the same things started happening Okay, first of all number one. That's your personal experience number two the common denominator there is you not the women So maybe you're the reason why it's been the same way every time and then also Who are you to say that it's not gonna be different for another guy? I can find just as many guys that are gonna raise their hand and say listen, I've lived with a woman and it's great You know, I've lived with women several times And I've been one to leave because I felt because I got tired of the girl I wanted a new girlfriend or whatever, but but she was great though. It was good I just thought hey, maybe I could get a better looking girl or you know, whatever the case may be Or maybe I want to date a younger girl But it wasn't that her terrible female nature and she cheated on me and she did this and no Because I know with women and it's going great. I know guys that are married and it's going great Let's flip it on its head too though because we're looking at this from like a relationship standpoint Right like you're saying living with women kind of long-term stuff, but it also works in reverse I know one red pill content creator for example, you know, I'm too who Sean Lappie named Voldemort of the Manusphere Who has been married for almost 30 years? Allegedly a self-allegedly has has never cheated right has been faithful. Okay, fine I got no problem with that be a man of your word, whatever you put the ring on it You went front of your family and God and whatever But that dude also just put out the player's handbook or guidebook or something like that It's like motherfucker. You've been with 40 women, which is not that many They're a high school quarterbacks walking around with fucking bigger like not That's not that in a month that's done it in a month Yeah, and and if you haven't been laid by a new woman in 30 years What the fuck do you know about being a player the last time the last time you were got laid by new chick I just say no internet there was no internet and Bill Clinton was getting blowjobs like that's how long this has been This is like this is like This is just crazy to me. It's not it is crazy and the game is changed. Let me tell you son I don't even view myself as old But even I'm looking at it like damn the game has changed so much since yeah five years ago Like the game is changed dramatically even tinder is nothing like tinder was when it first came out That's right. It's like nothing like it was one of like all Instagraming what it was everything has changed Dramatic exponentially it's like as time goes things change like they'd multiplies it changes that much faster I mean, I remember Facebook first came out and it's just I remember you Couldn't even get on Facebook if you weren't in college. I wasn't It's funny you said that it's funny you said that because that's how I got introduced to Facebook It's like I was dating This chick that was in college and I was like always up at the campus I was staying at the campus and I felt left out because her and like all her friends and everybody they could have Facebook And I was like trying to like looking over people's shoulder trying to Yes, you see just message the person and then wow, that's cool You can poke them and shit dude, I'm so old I mean, I'm 33 but I feel sold when I got in the pickup art of stuff and picking up chicks at bars and shit You couldn't even send a dick pic. There was no such thing. Yeah Yeah, it was this basic, you know written text if that yet to get girls phone numbers, you know Like that's snapchat your Instagram. There was no such thing back then I remember waiting till after a certain time to call girls during the three nights and weekends When the cell phones first came out, I remember you calling a girl You didn't know if she was ignoring you or she didn't pay her phone because People's phones would be off periodically people's cell phones be off. Yeah It's good times was really good times even even you might remember this to from old-school pickup artists stuff Back in the 2000s. It was very popular and I did it You'd bring out like a like a little camera like a little point and shoot Sony cyber shot or whatever And you would take pictures of chicks and it's like this whole fucking game You know one of my buddies eventually wrote a game called camera game. It was much much different than that It was more with like an actual DSLR camera like a really nice camera Not the old club shit with the Sony cyber shot But that was a big thing back then because no one had fucking phones on their camera or cameras on their phones Like or it's garbage, but can I can I take it back further than that? Go ahead Me and my boys we used to like rent We would rent like I remember one of the favorite our favorite cars to rent was the The Ford Explorer with the pickup in the back when they first started putting a bed in the back Yeah, yeah, and we would take road trips We would take road trips from New York down the East Coast We go from like New York all the way to Florida and we would stop at all these states and Just like meet girls hang out with girls try to like spend the night get a hotel It hang out with girls and we brought the Polaroid camera Wow Yeah, we buy them at greens for like 44 but I remember it's 44 bucks. It's like 44 Well, let's explain we got to explain to the zoomers. What is a Polaroid camera? What is this Polaroid? Oh, it was awesome. It's a camera and you know Like the newer ones kind of fold it down you press the button and flipped up You take a damn picture and it would print the picture out right there and you just do this and then and we're not You know you take two or three of them and then each person would get one So like a girl would have you know one of her own to take and keep and you would have I still have a box of polaroid I still have it so I have a box of all the Polaroids Like all the trips we would take and all the hot girls we would meet and it was just flames, bro Like you meet the girl And maybe two days two nights and that's it. You're never sorry Because it was before social media. You couldn't like just go on Facebook and be like, oh, let me look this girl up I met Virginia. I Mean you could today if you remembered their name or whatever, but um Good time, bro. I mean it was all about adventure. It was about not knowing Yeah, what was gonna happen what we were gonna get into and I think a lot of the younger guys today they They'd lack that element like I talked to guys in their early 20s They don't ever mention anything adventurous Are taking any chances or just relying on their boys and we don't know how we're gonna do this But we got each other we'll figure it out kind of thing. Yeah Yeah, man by the time I was like Let's see 21 22 23 in my early 20s. I'd visited like 25 countries So a lot of it for me was international because of convention, but just personal stuff, too I would take backpacking trips and my boys down a lake Costa Rica and Panama and shit But one time we got a lot we got lost Hiking around a fucking volcano down in Costa Rica Like my buddy broke his ankle like it was a disaster man like monkeys with chasing us and shit and It was fucking crazy. It was good. It was funny at first. Yeah memories Yeah, and when the Sun's going down and you're in a fucking jungle it ain't so funny anymore and you're like, oh I'm gonna die out here like fuck bro. Well, at least we died together, bro Yeah But but that brings me to something I wanted to ask you about too now I don't remember the exact dates you found the PUA stuff and the manosphere But you've been following it on and off for a long time at least like 10 years or something like that Oh, man, um, if I had to put a number on I'd say about Summer around 2016 ish, okay, so not too too long But I was like a quiet Listener, I never really commented. I would always forget to like but I consumed a lot of The content I mean I wouldn't watch like one video at a time because you know I'm an artist. I'm a painter and then I'm always in the gym So it's like I'm doing cardio for maybe an hour hour and a half I might go through four or five videos, you know, I'm painting on my paint for three four hours a day So I'm going through tons of content a lot of um Well, I think everybody go ahead. What comes to mind those like even from that time period I think you've probably seen this but especially in my perspective 2005 I found it in high school until now and the manosphere Unfortunately has strongly drifted towards like away from interacting with women and towards getting the hell away from them And it which isn't to disown like I don't agree with a lot of McTowell But I don't disown the fact that men getting out of harm's way is a good thing I don't want to see men get wrecked in divorce court I don't want to see men make stupid reckless choices with Relationships with moving in too fast or whatever, you know getting married without a prenup. What kind of shit, right? But this is veered so far and it's not just McTowell, right? It's the black pill a lot of the the New Age hyper red pill shit from rollo like the rollo pill these dudes These dudes like don't when I came up in the manosphere in 2005 2008 2010 You were strongly pushed to go talk to women as much as you could hundreds of approaches thousands of women Whatever it takes to go out to a bar over a period of years and like get social learn social skills Right learn through trial and error of you know layer ports and field of ports banging chicks Stupid shit would happen when you know when you're out with your buddies and shit your wingmen You know your buddy would get laid you'd almost get laid you'd fuck it up at the last minute You get cock blocked the factor would come in like all that shit has been thrown out the window now And a lot of it is just dudes who are terrible with women giving the creators never mind the guys who followed them Giving absolutely shit dating advice hard line stanzas like we're talking about Everybody's fucking clueless. Nobody's fucking getting laid all they're doing is this bitching about women and jerking off and pretending They don't want women To it's like it's just fucking it's just fucking crazy. It's madness It used to be much more like dude go talk to a thousand Like definitely, I mean you you put it well one time that you you know Someone shall who shall be on names said they were in the Olympics of dating, right? It's like motherfucker. You were a spectator Yeah, you you were sitting down you take and I have no doubt and I have no doubt Mami is a tough scene to go pick up chicks. No doubt I've been a little bit down there buddies and shit, but I know people who grew up there I'd say the same thing like it's it can be a tough environment. No doubt. It's a big fucking city with it I never felt that way man to be honest with you. I never felt that way, but then again, um, I'm very Well, you're also bodybuilder and jacked as fuck. So but when I moved when I moved to South Florida I wasn't bodybuilding. Okay. Okay. I just I just was I just was a Female enthusiast I was like I was a casual dating enthusiast when I first moved here and I was always looking for Girls that were more fun More exact more adventurous more pleasant because I'm from New York and New York I think it's the hardest place to meet and talk to and get along with women is very hard New York is very get the fuck out of my face. You know, what do you want? You know, or what do you want? You know what I mean? And anybody will say that to you New York is a place where you could be You know some big black gangster with tattoos and you bump into a white dude with a briefcase and the white dude's gonna be like Yeah, watch where the fuck you're going. That's New York You know what I'm saying? Everybody got heart in New York and everybody's quick to tell you fuck you fuck your feelings I don't have time to care about your feelings So you could imagine how the women are in New York if you're not that guy It's like, why are you even talking to me and the guys are very aggressive in New York? It's like, hey, what's going on? What's going on sugar tits? I see you. I like that sundress. What's up? What's your name? You got a boyfriend? Well, I don't give a fuck about him. Give me your number I'll change your mind. That's New York, you know everybody Yeah, everybody just Says how they feel and how they are so when I move this kind of like just kind of like trump On like grabbing by the pussy kind of yeah, no, that's new york trump is from new york. So um You know when I was like traveling I was down to get on a plane get on a bus rent a car Anything to go somewhere else and experience Um, you know the chicks, you know, of course, you want to see the landscape you want to eat here You want to eat there you want to see it for yourself You want to go to whatever their car shows are you want to go to whatever their major events are their sporting events Blah blah blah, but let's be realistic as guys. We also want to see The the women want to experience the women of that place Um, so I was always interested in that and when I finally landed In florida like on a permanent permanently It was like that last frontier for me or that furthest frontier coming from new york florida was like the furthest state You know south and um, I decided to move to south florida because I kept going on spring break Like I kept going on spring break and in one year I couldn't afford to go my all my boys were like Yo, we're going and I was like damn bro money's kind of tighten and then it dawned on me when I asked my friends from out of state Yo, you coming to new york this summer because new york is awesome in the summer or at least it used to be um, sometimes they would say yeah, I can't afford it and I would think uh Too bad for you. I'm gonna be here for all the parades and all the events in the summer because I live here So I'm already here and I thought hold on. What if I use that same logic and I moved to south florida that way every spring I don't got to be like can I afford to go to spring break? I live here already So that was my thought process and I decided fuck it. I'm moving. I'm moving to florida. So when I got here. I was Uh enthusiastic about the challenge of miami girls. I wasn't like, oh man, it's so hard to talk to these But I was like, let's do it. What do I got to do push-ups more push-ups? I need more chess more this Well, I need a sports car. We'll call it red put some rims on it what I need Um, so I was down to to get the things that we're going to attract the women Even if it was subconscious like I wasn't necessarily saying. Oh, I'm going to get this red sports car because it will get me more putty tame It will get you genuine desire if you get the sports car Desire right and you want you want her soul? You want her soul? You suck her soul out with your red lambo Bro, let me tell you something that is not true. All of those things are just get your foot in the door Um, you know type type uh advantages. That's all they do Women make yourself a mark make yourself a mark if you're dummy Of the both that too that too but the women that aren't looking to use you and guys act like that's just women in general That's female nature. It's like nope. That's the women you attract when you ain't got shit to offer So it's just like when you put like rims and all this goofy stuff on your car It's not that all women are gold diggers. It's that that's gold digger bait. Hello. That's gold digger bait So if you're a fisher, you know different type of bait is going to attract different type of fish So if that's what you're bait, you're putting out guess what that's what you're going to catch Yeah You understand what i'm trying to say so Honestly, that's an excellent analogy and like every dude in the monastery needs to hear that You go fishing use different kinds of bait. You catch different kinds of fish They don't want to hear that though. They want to hear all these hoses ain't shit all women are retarded Absolutely. Listen, I've had women that were into me because I could paint and because I had different type of talents You could be a struggling artist a struggling musician a struggling visual artist Even a struggling comedian and attract certain types of women because that's what they're into And that's what they want to breed like that's what they that's the characteristics. They want their child to have Um, and that's going to hit them on a biological level whether they like it or not They don't have a choice in that particular Matter now if you're if you're a type of dude that got a lot of money Um, but your your personality sucks. Maybe you're not that fun. You don't tell fun stories You're not entertaining. You haven't done much with life. I have clients like that where it's like, you know Everything about the stock market. They know everything about trades. They know everything about crypto They know everything about finance, but they know nothing about anything else in life And they struggle on dates because the girls are just like So you're gonna talk about crypto some more And it yields what? No, what about the um, the nft is the nft experts, right? We're all gonna get No girl wants to hear that type of bullshit across the table Um, no matter regardless if you're spending 300 bucks on dinner They don't want to hear that boring ass jargon Um, and I remember when I was in my early 20 something that my girlfriend at the time had said to me And she said, you know what I like about you and I said, what's that? She said no matter what I do with you where I go with you It's always going to be fun She said we go somewhere and spend 10 bucks and I'll have an amazing time and I thought to myself Oh So sometimes you got to let girls tell you what they like about you because you might not necessarily know And I think that's how you get better understanding What are the things that work? What are the things that stand out uh to to them? And then also when you listen to women talk about the guys that they actually remember Because a lot of these guys are so forgettable. They don't realize it like you are forgettable It doesn't remember you um, but there are certain key guys in her life that she's gonna remember And it's not because he had the most money. It's not because he had this or that Unless there was some way she benefited from that so she might remember the dude That had a ridiculous amount of money because he might have been taking her on the spending sprees and all the shopping sprees and doing this and doing that But that's what she remembers about that guy. So everything stands out about Um, so there's something that stands out about each guy Um, that a woman uh, actually remembers But there are some things I wanted to say about about the migtail situation I'm gonna let you go with this some thoughts I had on that No, it's good men. This is uh, it's good commentary that men need to hear like You know having having all this money and shit. It doesn't always mean shit. And maybe that's you said it's what they remember about you I wonder if that's all they remember I don't know how to explain this If a guy is really that loaded and takes her out and takes her across the country takes her on a cruise Takes her on $10,000 shopping sprees. I don't even think a lot of times. She remembers the guy She won't even remember his face But she remembers she'll remember this particular handbag that he bought. Oh, yeah Oh, yeah, particular shoe. Oh, I love these shoes these shoes. They were from Italy She'll remember she'll remember the receipt with the fucking eight thousand dollar price tag on it. She'll remember the numbers So Yeah, you let me my my friend growing up to me. Hang on my friend Curtis gonna be dead now He died of cancer when he was like 21, unfortunately But he was a slayer with women when we were teenagers men I mean brutal like when he when he died a bunch of women like 200 women came to his funeral Yeah, they were mourning the man. He fucked No, I feel a guy like that. It was crazy. I feel a guy like that and it's all personality It was yeah, exactly. He was dude. We were teenagers. We were broke me and him were like, you know Throwing mulch on people's yard for 40 bucks. It's like side jobs, right? But what he did with women and now I understand it much better than a molder They had fun with them. They loved hanging out with them They loved having fun and they love sucking his dick Because they love having fun and that's what he provided for them every single time Just want to have fun Yeah, and he wasn't some clown. He wasn't like that and the girls gave him shit He had strict boundaries He would one time this bitch was trying to give him shit in his car We were driving around our hometown gift coral and she was throwing a fit whatever He is like he just slammed the brakes in the car. He's like get the fuck out And she's like, oh, he's like get the fuck out He threw her ass out of the car on the side. It wasn't like a highway or nothing It was like a side street He fucking threw us out and this is like when he had cell phones, you know, they didn't even have smartphones He immediately starts blowing his phone up get the fuck back. He's like, oh, fuck you He just kept driving. He eventually turned back around like a couple minutes later But he does ghosts that are asked on the side of the street And this this is why this guy was a gangster with women and when I was a kid and I was like I was by 16. He was like 17 my jaw was just on the floor because I loved it, but I didn't understand it I knew it was working I could see her just getting fucking so triggered And now I realize he was getting turned on by this shit because some fucking dude who would treat her like that All these guys in the monastery make ton otherwise They don't get that women love being if they need to be handled like that And you don't ever hear these guys talk about that shit because it's all just bullshit to them They want order they want order they want structure And then you know, who's who's not only willing to give it, but who's uh equipped Uh to give it and see that the whole the migtail thing I have a I have a couple Uh things I disagree with with the with the logic coming out of migtail today Number one You can't say that avoiding women Or not cohabitating with women or not marrying women or not doing this or not doing that or any particular thing Is going your own way You can't say that because migtail is an individual man going his own individual way Oh, hold on guys. I think okay. There you go. You're you're back. So I feel like telling guys. Hey Don't live with women. Don't date women. Don't marry women. Don't have children. I feel like that is contradictory to migtail It's an individual man And I think that's where the where the misleading part is because when you say men going their own way I think some people interpret that as like a group of dudes going somewhere. It's like no man going his own way a man Going his own way and if his way is being a father and having a family He needs to cohabitate with a woman married woman and have children to accomplish his way um So all the men that I looked up to when I was when I was younger that I admired I wanted to be like They all were heads of households and they all had families. They had their own thing They did they think they had some type of skills some type of craft They added some type of value to the community as well as their family. They was something respectable and admirable about them but Being a father and a husband was normal Yeah, uh to me it was a normal aspiration or something you wanted to do something you wanted to be Um, you know, and then I remember when I got to like my early 20s I was living with my older cousin at the time. He had already graduated college Um, he he ended up having to be a school teacher because everywhere he went they told him he was over qualified to play football for for for for Miami um University of Miami, and I remember us having these conversations where he'd be like, yeah, bro All my boys that are married. They'll be telling me don't do it. Like they're all unhappy They're all telling me don't do it and then all of a sudden it's like being a married man became something to avoid Right something that everybody was like don't do don't do the sucks. This is miserable and I'm like, where was that shift? You know because I can't put my finger on it I wasn't paying attention whenever the ship started to really happen or ramp up to where Being a married man was what you what you didn't want to do It was when now you became a sucker and you became a corn ball and you were boring and your woman was controlling you and telling you what to do I'm like, well, that's not what I didn't grow up seeing that I grew up seeing the opposite The man telling the woman and the kids what to do setting the rules You know holding down the house and him being respected and admired in the community And all that single mom shit was was was a shame like you not only brought shame on yourself You brought shame on your family. You brought shame on your great-grandparents if they were still alive They were in their graves. They'd be like Yeah, you know, so it's just conflicting messaging that I'm seeing being given to these young guys And then I'm sitting back looking at it thinking in myself Whether I was in middle school high school college Prison anywhere you are at work when you put a wager on it It becomes more exciting When it's something to lose in something the game any situation the scenario becomes more exciting If you're playing video games, it's it's cool You play video games with someone else It becomes more exciting and then if you put some money on it and gamble on it Now it becomes real exciting. Well, then you got skin in the you got skin in the game You got skin in the game grandpa said yo, we got to rake up the leaves. I'll tell you what we're gonna play madden and if I win Two out of three games you're gonna fucking rake the leaves and I'm gonna watch me to eliminate bitch. All right, you're on It made that football game exciting now because one of us is gonna be raking up the leaves and the other one's gonna be laughing at him Okay, and have bragging rights So when you're telling guys to avoid women and stop interacting with women and stop talking to women I'm thinking to myself you're making life boring Because you're you're you're taking the gamble out of it now Do you understand what i'm trying to say and If if you're with your boys and you see a girl and you're like damn We'll just go right here and your boys say yo, yo, yo, yo, we'll talk to her. You're like, hmm Yo, man, go talk to her Now it's gonna be fun either way because you're either gonna go over to get rejected and we're all gonna laugh at you And we're gonna tease you for the rest of the night. We're gonna have a ball with it Or you're gonna go over there. You're gonna get her number. You're gonna have a few drinks You're gonna be wicked from across the room like are we gonna be like that's my boy Either way it's gonna be more exciting is what i'm saying Um rather than that brings me I think there's something I want to ask you about But you mentioned in passing to me like very casually But I think most guys in the man's sphere need to hear about it and understand it And it's that when you were at a A conference of sorts in vegas You picked up some girls on the fly and I think you ended up fucking one of them and like all this shit You basically pulled a girl like at a conference is walking around and just doing your thing In a state in a state you don't even live in And to this to you this is pretty normal To me I get this too. I've done this and I've seen this myself through other coaches and shit too So for me I get it too But most guys in man's sphere are like I feel so far removed from this That you could just go to hotel for some other purpose and then you're out of pool or something exactly And you pick up a bitch and then you bring her to her room and you fuck her This is like She picked you up though. That's the thing. Did you pick her up? Did she pick you up? I mean, did you approach her or depends how you went down? But no no the point I'm trying to make is when you are in your value Right in your value what I mean by that is You are a commodity you yourself are something that's desirable Okay, in the business world Somebody wants to hire somebody wants you to work for their company All right, if you're an athlete some sports team is trying to convince you to come play for them Right If you're a single or available man some female Hey, you got some you got some noises in the background Oh Yeah, sorry. Sorry my my lady's making some coffee. So I mean so so so a woman now sees you and thinks damn I I want him Does she want you just for the night? Does she want you for the weekend? This does she want to have a real the point is you're desired So when that happens Did you get her? Did she get you because if she noticed you first? And she got you She got you because she said oh look at this guy. Oh my god. This guy's hot Even if you go over to talk to her first you think you saw her first It's like, hey, what are you doing? Hey, how are you doing? What are you doing here? Oh, I'm just visiting from blah blah blah. I'm here for work. Oh me too. I'm here for work too Oh, yeah, well, we should get a drink. Let's get something. I mean, this is like a chicken of the egg argument I get this but if you still had to make if she bumped any you on purpose like girls do that like the Exactly and shit that that's her picking you up for sure At least at least she's doing half the work or more But if she did nothing to activate it and you had to go set that shit up Well, I'll say you're responsible for it. Did she do nothing because women are very subtle in their approach Just making her so visible to you is her This is her initiating it. She's like eye contact eye contact. Yeah, right. I'm gonna let him see me Yeah, the minute a girl goes me more than like two seconds eye contact and like 80% trans she wants to fuck Why is she looking at me? She's looking at me because she wants to fuck She's looking at me because she wants my fucking dna. That's what she's looking at me Right and I think I think I don't get that Right a lot of these guys what happens is I mean, it's like if you're talking to somebody who's like On the task force and they're telling you this exciting adventurous story If they're telling it to someone that's not on the force This sounds like a movie to you because you're never going to experience it But if they're talking to a rookie He may have bigger and better stories coming in his career because he's he's in the field. He's in the realm Right. He just hasn't come across that experience yet So for a lot of guys in the man's sphere, they're coming from like I said, a spectator perspective They're they're never Anticipating that they're ever going to be in a position to experience any of these things. They're not they're not playing the game When I was when I was younger, I always knew that I was going to be playing the game I knew I was going to be a bodybuilder, right when I was young I was watching Conan and I was watching Rambo and Commando on a Schwarzenegger Sylvester Stallone, you know, uh, uh gene claude van damme I mean, that's all I was watching these damn action movies And and I thought the fighting was awesome that the muscles were cool And when I would go hang out with my favorite uncle, we'd watch star wars We would play mario brothers He would introduce me to his comic book collection and tell me you better not get a wrinkle in not one page Um, you know, and I mean I read his his bodybuilding magazines and he told me then he said listen You could look like this, you know, and he would show me black bodybuilders And because you know, they obviously weren't in movies and stuff He showed me black bodybuilders and he'd be like you could you can do this and I'd be like, wow, this is this is possible Well, you had a follow you had a follow a creep man call weather's is pretty jacked back in the day But that's right. That's the type of that's the generation that I grew up on So I knew that I wanted to to be like that like to do that whatever it takes to do that I knew I wanted to you know, I would watch Michael Jordan play basketball The as soon as the game was over, I'd go out and try to do that on the court You know, I'd watch randy moss, you know, and I'd say listen when I get back on the football field I'm gonna try to do that So when I saw older guys with beautiful girlfriends, I always knew I'm never dating a fat chick I'm never dating an unattractive chick. I'm never dating a chick with a bad attitude Like like I already had these aspirations like yo, I'm gonna have a girlfriend like that like yo I can't wait until I'm old enough If you're not gonna fuck fat woman, you can't be in the man's fair. That's how it works as a as a content creator Sorry, you're out You shouldn't be no you shouldn't be nowhere Near that and I get it not everybody is gonna have the same options and everybody's gonna have the same attractiveness level The point I'm trying to make is when I was a skinny kid from Brooklyn I already knew that I was going to work on these areas in my life as my point, you know I mean, I might not have had money, but I knew I was going to get money. I might not have muscles But I knew I was going to get muscles. I might not have had my own place and Material things and nice clothes But I knew I would get those things because I knew what was in between not having and having was effort You know effort and determination Like you have to be creative you have to be determined and you got to put into work You know, I was the kid that was down to go buy rakes rake people's leaves in the fall I was down to go buy shovels and shovel driveways in the winter I was down to convince my boys to go and do this with me So like I already had that leadership kind of mentality like yo, I got an idea how we can get money You know, and I'm you were you were a man of action. You're always taking action That's that's what makes you I'm it so makes you succeed and win in life as you act All these guys that suck and they just keep losing it life and they're bitching about women It's like you don't do any you don't do anything. I wonder you fucking you you're in the friend zone with 400 women Like all you do is nothing That's like that's a bad thing and it's like To me the guys have a lot of contradictory thought processes like for example, they'll be like, I'm a nice guy And I treat this girl well And I'm always and I'm always there for her Um, you know, but she but she doesn't want to date me if she doesn't want to have sex with me You know, she put me in the friend zone. How dare she and then you know, I'm I'm analyzing this and I'm thinking to myself Everything you just listed are friend qualities You should be so lucky to be her friend. You just said that you're always there for her. That's friendship You just said you always listen to her. That's friendship. You know what I'm saying? Like what are you talking about like you are right where you're supposed to be She's valuing you exactly how you deserve to be valued. I think it's I'm thinking wait a minute. This is how that's a good thing If you were to say all of that and you'd be like, she doesn't want to hang out with me. She doesn't want to be my friend Then I'd be like that bitch Do you see do you see what I'm trying to say? They're getting into a direct response to their actions. Their actions directly led to that's what I'm saying You're saying you're a good person You're always there for her. You have a good personality like bro. That's what you want enough friend So so you being in the friend somebody you are you are properly Casted you are right in the right world the director the cast well Let's pause though because a lot of the time is behind that it's not always fake But a lot of the times this is really just a fake front These dudes are putting up because they think it's going to get in her pants. It's both tell bullshit They're not her friend. They don't even want to be her friend Right and you can't and you cannot blame her for that because that's that's the next hypocrisy because you're over here saying like She's using me and she and she doesn't really like me It's like you're pretending to be your friend and you really want to fuck So you're trying to you're trying to use her for vagina like it's a stupid trade All you had to do is tell you want to fuck her the first time you start talking to her More or less and sometimes a short time frame. I would just do it immediately with I mean very quickly with a lot of women Let's talk about something else or two. I think you're be very qualified to talk on What I've noticed and maybe you've noticed is too since 2016 when you found the manager But it's got particularly bad over the since about that time like 2015 2016 All these creators all these off the e-book authors and gum road courses and all this shit Almost none of them these days like almost zero Talk about how to fuck women how to make out how to kiss women how to handle women There's nothing physical. There's no kinetic We used to call it kino way back in the day of the man's sphere There's nothing about touching women handling women making out with women How to fuck women like none of that shit none of it all they they talk about nothing but abstract hyper abstract Hypergamy is you know women have a pergamy like it's fucking herpes and aids and we're all gonna die and we're all doomed I mean, it's it's just amazing to me. We talked about earlier like how Ultra hyper conceptual and abstract everything is fucking gotten That gets men away from being physical being in their bodies being sexual with women and being alpha Not just in your head on the internet behind a fucking keyboard like in her fucking face in her fucking vagina None of these dudes not to do any of that shit I could go pick out 10 man's sphere red pill content creators right now And easily nine of them don't have a fucking clue how to handle women I think you do just talking to you and based on what you've said to me in passing and what you believe in What's he was casual and picking up a girl to pull and fucking her in the hotel room an hour later or something or that night Like that to me tells me, you know how to handle a woman, you know how to talk You know how to walk, you know how to pick them up walk around That's why that's another reason I picked my girlfriend I was this stupid simple shit like it was at a beach right is goofing around But like dudes when's the last time you saw a red pill youtuber do this like never I mean like I thought I think any guys do it to be honest you nowadays. Yeah, yeah exactly man I mean you can't take wells out of the water in Donovan's case, but But women will women will tell you uh, that's one of the Key things That they want and like And it influenced their selection and men they they after many women literally say You look like you look you could just pick me up or you like you could just break me And it's like you ever picked up you ever picked up a girl to clubs walk around with her like this I've done I used to be a male dancer. So like As part of the job description you pick them up and carry them to the private room to do the dance. Um But there's a couple of things that you said there that were very interesting and hit home Um, number one you used the word kinetic Yes, and that's something that I learned when I was much younger in school is that Females learn through audio through through talking and through facial expressions and things like that Boys learn kinetically they learn hands That's how we learn these boys. We learn by taking things apart putting it back together We learn by trying this does this work? Nope. What if I try this? Okay, what if I try this variation? process of elimination, that's how boys Learn we learn by tampering with shit Physically we learn how to hunt by going out there in the hunt and failing and saying, okay This animal beat me this time. How do I track this animal? How do I outsmart this animal? How do I overpower this animal? How do I outrun this animal? It's all kinetic, right? So we see differently than women our eyes are adapted to see movement Much better than women women's eyes are adapted to see color much better So because they're choosing they're choosing things based on the color, right based on the hue whereas guys we're We're testing our environment Right based on interacting with it physically So I think that's very valuable that you just pointed that out And the next reason why that hits home is that lately a lot of guys have been reaching out to me and trying to Request how I could help them be better with those very things kissing girls Touching girls being intimate with girls pleasing girls in the bedroom And it's a task for me to kind of I guess sit down and try to figure out how the hell do you design this curriculum? It's very hard without learning at first and right because I remember one guy came to me and he was like How much to do a video on it? And I gave him a particular price and I said the reason why you're gonna have to give me this price Is because the weightless video has to be done I can't I can't look at the camera And do a video how to kiss a girl. What do you want me to do? You want me to kiss air? You want me to tell you with my words? So I was like the way this has has to happen or the best way I could see it working Is if um, you're gonna pay me and you're gonna pay At least one girl and I'm gonna have to kiss said girl On camera so that you can see it And then you're gonna and then you're gonna get her feedback as to what worked for her Why it worked for her and then if you really want to do this in depth It would have to be at least like three girls because not every girl's the same But but it's not about knowing this one way that's going to work with every girl No, it's about knowing how to interact with an individual female to gauge what she likes to learn from her body language from The pace of her heart from her breath how she's breathing the morning all these type of things You're gonna have to learn how to Identify let me add a theory to complicate this a little more, but I think you'll appreciate it This is a theory. I had like a week ago. It's not It's not a theory out of nowhere. It's based on my experience of women And I think you'll be I think it'll been more of the two I think everybody male and female you have like a sexual personality Obviously you have sexual preferences, you know fetishes and kinks whatever right little shit you like to do Don't want to do whatever right You know jewish girls say they don't want to suck dick whatever it's bullshit They all fucking And every every kind of girl is going to say, you know girls from New York will be like that girls from Miami would be like this Oh, this bullshit, right? But as a man what I found with women over many years is my own preferences for what I want to do What works not only through trial and error at least in my n equals one and a go experience But like what I like to do what I want to do and how I'm able to move a situation forward For example, uh, one thing I always noticed that most of my make-ups I ever got I usually didn't kiss the girl first on the lips. I'd kiss her on her neck I'd kiss her on the neck That would be you know a few minutes in it could be five minutes. It could be 20 minutes whatever But I wouldn't go for her lips or even her face I'd go for her neck and after I kissed her on the neck I'd suck on her neck after that It's a it's done deal if you could suck on a girl's neck in public Even if you're both stone sober Chances are you could easily make out with her fucking mouth and then easily fuck her that not easily But most likely you're gonna fuck her that night But most guys don't have a clue about this right like how do I get to make it? Well, they're not passing me thresholds. They're not passing me thresholds because you know women need to be warmed up and Women have said that you know, you could find plenty of content women are saying You know women are like ovens and men are like microwaves You gotta kind of listen to those type of things because they there's a lot of truth And what they're saying is just that when women talk to each other They understand each other. So you need an interpreter You need to learn how to translate what they're saying to what they mean Well old-school Old-school pua terminology would actually be buying temperature And that is like raising their temperature you get them hot hot hot hot hot and a lot of that's physical It's being kinetic. It's touching them touching their elbow touching the shake in their hand Whatever the fuck it is. It doesn't matter and there has to be some some some push and pull involved because The idea the idea is to gradually nudge them in that direction But to constantly Keep keep keep a boundary so that they feel comfortable because they're because they're There also is the the element of you being a man And you being bigger than them stronger than overpowering and then you being a stranger. This is uncharted territory for you So she has a particular Boundary or lying there. You have to be calibrated if you're not calibrated You'll fuck it up and you're gonna do that and you're gonna learn the hard way. That's what I did It's thinner thicker Depending on the girl her experience and depending on how she feels about you as an individual But there still is some type of line There and I heard one girl refer to it as a sexual boundary and you know, she was all into You know, she's the therapist or whatever she went to school for but there is a line a sexual boundary And some for some women it's very thin. Maybe they were molested Maybe they're you know, they're they're they're a slut or whatever They've been around but there still is a line as my point how thick or how thin it is it varies But like you said, you have to be able to calibrate it So if you if you're coming in too strong too much too fast too consistent What happens is you're gonna hit that line and then it's gonna be a resistance and then she's gonna push you away And now you don't fuck it all up. Um, so unless you can unless you can recover depends a good your recovery your recovery game is too I've I've pushed way too far way too fast with chicks But I also learned how to like, you know pause kind of slow down pick things back up And then escalate over again, you know, just even out in public. I go to the bar like, uh She's not like pissed, but she obviously I pushed too far too fast Let me like chill out hang out there for five ten minutes try again The guys is that's the thing is the man is for these days doesn't teach guys like anything about this Can the guys even teach it can the guys that are there? They can't they they can't it's all scam like it's so sad man Like uh, like again, I know we're trying to we're doing the whole say no names Things but uh, you know despicable me from them from the f&f boys Um, every time you hear something about him and a female. It's always super awkward. The girl was not feeling it. Um, you know Right the mojo Right, so that's what I'm trying to say and then the question is is like how are we telling guys How to deal with women if you yourself don't even have that experience because I have that experience And and it's still hard to put it into words. It's still hard to describe to someone That's not familiar with it. Um, and and to be honest with you, I'm not as good as I used to be That's something I've noticed like come coming up on 40. I'm nowhere near What I used to be I'm not as charismatic Um, I'm not as good of a kisser. I'm not as good as bad in bed I'm none of these things because when I was younger I had a lot more ambition for it And I was a great kisser because I had to be, you know, you know Like like there's women that will tell you Um, like one of their complaints in a long-term relationship will be he doesn't even kiss me anymore He doesn't kiss me like he used to yeah because there's a have to anymore and the beginning of relationship, bro You gotta be A magician don Juan everything gotta be you know because you're trying to get in there, right once you get in there You you you slack you you lack off or you're like, uh, whatever, you know, you just give it a little It's very easy. It's very easy to get in there. Yeah like that right easy to get complain It's easy to get complacent right so um, you know, so so If you take if you take the 25 year old me Versus the the 40 year old me listen It is an interesting match up because there's plenty of things that the 25 year old me cannot even compare to Can't come close to but there's a lot of things at the 40 year old me. I can't hang I can't hang with the 25 year old me You know, I just don't got it anymore like I used to Um, well, you know what happened if you were a hunter you were a slayer when you were more active with it Yeah, I know the feeling right now now now i'm like, you know sitting home having things handed to me I gotta work for nothing anymore. Uh, so it's so nobody Nobody socrates says he's been in a relationship for a while But he spent, you know, many many years hunting down chicks at bars and fucking them And he would say it's like look when you're single you got to hunt for your food. That's how it is Yeah, it's true. Yeah, whether it's even even if it's a girl. You already fucked you got to keep that going Go to a bar get a new chick go on tender get a new chick like you got to hunt And you're you're hunting a sex drive a sex drive is way up there Yeah, when it's not guaranteed it's not guaranteed and you got you know every night you gotta go out dancing Can I do it can I pull it off? Um, and then also, you know, you got to keep the level high, you know, like I said, I was I was very picky You know very picky with chicks. I was never the one that would um, you do the fours and the fives and the sixes I'm just you know, it's not me Yeah, I'm not and I'm not knocking anybody that is like I'm not trying to shame any guys is what I'm saying Well the man is fear those are called nines and tens the fours and the fives and the sixes So they just like escalate these numbers It's just a lack of enthusiasm I think and I think the bar has been set so ridiculously low That the guys that can't measure up to what it should be make excuses to justify it and those excuses sound like women's hypergamy It's like women's hypergamy is a great is a great measurement. I'm sorry women women Setting a standard to where guys have to be better. I think it's good for everybody Um, but to complain about it because you can't reach it. I'm telling you right now There's no tall handsome or rich guys out there complaining about women's hypergamy Did you know this is a real this is a real quote. This is a hard nine her body is a hard nine Maybe even a little higher That's who this is a that's divan sharp. This is a real quote from donovan a real quote in right or audio I transcribed it. Yeah, I mean see that that really threw me off. Um Like that threw me off going going to that convention it really threw me off because I'm just like I'm just like, why are you? Why why are you I don't know I just It's tough like I like I like I couldn't figure out I couldn't figure out what that was about like I don't know what that pairing is about And and the only thing Valuable that can be taken from that in my in my opinion, right? The only the only thing that I think Um, is good advice Coming out of that situation Is men putting themselves in a position to hire Um, their significant other that's the only thing that I respected about it. I told him that I said, yo What I thought was really cool was the fact that you employ your woman That's it. Well, that's that might be the official arrangement, but I think she actually is taken over the business She actually run Right, that was back in the beginning now. It just looks like she took over the whole damn show And I'm just like, how do you have a show for men? Um, and in a in a on a male platform. This is supposed to be the man's fair and you let her run the whole show Let's talk about this this brings up an important point because someone was asking me on my twitter the other day They asked about three red pill chicks in particular Uh, the three like three, you know, I'm like these chameleon chicks, right? Like the pearly things and her friends and shit, but divan is another one And basically the old even old donovan old conovan old rollo from a couple years ago 2018 shit like that They were all like anti women in the man's sphere never let women in the red pill No women are red pill ever. There's no such thing. These are like actual quotes you can get from them Yeah, but but that's the that's the that's the bandwagon though. That's the bandwagon now I'm not sure which three girls you're talking about the only one you mentioned was pearly things Um, so now what I will say is my experience with pearly things. She's actually not a chameleon Like she actually believes all that shit that she says Um, and I think she just has a unique Um standpoint on these issues for a female. That's all that it is. I don't think it's really that special I don't think it's something that guys need to really stop I think she's I think I just agree. I think she's a chameleon her little friend is even worse though pearly is not the worst by far She's the least of the problems. I think her little friend that a little short one. I don't know what her name is I have no idea like I haven't like I haven't really been tuning in Um, so my experiences with her are not from watching like her content my experience was like interacting with her talking to her myself and um, I think she does believe a lot of Her talking points or her views and I think she just realized that hey, this is something cool I can do and maybe make some money not that she needs it because she comes from money So I think she just genuinely enjoys making this content not for whatever reason. I don't know There's an amicable reason. I don't know that she really actually can help dudes. I don't think so I'm not saying also by the way that I don't think she disbelieves everything out of her mouth She's not like a super she's not like a super fraud or anything You mean she doesn't care about guys because that that I don't believe I don't think she's doing it to like Help guys or to benefit dudes that I don't know. Yeah, I think yeah, that's kind of where I'm going with it I think she's just kind of pandering to simpy beta males who are actually into her even though she looks like ogre I think she's getting attention. She just likes attention like any other women I think she found something she enjoys doing that she's being well received Femme sapien is the one. I don't know her real name. Femme sapien is pearly's little friend I have no idea She blocked me on twitter. I never even talked about her before and I've looked through her twitter and I was blocked I'm like the fuck are you addressing any um questions any any questions that you're getting Yeah, we got one we can go over by the way the dude asked about sizzle mami that whole situation Yeah, you know what I was gonna tell you well, we already talked off camera about about you Addressing that and bringing that up. So I guess they did it. They did it for us. Okay. So what about it? Like like I don't like I don't know just seems like you want to gossip ask a direct question, bro That's just weird that you're like, what about sizzle mami? Like what about it? He's he's probably still a question Yeah, let's see what he see what he says Yeah, tell him to phrase that tell him to phrase that question um I think he won't a minute if he's still watching that was about 10 minutes ago not even Right, there's no there's no context to the question is what I'm trying to say He acting like this is some type of gotcha moment because The thing that's crazy is that the people that are talking about it whether it's guys in the comments or the actual content creators They're all operating under this pretense that it's some kind of gotcha moment It's not a gotcha moment if I brought it up long before anybody else Like I talked about it on my channel long before anybody else I made a video actually going to a gay club and interviewing the straight dude that worked at a gay club And him telling you the benefits of of not boycotting That industry or that environment and this dude is engaged and lives with the woman But he makes great money working at a gay club far more than he would if he worked at a Mainstream establishment. So if you're a bartender and you're a good-looking guy You're gonna be hard-pressed to find a place you're gonna make more money bartending than a gay bar And that does that mean you're gay all of a sudden because you serve drinks at a gay bar. Let's not forget The advantage that young attractive women have using their sexuality is that they can Profit off of it without actually doing or Um being interested in in whatever so so a good-looking girl can go bartending somewhere and make a ton of money She's not sleeping with the guy. She's selling drinks dummy She's just benefiting off of the fact that they find her attractive That's it. So how is it that when a guy does that all of a sudden now we have all this criticism But yet we live in a world where that's that is the the unspoken Uh understood advantage that young attractive women have is that wherever they work If it's a tip-based industry, they're gonna make more tips if they're young and beautiful All right, so that's that's that's the deal with sizzle. Um And and it's funny to me that I have all these guys Criticizing and judging me yet they could never relate because nobody's paying them for their likeness It's it's it's a it's one thing to criticize. What a football player decided to do Contractually, but yet you don't fucking play football and nobody's offering you any goddamn contracts to play football And you're over here speculating on what this football player should have could have would have did Oh, he should have signed this contract. Oh, he should never did that. He should I'm sorry. You play football people are signing you to play football So what do you know about what a contract looks like to play pro football? So you're over here criticizing what gigs a model decided to do yet You are not a model and there's nobody paying you for your damn pictures There's nobody paying you for your look and you're saying oh if you model for that underwear company you get you get Right and um, I thought it was funny that one of the the images that one of these content creators tried to Use to make a point He he he showed a picture that I took in speedos And was like look do you see this the guy in this picture the guy in this picture is gay Okay, now hold on there's a difference between a dude going to the beach or going to the pool in a pair of speedos That he chose because these are the this is the swimwear that he wears when he goes You know recreationally to the beach There's a difference between that And a guy that has never in his life worse speedos other than being paid to wear them in a photo shoot or or a runway show You see what i'm trying to say. So if I do runway and the outfits that I'm that I wear Uh, the outfits that I wear in the runway, you're gonna try to tell me that's my fashion sense Because they they paid me to wear that to do a runway show. I've never worn it other than to do that runway I put it on I took it off and gave it back to them. But now that's my fashion sense What about a bodybuilding competition stunning where speedos to You see I was gonna go there with it too because I remember when I first started dancing And like all my boys from back home found out about it. I don't talk to my boys from back home They're like, yo, what the fuck you wearing thumbs and all this shit. I'm like, no, my dude I've never owned a warthong in my life. They'd be like you wear g-strings. Oh, you wearing some fucking g-strings my nigga Like no, I'm not I'm not wearing any g-strings. I've never worn or owned any g-strings Like what you like like what you be dancing in because these are my friends, but they're just trying to understand it So when I show them the pictures, they were like they like you dancing in them little briefs I'm like, yeah, and they're like Yo, that look like what they wear like what the wrestlers wear. I'm like, it's exactly what the pro wrestlers wear I was like, this is also the same thing the bodybuilders wear exactly the same thing because The same person that makes themselves the bodybuilders and you know male dancers and they're like, oh, I mean I mean whatever then I'm like exactly But it's funny how some guys will see that and they'd be like, oh, you went a little gay ass trunks It's like, well, how come you don't say that about bodybuilders? How come you don't say that about about uh, about uh What you call it hulk hogan, you know, I'm saying how come you didn't say that about the ultimate warrior? It's It's the same it's the same We're in the same thing bro We're in high boots and these little underwear is the same thing that the wrestlers jump off the ropes with so It's just however people want to perceive it And the moment that I accepted I don't have control over how other people perceive things That's when I stopped caring because when I started dancing for women guys that were envious or jealous or just haters or whatever They'd be like, oh all male dancers are gay So, okay, you dance for women you're gay gay dance for women you you stripper you gay So then I thought about it. Why am I turning down all of these gigs To do gay events if when you dance for women people are still going to say you gay So it just didn't make sense to me It's like I'm turning down money because I don't want people to get the the idea that I'm gay But then I'm over here dancing for women and people are still saying you know you gay So I was like, you know what if people want to say that they're going to say that either either way And then the same athletes and the same actors and rappers that these guys be glorifying and supporting Those dudes actually are gay They actually are doing gay stuff to get their contracts and to operate in those industries I know this for a fact if you think zoos in hollywood aren't doing gay stuff Okay, the casting couch is is goes both ways people act like harpy wandstein was just touching on young pretty girls No, the casting couch Is um Look at kevin spacey, right? I mean that kind of there's a kind of tons of shit like that Right, even look at this guy right now that they're exposing uh was kc a perfect example So even in the religious world the casting couch is present So it's funny to me that you over here calling people names for things that they chose Okay, I chose to work at sizzle. I chose to accept their contract. There wasn't no Let me touch your butt. Let me do something gay and then we'll give you this contract No, the whole point is they had to pay me to to even Um consider tolerating that environment It's not I wanted to be in that environment and they were like, oh well You're gonna have to do something you're gonna have to do something for me if you want to be in this environment No, it's I don't want to be in this environment. So you're gonna have to Pay me handsomely For me to be in this environment, right I got this meme too. I pulled up. I love making these I got my boys make I get the best meme guys in the internet man A whole mafia of them you you you guys are making you guys have made an art out of that bro You guys have made you guys have made an art out of that I love blade too, man. I didn't want to do this to wasley slaves blade too is an amazing movie I mean blade one's good too. Somebody's asking somebody's asking. What do you think about uh, Andrew tates popularity? Uh, where's that? Well, it's not on you. It's on my on mine. Somebody's asking. Uh, what do you think about Andrew tates popularity? Yeah, I got no problem with tate people keep bitching about him. He took over the internet yesterday I mean he is uh, I think he got he got nuked off twitter by like officially like twitter fucking Corporate a few months ago. I think it really pissed him off And he just has like a army now of dudes uploading videos of him everywhere I think there's like 50 to 100 guys who's uploading videos on tiktok and instagram and youtube of them Constantly like every day of the fucking week. They're uploading viral videos of him faster than get banned And because of that, he's just like winning on the internet. He's just going super viral I have people from high school I've been talking 10 15 years DMing me on facebook and shit about andrew tate because i'm in the videos of them Interviewing them like you did the interview, you know, you sit down with them So I got a problem with tate these people bitching about him calling the fraud and show me people are stupid, man Hey, it takes associate path for money, but I think he's great. I got no problem with the guy Yeah, likewise man. I like him a lot and I think I think that there needs to be more Of a separation between individuals and who they choose to Um, you know sit down across the table from and do an interview because like Everybody's acting like the man's fur has to be like all clicked up And if you if you associate with this person or you work with this person and talk to this person Then you must dislike all the people they dislike and to me that is so like that's so like a grade school catty That's like to me. That's such a feminine mentality like oh you talk to her and you can't be friends with me It's like who said that any of us are friends, you know who who who said that we're not just associating We're associates. We're we're in a in a space exchanging ideas You don't have to like or dislike someone to be motivated to challenge their ideas or agree with their ideas And just because you don't like somebody doesn't mean you can't agree with some of the things they say And just because you do like someone doesn't mean you can't disagree with some of the things they say So I I think the way that A lot of the viewers as well as the content creators are behaving over disagreements is Very feminine in itself or very anti Man to me. It's very anti man because I feel like part of masculinity is being able to be sound and logic and reserved To to an extent where you can separate people From what they do and what they say what they stand for what their message is And then you can think about these things logically Without throwing in your your personal opinion about the the person into it um Because a lot of them after people bitching me about you know still supporting tate and they're like well tate hangs out with faking shit I'm like, I don't I'm like dude. He's not stupid. He knows their frauds like hello I don't I'm not going to demand though that he he goes after them and attacks them That's his prerogative to do that or not do that for whatever reason he wants I'm not going to bully him into it right he doesn't he doesn't care about that and see that's the thing for Him to be able to for him to say to me like look Because he messaged me like right after I had that little You know interaction with him and he was just like yo man is everything okay? Everything is good. I'm like yeah He's like all right. Well, listen, I mean if you're not getting along with those boys anymore that you know, whatever that's cool Um, you know men disagree But when I'm in Miami, you know, I still want to get together and have a conversation with you like we play And I was like all right cool and very few people took that standpoint So To to to try to gauge people through a screen It's not easy. It's not always going to be accurate, you know Some people argue judge your character, but it's difficult to judge people through a screen But when you've met people you've interacted with people and then you've seen people in certain situations And then saw how they chose to react That's how you begin to come to understand someone's character So, you know, there's plenty of guys that be like, oh my girlfriend would never do that Oh, I got a good girl my girl this and I'd be like, ah, stop. Shut the fuck up You do not know what your bitch will do until she's in that situation Don't tell me she'll never divorce you don't tell me she'll never take your kids Don't tell me she'll never take your property until you've gone through a divorce with her You do not know how she looks in a divorce. There are millions of men who had that same same lot of thinking She would she would never do that Exactly and you thinking yo, this is my boy. This is my dog and if something happens and he's singing to the police Like a canary that's not your boy But you thought he would never but then he did but if a situation happened and he was like, I don't know No, I'm not gonna someone someone to said Tate threw the red pill under the bus Look Tate is very red pill, but a lot of the red pill has become this bullshit I mean, this is considered red pill. Wife and up old aging Uh, almost half a century old obese single mom Right who is becoming bastardized Yeah, it's sick. Like I don't blame him for throwing the red pill under the bus because a lot of it's just the roll-up pill That's why the black that's why the black pill exists and migtail because they rejected a lot of his crap And it's everybody's uh Everybody's trying to pimp it out and make money off of it is the problem Yeah, and and so what happens is it stops being about content creators uh inspiring the listeners and their viewers and and um, you know Agitating thought and making people think about things dissect situations and be more self aware be more responsible It's it stopped being about that and it started being about Looking at the analytics and saying, okay. What's going to make me more money? Okay? Let me pander to them because I'm going to make more money. Let me tell guys It's not their fault because I'm gonna make more money. Let me money money. Let me work with this first instead of the Instead of the instead of the truth it became about super chats That's right. That's what I'm trying to say and that's the bottom line man. It's sick Right and you can't give tough love when you're too busy worrying about offending the guys that are going to give you the super chat money So now what happens is everything gets watered down and everything gets bastardized and we don't know what's true anymore We don't know what to believe. We don't know what to think Because these guys are in here with the wrong intentions And i'm not saying that they all started with the wrong intentions But it got that way when they started making money because what happens when you start making money You start buying shit. You start leasing shit. You start financing shit. You start increasing your cost of living So now you have to maintain that money to pay for your lifestyle So now it starts to compromise the integrity of what you're doing and that's across the board That's not just on youtube. That's anything that people do. I don't care if you make records You know, I don't care if you print magazines, whatever the hell you do Once you upgrade your cost of living Now you have to prioritize the income and it starts to overshadow the art um and the integrity of the work and That's where we are now in the hemisphere because it's grown to this This awkward place where it's not big enough to be mainstream But it's not small enough to be genuine if you understand what i'm trying to say Which is to be authentic, but we're too small to be mainstream That perfectly encapsulates where the manager is at right now Like a woman because that really nails it and i've seen it since 2005 and you're right It's gotten polluted by I wouldn't say money, but greed and I guess that's part of the process when when more money gets involved That's naturally what people some people are gonna do I do think and I hope that it gets better as it gets bigger But an awkward like a puberty or some kid growing up growing pains I think that's where it's at right now and i've never seen or heard anyone say that but you nailed it That's exactly where it's at in 2022. I hope it gets better. I'm trying to make the manager great again Yeah, I mean and that's something that um like I noticed about Your your message a long time ago because like I you know I used to come across Things that you were involved in from way back and it just was like every time You know something involving you Comes up it always seems to have an element or an error of There's always something about improving the state of Mint Yeah, right So it doesn't matter if you're making a few thousand doing that or if you're making millions doing that As long as that core principle stays genuine We're all good and I think I think every person That does something for profit should have a particular agenda That they've already decided like this is what I want to to do Like at the core Now it's like how much can I make doing that but that that part shouldn't change And I think for too many people that that changes You understand what you're trying to do at the core if that's changing So I mean as a personal trainer my goal is to like Simplify people's fitness goals for them and make them realize that it is obtainable It is achievable for what to do what you're trying to do Then there's nothing wrong with me trying to maximize how much money I can make doing that though That hasn't changed showing you that Whatever it is that you want to accomplish fitness-wise You can do it It's just a matter of you understanding what needs to be done and what you need to stop doing and then how you can create a Consistency in that how can you create a self-discipline that's going to allow a consistency so that you can start moving towards that goal That that core principle does not change and I end up becoming a millionaire Um in the fitness industry Then I'm good, but when it becomes about just selling people anything telling them whatever I gotta tell them The most amount of money how can I get the most amount of clients? How can I hire people to pretend to be me on the other side of the keyboard? Now yeah Now we we fucked up because now it's all about right It's very self-destructive too though when they do that and that's what I think a lot of these like fanboys And these guys who are just like simps for dudes They go from being simps for tricks and only fans of simps for dudes on youtube That's exactly what I said when I got to that podcast when that's when I sat there and helped them create that I realized I fucked up I made a monster because I had a different goal is what I'm trying to say Like like we're all working together to do this particular thing to create this thing But we all had different reasons for wanting to create it I wanted to create it to bridge the gap between men and women in the manifest because there's a There's a an issue with the communication Because when guys say what they're saying they're labeled as Massageness and women hater. I'm thinking to myself. Well, I talk about female nature. Because I hate women I love women. What are you talking about? I don't I don't want to go anywhere where there's no beautiful women I'm not interested. I'm not interested in no cruise. No trip. No, I'm not trying to go Hey, listen, we're booking you on this private flight. Are they going to be girls? Are they going to be beautiful flight attendants? If there's not going to be beautiful women there is not a destination I'm interested in so it's not that I hate women and I believe that Life co-habitating with women is better. But obviously you have to to have a relationship that's beneficial to both people If if you're a sucker or you're a simp, then no, you're not going to enjoy living with that woman She's not going to enjoy living with you. She's going to enjoy that She's not to pay the bills and she can use you and take advantage of you But she's going to resent you because she's not attracted to you. She's going to hate sharing a bed with you And you're going to and you're going to hate being used Being taken advantage of and you're going to hate living with a miserable woman that resents you So obviously that's not a good scenario But if if you're in shape you're a good-looking guy, you're trying to take care of yourself You're doing the best you can do with the genetics you got You're making good plans. You're managing the money. Well You're making sure that your woman is is happy because you're making her apply herself To achieve what she wants so that she doesn't take anything for granted She's happy, but she's not happy because you're trying to make her happy She's happy because you're aiding her and making herself happy like I tell women all the time I can't make you happy. I tell my woman. Hey, listen, if you're not happy, that's not my responsibility Okay, I can help you whatever your issues or your problems are let's talk about and Let's see what we can do, but I'm not responsible for your fucking happiness. So living with a happy woman That's domesticated to me is better than living alone. That's my personal opinion. Some people might disagree It also depends on where you are in your life when I was younger and I was a bachelor I didn't want to be around a woman for more than 48 hours, bro After a period of time like yo, uh, listen, uh, but you got somewhere you need to be because You gotta go space. Yeah, I want my space again So it depends on where you are, which you know in your life and then I hear a lot of guys saying Oh, I'm never gonna have children. This world is terrible never have children And I'm like, what the fuck are you talking about? Do you think that during the Holocaust? Jewish people were saying they're not going to have kids anymore Do you think during slavery that black people were saying they weren't going to have kids anymore? I mean medieval times man black plague and shit Right, that's that that's what I'm trying to say at what point in history the human being say It's not worth it to have kids anymore. The world sucks. I'm not having kids man. I'm going migtail I'm going migtail monk. It's just gonna be me by myself. I'm gonna go living a cave by myself I don't like women. I'm like children. I don't like people at what point in time Is that is that the position that men took and guys are acting like the like life has never been harder than it is today That is the most pansy ass Bitch shit that I've ever heard in my life. My grandfather had a heart Right, my grandfather had a much harder than me and he went on to have six children 15 grand children Four great-grandchildren and multiple properties. So who am I to say that life is not worth bringing children in or the world is terrible It's not fucking terrible. Okay. It's been worse And thankfully thankfully someone came before you your father your grandfather your great grandfather your ancestors who didn't have that fucking attitude Exactly. I wouldn't be here. You wouldn't be here. You wouldn't even be alive. You wouldn't even exist man Yeah, I think I think there's a short-term reaction to the current environment. It's not that bad I get it but long-term it's like stupid and delusional and self-destructive No, things are getting terrible things are getting really bad. That's not what I'm saying Yeah, all I'm saying is that giving up has never been the solution and never will be the solution Yes, and I think that is the opposite of the best qualities of men. I think One of the most astounding qualities of men is that they're the demograph that's gonna have guys Who are not going to give up? Regardless women are far more likely to throw in the towel and give up or look to for someone else To fix it or look for someone else to save them So all men aren't built that way. That's what makes the men that are built that way special and valuable Okay, the men that aren't gonna give up and the men that are willing to die for it That's what keeps us here Yeah, right. That's what that's what changes things. That's what makes things happen And you know that expression that hard times make strong men and strong men make good time Good times make weak men and weak men make bad time. There's a lot of truth to that, right? So I think that the man is fair in general is is getting a really bad rep Because not all but most or the most popular voices Um are blaming everything on everyone else And that's why I will tune women out when women start complaining I begin to tune them out because everything is predicated on being someone else's fault someone someone else did this to me I'm a victim and I'm helpless and it's not even worth trying So when this victim culture Right when men start talking like that then it's like Yeah They've tricked you into being weak the same way they tricked women into trying to be Strong in the sense of imitating male strength Yep Is the same way that they've duped men Into trying to become victims the way women would it's very interesting how they flipped it like this So now so now women think that their strength is an imitating a man's strength and women And then men think that someone's supposed to feel sorry for them because they're imitating a woman's victim hood It's like yes Bingo this this is this is a very astute observation a lot of the manister the worst and some of the most popular elements They promote this they promote imitating the worst elements Of womanhood and femininity Like there's a lot of there's a lot of good about women and there's some bad too There's like a good side and a dark side It's like men right men can get men can be really positive you build civilization You can win wars and defeat tyrants and you can also be violent You know rape and murder and kill and shit like there's there's sides And yeah, this shit is it's it's super unhealthy victim culture victim mindset shit And it's permeated a lot of the mandatory used to not be there like 10 years ago this didn't exist Well, there was more there was more male accountability in there And men were encouraged to have some type of agency But another thing I noticed is that even the vocabulary Is becoming bastardized and the vocabulary is becoming Just just as inaccurate as The female vernacular Let me explain what i'm saying Like women will leave a guy like for example women will leave a guy through Genuinely, what is hypergamy they will literally leave a dude Making 60 k a year for a dude making 85 k a year, right? And then their explanation will be uh, well, I deserved more And then the guy she left would be confused because he'd be like, what are you talking about? I did everything that I could have did I did everything for her I did everything in my ability in my power. I gave her everything that I could I did everything that I thought she wanted me to do I treated her well I never lied I didn't cheat on her So how could she have deserved more than what I did because I did the best I can okay hold on The confusion you're having there is the definition of the word deserve Your definition is you worked for it you sacrificed for it You were disciplined you did the right thing. So you expected the right thing reciprocity That's what you're thinking of when you say deserve What she means when she says deserve is I am this You give me that but some other guy was willing to give me more Therefore I deserve that more because a guy was willing to give it to me As I am So me not having to change anything or do anything someone was willing to offer me more than you So there I so therefore I must deserve it Because because I was I was offered it just being what I already am for you So if you're giving me seven Being me and someone is offering me 10 being me then I guess I deserve 10 not 7 That's the confusion Now so what's happening now Is that the language that we use in a hemisphere is also starting to not have a distinct definition So you'll see a lot of things falling under the wrong umbrella So females will do certain things and they'll be like, oh, that's female nature See that's classic female nature. It's like hold on bitch That's human nature Okay Just being exhibited by a female what she did wasn't indicative of females what she did was indicative to people But because a woman did it all of a sudden it's female nature When it's something that guys do the exact same thing So if you're not being chosen because you're a fucking loser, that's not female nature her not choosing you That's human nature her not choosing Sorry, I gotta I gotta clap at the fucking loser part. I'm talking to my girlfriend to give me some water But yeah, a lot of guys in the hemisphere does fucking losers and they don't want to hear it And if they would just hear if they would just hear it and like take it like I don't I don't I don't think you mean that in a mean way for most these guys I don't either but a lot of them are fucking losers and like you need to hear that so that you stop being a fucking loser, man Someone's gonna tell you and you don't have a big brother or a father Father would tell you that but you don't got somebody to tell you like hey, man Like whooping a fucking loser like wake the fuck up man the fuck up You have to you have to apply yourself to not be a loser So what happens is we act like if you're not chad if you're not tyrone, you're a loser. That's not what I'm saying I'm not saying if you don't have muscles. You're a loser Okay, I'm good at bodybuilding I'm a winner in bodybuilding That doesn't mean if someone isn't winning in bodybuilding. They're a loser if they're not winning in anything They're a loser pick something to win it Something that my grandfather said to me that gave me a lot of clarity But then also ended up confusing the shit out of me was be good at whatever you do That gave me so much clarity because then I knew what the focus was was to be good at everything that I attempted to do But where it confused me was is because now I was like, well Well, what do I do if I'm good at more than one thing? That's what fucked me up So now I ended up just trying all these different things and then I would get so determined to be better at those things If I failed I didn't give up. I said, no, fuck that. I got to be better at this So I found myself doing things I didn't even like to do but just because I refused to give up Do you understand what I'm trying to say I refuse to give up your attitude Right, I have to be good at this before I can quit I have to be good at it first All right, and and let me explain why that makes sense to me because If I'm not enjoying doing something and I'm not good at it I'm not sure if it's because I don't enjoy doing this or is it because I'm not doing well So I have to first at least get better at it and then see am I enjoying it now? Am I enjoying it now? What about now? What about now? Okay, I'm a little bit better. Am I enjoying it? And if I'm starting to do well or something and I still don't enjoy doing it then I've I've eliminated it now. I'm like, yo, I don't like doing this shit. Even when I win. I don't like doing this shit. Um So I just I just think that that it could be a helpful way to look at it for some guys because guys don't realize that It doesn't matter what you're good at it just matters that you're good at something Like for example on youtube you might have a channel where you talk about gender dynamics and that channel could be doing well It could be doing trash Okay, so if you're talking about that and you're you're not doing well You fucking suck your fucking loser because someone else is talking about that same shit and their channel is off the chain They're getting tons of views. They got tons of followers tons of subs and making great fucking money Okay, where there are also channels that just talk about comic book shit. There's channels that just talk about nerdy shit There's channels that just talk about tech shit And they're successful. They got a million subs So do you think that guy that has a million subs talking about nerd shit? Do you think he has a low quality of life? Do you think he has few friends? Do you think he struggles to date? I doubt it I doubt he's probably living a very cushy life. He's probably He's probably enjoying himself driving what he wants to drive living where he wants to live He probably has tons of friends that are in the same genre that are into the same things He's into and guess what there's a ton of groupies over there, too There's a bunch of groupies that like that nerdy shit So he found something that he was good at and he excelled in He's a winner It's something that I've never heard of So to me, I could see him and be like this fucking nerd this fucking loser. He's not a loser He's just a winner in something that I've never heard of So what I'm saying is guys have to find a lane pick a lane and and um Figure out how to excel in that lane because when I hear guys are like on the internet on youtube talking about me He's like, oh, I end this gay because he danced at a gay club. I'm exposed. I end to expose Okay, number one You're not exposing me because I already talked about this shit on my channel with with no problem. I'm not hiding anything from anybody I'm I'm transparent But then when I finally make the time to go look and see who's talking about me It's like but bro, you're not talking about anything else relevant Your channel is like nobody's heard of it You have no goddamn views going on the most views you have is talking about me and I'm not that popular What this tells me is that you're a loser because you're not winning at anything So much so that you have time to talk about someone that you've never met That you've never investigated that doesn't affect you in any way and you're not making any valid points You're not you're not saying anything meaningful. There's nothing to take from this even if it was true Okay, I end this game. Okay. Now. How does that help anybody? That follows you that subs to you How are you adding value to the people that's up to your content by exposing me for being gay? How is this helping me? You're saying that I'm not authentic. Okay. Now. Show me how you are authentic You're saying that I'm not an alpha. Okay, but how are you proving that you are alpha? Okay, you're saying that people shouldn't take or trust my advice because I didn't set a gay club Okay, great great fine. What advice are you giving that's better? What advice are you giving? Where's your advice? How are you challenging any of my advice? Are you challenging any of my talking points? No Are you debunking anything? I said No, so so what the fuck is the point of your channel? So so you see what I mean? So who has time to make this content and then worse who has time to listen to this content? I mean, let's let's put this in basic points You have a chick walking around you like right now that was just making coffee And you're and you're fucking this woman Oh, I mean living with see that's funny because someone said that oh in the video He made sure to have a woman kiss him. Goodbye. That wasn't staged to orchestrate it The same way my girl just came out of the room now and didn't know that I was recording It was the same way that day. She didn't know I was recording So she just came over and kissed me asking for the for the car keys on the record Your penis goes inside that someone's vagina just to make it very clear Not as often as it should because you know when you've been together forever and you stop having sex That's just part of being a relationship guys when you get older and you've been together for years You just stop having sex every freaking night, right? But yes, I my dick goes in my trick every day. So well my last relationship was like that too God bless you. My marriage was like that, but this relationship not like that So you're you're lucky. God bless you. But but you know, but it could happen. It could happen I have I have access right. It's not a sexless marriage or anything, right? But it was funny because someone accused me of having her as a beard right for anyone who knows what a beard is And I thought that was so funny because I was like, okay So a woman That I've been in a relationship with for over three years that I've lived with for over two years is a beard She's she's a she's a plant right and before that I lived with two women Okay, and then a couple years before that I was married for three years and I'm just like so So so I'm so I'm pretending Right, but yet I'm a person that never puts my personal woman on camera I never put my personal woman on camera. So who am I trying to trick or convince or I'm really rare with that too. Like I don't these guys you put their tricks on camera all the time They're just random women they put on it's like bro. You're gonna get me too with this shit I fucked, you know, nothing crazy like not a thousand but I fucked over a hundred women And the only two, you know, the public has ever seen me with my two girlfriends One of them was my wife That's it. If I'm not in a relationship with the chick the zero percent chance I'm gonna video for a picture with me zero You'll never find you can't get yourself in trouble. You get a criminal just exactly exactly. You can't these people to do are stupid, bro You're gonna get me too. Some girls gonna come after you for money or some shit like who knows man I don't do that shit And also there's never a picture of me and probably neither with with you neither There's not a single picture of me on the internet with a fat girl Not one because I don't fuck fat women because fat women are fucking gross Now if you like fat women and you want to admit it, that's fine, but I'm not into that shit you might you might find some with me because uh That's the thing I never dated any fat women or anything like that I used to be a dancer. So someone always wants to take a picture But that's that's another angle that these guys try they're like, oh, I end is gay because look at all these gay guys That have a yende on on on their social media Okay, so a bunch of guys that I don't know Okay, that acts to take a picture with me at events and I took pictures with them This proves what now now on my social medias. There's nothing gay there You know why because I'm not gay. I don't follow anything gay. I don't watch anything gay I don't view anything gay. So you show me pictures of guys that have posted pictures with me that I've never seen I've never been to these guys pages before I don't follow them I've never seen their their page or what they posted of me and then If if I go to the convention people are like, oh, I hand a it's you let me take a picture with you Okay, cool. I just got back from mexico every five seconds somebody's like a photo photo Can I take a picture with you because I've won a lot of bodybuilding competitions out there? So if I go to a convention, I go to a fitness expo or something There's people that are gonna want to take pictures with me So I'm just like what is that supposed to prove that I'm not just walking around acting homophobic and discriminating against people You're not proving anything other than that. I'm someone that has some type of celebrity status to people All you're proving is that people Want to take a picture with me. That's it. That's all that's all that's all you prove with that And then I'm not the type of person to be like now. Fuck you. I'm not taking a picture because There's no reason for me to be a dick Even if I don't want to take the picture. I'm not in the mood whether it's a fat land whale of a chick I'm gonna take the picture with her if it's some skinny teenage kid I'm gonna take the picture with him if it's some gay guy. I'm gonna take the picture with him. Whatever, bro I'm just being polite, right? So You know, I just feel like there's a lot of people in the atmosphere that are watching this content Just don't just name up with with no intention of improving themselves Or bettering or bettering their situation in any way So the way I see it is there's only really too many two main reasons you should be watching content That's either entertainment Or self-improvement. That's it. Either you're trying to learn something Or you you're trying to just be entertained All right I lean more towards learning something. I'm always watching history shit because I want to learn shit I'm always watching fitness and bodybuilding shit because I want to learn shit Um and self-improvement shit if I want to build something I'll kind of try to look at youtube if something's broken and I'm like, I think I could fix this fix this myself I'll go see if there's maybe a tutorial on it on youtube because I want to I want to learn shit I want to get in as much knowledge as possible the entertainment thing to me is less of a priority And I think the people that are prioritizing that Too much it's because they're not putting enough time Into working on themselves if you're if you're working so hard on yourself You're constantly working and then when you have some free time, you're like, yo, I just want to be entertained That's awesome. God bless you. But if you're just constantly looking for an escape From reality and you're looking for someone to tell you it's not your fault and you're looking for someone to tell you that It's women. It's it's this and bro. I don't feed into any of that shit. I've been this color my whole life I've never fed into racism and white supremacy and all this shit I can't stand the concept of black lives matters. It's a I've seen you go after BLM stuff when you're older videos, bro It is it is the most self-defeating bullshit. I've ever fucking seen We it's like Jordan Peterson says you've got to clean your own fucking room first Before you go out here and complain about anything else And I just feel like if you're talking about any particular community There's plenty of things for that community to work on within itself first At least at least as far as america is concerned. I'm not saying there isn't people being victimized and oppressed other places in the world Well, listen, I grew up in america Okay, and you're gonna have a hard time convincing me that in america Oppression is any americans first priority. There's nobody living in america that being oppressed is their biggest issue I refuse to agree with that if you're poor in america, you could become rich Okay, um, if you're of any uh, ethnic background in america There are no like actual laws or anything like that that are really holding you back There are some things that are unfair obviously Okay, there's a lot of things that are put in place to try to slow you down But there's nothing that can absolutely stop you in america. I do not believe that I believe in america Go ahead. There are serious problems too around the world. There's still like 10 20 million people enslaved in africa or something like that Right, that's what I'm saying child child slavery and sex slavery. It's like really serious shit that goes on People just ignore this shit. That's my point And to talk about first world problems. So I don't want to hear women complain in america I don't want to hear blacks complain in america. I feel like all of our issues that we have in america We have them as americans. I don't think it's like This group has a problem that group has a problem. I think we have a problem We have a problem with the way our country is being ran We have a problem with the way that our economy is going because as individuals we have such a lack of understanding how these things work Um, I think we lack leadership in our communities Things like that. I think our american problems, right? Not black american problems not black women problems Not not american women problems. We have these problems as a group, right? To even be divided and fighting over this abortion shit It's just a great example of how confused and lost we are as a nation. Like this is what we're arguing over I'm missing the bigger picture the bigger picture. There's so many there's so many major elements of that That are far more, um, disturbing Then what we're actually arguing about which is the right To get an abortion which isn't even a right to begin with but the fact that they were able to convince us That was a constitutional right at one point in time And then now they've overturned that And we're not even realizing that they just showed you that they can overturn a constitutional right you fucking idiot And and it was never a constitutional right to begin with so they tricked you into thinking that that was a constitutional Right, and then they just tricked you into it accepting them taking away a constitutional, right? Which is something that they should never be able to take away So if so if it was a constitutional, right, they should have never been able to overturn it And based on what a constitutional right is we should have never been gullible enough to believe that that's a constitutional right It's not Right. Yeah, right to scam and then and then it's a silly argument to even begin with And then they're using it to divide and conquer us into to pitch men and women against each other And now it's like oh, well, maybe the women should go on a sex strike Like what what are we even talking about anymore if women went on a sex strike? Then there wouldn't be any unwanted pregnancies like this shit doesn't even make any sense But we're arguing over it. Yeah, I like to say that you hear a lot about you know For better and for worse race relations in america on the news and shit Well, you never hear about what they should talk about is gender relations, which are collapsing And you see that like what we're talking about the fighting men and women But also just in dating and relationships the whole shit show of the modern sexual marketplace It's fucking collapsing if there's a stock market it'd be in a free fall collapse at this point Everything's fucking crazy at this point gender roles masculinity. Yeah, it's a trick and I made a video Showing you I made a video pointing out all the parallels and the similarities To the divide and conquer tactics amongst the different groups how they use the exact same blueprint So there's a time in history where they were convincing white people in america That they were better than and superior to black people that black people were these terrible people And it was all this propaganda that went into convincing you that all black people were criminals They they were feeble minded They were lower intelligence all these type of things they sabotage the public school system They did all of this shit to get to demonize Black people and convince white people to have a certain type of prejudice against them Then you fast forward to the modern day and now they flipped it So it used to be okay to use derogatory terms to describe black people openly It used to be fine legal encouraged now they flipped it So now you can say anything negative you want about cisgendered white males now It's okay to attack and discriminate against uh straight white men They also Yeah, but they also sneak sneak back some of the black stuff now it used to be uh with it You know colored people right black people now they say people of color It's like you you just you just said the same Yeah, it's the same fucking thing 50 years ago. You just switched the words around We're just switching around. It's just it's just an offensive anyway, but it's the perspective that they've conditioned you to have So now it's okay to to publicly criticize and demonize and talk about this group of people But not this group of people right? Yeah, but 60 years ago. It was reversed So now it you used to be able to say a bunch of um Offensive things about women in the past used to be able to say a lot of little slick shit If you listen to where they talked in the 20s 30s 40s in the 50s They said a lot of slick shit about women Sean Sean Connery in the 80s. You've probably seen this to barbara. We got bond. He said to barbara walters, you know He needs to slap a woman and he does he tried she tried to get him to back down He's like no, I'm not backing down. Sometimes you got to slap a woman You would never see that now, but this is Whether or not this is true. Whatever. It's but but but a but a woman could say it today is my point That's right. So you see how you see how they flipped it. So the men used to be able to say these things Uh about women used to be able to take these jabs and say things that that could be insensitive Could be offensive openly on tv interviews in movies, whatever Um, and then now you flip it and now women can do all those things in public on tv on the news on So what you're saying is like on the view, I think you're right One of these checks could say, you know, sometimes you need to slap your husband, you know Sometimes you just got to say that you're right because they could say that And they would get away with it. Yeah and 30 years ago you couldn't do that. That's what I'm saying. So they flip it so So they use media As of recently to convince women that men are terrible and that you don't want to be in relationships with women That it's better. I mean, sorry, you don't want to be in relationships with men It's better not to depend on men. It's better not to live with men It's better not to marry men not to have children not to be relationships with men focus on your education focus on your career Focus on so basically they've been telling women To go their own way. Yeah, it sounds like that should now You look at the direction we're going now and where's the direction we're going now Now there now it's the men that are responding by saying, you know what? I don't want to deal with women anymore I don't want to be in a relationship with women anymore So all I'm saying is they use the same tactics And they create this tone and then after it gets accepted in its mainstream Then they flip it now and they put it on the other side and then that's how you create that divide Because now that divide will never be mended. Look at how we've never mended the racial issues in america We've never mended them. But look how long ago they started Creating that divide now it's solidified and there's too much history just like the bloods and crypts So present day bloods and crypts might have not actually physically done anything to each other But they still have this feud going on because of the past generations So that's what we have now with blacks and whites and what we have now with men and women and like idiots We're falling for this same fucking strategy. So now we have men and women swearing each other off When in all actuality their lives will be better if they just learned how to get along much like Our nation will be better if we cut all this race shit out and just considered ourselves Americans and we were just Americans We would get over all the other shit real fast. We would get over it Okay, but we keep on creating these differences We got to have something on mtv and then we have to have a black version of it on bet Why why can't we just have an american version? Yeah What the fuck this is true, man. Hey, I want to take a super chat. We got one super chat Thanks for super chat dollar 99 from dawn one plague is zero Uh, thanks. What do you guys think of women talking about rp red pill? Um, we talked about this a little bit earlier. I don't think he's talking about chameleons necessarily. It sounds like in general But I did find I did find my girlfriend was going after this This hoe the real film sapien ali drummond. She blocked her and she blocked me as well I never even tweeted at her. I don't think Alyssa did either But you know, it it's not about this specific girl unnecessarily because there's just a lot Of women now talking about red pill stuff. It's this whole fucking thing, you know from different different angles too Right content creators like the one we just showed pearly is another content creator. Her channel is getting big It's got 150,000 more subs right now. Whatever There's a bunch of little ones popping up, you know, these like, you know, red pill Chick channels and shit, but also you get like hose on these Green-haired hoes on these like, you know podcasts and shit And that's presented as like normal and then they talk about, you know sexual dynamics and all this shit Anyway, what do you think about women talking about red pill? Should this be done at all? I mean a little bit. Is it too much? Well, I don't think that, um The red pill is something that we can just kind of Take an isolate to men even though. Yes, obviously men created the concept they created the term or whatever But that's just what men do in general. We created everything, but we can't just keep it to ourselves Um, so are women allowed to have an opinion on NASCAR? Yeah, they can have an opinion how much you value it as an individual that's up to you But to say that women shouldn't speak on NASCAR. I think that's crazy So yes, I think women should be able to speak about and have views and opinions on red pill concepts The idea of of of something having a completely different reality other than what's presented That's what red pill content is about. It's about the showing you this but it's really like this over here behind their back Um, so can women have an outlook in an opinion on that? Absolutely because they are they're also being lied to they also believe certain things about our reality that aren't true Are they gonna have a similar perspective as men? Absolutely not They're gonna have a completely different understanding and perspective and I think that's why it's valuable Because they exist. They're here too. They share um, the experience with us, so Should they lead? No, I don't think women should really lead much of anything. Should they participate? Absolutely. Absolutely I think they should be participating I think the problem is is that we keep trying to exclude them from these things when really what we should be doing is Holding their hands and being the arbiters of these environments And that's what my goal was bringing women into The man's fair and bringing them on to podcasts It wasn't to degrade them and expose them and all this other shit It was to let them have an opportunity To speak their side of it and then we could discuss it and then we as men could tell them why that's not what it is And this is why it's not working and this is why you guys are looking at it from the wrong perspective This is why you're misinterpreting men's behavior and men's uh, uh comments and desires You're not understanding where we're coming from. Let's talk about it and um Us saying you're not allowed. I don't think it's going to work saying no girls allowed. I don't think that's going to work for us Yeah, they I think an opinion, you know an observational opinion and even having an opinion That's not a big problem But I think what he might also be getting at is stuff like this which is a lot more explicit And this precedes the rep this precedes the repel. She's familiar with repel stuff in the man's sphere. Uh, this trick Your wing man Do you wonder if you got a big channel 228,000 subs? She looks like she's in her 40s Late 40s. I don't know But anyway, she's she's one of the female dating coaches and there's a bunch of them on youtube kesie and obel's another one Right dudes dudes listen to these chicks for dating advice and it's like bro kesie and obel's an ex stripper Like I know I know this for a fact because I know rex boyfriend and the whole fucking dramatic shit show behind all that I mean, she's she's like probably 15 years deep in the man's sphere or something But dudes listen to this check who just has her tits out and it's like bro This is for for what they consider red pill dating advice and it's like So fucking dumb like do not take dating advice from strippers guys well Here's the thing though because for me, I think I think information is um Is always going to be valuable in telling regardless. It's just how good are you at interpreting it? How how good are you at differentiating it, you know using discernment? And I think it's just weird how you have a lot of guys today That well, it's not weird. I mean, I understand why this one has almost a million subs No, no, I had What a fucking disaster No, no, I trust me. I've watched a lot of her videos for different for different reasons, but What I'm saying is I understand how guys get to this way of thinking Because you have such a large population of men that have been raised Primarily by women they've been raised by single mothers and then their single mothers only keep them around their female friends Their sisters. So now you have them around their aunts. They're around their mom and they're around their mother's friends So from a young age the female perspective is the only perspective that they're getting female conversations of all the conversations They're overhearing and then when male issues are being discussed or men are being discussed are being discussed by women So women are complaining about the men women are Saying this and saying the men should be doing this and should be like that So as a young boy you start getting this understanding that women are the arbiters Women are the ones that decide what's right and what's wrong How you should be what a real man is how a man should behave Then when they leave the home or they're not around the family, where are they they're at school? Well, what are their teachers female? So once again, you have a female being the arbiter of what's appropriate behavior You have a female telling you every time you act like a boy you're misbehaving Every time you get bored with woman shit. You have a tension deficit disorder every time you act like a guy Something's wrong Okay, so now when you leave that you go to the workplace. What happens at the workplace They have some under qualified woman managing you So now there's a woman at work telling you how you should be and what you should be doing and has the authority to fire you Or promote you then you start saying hey, I really want a girlfriend. I really want to spend time with a girl I really want to go out with this girl. I want to meet that girl So what happens now you start having to act we as to what she's approves of what she Likes and what she wants to try to get close to her So what just happened you spent your entire fucking life based on what women think want approve of Um and and and believe so now when you're trying to figure out what you're doing wrong Who do you look to? A whamen a woman is gonna tell me what i'm doing wrong a woman is gonna tell me how to get a woman a woman Is gonna tell me how to get late. It's it's mommy issues I think a lot of the man is for content creators are really just mommy issues writ large a lot of them Not all of them, but like probably 70 percent of them And and those women are monopolizing on that That phenomena of men acting like women or who decide what's what in our society And and it's really it just comes from a lack of fathers and father figures and older brothers because it's not just fathers It's just Male in general you need fathers. You need uncles. You need older brothers You need older male friends. You need older classmates You need bigger older guys on your foot on your sports teams coaches coaches Right, you need all of these strong males To help you become a well-rounded strong male And a lot of these guys since it was never in their childhood They never gravitated towards it and nowadays if a coach seeks a child You're like a potential pedophile or something like for a guy to try to reach out to a young guy And be like, hey, you know, let me let me try to mentor you. Let me try to guide you People think that's weird. That's creepy. Why are you taking an interest in young guys? So we vilified We vilified everything about masculinity. This is the end result. Is that a football coach? I had really good football coaches growing up man. They're masculine fucking dudes You should have seen a pissed off they were when they had to They were forced by the principal to take a girl on the football team as a good kicker Showing he lasted like a month, but It was a sanctuary of what we're trying to do here and every other society prior to this one Understood that they separated their boys and girls for a reason because that's how the development needs to take place Okay, we need to have boy scouts. Okay, we we need to have that separation Because boys and girls um learn differently They think act and interact with the world different and then as boys get to a certain age females become a distraction They start to prevent us from becoming ourselves because we're constantly worried about what they think So we can't be ourselves around that we can't fail in front of them You know, we can't take chances and take risk in front of them because we're worried about what the girl we like or think is cute thinks so For that reason, we need to be separated from them so that we can grow and mature Properly And then what happens is when you exclude women They're gonna have a certain type of response in this modern society. So when you look at little boys, right? And they want to go build clubhouses and they want to go get into trouble They want to you know, take bikes apart and build their own, you know, custom bike They want to do all those type of cool things as little boys when the little girls come around and say, hey, um You know, we weren't present when you were collecting materials We weren't present when you were hammering nails and hurting yourself We weren't present when you were climbing trees and picking a location to build your clubhouse But now that you've built it Okay, now that it's sturdy now that you ran an extension wire up there You have a fan and it's comfortable We want to come play in your in your clubhouse and that's when the guys are like, listen We're in the process of making a no girl sign right now So give us a couple of minutes and we're going to go ahead and put up a sign that says no girls Ew And then what are the girls going to do they're going to go run and tell an adult mommy mommy They won't let us play Now here's where we need that father because that father is supposed to step in and say honey They have their own little thing. They have their own little space Let boys be boys. Don't you want to have a tea party? Don't you want to play with your Bobby? No, I want to go in there and play in the clubhouse Listen, honey, you have to respect their space if they want to play with you They'll come down and play with you if they want you to come up they'll invite you But it's not up to me. That's their personal space. They built that clubhouse Nobody's having that fucking conversation with girls So they're going to grow up and become grown women And then when you try to exclude them from a job a company that they're not qualified to work in They're going to go say that it's discrimination. It's not discrimination Is that where were you when we were building this fucking company? Where were you when we were building this environment when we were taking risk? You were nowhere to be found. You were well, where were all these red pill chicks when the manister is getting built in the 1990s But that's that's my point Where were all these chicks when they were building twitch when twitch was a struggling platform and content creators on twitch Couldn't make a dollar They couldn't even afford to buy more video games. They couldn't afford to pay their internet service Where we're we're all the feet. Where are the poke manes then? Right, but now these girls are becoming millionaires on twitch and they suck at video games How is that even possible because they're blood sucking leeches off of simps, man? They just prey on beta males right, but they're like, but the beta is allowed though That's true. That's true. I mean it's it's definitely a mutually uh toxic relationship And everybody is miserable and nobody is happy I saw chick of the day, um, my friend Pat Stedman when I do really good dating coach guys who just fuck you'll meet him at 20 on this year He was tweeting about uh What was her name? niece woodhofer some shit like that. She was an instagram star She had like 4 million fucking instagram followers only fans like very very standard kind of thing. She killed herself And after she posted on like a reddit a subreddit where they it's like roast me subreddit It's this big subreddit where you post a picture yourself you make sure you verify it And then you just like get roast me right and some dude is fucking laid into her and she had killed herself from it as far as I could tell Suicide and it's like this is We we look at the simps and the incels or whatever interesting say that they're miserable and unhappy and this is all fucking This is retarded, but it's all the women. So the women it's all they're all fucking unhealthy retards Like that's kind of oversimplifying it, but it's really The guys don't know this because just like I was saying earlier when you were talking about You know going to a convention and going somewhere for work and meeting a beautiful woman hooking up with her Just like spontaneous. It wasn't even planned or attended Guys can't relate to that because it never happens to them Well, this is why guys don't know what the lives of these instagram models are really like Because they don't know them in real life and i'm always trying to tell guys It's not what you think, you know what i'm saying? I used to be a bouncer at a strip club I've managed many of of dancers. I've managed girls that have Only fans that used to do webcam before only before only fans was a thing So I know what these girls are like these girls that have all these followers and make all this money monetizing their sexuality I've dated plenty of female bartenders. So I understand their mentality of psyche how they are behind closed doors And I don't know these women the way that their fans do like a lot of these girls I don't know them through social media. I know them through real fucking life So you know so guys will be like yo this girl follows you It's like she doesn't follow me because I followed her on instagram and she likes my pictures too She follows me because I met her in real life I met her on earth earth one that's where I met her at and then after meeting her in real life Then we added each other to social media. So you see what I mean? So I know these girls without the filters I know these girls without the captions and all the bullshit that they claim And I know that these girls are single these girls are lonely These girls have issues from their childhood. These girls were molested girl. These women have all type of demons um, and that's usually the the the makeup of girls that choose these Industries they they usually have these things in common Um, so they're and they didn't they didn't have some loving father And then she ends up a huge only fans slut with four million followers Like you'd be kidding me. That's what I'm trying to say and I've met a lot of girls that are like Oh, I always wanted the only fans. It's like why you didn't get one Oh My dad, okay, my dad. It's always my dad something. I'm like that's interesting That that that girls will say they wanted an only fans, but they never got one and it's always something to do with having a dad The father, you know what I mean a man who loved them and set an example for them I mean, that's this is basic shit But you need it as a chick and if you don't you know fixing that is extremely hard and almost never happens Well, that craving attention comes from And I and I see it in some guys I see it in some even content creators some of these guys They will sit here and lie on the mic And they'll pan they'll do whatever because they just need that male validation They need that male attention and I'm thinking to myself man, there are guys that Their psychologists have said listen the reason why this person became a homosexual Was because he was craving male attention and the only male attention he could get was sexual And then I'm like well, how is that any better than these content creators that's willing to pretend to be somebody or not Because they're craving male attention. It's like dads are so valuable and when they're not in the equation It's like any number of things could go wrong when you remove The the the the father right and I'm not saying that all fathers are perfect because obviously you have fathers that are abusive Your fathers are alcoholics. You have fathers that cause the problems Um, but genuinely speaking if there isn't a good father in the home Any number of issues can stem from that and these issues are lifelong issues. So The women out of women that get naked in front of strangers They almost always have issues with their father for the price for the price of a cheeseburger You can go only fans and buy girls vagina picture of vagina for like literally four or five dollars And that short-term thinking that that short-term thinking also comes from a lack of a father because the father's the one I'm supposed to explain to you that it's not just how it affects you right now It's how it's going to affect you in the future moving forward years from now one so on and so forth Well, that's true for the men too. They're like you're pointing out here with that I didn't think about that as much as uh as you put out here But these male content creators who lie they create these these fake lives and all this bullshit These guys who are terrible with women and then go on the internet and give hard line dating advice When they haven't hooked up with the girl in two three years, like it's it's insane beyond insane, right? But they're they're seeking that male validation and a lot of it. I think you're right is from like father hunger They're hungry for that that male validation. Yeah, that male approval somebody telling them that you're cool Or you're good at something or you're good enough But like the chicks they're not thinking long term and they don't get it When you lie on the internet the internet never forgets and you lie and lie and lie for months and years and years And you build up this huge fake persona, right? And there's so many different variations of this, you know guys I think mid-life crisis is in their fifties like the the fraud father younger guys in the thirties and forties whatever That should catch us up to you men You built a life of lies a house of cards jesse lee peterson fucking case number one that dude's in his 70s I do this senior citizen that was a shocker to me like I never because the guy who talks about those issues You would have never thought not him, you know what I mean, but Definitely him flame together burn together pride boys for life I honestly had no problem with this guy a couple weeks ago, man I mean this this blew my mind too I've been so aggressive with the memes that gone after and people They overlooked that that this was someone who I was a speaker at my convention Was very popular, you know had helped promote my convention I had I didn't want to do any harm to this guy Or his reputation anyway until I found out he was been lying to my face for all these years And all of my customers and all of my fans and everyone else on the fucking internet That should piss me off pretty bad And it kept me blindsided, you know, I hadn't see it, you know, thursday night I didn't know shit friday night. I go to bed and look at this documentary. I'm like, oh fuck This is not good Yeah The news too hit the news on thursday man. It's thursday street, but you know what that's the thing because You know, and I you know, I experienced that real early in youtube was just like listen when people have The numbers when they have the majority They're protected bro because you got to think about it for him to be doing what he was doing There was that means there's so many people that knew and He was protected and there were so many people that were quiet. They were scientists, right? so I mean, you know, the bible is going to tell you that that righteous path is always going to be much narrower and have much fewer travelers Than that broader path. So, you know, when people act like you're not right because the person that you're, you know Contesting has more followers than you and if you if you were the authentic one Then you would be the one with all the subs. I was like, I'm like that according to the bible because You know, the the the the person that's trying to be honest and trying to be genuine is always going to get less support Yeah, then then the motherfuckers that are devious. You're 100 right. That's not how real life works for these It's with hunting creators anyway any kind of public figure like People don't want to hear the truth. They think they do sometimes the red pill of man is for guys or an example of that They don't really want it because when you tell them, hey brud's your fault You're a fucking loser You can't get your dick in woman because you're a fucking loser and you're a fucking loser because it's your fucking choice And you don't want to hear that because you don't want to change it. You don't be stopping a lazy ass That's the kind of truth that they don't want to hear but when they they want the sweet lies It's not their fault. Exactly. It's not that they don't this is what it is is that they want a truth They want a truth that supports Um that supports their pre-existing pre-existing beliefs Exactly. So it's like it it's like if okay, I'll give you an example average guy Failing with women therefore women aren't worth it So any content that's gonna tell me that Women aren't worth it. Just focus on yourself. Just focus on making money and then when you make your money Then you can treat women like shit. It's like Okay, so now what's happening is that message is appealing to to to your to your animosity because You want to believe that you're failing with women because women aren't worth it Not that you're failing with women because you're doing something wrong Then it's that message is telling you that should you ever be in a position that you can get girls That you should be punishing them for not choosing you when you were a loser Okay, that's that's your resentment. So so you're looking for a message that feeds that Right, but but all of that Right is low frequency because Something that's telling you that it's not your fault that you shouldn't make any adjustments and you shouldn't improve anything about you That's a low vibration and then something telling you that you should be Feeding into resentment That's also a little vibration or something telling you should feed into jealousy or any of these negative emotions anything That's encouraging you to feed into that is a lower vibration So someone will show me a book where someone was trying to say that like Jealousy and envy and all of these things were just Expected human traits and that other people's jealousy and envy isn't your problem And I was like that's absolutely false because first of all, it's a choice on how you want to respond To to those type of stimulations meaning if you see a guy and he's doing better than you or has more than you It's your choice if you want to respond with jealousy or envy or if you want to respond with aberration and appreciation And then say how can I befriend this guy? How can I get to know this guy? How can I maybe get some advice from this guy some guidance from this guy? How can I learn from this guy? How can I learn to be better and get and get better results like him? That's a choice if you would rather just say fuck him. Fuck this chat. Fuck this tyro Oh, fuck this guy. It's just because he's tall. Fuck this guy just because his parents had money Fuck this guy. It's just because this it's like You chose that you chose that easier and that and that kind of response And that kind of dumb shit response is exactly what passes as a red pill today. That's a cold barrage That's what i'm saying. That's where it's pill today. Blame right. It's blaming somebody else. Yeah, it's pathetic And then also saying that all those type of emotions are someone else's someone else's problem No, motherfucker. That's gonna become your problem So you have guys that are shitty as hell and if anybody criticizes them, they'll say, oh, they're just hating You know hate comes from below. It's like are they hating or they or do they have some some accurate criticisms here? So there's a lot of people that doesn't even make any sense because like the media goes after people sometimes They've come after me and my events for women and stuff They have you know millions of followers millions and millions and millions Are they beneath me because they have they have 20 million followers and they're beneath me This is fucking delusional. That's that's what i'm trying to say, but there's a lot of guys They try to hide behind that You know when they are doing well and they do have the numbers they try to act like anybody that's challenging them or Criticizes them. It's automatically hating. It's automatically jealous automatically envious Well, you know what these these dumb fucking betas are gullible enough to believe that shit You're right. It's a cover. Right. They use this, you know views or subscriber. Whatever. It's a cover It's a front to keep duping these dumb fucking betas All they need is one explanation for why this is not true, right? Oh, it's not true because I say so it's not true because Whatever like these people fucking believe anything and you wonder why because they want to because they want to believe So that's why I kind of give up with the trying to like expose That these people are Lying to their to the following and trying to take advantage of them and it's also why I stopped Feeling the need to care for or defend that demographic because I'm like hold on These guys don't want to be saved. These guys don't want to be held. These guys want to believe this bullshit Yeah, that's right one of you want to justify giving these guys your money and it's like, you know what? That's the same argument When guys are trying to justify giving their money to an only fans model So you know what go ahead and give that bit your money and go ahead and give this fucking fake ass Fucking dating coach your money. Go ahead. Give them both your fucking money idiot. Go broke You know what I'm saying believing that this only fans bitch really likes you and go broke Believe me that this fucking dating coach knows what he's talking about and he's actually trying to help you go broke You're right They that I just make memes because it pisses them off and I like insulting them and they deserve to be insulted If you want to be He's making an art out of it. Oh, absolutely. I love it. I love it Well, what it does is if there are any left in there that will are capable of waking up to reality on this These issues it's making them laugh and being ultra savage with the art that I think actually does it over time Because they cannot laugh. It's too funny. It's like, oh, yeah Yeah, art art does have a miss piggy, bro Who's not gonna laugh at miss piggy? His wife is miss piggy. I mean, come on. That's funny That should yo that I'm telling you right now that one right there No, that's he thinks he thinks like that Make me not have any type of like remorse For their fan base because I feel like if you see What he's doing right if you see how much he's riding on these other people's nuts Constantly trying to ride somebody else's coattails making fun of him. He makes fun of fat woman. He makes fun of fat woman Right, you're trying you're trying to stay relevant Jumping on these all these new bandwagons, right? Then you're like constantly trying to like like bash black women Not because you're trying to actually make sense of it or trying to analyze or break it down But you're trying to bash black women and act as if somehow like white women and all other women are better than black women It's like, all right. Well You're doing you're doing a lot of distasteful things just to kind of try to stay relevant and get some type of views You're struggling to stay on youtube and I get it because you invested a lot into the studio and the equipment and Choosing this career But then also the woman that you're wifing up and dating and justifying and bringing her into the fold and Giving her some type of celebrity. You're doing all this type of things. So what I'm trying to say is The the viewers that are sitting back and watching this the subs that are subbed to that If you're buying into this shit and you're falling for this bullshit Then that I don't feel sorry for you that I don't feel any need to tap you on the shoulder and be like Yo, these guys aren't what they say they are these guys are lying. These guys are taking a bet I'm like fuck that if you're that dumb Go ahead. Stay there. You belong there knock yourself out This is your this is their guru like this is your big guru. Okay. Have fun with the shark mama Right because I'm not because I'm not hating on the numbers knock yourself out. I'm not hating on the numbers I've listened to all of these channels um From the perspective of a sub So Whatever the hell there was to take and absorb I've already got it like I'm already absorbed and I'm I'm I'm on about my way because You know, let's let's say somebody is you know, they know 80 percent You know, they have 80 of knowledge in this particular area and I have 55 percent You know information in this area I can listen to that person's content and try to learn as much as I can But once I start getting to right around where they are or exceed them There really isn't any incentive anymore for me to pay attention because you're not saying anything I haven't heard I'm not learning anything over here anymore And that particular channel I stopped learning like Early like early so so I'm not gonna say there was never anything there But I just noticed that it started to get less and less interesting to me personally I'm not saying that someone else doesn't there isn't still something to learn there So all these channels they have something there a little bit of something there some more than others How much of it is? um Original now that's a whole other argument because well a lot of what Look you mentioned fishing earlier as an analogy a bait has to be good bait Even if it's fake it has to look like a fish even now they they put they put scents on little baits and shit, right? It's got to look legit look real a little bit Yeah and smell and taste you know real for the for the fish ship and a lot of fish were smart A lot of fish were smart enough to spit it out or smart enough to avoid it because they can tell it's synthetic But you know a lot of these channels majority of what is there the little bit that's there majority of that Is recycled shit anyway, so it's just like if you're if you're 22 and you're you you get on a certain people's Platform you're like oh shit. Wow. Wow. Wow. Yeah, it's new to you because you're 22 But the shit that they're saying that is true Isn't their shit anyway. It's recycled shit anyway So if you're 34 35 you've heard that shit already you heard that shit five years ago on a completely completely different channel so Um and then a lot of the channels that are popular now. They don't have any element of philosophy in it So when I first started listening to this this in this area, I was already late I was already late to the party 2016. That's late to the party But there still wasn't a lot of content creators that were They were philosophizing like there was philosophy there still there was still a lot of discussion being had like you're listening to um Uh human and I'm listening to sand man. I'm listening to to uh thinking ape and I'm I'm listening to turd flinging monkey and No, a bunch of other channels that I can't think of right this this minute a guy. I liked was this I'll show you do coltain because he was all about data. He was all about like the actual data What was the channel name? um coltain The guy's name is coltain and he's remember he stopped making content There was mixtape one-on-one. It was actually a good channel. I think that was a channel I think it was australian Reminded me of that guy, but yeah, yeah, I was listening to that too And it's not because I agree with everything these guys said it was simply that Nobody agreed with everything these guys said it was men having these open discussions and men Philosophizing and saying, you know, why is this this and I think this I believe this it seems like this The data is showing that but what about this and we never really can understand this It was a lot of questions being asked Basically is what I'm saying right so a lot of a strange of ideas going back and forth right and it was Encouraging you to actually think about these issues rather than just accept everything on face value And I think that's how a lot of guys get into trouble They just accept things the way that they're presented and then later they find out something's not right This isn't adding up. I thought this was supposed to equal that. Well, I was a nice guy Well, I did what I was supposed to do. I did everything everyone told me to do Why am I not getting what I was promised? So It's because you're asking these questions now. You weren't asking these questions earlier So I felt the matter sphere was a healthy place for men because it it uh, inspired thought it made guys think Think think critically critically. Yeah, right think critically think about all these things question everything Now I feel like guys are questioning nothing They're just accepting what they're being told. Yes. It's because women are bad. Yes. It's because female nature. Yes It's because of racism. Yes. It's because of this. Yes, it's because no hold on Let's let's peel back these layers and understand these things And then as an individual man start behaving in a way that's going to move you towards the result that you want You're gonna you're gonna always have to go against the odds to win as a man So I'm tired guys acting like they're entitled to something You're not entitled to anything if you look at nature most males most male mammals live and die never procreating Okay They're not entitled to shit. They're not entitled to territory. They're not entitled entitled to mating rights They're not entitled to resources. They're not entitled to shelter. You're not entitled to shit Okay, born as a male a male of any fucking mammals speech Species you're not entitled to shit. You might get eaten by something bigger than you you might get mauled to death Okay, you might have all the females taken from you You might have your cubs Slaughtered and you and you and you and your women taken and your territory taken You you can't afford to break a leg spring an ankle None of that Right. It's competitive And you have to challenge yourself And go against the odds is what I'm trying to say if you're trying to beat an alpha You're trying to be at the top. You're trying to be successful. Essentially what that means is that you beat out other males So so so so by definition the majority can't win by definition you cannot be in the majority and Have more than um than what you have so All this whining and acting like someone owes you something is is is becoming Pathetic in the man is for the man is for his becoming pathetic and what happens is now when someone from the outside Looks at it. That's the interpretation that they get of all of us now They get the interpretation that we're all pathetic. We're all a bunch of whiny babies Because it's called the man is fear. So it represents men. So they're thinking men in general are a bunch of weak cry babies Complaining about what they don't have and what they're not being given in life as if men are given anything so Those are just some of the things that I don't like about where the man is fear is uh Currently Okay. All right. So I had to check that check that chat guys All right. So real quick. I'm looking at my chat as some stuff in here um So, yeah, amazing video says yena. You need to make a video about your granddad Uh, I think I should I think I should do that. I should definitely make a video about About that. He's very inspiring dude. Um Man, are you thinking life a porn movie and that I didn't understand that one that comment Or who he's talking to Oh, I guess he's talking to the alchemist. I don't know what that means Uh Black Pope Andrew Tate is authentically the dark triad dude that some red pill guys tried to eliminate I'm not sure Yeah, I think a lot of us are criticizing where the red pill is going So I don't know what Tate said that it's considered throwing red pill under the bus but Yeah, I think a lot of a lot of content creators right now starting to To Criticize where the red pill is going and what's going on with the red pill Hey, sorry about that, man. I take a huge take piss. No, no problem. Just looking at some of these, uh comments Yeah Yeah, somebody's asking me am I planning on having a family? Yeah, I'm just trying to set myself up in a way where I feel like I can Have ultimate control or not ultimate but as much control as possible over my family the way things are going now We're going to lose a lot of control as citizens. So I'm just like I don't know what it's going to be like being a father when they're trying to vaccinate your kid and Crypto currency is coming in. They're going to have blockchain for information. So with the teaching your children, you're not going to have any say so over They're going to have drag drag, uh queens coming to school teaching your kid. They're alphabets. I don't know So that's why I haven't started a family yet is that I'm I don't feel that I have figured out Where to have this family and how to Lead and raise this family the way that I see fit, you know in a traditional way So that's my issue. But having a family having a wife and having kids I don't think there's anything wrong with any of those those aspects. It's the current day that that um That troubles me or worries me Yeah, things are getting pretty rough man. It's definitely been worse, but the Is the bizarre and insanely Perverse way that world that we have to you know, you know If you end up having kids have to raise kids and it's pretty wild man Like you mentioned the drag the drag queen shit and like the vac shit and like all this Freedom to be a parent to be a father to lead your family. That's like going down the drain really really fast I think it's already It's already What state in what country but yeah, well, you know, definitely what country but I mean like as far as america is concerned majority of the states I think I think but the fathers That are able to be fathers. I think they're being allowed To be fathers, you know what I mean? I almost feel like I I almost feel like They're fortunate. I feel like they're lucky. Like they're lucky. They're being they're being let be a father if that makes any sense Yeah, no Language is important and it's like when people Even independent of political stuff, you know, it's when a guy is like, you know I'm allowed to make decisions in my house. It's like motherfucker. You you don't make shit if you're allowed to make decisions You don't do shit, bro. You have no But that's how I feel that it is I feel like I feel like the guys that are like Being a dad and all of that. I feel like it's like that's like that's because your wife is letting you like Like your wife at the moment is letting you do that. But if any given time she decided, you know what? Fuck this. I'm not happy. It's over for you. Just take the damn kids And and um and you can't do shit about it. So you're so basically Yeah, this this to me too is so toxic and dysfunctional for human beings that If this doesn't get fixed, I think, you know, we're facing the fall of Rome my view is that basically I don't know if you can still hear me, but Basically masculinity and femininity are some of the most basic building blocks of any country and any civilization And we've screwed that we've screwed that shit up, whether it's divorce and marriage Or kind of more dating shit, you know, whatever doesn't matter All of it is so fucked that if this doesn't get fixed America's gonna fall apart like this century the whole empire not just america but all the the Allied countries canada the the west basically well, I think it's inevitable I think I think it's inevitable and I think what they're doing is They're setting they're setting america up to be in this this this awkward position where america is viewed as Like okay america is going to be this type of opposition But the way the rest of the view the world is going to view it as is that You are being uh, what's the word for it, man? We're going to be viewed as this This uh, this arrogant Um hurdle that needs to be overcome. All right. Let me just give me some examples of what i'm trying to say right now. They're pushing Um This energy crisis They're pushing this conflict in the ukraine as being the scapegoat for why our economy is about to crash They're going to start pushing all these environmental issues that are going to allow them to pass all these laws and just give The powers that beat um ultimate control over humanity And in all these other countries, they are already way further ahead Um With these things that they want to implement like for example when you go to like latin america You can't they don't give you plastic bags with your groceries if you go buy groceries You go to any store you buy anything like you have to bring your own bag when you're carrying it out in your hand They don't give you a bag which your purchase is and if they do offer a bag a plastic bag You have to pay for that plastic bag So it'd be like five cents or whatever for that plastic bag So it's a mental conditioning right and what they're trying to get you to believe is that all of a sudden the environment is in You know this dire situation and that every little plastic bag is polluting the earth and but which is bullshit It's just all about are they properly disposing of these materials If if they're if they're recycling like they're supposed to be and the disposing of the materials like they charge the taxpayers to Then none of these things would be an issue But what i'm saying is years ago, they set it up this way on purpose so that later They could use the environment being at risk As the leverage to get people to follow these rules and follow these laws now just just hear me out here It's a quick little rant So what happens is they don't implement these things in america first So for example when you go to when you're in certain countries and you order say fast food You won't have a lid or a straw for your drink. They'll just give you a drink in a cup They won't be no lid. There'll be no straw. So they're already eliminating any Um unnecessary plastics or whatever wherever they can but yet they don't do this they don't do this in america though So they're saving all of this for last in america so that when the time comes since we're the country of freedom We're the country of freedom of of speech and all this other type of shit They're gonna save us till the end and then they're gonna start to act like oh It's because of america america refuses to adhere to these rules america is being selfish america is this america is that So that when they finally get america to acquiesce What america stood for is now erased If you understand what i'm trying to say because we stand for freedom we stand for hey, you can't treat me like that because i'm a human being i'm equal to everyone else, you know This is inevitable though. I don't know It's inevitable right but but it's already decided is what i'm trying to say They're just saving us for last so that when so when the time comes The whole world teams up on us and says you have to accept Your your speech being policed you have to accept all these new regulations to protect the environment You have to get vaccinated you have to do this you have to do this because it's for the safety of all of us It's for the safety of the planet. How dare you? um think that your personal freedoms um and your bodily autonomy is more important than the environment How dare you as an american that kind of social pressure though you're saying like a social pressure thing basically Against the united states. No, it's this is real. I agree. I just think it might be it might be like a fuse It sets off a powder keg Like that's the problem. It's a good. It's a good problem to have i'm glad we have it But like this country has a lot of guns And there's still a lot of people willing to fight and die for what they for what they believe in in spite of what the media tells You and tries to portray and downplay like there's a lot of guns in this country and a lot of men But the thing is what i'm trying to say is that's that's why they're going to be able to demonize that mentality though because Now they're going to be able to say that all those traditional americans are terrorists now That's what i'm trying to say now Now they're going to be able to label you as a terrorist if you want to stand up for these these these freedoms and this belief And the rest of the world is going to agree with it because they would have already created the numbers against you What i'm trying to say is if they started with that type of bullshit in america America would have resisted it and when america resisted it the rest of the world would have had the strength of the courage to be like You know what that's right. You're right. You're right. That's not right. That's not fair and we're not going to allow that over here either So america has always been that in the world a lot of people don't realize that but america has always been A leader you mean right exactly that country that basically gave other countries the balls to say you know what This isn't right and we're not going to let you do this to us So if america can be rubbed out Then nowhere in the world is going to stop Um a tyrannical government So they're basically putting this in place in all the other countries first and saving us for last And if you don't believe me guys go through some fucking research on your own the social rating system that's coming to america They've already implemented it in china and india a couple of years ago You guys don't realize it because you're arrogant americans They don't care about what's going on in the rest of the world as a problem with americans We don't give a shit about what's going on in the rest of the world But the rest of the world is very informed about what's going on in america So It's already been i think at least two years now that they've had the social rating system in place in china If you don't know what that is you need to go you need to go learn what it is because they're bringing it here And once they bring it here The government's going to know what you had for breakfast They're going to know what time you woke up They're going to know how many drinks you had at the bar last night They're going to know how how how fast you drove your car home They're going to know everything and if you go one mile over the fucking speed limit They're going to drop your social rating, right? If you forget to take out your garbage or you don't recycle they're going to drop your social rating And when they drop it it's not only going to affect you It's going to affect your family and your friends So if your friends associate with you they're going to drop their social rating If your social rating drops your kids can't go to certain schools This is dead serious shit and they're bringing it Here it's old school communist shit too. I mean that's why that's why people didn't flee north korea I think is if even now if you flee and get caught or don't get caught look after your family You flee you get away. We'll kill your fucking mom dad your brothers sisters and your cousins like all of them So it's it's really sick shit, but I'm still hopeful that things will turn around in Well a peaceful way but b by any way necessary And I think that our founding fathers in the history of this country Is pretty good for that. There's no guarantee though. I mean this could be Probably Yeah, that's probably what the force that I as I remember I remember in 2018 You might recall as well jack dorsi the former ceo of twitter He was openly calling for civil war in a news article like an interview that came out. It's like This is I mean there's so many things wrong with that and retarded from a guy Especially a guy like jack dorsi But it shows you where their head is that that they're in their delusional, you know headscape these these feminists and liberals and shit They push for this stuff. They antagonize for violence and open conflict and it's like that's where they want it to go So they're gonna be funny because they were prepared for it. That's it. I don't think I think It's like the yeah, this little these liberals pushing for it. It's like, yeah, but y'all soft though Yeah, yeah pushing for the conservatives or the ones that kind of familiar with Yeah, there are 130 pounds, you know soaking wet green hair and never use the firearm before never shot a gun yet It's like So I don't know what's going to happen exactly. Nobody does but I'm hopeful that things will turn around Uh, there's some those there's some positive things from time to time You know, I was pretty happy with the rope your weight being overturned if only from a from a uh, social cultural perspective that Something like that could even happen It's like trump getting elected the fact that that even happened And it was a huge fuck you to feminism and all this shit That is interesting to me to see happen. I think what they should have learned from that Is that feminism has always just been a tool that they've used to the to the for division Like like it's just amazing to me that women actually think that they have any power So you don't have you don't have any power, bro Like women really think that like yeah, women have made so much changes and women have so much power now It's like no they don't they have the perception of power that's been given to them By the people that's behind feminism and the people behind feminism aren't women Yeah, they wanted they wanted a bunch of taxpayers what they wanted more That's what I'm trying to say that that was a political move was a move for power And the people that that did it and funded it Don't have vaginas. So it's just amazing that that they think they're the ones with the power That's like that's like thinking that Michael Jordan owns Nike or something It's like Michael Jordan is just the poster boy for Nike. He doesn't make his own shoes He doesn't own his own shoe company Jordan's are made by Nike All they did was not put the check on it and give it a different logo So that the simple minded people think that it's a different brand or something So so feminism is just You know something that was branded to appeal to women. They were like, all right. How do we Basically it's the same product, but let's just make it pink Let's make it pink so that it appeals to women and that we can get their votes It's like and they all fell for this shit. It's just I'm like, all right. Whatever. I mean It's destroyed us what I did. Yeah, there's no putting it back. You know, they're not gonna be able to put it back together And and they're gonna they're gonna they're gonna all regret it is the sad part because when When that martial law clicks in and the chaos starts There's not gonna be no single woman that's gonna feel safe or be comfortable whatsoever every woman is gonna want a strong man To protect and lead her when the shit hits the fan And you see how the resources are about to become scarce It's just funny to me that women are gonna have to eat all their words If I don't need no man, you're gonna need a man when his food shortages, bitch Okay, we're gonna need a man. All right So So good luck Hey, well that's that man. Let's wrap up. Um, I gotta get going here But it's been a good really appreciate appreciate your time coming on today man 100% Likewise, it's been interesting. Uh, hopefully we'll do this in person soon and um, you know, looking forward to the convention. So Yeah For everyone watching you can meet myself and a yende later this year in october at the 21 convention in orlanda florida It's come back tober 14 to 17 Country Adams will be there jack donovan, richard gran and myself Many other speakers about 20 or close to that per event And it's gonna be a four-day event friday through monday awesome time Best in the world to bring your friend free tickets or bogey like your favorite food at a grocery store So, uh, come on out. Have a good time. Go to 20 on studios.com link in the description for tickets There's also a link to yende's channel if you're on one of my channels watching this So check out his channel subscribe hit like leave comments that helps videos go viral on youtube One comment is like 10 likes So if that said everyone peace out yende. Thank you very much