 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Toni Green. I am Toni Green, the Psychic Medium and welcome to the show. Okay, so a couple of things here. The first thing all my books were falling as the show started and I was trying to fix them. And now I'm just trying to fix that. Okay, so no, I don't look in a mirror before the show starts. Here we go now. So a couple quick announcements. I will be taking callers on the call log. If you'd like to call in and ask a question or connect with a loved one on the other side, the number is 845-277-9131. Please have a very specific question available, meaning is this going to happen or is that going to happen? Please don't ask, you know, oh, just give me a message. A lot of times people don't like those messages or it just takes a little longer to get to them. And for the sake of a show, I would prefer you have an exact question available about your life, love career finances, any area of your life at all. If you want to connect with a loved one on the other side, just give me the loved one's name and their relationship to you. Okay, so if you want just an angel message, apparently today you can ask for that. I am no longer the boss of my show, folks. I am no longer the boss of my show. It is what it is. It's like that song, I said what I said. They said what they said. If you would like a just an angel message, you can ask for an angel message. It may not make this is what they're saying. It may not make sense today, but it will make sense either for the past, something that happened in the past, something that's going on now or something that's going to be going on in your future. This is what they're saying. Okay, the next thing, I will also be answering questions in the call log. So if you have questions you would like to ask, you can also put them in the call log and I will answer them. So just to rephrase, you get one question. It can be an exact question or it can be a connection, an exact question, a connection to a loved one on the other side, or it can be an angel message. Okay, we're going to do everything we normally do because there's been a couple things happening that I'm really excited about, believe it or not. So I think in my last show, the name Cinnamon came through and I was making hella jokes about it. And then it was one of the people in the chat, it was their father's horse's name. So I really feel like that is really so powerful for people to see that. And then one time, my little pony came through and it was a guy, he kept his little pony, my little pony from his daughter who had passed. Those are huge confirmations for people. Those are really big confirmations for people and it's so important that people get those confirmations. So I'm going to keep doing the names. Now remember, the name could be your name, their name, somebody you love's name, or it could be anything, whatever comes through. It's a confirmation for you. And please remember, this show airs on WSES, the award ceremony is coming. We'll talk about that in a second. And all of their streaming channels and on their YouTube channel, which, by the way, WSES is rocking out my show. They'll put my show out and it gets so many views. It's amazing. Some of them, some will only get a couple views, but other ones, they put one show out and it had over 600 views in the first day. I was like, what did I do in that show? And then Rude Rangers TV and they put it on all of their streaming stations and their podcast and their radio station. So it goes out on all of that also. Let's see what else. So the confirmations or the names or the songs could be for anyone listening on any, any place. And if I say a name that is like Brian, it could be for more than one person, even if somebody claims that it still could be for other people. So just please keep that in mind as we go. I think if I, nope, that's not helping either. As we go trying to fix the camera. So I don't, anyway, I'm gonna let that go. So let's get started. And I may channel today, they will let me know they being, you know, them. So let's get started with the names. The names that we're gonna, then again, the names can be your name, their name, or something that is a confirmation that they are still, they are with you and letting you know the first thing I'm hearing seeing, I'm seeing a butterfly tattoo. And actually they're, they're now that I said that they're showing me many butterfly tattoos, some of them have are colored in that this isn't the spot they're in. They can be any place. And some of them are just an outline of a butterfly tattoo. I'm seeing tattoos with dates like birth and going home date or departure date, entry and departure date. I'm seeing somebody has a tattoo of an elephant. I don't even know that is so I think that one is going to be so specific. How many people have elephant tattoos? I need to know now. I think I'm going to Google that. The next, okay, we're gonna move out of there. They're just showing me confirmations that they see that. Okay, the next thing that I'm supposed to be on names, but words, we're just gonna call it words now Joe, Jennifer, Lexi or Luxie? Okay, Lexi or Luxie? I heard Luxie and then that I don't know that name. So then I just said Lexi, but it could be both names or either name. Mikael, I had to say that slowly so I didn't mispronounce it. Penelope, Fong, Jessup, Lorenzo. I think Janine was, they said Janine on the last show also. Janine, Aksana, Missy, Carrie and then I'm just hearing the statement look she's crawling, look she's crawling. So whomever those are for the songs. Again, the songs can be your name, their name. I'm so sorry. That is the songs. A song answers a question that you have, a song they love, you love or song that reminds you of them. The songs can be many different things. We're gonna go with songs right now. The first song is they have been doing this song for a while. It starts out and then it skips straight to what I believe is the chorus and I think this is the same song. I just need to stop singing that now. The next song is it's not the Johnny Cash version but that's on the old train ride and it's coming down the track. I don't know, maybe that is Johnny Cash. Those are the only words I'm hearing and I don't know if I've ever heard that song in my life. The next song I'm hearing is take me in your arms, fill me with your charms. I can't wait. I can't wait and if I'm getting the words wrong I truly do apologize for that. That is I'm doing the best I can with what I'm getting so please be kind and understanding about that. The next song is don't you want me. That is not the song I thought I was gonna be singing. You know I can't believe it when I hear that you won't see me. Don't you want me. Oh there's so many sarcastic comments I have for that song especially today folks especially today. Okay I know what song this is but I'm okay let me get the verse of it or the words of it. Oh gosh I think I'm gonna have to stop the songs because I'm not getting as strong enough just a strong enough a strong enough connection to it so okay here we go I'm gonna do two more songs usually when I do this they all flood in I'm gonna do two more songs. Something about drip there's a song about drip or the title is drip or something whomever is for that you're gonna know that and do you know what the thing is they're bringing songs through today that I think most of them I've never ever heard before and I'm trying to catch I can't sing in the first place but then I'm trying to catch the the the verse of it or the words of it and it's really difficult because I just don't know even never heard the song and then the last song two trailer park girls come around the outside around the outside around the outside and that's it for songs today folks that's it we're stopping right there okay so we're gonna go into should I should I should I channel today or should I I'm gonna go right into phone calls and questions I'm gonna be answering calls from the call log and answering questions on the chat so if you have put a question in the the chat please let me know so I'm gonna say Kate B my aunt got a butterfly tattoo at 70 that's so awesome Kate my mom did get a tattoo much later in life also and she did balloons and in each balloon was the name of one of her children so she had seven balloons on her thigh at like 60 some years old she did it I love that I love it so much I'm just gonna scroll back a little bit and and I want to make sure thank you again I don't think I said this in the beginning thank you so much everybody for being here and spending this time with me and bringing your questions bringing your conversations on the call log and and just just being here and being part of the journey of this show yes okay really quick February 2nd I'm going to be in Daytona doing a live event if you'd like to join the event it's at the Cinematique in Daytona Florida it's it's just gonna be so exciting and then in May I spent all weekend uploading the shows to enter into the the the contest for the shows and I don't know if I picked good shows or not but I'll find out I'll find out and I'll let you guys know I'm very excited about it I for those of you I know I've already said this and some of you already know this the conference this year is being held in Eau Claire and that's where I was born so it seems I haven't been back there in years so it'll be very exciting okay we're gonna go to the first caller who is 832 832 what's your name and where are you calling from my name is Lisa and I'm calling from Houston Lisa thank you for calling in today how can I help you yes I would like to have a message from my mom and your mom's first name please it was Bonnie Bonnie okay I'm gonna tell you Lisa she comes in with a man he may not had been thin while he was you know in his prime but toward the end he got very thin and very frail this could be her father your grandfather or her partner one of her I don't want to say one of her partners in life but somebody she was very close to it could also be a brother but she comes in with a male who toward the end of his time here he became very frail and thin and then there's also a very I'm gonna use the word Buxom because that's the word I'm hearing a very Buxom woman with them so they're coming in in a group of three and do you have a specific area that you would like them to address for you love yes I would just like to know if I'm you know doing the right thing in my life and I'm on the right path or something you're really close you're really really close um let me let me ask it no I'm not gonna ask you I'm gonna tell you you are almost there you're about to like I hear that song she'll be coming around the mountain when she comes okay so what they're saying is you're you're just about there you're just you're coming around that mountain and you're gonna be in that space so soon where it's all gonna come together and be what you want it to be so what I'm hearing may so either in the month or May or by the month of May something significant is gonna come forward and show you that you are really on the right track I hear the word order I don't know if this means what this means for you but you will when the time comes you're gonna know what that word means for you and then the other thing they want to say is they've been they've been pushing you or prodding you all the way and it's been difficult because you're so you're so hesitant or nervous about certain aspects of this but they've been trying to show you to just if you just okay I'm gonna say it this way if you just grab on to the balloon and let it take you up and fly away you're gonna be good like stop trying to be I want to say this correctly so be patient with me please stop there's a there like it's almost like they're saying there's an easier way you can forge forward and just fly with it is the way I'm taking this you don't have to go crawling or baby step by baby step you can just fly with this if you just let go of apprehension or fear or questioning yourself so for you everybody listening everybody re-listening let's clear and release any apprehension fear any anything holding us back let's clear that now we think we need this yeah we think we need this we don't we don't need anything to hold us back let's clear all of that okay okay so I'm gonna say something to you Lisa when one door closes two doors open and five windows fly open also okay so if something right if something gets closed if something stops if something gets you know ends stops whatever whatever verbage you want to use say thank you just say thank you bye see ya whatever it is and look around because the moment you cut free from whatever stopped you're gonna see all these new opportunities around you all these doors opening and windows opening and each one is going to be something new that will be really excuse me something new that will be very very good for you okay Lisa okay I hope this was helpful love yes it was and thank you you are so welcome please call back anytime I'm happy to help you in any way that I can okay sweetie okay and thank you you are welcome you are welcome okay I'm gonna try to find a question on the chat I'm sorry if I if it takes me a moment to find it hey Karmakirin Rebecca Amy Michelle Lee Isabella Heather Elizabeth oh my gosh there's so many hey Mo Mo hey Mo how are you Nancy okay I need to focus on a question okay I'm gonna go to Isabella hi Tony I was wondering what you see for my love life this year I broke up with my boyfriend Nick not sure if I will find someone new or if you will come back or change okay I love love love love love love love love love this question Isabella I first I'm so sorry for the break up and I'm I feel like this is a pattern like you guys you know get together to the makeup to break up break up to make up situation ship thing I'm gonna spend a second on this not only for you but for everybody else listening and I bet I've been in that I've been in it where you know there's this hope this time it's gonna be different this time it's gonna work out this time you know but but it people have what I like to call a shelf life in a relationship and if you look back at your relationship however long that cycle that the two of you go through last that's their shelf life in any relationship so and then it gets shorter and shorter and shorter sometimes with some people what I'm going to say to you is that once a pattern is established and a relationship it's really easy to continue that pattern and have it just break up and that be the answer to any problem or take a break and have that be the answer or the solution if I just walk away we don't have to deal with this then when I go back then it won't come up because we'll just be in that it's all new and fun and hot again phase if I'm being honest what I'm hearing for you is do your best to move on do I know it's not easy I know it's very difficult because there's a lot of what they call trauma bonding in situations like this so we're gonna heal for you and anybody else listening we're gonna heal all we're gonna clear and heal unhealthy cycles all the programs that cause them all the beliefs that cause them and we're gonna clear and heal also that and along with that any trauma bonding and all the beliefs and programs all that kept and caused all of this we're gonna pull it out and you may feel this in your chest area and your throat area because often in situations like this we yeah as my throat goes as my voice goes often in situations like this we don't get to say what we really want because we're always afraid to say anything because that might be the thing so we have to like tiptoe around words and try to say everything in this perfect way and that's that's not a healthy so let's clear release all of that and then what I want to say to you is if you can and there's so much going on that that if you can let this go right now if you can let this be it for this situation and you can let me do this for you and everybody listening everybody be listening we have learned all the lessons we need to learn from this let's let's download let's clear that download any information or lessons that we needed to learn from this and and let's clear that too if you can move forward and you can completely just tell yourself because a lot of times in these cases we're waiting to see if it's really over or not that's up to you that that's a decision you have to make and you have to stand firm on it whether this person comes back or not doesn't change where you should be with this okay so if if somebody's if there's a break up and somebody comes back that doesn't mean oh he came back so it's supposed to work out not always that means you might be starting another cycle that's gonna last two to three months six months whatever it is and it's going to end exactly the same way because now this is the pattern of the situation ship so what I would say to you is you make your choice that's healthiest for you from your head not your heart okay because your head your logical self knows the best thing for you knows the best situation for you the heart just wants to feel like everything is okay and it's normal that when we go through a situation where there's an argument a breakup our natural instinct as a human is to fix that to make it okay and to feel better but in situations like this when we try to fix it we end up back in the situation again and then we end up again repeating it so what I'm going to say to you is if you can and I'm not the boss of you when I'm the boss of my bladder I will try to be the boss of something else okay if you can just tell yourself this time is the last time and actually go on at a date go out on a date even with somebody and I don't mean this please don't don't think badly of this statement even if it's somebody you're not romantically interested in especially if it's somebody you're not romantically interested in go out on a date with one of your male friends go out on a date with a female friend get out there have fun and and reach out to your your male friends and have communication with them because that's going to help you to move forward and know there are healthier situations out there in the end the question I want to ask you about this past situation as you've made it through this far in this way here's the most important question this relationship has proven to be what it is it's not going to change so if this is it if this is him and this is the relationship for the rest of your life do you want that no no no you cannot change a person they can only change themselves you cannot change the dynamics by yourself the other person also has to change so the dynamics can change together even counseling can't change some dynamics because people are sitting in counseling just blaming each other instead of coming to a resolve so if this is it is this how you want to live the rest of your life in an on again off again on again off again never knowing that's not that's not that's not healthy that's not good that's not love that's it is love but it's it's not the love you truly want having said all of that having said all of that if you can let go of this knowing that this will be it then what I want to say to you is this somebody will come in I feel the end of May beginning of June that gives you plenty of time to heal plenty of time to heal and get yourself together focus in on you just start doing you go you know bye if you can't go for facials and to the spa or if you don't want to go to the spa get the stuff to do it at home start taking care of you get to the gym take some cooking classes whatever it is that enriches your life and makes you happy around the end of mid-May the 18th the 21st 27th our dates that are good for you in May you should be out and about and then into the beginning of June you're gonna have the opportunity to meet somebody brand spanking new so I just know that and you guys apparently my computer my computer battery is dying so just hold on I have to make sure it's it's always plugged in I don't know how this has happened but just one quick second I'm gonna scoot away from the camera just for a second and make sure it's plugged in I will keep talking but you guys please no there we go again you have to make the choice that is best for you in this situation I'm so sorry about that everybody please so sorry about that so you have to make the choice that's best for you in this situation as far as moving forward is this the pattern I want to keep repeating moving forward is this is this how I want to spend my life now if I were to say to you or anybody else listening is this you know when you think of this person yeah you like them but when you think about your husband the person you want to actually make a bow to or or have that and I would ask you to describe that person without Nick in the picture the person you described would be a hundred percent different than him a hundred percent different because when we're dating we date one kind of person but when we're ready to get serious we go for a whole different type of person okay I'm gonna let that be there I'm gonna go to the next caller the next caller thank you for asking that Isabelle Isabella I hope that that is helpful for you I'm gonna go to 2 1 6 2 1 6 what's your name and where are you calling from hey how can I do I'm good how are you today excellent how can I help me somebody this year or next year well both so we can meet someone before we meet what most people call the one so what I would say to you is you have the potential to meet someone in the next month to month and a half I feel like this is gonna be a relationship that has a little bit of time to it but won't be a long long-term relationship I feel like it's what we might call a filler of our relationship it's something that's going to last maybe three months or so and don't you know here's the thing sometimes we can learn more in those relationships than we do in in relationships that are set for life so don't think oh it's only gonna be three months I'm gonna skip it I don't want to go through the trouble of it there are things to be learned in that and experiences that you get to have that are good and bad in that situation and then in 20 24 December you're going to meet you have the potential to meet someone that is magnificent for you okay this person is magnificent for you this person will be I hear that song the wind beneath my wings they're going to help you to push forward to fly higher to be you're gonna want to you know sometimes we meet someone and we want to become a better version of us and if we're lucky to meet that I've met that person in my life that made me want to be the most magnificent version of myself and hopefully I'll meet somebody like that again in my life but when we meet somebody like that we freaking take off and if we're with the right person they will they will they will be that wind that that like that like we can go hang gliding in that in that if that makes sense I don't know if that's a good analogy or not but so I hope that that you do you are open to that possibility the next person is a casual situation make sure you both know that all the way through don't let anybody think that they're gonna be the one or it make sure you're being honest and up front and giving them the option of if they want to be in a casual situation or not I feel like that's gonna last about three maybe four months and again that might come in right around I heard June but then I heard August so during one of those times and again there's gonna be some experiences that you have there that are going to really make you appreciate your person in December and also some experience that are really good okay okay who I hope that's helpful for you I hope that you enjoy that and please come back and let us let us know about it okay I think absolutely and I just I just need to say that as I was getting ready to like you know let you go so to say I heard start that business so whatever that means for you and that doesn't mean quit your day job and start a whole business and run with it you know without have it means there's something you can start on the side that is gonna be very good for you now I am hearing it's not an MLM it is an actual business and you're gonna do it part time to start off with get on it stay on it and watch it grow okay okay okay thank you I hope I I look forward to next time okay thank you you as you are so so welcome thank you okay guys I'm gonna go to another question from online Heather I'll catch that later we have a family wedding on Saturday this is Elizabeth from the YouTube chat we have a family wedding on Saturday any messages from my grandparents before the wedding do they do they like the music and the playlist oh my gosh I wish I would not had read that because the first thing I was getting is they want some clap not classic but like a play at least one Lawrence Welk and one I think it's Elvis song and did one of them like Loretta Lynn I don't even know if she's still I think is she still with us Loretta Lynn yeah they love it they love it they love it that's that's where I'm gonna put that they absolutely love it and I keep hearing these I hope I'm not incorrect on this but there might have been there's someone on the other side if it's not your grandparents it's like an aunt and uncle whomever that really they keep talking about country music so whatever that's worth for you okay Elizabeth I hope that's really helpful I'm going to go to the next caller who is 519 519 what's your name and where are you calling from hi it's Jennifer from Canada Jennifer how can I help you today happy new year my question is is so like the last maybe month or so when I'm pulling tarot cards I've been picking the tower which isn't really the most favorable cards but I'm asking about society lately it's been a lot better do you feel like we've overcome like the the light has overcome or is this calm before the storm I instantly hear both and Jennifer as you know I have to be really careful how and what I say right now because guidelines so what I'm gonna say remember the tower can be a good or a bad it's just a shocking event it can be shocking in a good way it can be shocking in a bad way now some people are taught that the tower is only a negative shocking event and I get that it's something that was built on a faulty ground that needs to be rebuilt and that and if we look at the past three years some might say that the foundation has been crumbling to be rebuilt but it hasn't come all the way down if we're talking in terms of light and dark that is up to society societal that is up to society society will have to be in a place where they are in light they have let go of their inner conflict they have let go of their choice for fear and moved into their choice for faith or knowing and that they have deemed themselves not to need someone to jurisdiction them in the way they have been jurisdiction it's amazing how they're channeling this through me I love it it is up to each and every person to decide to be in that place where they know that they are that they are favored and favorable and they need not worry or stress about what is coming because we have always been okay we will always be okay we have always been protected we will always be protected in to stand in unity and once you stand in unity no arms will need to be taken because the unity itself and the light that comes with that will be enough to oppose whatever anybody is doing what this runs on is fear as long as humans are having fear they win they win so when they are using terms and dis eases and poverty impoverishment and inflation to try to instill things that are fearful for humans and the humans they buy into it and they believe in separation they win but the moment that the humans step back into I am divine I am the spark of the whole I come from the creator I can create we as a collective create the world that we live in and if we stay in the belief of light and strength they cannot create darkness in our sphere if we stay in this space and collectively do it it is the hundredth monkey that will turn it holy holy that was very powerful thank you no thank you for the question and thank you guys for bringing it through in a way that I won't get flagged I love the verbiage that they use there is no there is no verbiage in that that I think will be hopefully I will not get get a get another X on that so yes thank you so much Jennifer thank you for the question thank you guys for the answer so poetically but and it's true you know if we and I say this all the time 90 percent of us our personal life has not changed everything that's going on we're still doing our day-to-day we're still having our life the way it is and we are moving forward and we have to build on that we have to build excuse me completely on that okay yeah and and I can also claim for those names that you said at the beginning oh excellent thank you so much for letting us know thank you thank you that's that's beautiful to know thank you thank you okay Jennifer please call back again please I love it and remember the tower can be the crumbling of the old to bring in the new absolutely it is absolutely it is thank you so much Jennifer I look forward to next time okay I'm gonna go to the next the next question I believe is Nancy and Nancy hi Tony I would love an angel message on what I should focus on this year love absolutely love loving yourself though this is the year where we get back into ourselves we get back into what we are what we want and please write this down what we are who we are what we want and how we want it taking care of ourselves and being that example to anyone in our lives I know it it's you know for some of us we're so like with our work and our if you have family and children and whatever else it is but pretend the time that you're putting aside for yourself you're putting aside for someone else so that you stick to it and you keep that slotted time as a time for you to nourish and take care of yourself and just to give yourself love in whatever way you want to love I want to I just want to say this for anybody listening and or watching first of all you can join me every Monday at noon live on blog talk or on YouTube and you can join in the chat or ask questions or Wednesday at 7 p.m. here's the question that I want to pose to you would you choose you if you were out there in the dating world and you came across you would you choose you would you date you would you marry you do you fully accept and love yourself do you 100% accept who you are in the now knowing you're improving with each and every day and let's clear anything that that is saying no to that do you unconditionally love you because I'm going to tell you from my experience with thousands upon thousands of people that whatever you don't accept about yourself whatever you don't love about yourself whatever you look at in yourself as not being perfect in your mind you always feel or think that that's what others feel and think about you so they they don't even know that that so-called flaw exists but in your head you think they do okay for example if you feel like oh nobody's gonna want me because of a b or c because people don't want me in the past because I you know I don't have a snatched a waist I'm starting to get you know some crow's feet whatever it is you're always going to think when they are looking at you or seeing you or talking with you whatever it is emotional cycle whatever you're gonna feel like that's what they're seeing or doing so get to a space where you totally are in love with yourself the way you love others or the way you want someone to love you and I'm gonna go one step further you know when you meet someone and you're so in love with them and then you start to see little things about them those are usually the same things you see about yourself I know oh I'm so sorry you guys it's so true people can get a puppy or a kitten and they love this puppy or kitten then all of a sudden the kittens got an attitude well cats do but whatever and the dog has an attitude oh this dog has an attitude no no no that dog has an attitude maybe because you taught it to have an attitude it's starting to become more like you or it doesn't and that's just what you're projecting anyway that's what that's what I have about that Nancy I don't even know if I'm even answering your question or just just channeling yes okay so Nancy I look back at your question that was not all for you Nancy please don't take that as that was all for you get into you find you love you and then from there allow allow everything to unfold because the more you love you the more the higher your frequency or your energy is the stronger it is and the more that everything you want will come to you okay Nancy that's what I have for you I hope that was helpful and I'm so sorry that went off on a little sideways we're gonna go to 814 814 what's your name and where are you calling from hello this is Amy and I'm calling from Pennsylvania hey Amy how can I help you today I have a question yeah I have a question about my work um do you see anything coming forward for me um switched bosses like my boss that had originally hired me retired and a new boss came in and I just don't know how to take her okay um let me just um you know that female to female relationship in the workplace can be the most difficult and especially when we have a female in charge of us it can be so so challenging she likes you just here's what I'm honestly hearing just go in do your job don't be involved in and I know you're probably not I just have to say what I'm hearing okay don't be involved in any what they call water cooler talk don't talk about anyone or anything at any time just go in do your job and go home until everything is understood better probably meaning her until you get a better grasp of how she operates and what she prefers now if you wanted to you could start looking for another position it's not necessary um don't let fear don't let fear or the unknown push you in a direction because you'll end up in a space where you have either way you're going to have to get to know a new boss so pretend this is the boss that you're getting to know as though you went to a new company in a new job and don't uh don't fall back on the fact that your last boss like Jude there's just get sit back and observe and get to know how she operates and once you understand from observation how she operates everything will flow smoothly oh my gosh that was like the most difficult message I'm so I hope that was helpful oh we went around but we got to it and I really do hope it was helpful love yes thank you so much and you are so right about the female dynamics oh my gosh right that is yeah because females females can be competitive with each other without even knowing we're being competitive with each other and we can and and she has big shoes to fill don't get this wrong she has really huge shoes to fill right she is stepping into some shoes that were pretty good shoes and she has to now step up and fill them and because she is a female in that position it's going to be a little bit more difficult for her to prove not only to the people she's the boss of that she's worthy of that but also the people who brought her in that she's worthy of that so she's in a space where