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Hey. Yes. I thought you were some avocado. No, no. That is the good fact, but it is good. Uh-huh. Yeah. Oh. Anyway, come be a genus also. My name is Masime Jerono. I'm a student at Mo University Main Compass. I'm taking communication and journalism. Masime Jerono on Facebook. They are amazing me on Instagram. Jerono underscore me on Twitter. And Masime Jerono on YouTube. Yeah. What's amazing about you, man? Oh, I'm just me, I'm bubbly. And I'm real. That's me. That is needed in this discussion. Wei gwazapu kwa real. Very real. To chazapu kwa real. To chazapu kwa real. Boitel standby. Hi, Queen. Hello. How are you? I'm fine. Maka sma taki. I'm sure kuna boitelt kadao. Wali kuna flip-flip channel wame wana kwa. When what's happening here on this station? Karibuni sana, yeah. Absolutely. What's your name? My name is Martha Kavisi. Um, they can follow me on social media at Martha Mahonga. And for business too, for makeup and nails too, you can hit me up on Instagram. Kuna kijingine kwa CV, ontaka kwa ambushon? Yeah. I'm also a journalist. Eish. Eish. Eish. Social media? Martha Mahonga. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. Yeah. Karibu sana. Tena. She's not a new face. But we'd like to welcome her again. Boitelt mwa kwa piburo. Kuna kuna yes? Ni kutresuna jwa ana irobe ni kubwa. Aiko kwa kuna pute na liwi. Nikiwa, today this kona but finally. Lolo ni kwa up up. Eitu mashu. Coming to educate the girl children. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. As always do ya. Jipoko true. Eh? Ulazma kielue ke? Uwe. Ya. I'm almost afraid. What do they call you out here, these streets? Eh, don't be afraid. Just learning. Aha. Ya. Sawa ticha, wana kuitana ni? I'm Simon Masila. But on my social media accounts, you can get me at SimonMadeon Twitter. And you can get me on SimonMadeon Facebook. I'm here, one for the gram. I'm Selamadea. I'm a media practitioner. Where, where? Currently in the entrepreneurship field, like any media is at heart here. Where, where? Ya. Where, where? Uma skia kizogo. It's very nice. Very refreshing in the morning. Alright, so I want to introduce a topic to you. It is girls who seek way too much attention. Attention seeking girls. Girls, am I saying it right? Ngoja? Nge, ngeos. Gios. Ngeos. Okay, so I'm on girls. So I should have kids ask or seek for. Okay, but in retrospect, let's take it back a little bit. I'd like to think all of us like attention. Ata wa nome, msi, msi dangani? Ya. We all like attention to some degree. So what makes it a bit extreme? Bona umu ngechomita attention seeking kana uta gita ibo. Maybe it was there. I think attention seeking, it starts with Pali social media on the ground when you see like chicks posting like nude pictures just to get more followers or more likes or more viewers. Ya, I think that's too much attention seeking. Wote fana penda tukwa uchi? Ya. Ya. I mean just people who like being naked and showing. Ah. Rahazake, you know some things you can't explain. Well to me that's like too much attention seeking. So attention seeking is objective. Mneza fana kitu nifkiretu niko tupeke hangu. Kumbi wo nani angelia unona na wiyo. Ya because what makes it objective is like maybe how we've been raised or what you've been taught to be right or wrong. So for someone else, let's say your mother has been doing that so you grew up seeing her maybe you know seeking attention in like the way she's sought attention at that time. Let's say maybe it was through maybe the men that were in her life. So you as a child or even like either male or female you grew up knowing this is okay. Just like children who go with their parents like to clubs to drink that is okay to them. But for someone else who has been brought up in a different way it becomes like wrong. So that's what makes it objective. So to someone like you may be scrolling on Facebook and the whole feed is just selfies of you know of like the same person posting like 10 selfies. So you know for you you're like one selfie is good like for the day. But for someone else she posts like she takes 20 and she posts over 20. So that is also attention seeking to me. I want to look at you better. So would you just sit facing me? Yeah, you see first of all the point she said that the parents influence their children. That's very wrong. Would you personally know what our pastakamu atatweve and if you see what goes down on Facebook. As in any, their parents are conservative. They are very straight here. But now you see the child. I think it's because of peer pressure and also the current society we live in it's too liberal as in any people have a lot of freedom. So you see that atile kwanzei lektiwa freedom of expression. As in any, does it mean you use that freedom too much to the extent any you start showing us your skin all over social media. And one thing you know is that the internet never forgets. So una pata from a boy child point of view let's say we are in our 20s up at Tukotapuangalia. Me let's say for now I can just like that peak like in the like too. But now when it comes time to serious down any you know jp a background check me mwim. So now ya nil just be seen ya nil. Kama ya nimes kumia me kakumia kiyotu ya nishikin the bamba molova. Aki for the another 10 years will it change really? Naa. Abondu tuna Tukotu nende ya nil. Ula metu ya mw relax. Ana ita jitu ilia attention kido gu. Different ways of getting attention. Let's say me nyanak pika chakulamzuru kipit upload na skia karubu. That's the attention you want. Uneski atu ya nil. Now that's here sasuna jua he ulu plus 10 points apu. Something like that. Lakin ni wupiwa bamba mune zam change you tell him. You know you just tell her babe you know fungu zai kido gu you know just chill. We are passed for that now. Ya we are passed that now. Ya but what happens when you find someone who comes from a culture we are dancing in bamba to make your height change. She was brought up raised. Aki wam tui kuna tu videos traki aske jari book fanya fanya evi. Am a growth sasa and you understand my growth. Ana nile atu it's just her culture. First of all that's not a culture. That's a very... Don't be ignorant. Tembe hi dunia. It's a culture. Yes. Even the cause to have ila kuzengwa ki miata nanzuki rea witu zanini. Elka eval. You look at evals but now personally is that your culture? If you come from a conservative culture of course we expect you ya ni ugu conservative. Even though you let's say you want to get attention. Uneski tuka selfi fura iye. Bano ata bano kitu nesihilu zinjini. Bano tia like to fura iye but in the long run as in ya ni zita what the investment ya ni. But now there are people who made it because of that. Let's say ya kina huda. Ya kina vera. As in now they are sitting the bar high for girls. But now you see... How? How? Now they are not setting for us. Please. We are good with our own bar. Let me tell you. I'm only co-ignorant. I'm not ignorant. A lot of gals on social media want to be. who are socialites. A lot. And by the content they post. They post content to ki ya nga levinu relate to me vera at that time. As in ya ni that's the way they are heading. Most of them want to be video victims. And now you see venezingumazina. Ya zikwa tu pashoriam se? Ay pashoriam. She wants to be on TV. For most of the most children won't have doctors. Our children won't have teachers because everyone wants to be socialites. Social media influencers. Okay. Especially for the get rich quick. Like it's a get rich quick, you know. Like not going to med school for six years. Then you hear now there's someone that got an A plus, a first class and they are still jobless. And then your child seeing this like this person ame patatu like fame haraka kuna. She's he or she's traveling all over the world. So you see that is in our effect in a way because now I'm trying to say ma do I got the traditional way of waiting for like what months or years in order to get a good life or can I take this short cut so to speak and get my good money faster, faster ni like I live my life but how I want to live it. Kuna memfu lani ati the way there are so many slikwins in town ati ni kama in future to talk wana mamamboga. Very true. Saki la drachna kusle sa tenda panaani. Imagine this is I don't know how that makes me feel. How does that make you feel but why to fight from Facebook at 2514 on Twitter hashtag is one in the morning. Let's get to our first slide. So to me let her look okay I see the things that I've been hearing gentlemen talking about in these hair streets tuna da game naski mojana lalami kogo kwenyele. Why boy child? All right. Let's start with one case scenario. She says she can't date a guy who doesn't have a car. A kona asewa boda. She says she can't date a guy who does not have a car. A kona asewa boda. So what is she trying to tell us exactly? So any boy child kama you to say me for example I don't know your current financial situation. I don't know if you have a car or cars but let's just say that wako awili we are saying I can't date you. You don't drive a car but I can talk up ane doku bad leisure heels ane do ya vaipatipatia pande boda. So she had attention sick hearing what's happening there. That one is a different reprimand of the satirist. That kind of mentality is very dangerous. First of all babakwa koneo gari enyone tisha another upcoming boy child. Kusina wa ziti ane there's no way atakama let's say if the father is rich. They both started from summer. So na takasahizi ni kuji let's say I bear a car so that I get a wife. As in that it's the back of my priorities say zi priorities any different so first of all and also personally a work boy child to na taftanga independent woman. So that's that atami let's kunda kwa kwa kona ni mtuneza kujen mwa bie base like this ane like this what can you do ane pige boost aivo and that as in I will forever be all at pay ma ni mna penaga wa stanoa kwa ni samba zi e credito oh yes unyang kwa chimi ya kwa zi fongue eh eh eh we know you no no no no don't lie tell the truth it depends no let me let me say this like this case scenario she says you can't date a man without her aka that's her standard I mean you know what you want right I can't just go like falling for anything and everything in a trosa maybe I have my own standards this is what I want in a man you see just the way you want like a lady who cooks and you know plot in anukiya the same way maybe this lady wants aka because ya kuna kuna bolt kuna ni ni you know she can just go on and take a like a cab so maybe this is her standard the way you will say I want an independent lady is the same way maybe independence to this case scenario means aka you know for example you see the fact that ode mama je kia standard the relationship to aka because that means first of all she is into materialistic things as in ya ni she loves material things okay okay okay that sounds very nice but wewa uta hujo senuna penda brown skin utaki melanin yes doesn't that make you shallow too yep but now you see as I said they are woke up which are when you nangalia ya ni first of all appearance is presentation and presentation is key so pia siya ti wukai tundu just because you think she is smart as in always jipolo piya situna penda kama waka kifanya tuvitu waka kimaki so you are going your marashi to this as in ya ni you want that only presentation but now after presentation you have to go deeper the fact that she says she wants aka only to let's say she can get a guy who has aka yes but now the guy turns out to be toxic violent because she only thought about what the guy ya ni una gari swaha and even when that car maybe kikua damaged ama maybe ichikuliwe maybe because the guy had taken a loan just to buy a car to approach don't even say that you are not sure ni how atu amu she come and carry you abeja amu they are so disrespectful when they throw your things out if you get them out kumu moja tiki na baka livunja ni ni so to me kumu ok this is side notch to me kumu kwa jam and then you see someone infact I first was a thief I'm like this thief is just so arrogant alo gans just trying to rob someone he brought the lights ya ni kumpen ni o kusunia mazeali mazeali abeja ni mazeali abeja ni ya ok gans mazeali abeja ni mazeali abeja ni mazeali abeja ni gari kuhu please someone no you see fao dem sa akshia sema shi wan sa kandio as in ya ni akuweivo na me let's say when I go get a car my main papers ita kwa I go get a car and then I just ni malizana after mazana nabisha gari on to the next one ya ni wa lotu na takagari I'll make sure what round me maliza and then I look for let's say I look for one who can settle with Apostitutapungu za matutongez agole mam not too sure which one to see me here yeah I'll take it for maji let's go to the next side mataka if I can start with you so there's a scenario of a girl she constantly cries wolf today oh mtom me mwibia pas oh kidok doko jana mtom me mwibia laptop and only finds them a few days later and honest truth this is something I've seen first hand na at first ni kwa na shanga ok ni ni imba na wudem like ni ni ni like must you fake something aki kaivi anona manome maybe some again mkuwa wili vi uh kikaivi wimona ay man say he's paid her too much attention so suddenly unamvote he said man say ni maybe wa laptop kidok doko ni maybe wa e sji kidok doko that is a sickness mi kwa ngu na nani kwa that is being insane that is just seeking unnecessary attention but she mwibia ni wuia me iba na kwa iya me iba like for real if it's true me iba ok but sometimes I think they do it kus wanogopak wombachalido indirectly like maybe anana ni aki mumbia aki my laptop has been stolen maybe he'll be like don't worry I got you how much is it or something like that I think it's a way of manipulating men ya na mnapenda hi kazi because I hear you guys saying girls like to be lied to but I think you like being manipulated beri you really do ni ma kwa togit for that angle actually ata miskwan me fkire meaning ya ni because she knows ya ni let's say a person like me aki kuja ni umbe pesat direkt ni nila mumbia shida andika budget faks me the budget faks bros but now nila aki kuja na iyo ati faks kus bila the faks baxi ya nila jii azi ni aadi nila kuja nasida a lapro play say she has a zin kashida ni kiskeivo zin stu liza a lot of kwaisho alafom kukutu macho alafom kukutu macho sa kunza kshat womacho ni nila ari kwaisha ari kwaisho womabia you see now but that's a form of also the way she said manipulating and now once a guy discovers that you've been doing this to him na penda atam kujuhu wom na penda no but it will happen it makes you think that this one is dependent on me without me she's kind of nothing so I think you like still in as much as you're saying like when you na penda independent but you na takam say where takam aki babe aki wo yeni sa idea ya so you enjoy it I think because that way you also get now you also get our attention I think it's both ways oh ten ni matation zinka zinka ya ni iti na kwangayi wom just because as in ya ni once I've done let's say scratch my back I scratch your back simple as that as in ya ni I have met two kinds of people I don't know if there are more but I've met two kinds of people the first kind I don't even know to explain it like to say me empowerment get girl child in amstua like anogopa aki on na too you can do something without him hapendi in fact at end asu sa kwenye manam na amnam liliya oh I don't have this I don't have this and the second kind of person that I've been recently introduced to shout out is the one haizi stand de manashina na kumpleni na kumpleni ni ni get up and do something can't you don't you have the ability and that it's such a turn on oh my gosh at 25 for Facebook at 25 for channel Twitter hashtag is white in the morning so where these two people coming from is it the upbringing fenyome lelewa amani ni ni apu what's the difference between these two people I think it's the influence the people you involve yourself with what you do where you get yourself at because like he said sometime unezaku mezelewa ina pastas how's your pastas kit but the things you do have no pasta name in it because all the piki I know in my life oh my god so you think it's all about influence yeah how do you feel about it I think I agree with her for the most part especially me see like most of these like negative influence so to speak comes especially in yuni when you have your like girlfriend or like your Rumi now she's been taken on this posh dates with these men then you are there I'm a demon with your skumawiki you know the thainalya yes you know your 15 bob meal yeah no and then she she comes and tells you this is what I tell him like I sent him a good night text in the morning and then I told him oh my phone kumia like my phone in a hang evo was there now yes and then kidogo you know he's bought you a new another phone or more oh my god so now you like oh maybe this works maybe I can do this and then kidogo kidogo mezo yeah also now they are sending good morning text in the evening telling them how like your phone in a hang do you feel like kumia to restart restart no wakwa lakwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa everything in an african household in baka itapu when doing kwa kwa kwa ata remote pa pa pa ata TV yes umai goma to subtype away ok let's get to the mother one she struggles to have on the trendiest clothes and the so here to prove a point and I say quote unquote point and then she expects you to maintain her lifestyle but ita mekwa na kipo mwa she struggles to have the trendiest clothes and hair to prove a point and then she expects you to maintain her lifestyle first of all we that's a that's a girl who's let's say she has no straight purpose in life as in any if you're struggling to maintain your but you don't say that because juzi li kwa kwa news kuna mtu ha li kwa metokariza na liyenda akaiba akaiba na kashikwa li kwa nenda kweba we've three week I don't even know aka shikwa now the magistrate was a female she was a lady a kumurumi asana okay guys to changeni tu taw taw taw taw kwenam tu a tasi kumbaya kumtoa jela sayi seme shikwa manzei it became serious eh januele asin yani you see now let's first of all let me let me say my point as in yani ita kams yani as in yani that's I think it's a mental disorder as in yani you want that lifestyle so bad it's just that you put your freedom at risk just to achieve it as in yani most seme yani stick to your lane because there are different lanes and now you find some other people who are born on silver platter sasa una kibiza na namutu asin yani kujaka patama milioni as in yani once you get comfortable in your lane aposanduna zaku jijenga you go to another lane and that's why you find let's say a girl like that is very desperate naki patasa sponsor mo yana spuel vizuri as in yani arokuwa na kuhawa anai tika if the sponsor says this anything yani as in yani the chi killer situation nami jieka she's too vulnerable ju as in yani ame ona sponsor mo nani yani yani yani she's too desperate so niki shampia 2 yapa I can ask for her anything and there are some stories I read about our socialites the things they go to do in Dubai so that they get that money as in kwa namutu amenda a vacation in Dubai but in between there are people they go meet and now there are things they go do as in yani my rituals what they do wa niki ne you just go research that again you saw my but it's cold we said prepare to sell saad vajran kiki to it's gold gold aid shower oh you just go research that so as in yani the chi was going through that just for some money as in yani auna self respect as in yani you just start to learn you're just an object to someone I used to think that maybe these people don't have they don't a jeshim but nani alitu funza pu jeshim no one has sat down and told us this is how you should respect yourself this is how you should love yourself but I can honestly I can tell you I understand the pressure of maliumetoka mibili kwa kukid amatu uli kwa tumali like you were fitting in you weren't at the outstanding and then uhame when they placing yine were now endom shamba what would you do and you have to prove that what would you do used to being the kukid eh now you're below the bar ntambia nini wa atu but then I think that you should always be contended as in with what you have utapatamu ntu ame kopa okash tala branch just to buy wigya 25,000 you haven't paid your rent you haven't paid your bills like why don't you just be contended kumonezatu shuka like simple braids and just look cool than just spending too much that you're struggling just to prove a point to people and then the worst part is now you've struggled that and then you want now boy child and maintain your lifestyle see, many pattern kika yes kwa kwa kwa deini, I mean a kwa chekwa yas, I maintain your deini see, now kari buka gema kofi I can see I can see kwa 100% kwa kwa alright, so we have another kwa scenario she hangs around establishments she hangs around establishments where rich guys frequent looking for financial plan instead of looking for a job again, she hangs around establishments these are really cool they're locations for the rich and for the very rich and there are ways to get over it's a club so we'll go back to that can I turn on the location on insta which is where you are kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa and there are people that will show me yes yes, I know yes, yes I know for hours and hours and then in all days let's say people do a lot for clout you can see a personal experience coconut h考ana na kutsikus чтобыi certombMon 진짜 qudisha hito roba ema wale wale kinima cosa niwa balgunia wale guides yuk collectively zanko andar tisha hipata nama tap같u na na wa We had homes, food, water, and then Gognu went to somewhere But here... sow Ель Where where? Manisha aziniyani does not know what this means In fact I do not understand the facebook he uses me as a naughty object Now if you have a girlfriend you can't speak our language But no one will know No, we don't want to get out of there. We want to get out of there and remove it from our bag. Social media is very dangerous. Fitness is unique. We should not waste it. In fact, in this region, there are no images. I feel like you have been visiting people from the whole region. No, images from the region are not enough for me. Respect. I don't know who takes his pictures, but I'll call the location. I don't know who takes his pictures, but I'll call the location. I don't know who takes his pictures, but I'll call the location. kwa maa kwa na pak Harper Keat 2 ya feg, iswon sayo na fuli za fuli za pakawsi kunse How would you prefer that they express themselves?" Like, what would you want as a boy-child in those days to kewani, ah, kwa data maa nani pii mami sen? No, let's say, for me, kwa maa nani azini za chika's hals old really hard, yu apenas pate Igio. Ii kwa saa, but now you see nawa dizia ni the internet has everyone's background information so azini nani, aduki pwrspicha iwi leo if I want to get your background story. kolik fiber ni' kikata köpe si200 Duim niki kacta Makka yaa Dodle sectors Was ana. Kutika ni'wa pari un dignity na wat requires katapak na. If we go to Western countries, South Africa, Tula and other countries, use it for training And we see the future there We are not so sure What a sad story I'm sure it's one of the most sad stories Me feel like there's some truth in it Yeah, it's a sad story The videos they made were not the ones we can zoom in I feel some time away Alright, so we will get to the next site But before that, at Y2-5 on Facebook At Y2-5 for the channel on Twitter Hashtag is wide in the morning Okay, she will set up, lie about and defame any female who thinks, who she thinks is getting more attention. Again, she will set up, lie about and defame any female who she thinks is getting more attention. Have you never met these people? I am jealous. That has been immature and childish. But wait, apu vitu nimbili umesema jelas umesema, tuwanzana jelas. Are we not all jealous mommy? You want to tell me right now if Monday ma, aguze 2 mtu 2, ata ili kwa 2 salamo. But ye ndo kuguze evo, banana aguza munkine, you don't feel like that? The worst thing is, yun ili jelas ya relationships and ma stuff. But san asema ili jelas nesia like, maybe I'm making it, yun know, maybe nimi pata job or my life is just moving smooth. And now you're feeling bad because, why is she doing better than me? Now that's bad, that's being jealous. Like you should be happy about tope uchai. Do it craft. Like what, in the final stage sasaya kukua wich. Ana graduate. Ana graduate. Ana tokua huku kwa small time. I mean a big time sasaya. He also said he had education. Why? But I'd like to think that, oh I hear a lot of the time that we are our own worst enemies. Like ma dem wa atu. Why do you think that so as a guy? Who know naji you say di ako? No, personally, I don't know why women are like that. To me, she just, for example, if a bro of mine makes it, I'll be very happy for them. Congratulation. But I never get turned up illa congratulations. But now when you come to girls, I don't know whether you are a girl or a girl, you are a fellow female. I agree. I agree. For example, I think that this work can be a bit competitive. So maybe I should give it a try. I made it with Ms. Jhajita. Hey, you know what, I'm a skimbo and a violinist. Yo, instead of working hard like the way I'm working hard. But I don't know what I'm doing and I don't know what I'm doing. Me here, I'm out here celebrating Vivian Dego because she's just made another step in her career. Look at me being proud. I have feelings, guys. It's not nice. It's not nice. Mimbo na niske bizuri utuangu kama Vivian na fanya. In fact, yo tuna celebrate. Tuna make sure tuna, tuna end up chafuwa it down because of that. Why is it someone else an end up piga piga kelele apuwa aera jifanya jifanya atiyo I'm hard? I think yo ni tabia ya, like one, tulisha sama witches, two lazy people. Like when you are lazy is when you want to be making moves and then you'll be there feeling bad for others that are making it. Why? Like how about just be happy for them and then sit back, get back and concentrate on your life. If you're in business, look at ways to enrich yourself with more business ideas. Take yourself to school, learn new things or go to this friend of yours that is doing it big and ask her, hey Val, how did you do it? I mean, yo na zima, yo na zima ikuwe wevo. And also you, when you're approached, how did you climb this ladder? You also be forthcoming because there are some who have already made it, but mitu a kuwambi, a mata a kuwambi. You just tell them nisa idea nambia ulym say mwenye aliku. You know how mwenye aliku connect na e, this shida, it's an issue. That's why for me right now, it's easier for me to contact guys and ask them for help as opposed to a lady that mwenye ame make it more than even the dudes that I'm contacting. Because yo wevo umse, in as much as I'm happy for the one that has made it, but kinda na feel one threatened by me maybe in a way or two, as in na mwenye aliku, nikimsa idea alafu, like mimi, like my light will not shine anymore. No, just by blowing someone else's candle, that is make you as like burn more, yeah. And also many is let's say an advice to the ladies as we do. Ani even Alvido said, and you see it starts from kido. Abana tuna skia, okikati wa kubalu katik, katik, asin ani have a positive heart. Na piya wewa, okisidi wa piya se gia wengine. No man, man, no man. No, he's turning him over. You see now, jui asin ani una se madem ni rungumi, just kwa kareya, na piya wewa kwa ground una ringewa, na umifu baia sa ame. It has to start somewhere. Just start with sofa. Yeah, it is. I mean, that was standard. Jo ni mewa skia ki se maata de ma kijileta tu ati. Ata uta kii. Kama we connect kibos to de. Uta kata, mbonana nipe atu evo. Why is it so easy? It depends. Yes. But for us ladies when we are helping each other, akuna tia kwa ze apili. Let's kubalu kusahidia ame say on first go. But it is not easy for me. Now you see, asin sa inzudu na bustana, zaza zi apak occupation saawa, lakini kukuigini, it has to be both ways. It has to be both ways. No, no, no. Kiki kwa kubali, na piya wewa kusahidia. Ah, ah, wewa. WhiteFiveFive Facebook at WhiteFiveFive channel Twitter hashtag is white in the morning. I don't know if we have any more slides left, but we are about to wrap this up. I got a couple of messages. Sasa ni many distract, we help each other. Wewa, mani andi kia composition, but it's okay, I am ready. Ati Shida, na like is it pics, but when the real person shows up, na mother go dhaniyo. Instagram mi na tupotezea ma bibi, de no tune from macho. Nukweli. Akin yukweli. Like, oh my god, first of all, Snapchat washes someone's shoes. And then when you meet this person in person, kuna kuna mim, does your mother know your light skinned on Instagram? Does your mother know ati dem handbag na nyuelia over 10k and she's very broke. Fair ni Shida. Ladies should seek self-independence before seeking attention tuned from Buse. Makofi. Okay. Is this not the same as una pata maybe priorities this is not a case of just priorities. See ati sanasa na attention seeking, ma ni attention seeking, what's happening here? Mi na natina, for me, of course there are some men when you are sick attention like on you, in extreme maybe, yene, adue na kutan off. I love you Shailena. Ma nume na nga kuna kutana sema. Aki yuktu mo choka. Get your attention. Apu kwa fahit kwa zamutu ucho. Okay sa simpigane, ma ni simalizane. Kwa ni amu there waiting for you. Yes, that is so wrong. Ati attention seeking tactics zhenoni. Mu up your game. No, no, no. Iwa mademi, niku na dem let's say priorities. Labda priority aken kwa social light na even though it's a wrong priority, badu kyonata hile fultriyania neka. 25k tundu kwa na nyuile na karentu na jwa badu kashoping badu nga that takes a lot of heart here nizu zizi nuna sebatu. No, they go eating in people's places, they don't even care about what they want. They don't even live in their own places. Desat mimu kasa buni kado gati desa lady sa amu ano ganae na nga kutisa kakala. Sa buni asa, nga nga nga nga liyo finger nga like what you say was Zuri. And also the makeup thing, the makeup thing, you want to talk to Matiyan to mami ebede. Nowadays, to them, kwa passport photo, gila makeup, gila kila kiki. We want to know the real you kwa. No, see waga ni aidi, nga ii na aidi, nga wata waga de reimbasoi. Nga hoga kwa, demkama mua ka ezi, maa siding dota kupia. Una mami e fini kia mua kaku, nesheka pichu. Na pisi nga pizuna, nga una pizuna wa ii bura me. Hadi, Siju iikuna iike boltais kwa asa nga kwa asa nga una kwa kwa, nga mani muna advise saka kwa kwa kumisha. Saka kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa. Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa. Buna asi fiyue. Kwa kwa asi fiyue. There is waterproof makeup. So aki jiya na adi e, nga nga nga. Nga kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa. So, tuned in kwakawa. See, wanted to almost quiz it on a post Jaq Daniel's for us to a chack the best, but if you don't do that, you will be on the same class. Okay. kwa pa za uwa remotei? peanuts kwa gia hkility na ijime boy We are not bad friends We are friends of those who are used to... If you are confident enough, I don't need to impress you with drinks If you come to us and then we talk Two of us are the confidence kids We are not good friends But when we engage first impression Like how you present yourself Maybe that first impression for someone else I know na hei, you know what ya, EJD doi, like tuvila mene sema, I to attract like the classy girls So you want a classy girl, maybe you want that independent girl An independent girl kama ya naza jidunia JD, atakunya kufa ya ni kwa kunya So you see now, as in ya ni piya awok boi chalda, una tizagana situation La kuna bethe kuna kwa kuna skuya kunyagi, kuna skuya JD So as in kama liwa ni konyagi, niskuji apani kunya kunyagi aguna mani Just because, okay Kama ni konyagi ni konyagi, kama ni JD didi JD, zini ya ni stick to ya leni ya ni Kuna mimflani ati, how to attract girls without talking to them So boi chalda kutua po na wingman wake, anam nawisha mkono, na nam nawisha na nini Jamie, hanko Jamie ati witu, so kuna katsu girl chalda po Hanko tu Anam na witu po ya Jamie tu Nani ni maaji I like your insight Don't be lied to girls I like your insight Amameva sa quarts Anakwambe it's search to european time Baby hyfan No Sawa I relax Ilafanya tu kazi twice a day Siku nanchana Na you see stance like those attract cheap women as in ya ni wule Sasa skia You do your thing I don't want to put labels on them I just feel like if you don't know you will fall for anything Atami kuna witu nime fall for That now na sama tu kuna gode Kani me tokapo there is a cut Meanwhile at 254 Facebook At 254 Twitter hashtag is one in the morning We want to read a couple of your Facebook Come in to see We have CWM Tapele Mhenga Msomali I know We are option in mojampen Adia tulie Adia tulie Sosa because I am attention sick But you know sound cut down Anan lisa na wanome na pendezi bitu Babra Ben Ben Hello Whitefife for watching live out to Maini center Nyandara County We see Ben Ben Jerry Dennis is watching from Embu County Val say hi to those chicks Ladies Hello So you need to get into formation Thank you Alright So as we continue Remember it's at Y254 on Facebook At Y254 channel on Twitter Hashtag is white in the morning Liam Hespon says having a car Ain't that big of a deal What she is willing to offer in the relationship Other than being on the receiving end So what is she willing to offer Other than being on the receiving end Lakin ikuna ma receive au kunja daddy CWM Tapele again Au na unam fanyagari Kus that's what she needs more DJ kum kujaya wakanda Okay, so Parayawait I see you Interesting such girls are desperate Watching from D Agi A CWM Tapele Wendotrumetuwa amki ya ki We see you Donald Collins says Nick you are loving to most ladies Not all Have a problem They'll never stick to one Saying that in case Moja akini boot she has an option Kwanini hard drive This thing I have experienced in some friends Even my ex who had a sponsor Chini amaji I hated till I stopped dating Ui bebele kuskam baka Wait, talking about sponsors Imagine there are some guys who tell their chicks It's okay You can have a sponsor As long as you pesa Moja to letter to Kule Yes, yes Imagine I will get you that Kwa na ini future plans Taka tuku tumia We will sponsor through you Wanao me on the floor Wanao me wama Mika mawa meskia na wakapubana That's so insane Azini ani it's true Azini ani pesa tatumi A tatumi ya lakini pia mi Niki pata mwingine Let's go Mwenyanaka more promising Very true I know people who eat from Like a couple who are eating now From the sponsor Okay mami umeskia No kumbe ku tojuwanda oshida Please now know how they talk about you Right After sasa usha enda kufresha sponyo Atisa sasa ure Na lete anubu Ya nume haso Na lalapa yuba Na pereke aseba I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you Ahem comes Of course now you two Ya future between you two Life in life Life in life How can you raise Your kids with someone you know You know It's really Okay Generation I remain young Let's go back to our This book I see Ronald Kenyua in a movie Watching From a kid Bimbimi Muwa Kirinaga County Major Max Day What is that Krokuta Hey Daddy, kuna swaga LD locked you, some girls are there to earn from men whereby money is a solution after solving solution after solving someone's problem So, there is a meme Atiyama de manye wu ndaga sujui dubai sujui ko sujui wapi wana fika gaji Like what kind, where do they get their money Mutua kasama klito karansi Hi, hi George Quinton I see you Donald Cullins again, it takes 90 seconds to like or dislike a person Xavier Maestro Mula says no woman is perfect Just choose your witch and manage Just take your demon and pour anointing oil There's no perfect moment Men have discovered a lot of things in dunia I didn't take it as an offer like but now I want it till today Badotu But in agro But in agro So, just pick your words Sayi, 7 minutes later to me change I want you to give me a 30 second wrap up of your opinion of the topic Ya So, bimachua Stop seeking attention from excessive Just know what you want in life And be content as our friend has already said That is like you will be happier that way As opposed to seeking validation from other people Ya So, validate yourself first Ya So Well, for me, advice me as a girl child Do your thing even if you think ya ni ikwenda club, socialite But now when it comes to settling down As in ya ni kilabwa na kujua So kaili kwa na irobi So that ni stretch kwa If it's na kuru, henda mubasa Where, where, where No position Stay mobile ya ni ya If you can manage to be self independent You sponsor your own lifestyle Ya That's even better Ya, ya Ugo piya Ya Ya Ya Ya Ya Ya Ugo piya Asuma wanao zani ati anitanim ja konaduza Sqa ni ni konanduwa Uwa ni Piami ya enzmosa As in kwa zam tu munyakona pesta koyo Tu ne shimi ya no give each other respect So as in ya ni akiyenda It's not like ya ni have putezad ptwe legama kitu koyo Siya kiyenda meishii na songte ikan depend Napiami ni kimuata Siya timi putezam u Abu shikan katafuwa You see now So simple as that, me is self independent Queen To all the queens out there, if you want good, you also have to be good. That's why Jay-Z has Beyonce, not anyone else. So if you want a man who has money, make sure you build yourself first. You know, Beyonce is more than Jay-Z. Imagine. You attract what you are. So you think you want a car yet ataboda boda we monewe hauna? Atabaiki. Wasn't a Jay-Pia. Mazen. I want to touch on something that she said. Something about manipulation. Yes, girls can and do manipulate men. And I feel it comes back in both ways. Men can also manipulate women. Just be careful. Just ask yourself, are you happy? Are you being treated with the respect that you deserve? Do you feel loved? If these three things maze, tatu tatu, are you happy? Are you being respected like genuinely? And do you feel like you're getting the love you deserve? Just ask yourself these three things. Leave. It is toxic. Whether it's your fellow queen, whether it's a king, leave. Okay? It's never that serious. But we still want you to have an amazing day. So catch repeat from 2 p.m. Again at Y25 for our Facebook. At Y25 for our channel on Twitter. Hashtag is fine in the morning. It's been such a pleasure to be your host. We cry. Thank you for your feedback. I do appreciate it every single time. Now we want to wave and wish you a good day. And we'll see you tomorrow. Kusuna DJ Hansam. There's a Hansam DJ guys. For hip hop Thursday. Oh my, sorry. Sorry boy child, sorry. Okay, but nimpoa piyaku goma. So I would enjoy. But I can't. Yeah, we'll see you. Bye.