 Listen, it's the message right here. Black boy, tell me how you really feel. Because I just want to build with you. Black girl, tell me how you really feel. I want to keep it real with you. I want to live better, eat better. I want to love better, sleep better. Yeah, I want to feel so aligned. As part of a conversation, you change. It's like a painting. As you're painting the painting, you're changing it and you're tweaking shit. But that's the beauty of the shit. It's not perfect. But it's art. People are going to say to see this and be like, what the fuck is she talking about? They're going to say a lot of things. They're going to say online. They're going to say... The video that has the most views, it was a friend of mine named Sid. I had comments from, damn, her feet pretty as hell, to cap, to, we need this, to, like, it's all over the place. So that's why I tell people, just be honest. Niggas are going to say what they're going to say. Some people ain't even going to watch the video. They're just going to see a thumbnail and be like, fuck her or whatever she's saying. You know what I'm saying? I don't even know what she's talking about. This and that, her beanie, ugly, shit dusty. Like, so, again, it's, but what we're doing is bigger than all that. So pick it up from where you left off and then... Where did I leave off? That the ideal man, that nigga, his ideal woman. No kids, responsible, on her shit, down to earth, well-rounded, family-oriented, respectful, polite. Okay, perfect. All that good shit. Very part of the question. I suspect if I was to ask a hundred women to describe their ideal dude, they would describe that nigga. Right? I mean, somewhere in the ballpark. Somewhere, probably. Now, the question is, do you think most of the women who would describe that man are his ideal woman? Probably not. Baby, probably the hell not. Probably not because it seemed like, it's like basically like a nigga take you on a date and you ordering all the expensive shit, but it's like, would you get that for yourself if you was going to eat with you and your friends and stuff like that? So we want what we can't have, but like, it go the same for men too. Men want what they can't have either. Like, I remember watching this Kevin Sangu's video and he answered this girl's call and she was like, she wanted this man with all these qualities and stuff, but like, he was like, you're this old. You're average looking in the face. You have three kids by two different men and other, but you want a man that this and that. So it's usually, it usually doesn't go like that. Like, that's why it's so hard for us to like be with who we want because like a man's ideal woman is probably not going to be her ideal man. Like if it was him trying to find, you know, like, do you get what I'm saying? If it was him trying to find her, it wouldn't be, she wouldn't pick him if he was picking her basically. And that's basically what I'm saying. Do you get what I'm saying? I get what you're saying. Because like, that's a good point. If a woman said all these things, would he even choose her? Would, do you hold the qualities of the man that you want with all the qualities that you want him to have? So that's kind of hard. And more than likely it's probably not like. Why do women still think like they deserve that man? It's just like you said, a lot of the women who called Kevin Sangu's show, they feel like they, they qualify for that man. I ain't gonna lie. Like they be tripping. Like if you see the kind of, like I'm just like, I get like why we want the things we want, but like they got to match up to like, like nine times out of 10, that man ain't going to choose you. Cause then if you want a man of like a certain, certain status in life or a certain caliber, like you got to think about how many of the same women want him to, you want a man with all this money who look good and can do all this for you. But you know how many females want him to, and you think he going to choose your average, looking three kid having, you know what I'm saying? Cause he ain't average. So ain't no above average nigga gonna want an average female. But no female thinks they're average. And that's why a lot of times, and that's why Kevin Sam is right viral. Cause that woman, because she made so much money, the average is the best way. She thought she was an average. Right. And they don't have nothing to do with that either, because a millionaire could give a fuck if you make him 300K a year. He don't give a fuck about none of that shit. And she trying to shit on the, I mean make $40,000. Man who made young. Cause she thinks she's better than him. Cause she think, mm-hmm. Yep, right on the head. That's fucked up. Because I don't really feel like that shit. I mean, it does play a role in all that shit, but I don't think it should. Cause like the man you want is probably the 50,000 a year nigga. He just ain't got the type of funds you got. So he's probably everything else you want. So you just gonna be like, fuck him. And like, oh my God, damn. You just gonna be like, fuck him and chew and try to go after the man that's probably not even looking your way if you walk past him. So. All right, so last question. What type of son do you plan to raise? I plan to raise a son who has morals, integrity, stands for something respectful, treats women the way they deserve to be treated. Some women deserve to be treated bad though. I was just about to say something. I was just about to say something like that because it's some females who like really believe that that shit don't stink. And you look, you know, I ain't even trying to be funny, but you look like a bunch of nothing. And you ain't got nothing going on, but you just think you're that bitch. And some females need to be knocked off their house. Sometimes I ain't gonna lie dudes too, but I'm gonna teach my son the difference between those type of females too. Like women deserve respect like wholeheartedly, but I get what you're saying. Some females don't like get that because they don't be respecting they self, but I think I'll do a good job raising a son. Not by myself now, not by myself. I want a family. I want my man in the house, you know, doing his fatherly thing, you know, but I think I'll do a good job because I'm a woman. So I'm always give him that advice on like how to see women, how to be women, how to talk to women, how to think of women, you know what I'm saying? So.