 How to make the narcissist come back despite what some people may say It is actually quite easy To make the narcissist come back and there may be many reasons why you want them to come back Maybe you're seeking their validation Maybe you have some unfinished business with them Maybe they've Taken your money your possessions your children There could be so many reasons why you want them back So I don't think there's any reason to alienate those who are trying to get the narcissist back. I Mean from the reasons I've just mentioned it's perfectly understandable and That is why I have decided to Do this live video for you today To show you But it really isn't that difficult to get them to come back it all starts by Putting yourself in the narcissist shoes Think about what it is that way they want Remember narcissists value superficial things They desire money power connections They want to be around physically attractive people These are the things that narcissists value and While you were with them, they may have drained you of everything your money your strength and You may have let yourself go as many people do when they're with a narcissist They stop taking care of themselves They stop exercising Go into the gym They may turn to alcohol the drugs Poor food choices And none of these things are good for you if you want to be attractive to a narcissist if You want to make them come back So what you need to do is You need to focus on your own life You need to improve yourself Become the best version of yourself Start going to the gym again Do things that you are passionate about Focus on improving your physical appearance Focus on your job your career Making more money Becoming a more successful And yes, I know it may sound shallow But remember these are the things that narcissists value They're very superficial So that's really what you need to do if you want to get them to come back But on top of that And many of you may not want to hear it, but Narcissists want a fool They want someone who is blind Someone who they can put under their spell a Punching bag a Dormat They want to walk all over you. They want you to be submissive like a child So if you want them to come back That is what you have to be That is what you have to do Because if you are not that for them, trust me, they're not gonna come back They will find someone else who will be that for them because there are plenty of people out there Who do not mind being a doormat for the narcissist to walk all over Especially if your narcissist has money or if they're physically attractive there's a lot of fools out there and As we know ourselves we were Once that fool We were once that person that you they used to walk all over But at some point you started to question and confront them you started to call them out and That is Most likely the reason why they left because you caught on to them or Because they drained you of everything they have of everything you have and they no longer had any use for you Now that's why I want you to focus on those two things if you do want to get them back You need to be what they want you to be be their doormat be their fool and you need to Recover everything that you lost with them you need to Become healthier and stronger again focus on your physical appearance Become more attractive Become wealthier or powerful Because these are the things that narcissists value so it's really Not that difficult to make the narcissist come back if you know what it is that they want And as I said It's perfectly understandable why some people would want the narcissist to come back, so There's no reason to alienate alienate those people remember we are all at different stages of the healing process and Maybe you're not there now, but you were there at some point where you decided for them to come back When you seek their validation, so let's not alien alienate those people let's empathize with them understand the reasons why they want the narcissist to come back and Yeah, I mean, you know when you When you really explain it Like what it is that narcissists want and how you have to be for them I think a lot of people are gonna watch this and not even desire for them to come back anymore. Anyway Some people don't want to be the narcissist Some people don't want to be their fool But that is what you have to be if you want to keep them around That's my message for today. I hope it resonated and if it did, please give this video a thumbs up down below So that we can spread the awareness of this And please share this video as well with anyone who you believe it may help Just out here at this beach No sound on this one. We've got pebbles That's a beautiful view The sun is shining I'm just out here doing what I do Living my best life You know how I do As always, thank you all for joining me And I look forward to talking with you in another one very soon