 Ladies and gentlemen one second real quick get this whole Camel right Can you hear me? Let me make sure Y'all can hear me. Let me know if you could hear me Want to pop in? Okay. Okay. Thank you. You know, nobody else ain't got say yes I don't want to see 95. Yes. It's not okay. Okay. I got you. I got you I I want to Sunday couldn't do the Q&A and I told y'all members of the blessed tribe That I was gonna try to do a Q&A every week. I know some of y'all email in since your question in but You know, they get kind of long and I don't know if On the podcast I would read the whole question and then answer it Haven't done the podcast just been focusing on YouTube And so I don't know if y'all want me to read the whole question in a video and answer it so I haven't really gotten to him but For those of you who were sending in questions and I didn't get to you That's why I try to do these. I don't know if I will be able to do one on Sunday because I'll be out of town For those of you who Are in Atlanta and want to become a life coach. I'm doing a training this Saturday in Atlanta for life coach certification So some of you already signed up. Let's see what this button does So if you have any questions anything that's been pressing on your heart if you didn't get to see my video I posted this earlier today, I was running a little late, but About becoming love. It's another long one. I've been trying to keep them short, but It just ain't working Mona, thank you so much for your question. Thank you for being a member for the new members Sash Thank you. Who else if you want to become a member that Cali girl. Thank you so much Um Sade Sade Sade if you want to become a member of the blessed tribe the link is in the description of the video and Basically, it just allows you to be able to post questions when we do the Q&A's and it also just you Supporting the channel so that I'm able to keep showing up here every day posting videos to the best of my ability Mona said what do you do when you're waiting on God? You're speaking his word and keeping the faith, but I'm getting kind of weary. What can I do to keep the faith? You didn't say the faith for what and what is pertaining to being that we talking about relationships Maybe you talking about the faith for love, but what you have to realize is that It's natural is very normal and Natural for your mind to waver for you to kind of go into a moment, but what you have to do is sit down Irvil thank you so much. God bless you what you got to do is sit down and write out some some trigger words like some a Slogan or a statement whatever it may be like everything's gonna be okay, or I know it's coming I know people used to say when I was growing up in the church They'll say money's coming money coming money's coming, you know, and so I'm a money magnet I'm a money magnet. So come up with those things faith for my purpose my career. I'm a single mom of three Kids and I want to provide for them Okay, and now in your case It's more so than faith. This is work Amanda. Thank you. So faith without work is dead So the question is You want something to come of your purpose? What have you done? Towards your purpose like what are you? Working on what have you taken and invested in yourself? I have a course called entrepreneurship with purpose and it's specifically about I could be a course that I Created because I was on a job working for somebody else And I went from working for somebody else to working for myself And I took and I put that in a course and so things like that of now It's not just about faith and just sitting there and waiting now It's about doing the work now you got to get up and say let me go to this seminar Let me go to this life coaching certification. Let me add that as a stream of income Let me join the life coaching directory so that I could be introduced to clients that I wouldn't have otherwise met Let me invest in myself to do something and that's the number one thing for everybody that have a question like that The number one thing that I learned Tonya. Thank you Stacey D. Thank you 1891. Thank you. The number one thing that I learned was self investment I told y'all story on one of the videos about how I went to a seminar It just popped up and it cost three hundred dollars and I went in the negative and then I took and The man sold a course. The course was a thousand dollars. I went in the negative nine hundred and five dollars And I say you know what I got to make something happen And so you have to just you're gonna have to take action. I See what you're saying I'm on a master's degree. I want to work with sexual abuse children because I was sexual abuse as a child myself So this what you do a hundred and fifty dollars you go on your state business site a hundred and fifty dollars You start your non-profit you start your non-profit next thing you do you taking you write out your program What's the program called healing? You go to the local schools you go to the guidance counselors go to the elf rated schools and say look I got a program for I want to help children who have been sexually abused if anything comes across your desk Let me know you go to the boys club the girls club you tell them the same thing you go to the library You tell them the same thing. So now they taking they see they're gonna give you a call You get the call they say listen this young lady was sexual abuse her father's in prison now The mom wants some help. So now you every Third Saturday you at the library for free in their room and you meeting with three different youth and y'all doing work Y'all working on things you got a plan. You got a program next thing, you know one day as an attorney He coming into the library And he need to go in the room the print something he go in the room and The librarian tell him hey, it's a lady in there. She's working with the youth So can't go in there right now. He's like, oh really? What are they doing? Say, well, it's for sexual abuse victims This young lady she started a program to help those who've been sexually abused He said what really are you serious? Wow? I need to meet her because I want to help her out Next thing you know he come in and He talked to you and he said look I want to give you a check for $10,000 to help you with your program That's what I mean by faith With works and that's what happened for me. I just I wanted a change. So what I started doing is I just started taking action and I started tweeting every day. Then I started Facebooking every day, then I started instagramming every day Then I started youtube and the next thing, you know, it just built it cost me zero dollars I just had to show up and talk about my purpose my passion and just serve I had to show up you could start a youtube channel and make videos And the next thing, you know, it just happened Hey, bless tribe all the new members y'all welcome the new members when they come in and send them a message You see their name welcome. Thank y'all so much. I was Kiana Felicia Sam Thank you, boss lady pebbles. God bless you tushika. God bless you. Now. I'm trying to scroll up. Look first one Owens the gamer. Thank you. Bless you. Lisa bet you Um, somebody said jayce. Hey, I'm glad you're investing in yourself. Toya I am authentic bless you Takesha God bless you Tony has your coaching schedule open back up. I know last year you had said you were booked through january You know what? Some people had to move their session out of january into february. So Some did open up. You just have to email support at tonygaskins.com For a session. Uh, what happened is I had to raise my rate this year in 2020 just because You know of the amount of emails I was getting it just was kind of getting overwhelming miss monica. Bless you Josie bless you and professor told me this a couple months ago. I enrolled in school Hey, that's good Sharon, I've been dealing with this guy for seven months. He said he has love for me And I mean a lot to him. He's saying we are going with the flow SMH I love him trying my best to walk away So you love him seven months. You love him Sharon It's been seven months. Okay. You love you love heart You love quick. You love fast. It's been seven months That's a woman's heart for you It take a man probably two years before he start to love He tell you he's going with the flow. Now. Let me ask you this. Let me tell you this Let's say you get in an uber Okay, let's say you get in the uber and You on the uber and You look up to the driver And he got a blind and he got a blindfold on You know the little sleep mask you sleep with he got that on And he driving you how fast you getting out that car He going with the flow He just got a gas. He just got the car on cruise control You know Asia bless you. He's just going with the flow So you have to think Are you gonna jump out that car because he's going with the flow Let's say the the flow in another way Let's say he don't have on the blindfold, but let's say traffic going a hundred miles an hour And he going with the flow so he driving a hundred and five miles an hour You don't know this man this woman You don't know how they drive how many wrecks they got and you in the back seat How fast you're gonna say hey, hold on stop what you're doing pull over. Let me up out of here That's what happened when you dating somebody who's going with the flow. He's gonna flow you right into a pregnancy out of wedlock He's gonna flow you right into an eviction apartment He's gonna flow you right into Some some drama with another woman calling your phone. He's gonna flow you right into some mess You have to date with intention and it has to be purposeful If the person you're dealing with don't know who they are where they're going and what they want You need to flow right on out their life. You cannot be dealing with somebody who's going with a flow Tony I paid money to help me do a business plan, but I still don't have one What can I do? That's a tough one when you're paying people and and they ain't doing what they're supposed to do One one of the number one things you could do is is have a consultancy When it comes to business, I'm an entrepreneur. I've been an entrepreneur since 27 So anything y'all need business wise building your brand just email in You even if you do one session, I'll tell you everything you need to do set you up Get you in the right position where you can not waste all these thousands of dollars or hundreds of dollars and Be on the streamline Because I had to get out here and find it for myself. I use a lot of these freelance I use freelancing sites get stuff done for I'm getting the outbuilt right now for 800 dollars But I asked somebody I'm trying to tell you now, but I don't talk to people for the same out They want 8 000 and all this kind of money. I went on Freelancing site got a guy building 800 dollars looking good And it might not do everything, but at least it'll be a start for me So the number one thing you could do is talk to somebody who has done what you're trying to do And if it's entrepreneurship with purpose, I done done that and the link is in the description to tony gaschens academy Everything there's one thing about me everything I've learned. I put it in a course So if you didn't know that Before now, you know tony gaschens academy everything I got over 50 streams of income everything I learned. I put it in a course to help somebody else Mona you can accomplish this read that from sarah now, mona maryland. Thank you. Bless you sarahs bless you boled Tanya, thank you I'm looking for another question. Hey when y'all see me stop talking y'all post a question then How do you move on after 25 year relationship divorce? You know, it's one thing I want you to understand about that there about their divorce Is when it's been 25 years You have to realize that that's so tired right there is Going to last probably for the rest of your life When you've given that much time that much energy that much effort that may last for the rest of your life Y'all y'all give me one second real quick Let me put this I'm back. I'm back. Sorry about that. I need to put my phone but my mom and dad was married 20 25 years and You know Still healing my mom's still healing and so you have to realize one thing about love is that Trying to love is a gamble and so When you gamble on love, you got to be willing to lose your shirt And one of the repercussions of love is that our heart may be damaged We may have a scar for the rest of our life Not everything will be completely Healable not everything will we be able to bounce back completely especially when you gave that much time So you got to understand that and then you know You have to stay in prayer. You got to be working on yourself getting new knowledge You got to create a schedule coach Rob. Bless you I want to keep a line God to use never cut your video short. I join Hey, thank you coach appreciate that So do everything you would do for a one-year relationship a five-year relationship And then just keep going keep building on it The good thing about it is is you actually experience love in its fullness I mean the relationship not love in its fullness, but you experience a full relationship So you could walk away knowing that you did everything you can do I'll hold on now. Let me try to get back Up here to the question Also later. I miss your question Know about the your favorite rapper about the dream chaser. All the other things is in course form Erica, thank you so much. Bless you Thank you to all the new members Do an event in Dallas. I don't know about that. I really don't know if I'm doing any events this year I'm kind of trying to see I'm doing the life coach certification, you know, because We just we're launching the Directory for coaches to help coaches get clients. So I'm gonna be training coaches, but I don't know how many love events Oh in the for those you near Orlando, Florida, it's a self-love event that I'm speaking at. It's not my event I'm speaking at it. February 23rd. I put the link in the description of this video So they negative co-workers filled with drama and I'm trying to become love. What do I do? I've just started distancing myself from the co-worker and being strictly business as usual. Am I wrong? No, you're doing absolutely right You're doing absolutely right Talking about self-love. I'm in the process of trying to improve that after having a breakup with my child's father Now when y'all go through when you go through a breakup What you got to realize is that You're going to have to In any form of self-love and trying to heal you're going to have to create a day schedule And you're going to have to give your life direction So you're going to have to literally create a schedule that you're reading your bible or something from 5 a.m The 6 a.m that you're working out from 4 30 to 5 Even it's just walking around the neighborhood That you're reading that night from 9 30 to 10 Or you're doing something like this that you watch a video on your lunch break or listen to a podcast You got to create a growth schedule And make sure that you're putting the things that's going to add to your life and move your life forward on your schedule So write it out Every single day and look at it and read it until it gets in your spirit Because what happened is it's never a lack of time only a lack of direction In the words of zig ziggler. So what we do wrong is we say, oh, I want to heal Oh, I want to heal but we still listening to hurt people music We're still watching drama for shows that is not helping us move forward. We're still on the phone gossiping We're not doing any more work. We we don't have a workout routine. We don't have a sleep routine We don't have a meditation or focus routine And so you're saying when am I going to heal? When am I going to get better? When am I going to feel better? But you don't have a plan for it You don't have something that's put in place because you've got to give your day structure You got to give your day's order and if you do that and you do things in order What's going to happen is when you say i'm going to work out 30 minutes a day Even if it's doing squats in my house If you say i'm going to do i'm going to walk around the neighborhood for 30 Minutes a day. Guess what? My legs going to start to get firm The weight going to start to shed Yeah, confidence going to start to go up When you say i'm going to read for an hour a day even if it's 20 minutes 20 minutes 20 minutes Or if it's 30 and 30 or if it's one straight hour Your confidence going to go up your vocabulary going to go up your Your conversation is going to elevate All of this stuff is going to change because you've given yourself Direction and you're feeding yourself and it's on your checklist so that every day you're looking did I read Did I work out did I pray did I talk to love ones did I talk to friends did I do this did I do that So when you go through there, guess what? It's gonna every single day. I guarantee you you won't feel the way you feel on day seven You won't feel that way on day 70 Hey, I missed some of y'all question because y'all it was posted while I was talking Caramel kisses and gave up my cash out Look look at god bless you I'd be praying over them over them though. They somebody the day sent me $20. I so wish I could remember your name, but Hey, bless you. I saw that I was on the phone call and I heard that cash up say And I say Lord bless this woman The bless her pull out on her I don't know why she did it, but It it means something to me you ever heard y'all here to say in the thought that counts stacia Please read my email. I sure will be looking for stacia. I'm trying Peace I'm really trying to peace this inner anger that I believe stands for my child. I'm not sure People go like the video 580 and only 14 likes Hey She say hit the like button on the video tonic And you recap on the spirits our bodies connect with when we have sex outside of marriage Latanya Josie the link for Orlando is in the description of this Tonya I probably I'm not sure what you mean by recap because I think that video was an hour long So I don't know what kind of recap you want on top of that hour You might need to watch that video about three times though But essentially what I want you to understand is that Any person you lie down with you getting up with a piece of them So if they got a demon in them you getting up with a piece of that demon in you What I mean by that if they build up they nasty if they rule Any of that you you Take that on in your spirit in your body you be like who you be around That's what my mom and dad should always tell me you'll be like who you be around And so when you lie down with them you connect them bodies you connect the spirits not just bodies So it's not just against god It's against your own body and you literally taking that on and what's happening is Is that spirit that you them just connected with just that energy just that aura just that feeling It could be rejected in the pure spirits because you start to stink Because you start to look like and and feel like the people that you've lied down with And so it can be rejecting a pure spirit It's certain people that I meet that they stay so far away from me I've never done anything to them never said anything bad about them But they just won't talk to them and they just disted they just kind of and that's when I understand the spirits or energies Because my spirit is pure if a person's spirit is evil or crooked or vindictive or whatever My spirit make them feel weird. I'll tell y'all a story About these spirits. It was a man one time Yeah, I was shooting the documentary and it was a young man. I was shooting this on love And I met this young man and he was you know, he was a celebrity and he had been on television and had major You know hits, you know hit music and things like that um and I met him and He he shook my hand and he said man. Listen, I done been around the top stars in the world And I've never been nervous. I've never been nervous in front of somebody as I'm as nervous as I am in front of you Probably three four five years later come out he was Beating and choking his girlfriend the mother of his child be known a dog and I disrespect And when I saw that I said wow That's why his spirit Felt the way it felt when we met Because of where my spirit was versus where his spirit was It was like in the bible when you know When jesus show up and he cast them demons out or somebody pray and them spirit taking Menominal spirits came out the man and went into the pigs and ran the pigs off the side of the cliff That's how it is with them spirits. So imagine if that's how it is with spirits And you like down with somebody with that spirit And so that that right there where it get real Okay, boleg I see you trying to deal with the inner anger Hey, don't don't don't be afraid of therapy and if you do therapy and you do three to four sessions and you're not feeling it Then go to coaching and try coaching But really to be honest with you inside of every problem hear me when I tell you this inside of every problem There are seeds to the solution So what I mean by this is when you're feeling a certain problem and you go and you talk about it When you start to talk about it, you will start to uncover You'll start to uncover the answers a lot of times i'm on the phone with I'm on the phone with my clients and i'm just listening I may ask one question and my client may talk 45 minutes And i'm just listening and in that 45 minutes he or she answers all their questions And I just confirm I just confirm and I may just share something in addition that they can think about and just being a guide and so Lord somebody new to the channel Why pain? What do you think about tarot reading? for one, I don't know what tarot is, but If I thank you talking about a card I thank you talking about a card needs kermak approved on so I sometimes I'm gonna have to be googling on y'all For one, I don't know what a tarot is, but I think I've heard about a tarot and I think it's a card reading Okay, karma a kid says witchcraft that right there somebody says pertaining to astrology Listen to me. I'm gonna tell you right this right up Me myself personally Cheyenne bless you. I don't believe in any kind of readings any kind of predictions any kind of anything because The people that's doing it they challenge in spirits The good book tell you stay away from them astrologers. They're away from them psychics Stay away from all that because they trying to play god And god don't tell you what your future is He tell you what your faith need to be and that he'll give you the desires of your heart So when you going you getting all these readings and all these horoscopes and everything I tell people about that people ask me what is your sign the sign of god A child of god That's what my sign is because my sign probably lying on me So don't judge me by what a man or a woman that sat down and wrote based on these stars Because I'm a child of god and I'm who he says I am So it I don't care if it say I'm angry. I don't care if it say I'm bitter I don't care if it say I'm jealous. I don't care what that sign say based on what that man or woman wrote I'm renewed. I'm healthy. I'm whole. I'm healed. I'm blessing. I'm highly favored So I don't read none of that stuff I won't let nobody tell me because see what happened the way the mind works is When you go to reading them horoscopes and you go to getting the tarot reading you go to talk that psychic anything that your mind hears anything that your mind hears if your subconscious hears that And you don't reject it your mind will move towards it Because your subconscious cannot decipher between fact or fiction So when you read something you internalize that and you could read A horoscope or get a tarot or talk to whoever you could talk to somebody and they say, you know Something bad gonna happen to you this month and nothing was meant to happen to you But because you heard that you hitting on breaks too early you hitting on breaks too late You're going through the light too fast. You're going too slow next thing, you know Somebody doesn't t-bone you somebody to hit you in the back You get in three four X because Your mind said something bad is going to happen And so that's why I don't deal with none of that. I say who does God say I am Who does what does God say I'm capable of and that's all I'm trying to heal Nothing else Brittany should I care about what my new boyfriend post on Facebook? Yes, because what a person posts on Facebook? that Also represents who they are you can see where a person mind is at Based on what they post and let me touch on this. Oh, let me get the Cheyenne So yes that Facebook matter, but let me get Cheyenne questions. I'm sorry about that Cheyenne. Thank you for the blessing Um, let me tell you something about that social media y'all remind about that social media Let me open this here document some of this stuff. I need to remind myself of But This social media it means a lot. I'm gonna write it down, but I'm gonna get the Cheyenne first My son compares himself to others and cries and breaks down when he feels things aren't fair to him How do I help him feel centered and secure? What you have to do is you got to speak life into your son Y'all gonna think i'm crazy y'all gonna think i'm crazy, but I got a course on tonigasenacademy.com I hate to tell y'all that any question you want to ask me I really got a course on tonigasenacademy.com But I got a course talking about raising young boys Let me tell you something about my son my son he 12 you going on 13 And I tell you the boy don't care about nothing nobody say He don't care about having friends. He don't care about hanging out if he cool with you He cool with you, but if you want to go do this you want to go do that and you want to act a fool He said, all right. I'm gonna let you just like that. I hear him tell his friends stuff I see him show it to him He ain't trying to hang now my son got every kind of shoe you could have my son got a gold necklace like me Got a diamond pendant on there My son got $2,500 on his neck. He in the seventh grade a call it what you call it He a young king. So I dress him like king. He got the Yeezus. He got everything. He got Do-Cheng-a-monashu He he got uh, he got the apple watch. He got the iphone But you know what he also got he got straight a's with no a minuses He got straight a's with no a minuses He the only one that looked like him to do that and he's really one of about five or six Kids in his grade. So I don't just spoil him I don't just give him this stuff. He earned him He got straight a's with no a minus his lowest grade on his first report card They didn't give him the second yet was a 97 He was out of 70 plus kids in his grade He was one of five or six to have straight a's no a minuses But let me tell you what what me and my wife do We speak life into him every day We speak life into him when i'm driving my son to practice and we keep him busy So my son did chess club. He did karate. He did basketball. He did football He played soccer travel soccer. We took him, you know, we we keep him busy We invest that money and send the county to the negative do what we got to do to expo He did robotics club. He did coding learning how to code We invest in him and we speak life into him when we're driving to practice I'm talking to him about when I was in the streets Hustling I'm talking to him about the mistakes I made with women. I'm talking to him and I'm giving him wisdom See the more the best parent is transparent The best parents are transparent when you teach your kids from your mistakes They learn and what it does is it build confidence? So I talked to my son so much He knew everything about laying down With a woman at the age of nine and the reason why is because I didn't know what day the lord was going to call me Home. Thank you that the lord has spared me, but I wanted my son from the age of understanding I wanted him to have the truth where a lot of parents don't really talk to their kids about real stuff and real feelings And what you're going through your thoughts and your fears your hopes your dreams your desires But that's how you develop your child. That's how you develop their mind So and everything he do and I literally tell him when he wrong, I tell him we on we we own him But then when he right I tell him a son boy a god gonna use you god gonna do a mighty work with you son a stay Stay on that path that you own son trust me. Listen to what I'm telling you and I talk to him and I speak life into him And I ain't gasping them up. I'm telling them the truth And I and I make them do what he has to do my wife She making them do what he has to do to stay on it So if he got to do homework for two hours after practicing for two hours, that's what he got to do If he don't get to play video games during the week, he play on Friday night Saturday night You hear me? And so a lot of time people we don't we not feeding our kid We're not speaking into their life and we just expect them to know how to handle the ways of the world But when you build them up when you speak life not baby them, but when you challenge them you hold them accountable And all of those things It's gonna be a confidence. It's gonna be a confidence Now one thing we talking about relationship. We went talking about the children. I don't even talk about them children I what's the next step? I made a change in my hairstyle as you suggested and men now seem drawn to me Felicia, you probably gonna need to sign up for coaching because for one, you ain't got no picture. So I can't see you But for two just be comfortable be comfortable be you And not a man drawn to you So now what you need to do is learn everything you can about men about dating about relationships About real love and all of that Do you think as women we should date to help? With the healing process No Because as women you're actually So smart as women you act women you're very smart Men are smart too, but women you're very smart. You're very capable of learning and growing So what you need to do as a woman is if you shut all dating down And you just focus on self development and growth meaning you reading the books You going to the seminars you watching The videos you you writing your own affirmations you writing your own book you investing in yourself If you shut all dating down shut everything to do with a relationship down and you just Invest in you and focus on you you're gonna cut that healing time in half You instead of taking a year it's going to be six months instead of taking five years because I coach a lot of people I coach a lot of now what I'm start doing answer the question that come in right when I'm getting ready to stop talking So because I'm doing all this scrolling that thing stressing me out So copy and paste your question when you see I'm slowing down on the question So when you start to Feed your mind and feed your heart You're going to start to get confidence and it's going to build you and then what's going to happen is You're going to learn everything you need to learn and then you're going to be attracting love and then you ready But if you go into a relationship and you still hurting You're going to mess up you're going to mess up because You're going to miss some red flags You're going to let you're going to either kick a man to the curb too soon because of your pain Or because of your pain it may turn into desperation and you're going to let some things get by you that you otherwise would not have let get by you I said man, I might do 30 minutes. That's how I read it 35 minutes I don't know how in the world the time what in the world the time be doing Toya Tony can you talk about chasing versus pursuing when it comes to showing interest and getting to know someone Now, Toya, you a woman. I don't know if you talking about you chasing or if you talking about the man chasing you Now um, it's really For a man, it's really not a difference the pursuit should feel like a chase So let me tell y'all for the ladies for a man When a man is interested in you, it's going it's going to feel like a lion on the chase in the jungle chasing a gazelle or posturing and getting ready for a lioness That's what's going to feel like the alarms bless you And so what you have to understand is that this man he's going to be calling you every day He's going to call you every day He's going to want to talk to you as many times and as often as he can a man that he is taking A man that he's taking and he's you know skipping time You hear from him every few days Then that's not that's not real that that's not real Even every other day. That's not real now. Let me tell y'all this as a woman And this is not an exact science, but I want you to understand this as a woman Your pursuit should be in reciprocation. So this is what I mean If the man calls you on monday Tuesday and wednesday he initiated contact on thursday you need to say hey, how are you before he writes you Now if he beat you first thing in the morning, he didn't wrote to you. Okay, you can't beat him but Try to beat him on friday if you never can write him before he writes you then that's a good sign But if you see that he hasn't written you yet But he's written you every day or reached out to you or called you every day monday Tuesday wednesday I call it the three to one ratio three From the man reaching out to you and one from you and all what this does is it keeps your Keeps you in the position of the woman Who is in the position of you accepting him and you having to choose him Him having to pursue you him having to court you and then him having to get on one knee You saying yes or him asking you to be his woman his girlfriend you saying yes It keeps you in that position when he's coming to you and then you reciprocate But see if a man is just chasing you chasing you chasing you chasing you And you never initiate contact to him. He's going to feel like you're not interested He's going to feel like he's wasting his time if you just there when he reaches out to you So that's where you have to give some reciprocation so that he knows My ex goes to church buying a new outfit every sunday Oh, the good thing is that's your ex. That's a good thing Prayers be that's your ex. Let him do what he doing. He ain't efficient Christina bless you. Some guys will lead you on Be prepared to curve that Have a brother who is going through a lot. He is on hard time and living with me I hope he's talking about your blood brother. How can I help him to become a better man change his ways without coming off as Evil sis. Okay. It's a real brother He's over 30 That's going to be a hard one. That is going to be a hard one because it's hard to help somebody who don't want to help They sell It's hard to help somebody who don't want to help they sell So you're going to sit down with him. You're going to talk to him My dad used to always say growing up. He's saying the time of peace prepare for So when you when it's cool when you're chilling you say to him So bro, I want to talk to you bro. Hey, so so what you want to do if you could do anything What what would your dream be and then you hear that you hear what he says and then you ask him a question On top of a question and another question and another question you get his heart open you get him going A lot of time when a man in that position it's either dealing with something mental mental health issue Or it's dealing with drug use Or it's dealing with something, you know, social to where he just has some insecurity He want to look a certain way be a certain way and you can spend all his money You know trying to please other people or you're going through something mental And I got family like that cousins like that friends like that and each one of them is something different Some of them is childhood trauma Some of them is drug use and it's secret drug use a lot of people don't even really know And so you got to talk to them and then as you talk to them, then you try to provide resources You try to provide resources and you try to you may Go and get his email and buy entrepreneurship with purpose. Say hey, bro. I got you this course. Let's go through it together And then every saturday or every sunday y'all sit down and y'all watch the first video and then you talk about it So you helping him actively and you doing the work with him. I heard a quote that says inspect what you expect Meaning that if you expecting it, you got to inspect it You if you expected something to happen you expecting him to grow you got to be Right there watching governing it making sure he's doing the work now if you taking you do that You you taking you buy a course or you buy a book I got a book called a dream chaser. It's on audio book It says my it's my whole story of how I went from nothing to something And it's on audio and in heart back And ebook if you taking you invest in him and he won't do the work That's when you know, hey bro, you know, I'm I'm you know my relationship Even if you ain't got now my relationship We're gonna have to make some changes because you know how there's been a man You know don't want another man in the home So, you know, I'm gonna try to give you about three more months or six more months And we're gonna have to make a move brother. I don't have nothing against you But we're gonna have to make a move And just like that, but you cannot do for somebody what they are unwilling to do for themselves Ragazza God bless you. Thank you for that New members a welcome new members y'all. Welcome to new members. You see the name Just in case I missed it. He texts me and I acted cold because I was upset He then went silent for three days I text him on the fourth day asking for my stuff. What are your thoughts? Um I'll tell you this um When you play mind games everybody loses So if it was a true feeling and that's how you really really felt then Okay But if you text him if he texts you and you don't text back and then he goes silent three days I mean what you expect he might even keep chasing it if you don't want to Talk but if you did that you could have responded what you wanted to play hard You want to play you want to play a mind game then You can't really Be confused or concerned if you hit somebody and they hit you back harder And so when you text him and ask for your stuff Next thing he need to do is get you your stuff And if he doesn't give you your stuff, then you need to leave your stuff and just count Count your losses and keep it moving. But if you keep begging him about that stuff, then what's going to happen is You giving him power And y'all be having y'all own little conversations with yourself. I'll be missing it But thank y'all for coaching each other too Recently left my daughter's father because we were going on five years of a relationship and he finally said he is not ready for marriage How do I deal with him not putting up a fight to get me back? How you deal with him? It's time to go. It's time to leave now. Hey at this point right here It's time to leave, you know, it ain't it's nothing about dealing with him now. It's now It now I hate to say this But you heard it growing up when you make your bed you got to lay in it So what you have to realize is you got to get the lesson The lesson is Stay off your back The lesson is stay off your back. Don't sleep with another man until you got a ring. That's your lesson The blessing is your child so you have to Get the lesson let him go Because you were sleeping with somebody else husband and now you got to focus on your child You do everything for your child You know now it's about your child and the only conversation you having with him is about your child You do not want a man That does not want you You do not want a man that does not want you if you done been with a man five years and he don't want to marry you That is not your man. That is somebody else husband So you got to let him go and you got to keep going Now what is going to happen is if he don't meet somebody else He don't find better then he gonna want to come back, but he does not want you he coming back because It just ain't nothing else out there So he coming to settle for you and he gonna be cheating on you He gonna be dogging you out and all of that so when a man tell you After five years, it's different if a man said it after three months He he he don't really know he'll look confused It would be different. But even then I would say keep it moving But when he didn't had five years with you, he done saw your dirty draws He done smelled your morning breath He didn't you didn't mess around in past gas while you were asleep He done seen everything of you and when he tells you I don't want you after five years He mean that so what you got to do put them track shoes on and get them going and just say, you know what? I I made the mistake of sleeping with a man Giving him husband benefits before he was my husband and you got to keep it going Regards a bless you bless you. I guess I've never had A guy hit me back Emotionally they all usually chase he did give me my stuff back So you got your stuff back now you got to keep going Now you got to keep going because you met your match And see the thing about it is you could never be with somebody That y'all just having power struggles never be with somebody you just gonna have power struggles I remember I was I was a little boy and my cousin said to me We probably was 10 or 11 and my cousin said he said relationship ain't 50 50. It's 51 49 I don't know who told that boy that but we were probably 10 years old But he probably heard the daddy say that he probably heard his mommy and daddy arguing He said a relationship is 51 49 because somebody Gonna have to submit and somebody gonna have to go that extra I never forgot that we literally was 10 years old So what i'm saying to you is if you with somebody and y'all just 50 50 y'all just button heads It ain't gonna work because you think you too cute. He think he too cute So both y'all think your stuff don't stink and you just gonna be going at each other in a power struggle So what he's showing you is that you to match your match. You need your little do boy That's gonna that's gonna go ahead and swallow his pride swallow his ego and love you the way you need to be Love but I ain't that man. That's what he that's what he's showing you I'm 37. I met a guy online Seven years younger. Okay. He 30 and he online First date was last sunday He texts he's text daily He called briefly yesterday Said he was going to call later, but didn't he text today should I drop absolutely? I dropped my phone reading that I dropped the phone reading that I was pulling hamstring reading that I was running for you Let me tell you get on up out of there for 30 years old and he online That's a catfish that man ain't serious about no love Miss McGee. Thank you. Bless you so much He's not serious about no love. Listen ladies y'all need not date younger men You really need to be with a man your age Or a man that's three to five years older than you Because women mature faster than Than men. So if you 37 and this boy 30, you're gonna be raising him You about to be changing his diapers you keep dealing with that man And the reason why 30 year old get online to date is he looking for somebody he can Boo and do he looking for somebody that he can put on his roster sleep with you when he want to sleep with you But really what he wants you for is to get money for you He want to get money from you to spend it on the women that he won't That's that's why he got you. That's why you got online. That's why men get online I try to tell y'all this but y'all do not want to listen Y'all do not want to listen when I tell you understand I listen to me listen to me now listen to me now I have never been wrong when i'm talking about a man I've never had somebody a woman come back to me and say tony you was absolutely 100 wrong about what you said about that man Because I played all the games hear me when I tell you I don't care if your cousin Met her man online. I don't care if your auntie your grandma your mama I don't care if you married and you met your man online. You don't know what you got Wait about year 10 He might wait the year 15 to chop you up a real man Who is ready to love does not Do online dating If the is i'm telling you I know match.com and e-harm and all them probably be running ads on my videos A man who is ready does not date online That is a man who is insecure Or he is shy or he is catfishing or he is looking to come up. He running a scam It is too many women to be online dating It is too many women. You could go anywhere you want to go to meet a woman I could go outside in this neighborhood if I was a single man At 9 52 p.m and go on a walk and meet a woman In a gated 24-hour security neighborhood You hear me? It is too many women if you meet a man on a online dating You do not know what you're getting. You might as well go bust your pinata open You might as well go Trick or treating with a blind fold every day of the year because that's what you finna get You might as well go spend Cash at your 401k and play it on the lotto And lose your whole 401k if you dating a man online. I'm serious about that. Now. I'm not gonna tell y'all no lie Now sometimes The prescription is get online to date just to see the craziness out there and just to learn Not to meet up with nobody not to sit down with nobody but just to Do the messages get you a little back phone with a side number or google voice number A little back phone that way a little track phone something that you could throw away You know just to see the games out there just to laugh at the man just to see him Shoot his shot just to see him ask you for $500 and he only been knowing you three weeks Just to get the game. That's the only time you do that It's just for practice to see how foolish Some people could be out here, but you don't get online dating Looking for nothing real. I'm trying to tell you please hit me on this now. Y'all don't want to hit me Y'all don't want to help me Okay, who y'all y'all say hey cj. Hey cj. Now, who is cj? Are you talking about the brother cj in the group now? In the blessed tribe cj My brother made it in I'm looking for another question So it's the right time to copy and paste your question because I'm trying to scroll us too much Or no, it ain't no it I see your opinion on mother's being involved My ex's mom and I are very close Says her son knows he wants to marry me But he's not ready to be back in the relationship because he doesn't want To mess up again. Let me tell you this That's what you to mess up at right there being close with your ex mama Because let me tell you this a mama that mama Will steal your lap that mama will steal your last Sipper water in a hot desert to get to her son If the three of y'all was in there that mama kill you to put you on a fire to feed her son, you hear me You cannot trust a man mama because a man mama will tell you anything He won't Her to tell you She do unless he didn't bend on drugs and then stole all her insure and sold it in the streets You know my cousins and stuff They used to steal my grandma insure and sell it in the streets They used to steal her dresses an old school dress They used to steal out the closet and sell it in the streets to people who need a dress Unless he didn't do something like that to his mama. That's the only way typically that a woman going to take in Not take up for her son but It I didn't see a mama will do anything For they sign so what the mama role is in this is to keep you stuck That mama lying to you twice on sunday That mama lying to you your son her son on bit more won't you then the man on the moon You hear me? I'm telling you now you better listen to me that man does not want you You hear me? So you need to pack your stuff and you need to leave and what you need to tell his mama Is you need to tell his mama mama? Listen to me zee say how long you been on how to been on here 54 minutes. I'm getting ready to go I got to go out of town tomorrow. I'm being Atlanta Friday and Saturday doing a life coach training on saturday The link is on my website on the events page What you need to tell your his mama. I'm about to say your mama. You need to tell her dad Mama, you know, I love you. I care for you. But what I'm gonna have to do Is I'm gonna have to create some distance I have to create some distance because I need to heal and when I talk to you I Think about him and I cannot heal my heart and move forward. It's nothing against you But I'm not gonna be able to answer the calls. I'm not gonna be able to talk to you because I need to heal Then once I heal I'll circle back and you got to tell him guess what that mama ain't gonna bit more kill His mom ain't gonna bit more kill Then the man on the moon either because what's gonna happen? That's what you need to tell her like maryland Say tell her you got a new man. Say tell her because I met somebody. He's a prince charming. You ain't even got a lot to if you don't want to or not You could just tell her you're working on you and let that be it But if you ain't got the strength to say that then you could put it on calc for the ghosts Your new man You could say I'd have met a man and he's just not comfortable with me talking to you knowing Because he thinking i'm probably calling your phone to talk to your son You know and then ask forgiveness for the lie roof. Thank you. Bless you I forgive me for that lie now, but You got to get that distance and you got to stop answering them calls Now somebody told me to ask answer Mona question, but I don't see you learn. Where Mona at? Mona post your question. Are you on here? Mona? No, no. Mona already asked 50 question I Me and Mona had a one-on-one session on here nine My ex called off our wedding 50 days before it got another woman pregnant She's 23 and he's 40 Six kids by five women. He's homeless single wants me back Mona now you wasting everybody's time Now Mona come on now. Come on now. Come on now, Mona. You need to get your session because because you Come on now, Mona. You entertaining old 40 year old homeless man who called off your wedding You you Mona Don't even Mona from this day forward. Don't even type the word x anymore Don't type the word x don't mention him. Don't ask about him. Don't think about him Don't do nothing other than when he get on his feet. He want to see his kids With a man like that. You got to run you got to run you could write Keys are cold next best-selling song with that right there what you just said You could write a hit sitcom with that right there. What you just said Mona you got to leave that man Pretty Z well Tony. I dropped a boy That I told you about who smokes and his breath smells horrible afterwards I feel so bad because I just became distant instead of telling him how I feel How do I tell him? You got to tell him you got to tell if you don't have to tell him you don't owe nobody an explanation but Just for the sake of you reap what you sow So what you just did to him The universe may pay that back to you. So you might be the man that you like and you trying to build and Then he taking just goes you So what you could do is just sit and tell him say listen, you know, I I really care for you. I like you as a person but with you smoking. I just can't do it That's just one of my foundational beliefs. It goes against You know, just what I really feel and I can't do it Because if we would have children together or if y'all got kids it just is Secondhand smoke to them. It's in your it's in your pores And I just can't do it and so what happens is see when people are doing things that are immoral When people are doing things that are that's cutting their life short Like smoking that can lead to cancer that can lead to lung cancer all this stuff when people doing this type of stuff Then they need to lose stuff in life to learn What that drug or what that addiction is costing them So if you don't tell him that that's why he's losing you then he will even smoke more Thinking that it's something else. He will a man will start thinking that it's the size of his third leg That he couldn't please you He'll think that it's your ex-boyfriend pop back up. He will have no clue. He will never assume that It's your stinking ashtray mouth from smoking that weed or whatever he's smoking And so when you tell him that he's like, man, this cost me a relationship. Like is it really worth it? Like why did I even start smoking to begin with? Oh, because I was lame and I was trying to be cool I wanted to be like my big brother. I wanted to be like the boys in the street I wanted to be like my teammates. That's why I started smoking. I ain't even want to smoke I thought smoking was nasty really first the first time that he's gonna start talking to himself Then he's gonna say, you know what man, let me put this on Gonna put that thing out and then he's gonna start to change his life Even though if he can't get you back He'll change his life and move on as a better man And so that's what that's the role we have to play in people's life when we let people go you got to let them know Sasha Is royal Tony, what do you think about a man about to be divorced with a baby mama that he dated Eight years During the marriage now, let me read this again Tony, what do you think about a man About to be divorced With a baby mama That he dated eight years during the marriage I was hoping that didn't say what I thought it said, but it sounded like you saying the man was married And he got a baby mama And I don't know if you the wife or if you the baby mama you asking for a friend But it sounded like the man was married and he got and he cheated on his wife with a woman And got him pregnant What do you think about that man that you need to run? You need to run on okay, Sasha. He's 48 years old. You need to run You need to run because when a man like that for one, he got serial killer in him For one, he got scam artists in him He got abuser in him That man is still the flowers out somebody casket That's the time the man right there You got to get on out of there And he's just going through a divorce. I don't mean going to treat the baby mama, right Going dog out because he's been dogging out both of them eight years The guy at work that I have caught him staring at me He finally made sure he had my attention now look like y'all need to add a picture on here Now I don't like talking to cats for the ghost So y'all need to add update y'all profile now log in there put your little picture on them Because you got your whole name on the anophelesia might as well put your picture on them A guy at work that I have caught him staring at me. He finally made sure he had my attention To say hi. He followed me when he could get my full attention. He looked me in the eye and said hi So he's getting ready. He's getting ready Now y'all I'm gonna take one more question. Why do you how do you respond when a man tests you sexually? In the first week or two Is this a red flag or do you give them another chance? I had a guy say to me. I heard about Red girls y'all some freaks He's 30 You know, uh, and so I'm guessing he's saying you read To be honest with you You can't really take a man serious when you try you a lot of men are taught to try a woman In the first two weeks to see if she'll give it up because a lot of men that's how they just how they judge you Um, I remember me now he came from nothing come from where I come from and he became a millionaire He came back home and I remember he told me he said man If you ever deal with a woman and she sleep with you in the first two weeks run don't don't deal with her because She uh Such and such He said man, my wife. It took me six months before she slept with me He said that's that's the kind of woman you want. That's just how men that's the game he passed down That's what he had been told that's just how men think so a lot of men I call it the full court press and the thing about it is is women Call it unfair they say it's unfair women always that's unfair because what if I wanted as a woman and then he coming on to me So I'm thinking he wanted and I wanted so I give in but now I give in and now he judging me for doing The same thing he was doing but what you have to realize is It's not gonna make sense because there's no rules There's no ain't nobody playing by no rule book out here So you got to have your own set of rules. You got to have your own morals your own values because What you it just like an undercover cop an undercover cop will come up to you And will sell you some drugs And you buy them drugs And then they'll arrest you or they'll come up to you and Ask you for some drugs you sell them the drugs And you get arrested the reason why this you doing illegal activity And even if I trick you into it, it's illegal activity that you just did So that's the same thing happened is a man is an undercover And he come in to try you he want to try to sleep with you And if he if you show him that you don't have your set of morals He even though he's doing the same thing he'll judge you for And and move on and then the woman that don't lay down with him he give her the credit Honest opinion Tony do guys pass up women because they are 40. I'm 40, but I still believe my husband will find me But sometimes I wonder how they feel about age No, I don't care nothing about age. I don't care nothing about age. Um It's just really come down to how you taking care of yourself So if you take care of yourself and you keep taking care of yourself, then it's gonna be fine Jay love Tony during dating. How can I find out what a man believes regarding this topic? Without revealing that I'm abstinent in case he tries to run game You don't have to tell him that you're abstinent for one because you don't know if you're abstinent because you don't know What tomorrow gonna hold So you ain't even got to say that to him. You ain't got to tell him. So that's right but then two you don't have to Try to do anything special if a man want to sleep with you he gonna try you So you gonna know if he's abstinent based on whether he tries you and most men gonna try you within the first 90 days but A lot of times it's gonna come in that first 30 Best if he talking to you every day, it's gonna come in that first 30 So you're gonna see and then you don't necessarily have to say I'm abstinent You ain't got to tell him your whole game plan You could just turn him down and after you turn him down a few times then he realizes Okay, she ain't coming off this thing. So I'm gonna have to do more and so he continues to fall in love He continued to build and he realized, okay, I'm gonna have to make her my woman He makes you his woman. You still turn him down. He said, okay, I'm gonna have to make her my fiance He'll make you his fiance. You still turn him down. Okay. I'm gonna have to make her my wife Next thing you know, you marry and really what it says to him is that this woman Did not feel comfortable with me until I gave her a complete all-in complete commitment And now that I've given her this commitment now. She's giving me her And so that's what's gonna happen Jay love. Yeah, he gonna keep pursuing you a man because when you when you turn a man down, he don't believe you He's gonna keep pursuing you now. He might try 10 15 20 times He's gonna keep pursuing you because now he in game mode now Now he think that you just trying to play for some brownie points He thinks that you trying to be class you trying to fake like you class I remember one of the NBA players said that to him. He said man, it's your fault I hear these women out here trying to pretend like they like they don't sleep around when I know Dude up the block just slept with and then now I come talk to her and because she want to be my wife because she said I got a bag on my name Now not she want to pretend like she hold it in now and she don't sleep with nobody But I know my boy just slept with him and I was like man So that's what they believe they believe that you just playing a game They believe that you just online you listen to relationship coaches this a new trend So you just kind of front and trying to play the game trying to look like you special trying to get some brownie points Like a classy woman, but if he tried hard enough, you're gonna be on your bike And when you end up on your bike, that's when he lose respect for you If he didn't have to wait longer than he's ever had to wait Now if he had to wait long and he's ever had to wait A man may still respect you If you make if you not Now don't be trying to do no charge backs only his charges now You could have you could become a member now or you might be a member and maybe I miss your question But god bless you now god bless you For the support and the love But don't be calling americans press time like that's a fraudulent charge when we got all these pictures of these questions now If you make a man you are dating Wait won't he sleep with another girl while waiting on you? Yes, he may he may very he may very well sleep with another woman While waiting on you But that's not what you need to worry about what you need to worry about is if he sleep with another woman You're gonna find out and then you out of there and that's not the man for you But the man that is for you He's not going to sleep with another woman the man. That's not for you. He'll sleep with another woman But the man that's for you he's gonna wait and he's gonna be extremely Extremely attracted to you Because you now become the one percent and that's what a lot of people don't understand And that's why I used to when I was playing the game. See I used to play the game And the reason how I used to You know stand out and how I used to get them is I would I didn't drink I didn't smoke I didn't curse Now I see why you just say I miss yours key eight If you would have put that question right there instead of saying I miss yours I would have seen your question So by not drinking that put me into a certain class By not smoking that put me into a certain class by not drinking smoking or cursing That made me such a rare man because Every woman almost every man that they knew at least curse even if he didn't drink or smoke And so that's what happened in the relationships is Every woman is getting on their back Every woman is doing the same thing every woman looking the same everybody got lashes falling off looking like a rake And the cheek glue coming down and sliding down every woman you starting to see lace front you starting to see stuff Everybody got you know makeup on everybody looking the same dressing the same got them fashioned over You know every so when you do something that others are not doing that man say whoa Okay, who is you and that's when he know who you are that's because that's when he Recognizes you right there. Hey now when my phone died got to go. It just told me I got 20% I feel bad man. I'll be saying I'm gonna be on here an hour the next thing you know I'll be on here, but it you know just one thing about serving I hate to leave people hanging and then somebody said I miss her question or his question. I couldn't know I didn't get to see it. Bless be Tony. You need to have a meet and greet for your members only crew You hear me? Hey, I wish I could but you know what? Y'all so spread out So I could do a meet and greet Some of y'all need to come to Orlando if you know Orlando, but I could do a set up a meet and greet And it's just one of y'all in there and me and that person in there because everybody's so spread out But when it get when we get enough, you know members of the blessed tribe then that let me know that Any major city I probably could have 10 15 people and we could have us run a little room And have us a little talk have us a little food have a little discussion 10 15 of us That's one thing I may do in these little small rooms that hold, you know, 20 to 50 people start doing like Once we get to a certain point right now I I understand numbers because I've been online, you know since 2009 Building the following and so I understand that you could have A hundred thousand people online That's following you and you think you want to do you a seminar you go in that room and you got 30 people in there And then it cost you five thousand dollars and them tickets that made you 150 dollars so I understand them numbers. They got to be a certain point And I had somebody question Now see polar opposites if you would have posed your question right there, I would have seen it I have a question see girl. I call Adalina. How can I get over the anger? I have for my ex. I still have nightmares after two years You're gonna have You're gonna have to get some coaching You're gonna have to get some coaching now. Let me ask you Do you read a book every day? Do you read from a book every day? Do you pray every day? Do you work out every day? Do you have a coaching session? Every every week every two weeks What's the last course you've taken? What's the last seminar you've gone to? Mm-hmm So when you think about that JC law we got 40 new members on the night It's good Praise the lord And we get to a certain You know when we get enough members, then I can start doing these mean Greeks, but right now You know, I hope y'all just talking about just to meet each other even if y'all just all sisters Because only men I think we got in the group is maybe coach rod CJ and you listed You listed probably did a charge back on me because I ain't even seeing you listed in the chat So you listed probably did a charge back I think I saw that total of because they'll say they'll show you like oh you got 50 dollars You know and they take a percentage of it. I don't know if they take 30 40 or 50 percent You too And and then you'll you'll see that. Oh, okay. Got fit at all and you go back in there another day 29 so Somebody doing charge bikes I wonder if you listed the dead charge bikes home because he was on here big spinning and he was big spinning for um Can't remember her name, but she in here. She'd be comment. I don't know if it's Bianca Brittany somebody he was shouting out. God bless you Tony. No refund On charge from me the Holy Spirit flows through you. Hey, bless you. Bless you I didn't see you asking a question tonight. So you just support Good night. Miss McGee. Hey, bless you Hey, you listed was sure not No, I don't think you listed did no charge back. I don't think y'all I'm just playing with you listed But I ain't seen them in here in the chat now Hey, this last question. I gotta go. I've been with my husband for 25 years married for 15 separated for three Many years Of the silent treatment. I am over it and exhausted. How can I truly get over business and resentment? Well, the last question I just answered kind of was for you too Kind of was for you too And to be honest with you, I think a lot of y'all know the answer Some of you might not know the answer But it really just come down to doing the work and I want you to think about it like this If I say look, I want my arms to get nice, right I look at my arm and I say I want my arm to get nice If I go to the gym three times a week and I do 50 curls three times a week. Guess what? After a few weeks, my arm's gonna look better After a month, my arm's gonna look better after three months. My arm's gonna look better So what I need y'all to understand is just the small gains So if you pray every day, you're gonna get stronger if you read every day, you're gonna get stronger If you work out every day, you're gonna get stronger If you're watching every live, you're gonna get stronger because you're gonna get wiser and it's gonna be a confidence And that's what's gonna help you Hey Rhonda, thank you so much. Hey y'all. Thank you 75 minutes. I told my wife. I said baby ain't gonna be nothing but an hour And she said I ain't gonna hold my brother. She laughed at me because you know when I get on here, I'll be I'll be gone, but my phone about to die on me. So thank y'all so much God bless you and um, I don't know if I get to do this on sunday because I'll be out of town But if I miss it sunday, then I'll make up for it again next, uh, Wednesday or thursday If you're near Atlanta And you're ready to become a life coach Go to um, you could go to tonigashin.com Sports slash events and you can sign up As a for the life coaching certification if it's tickets left, I don't know if it is because it was only a few if If you're not ready for that um February 23rd in Orlando for those of y'all in florida, I'll be speaking. It's not my event. It's um juju event juju from Love and hip hop new york. I think it is You know, she a good sister. She although she's on that show, which would be a little ratchet at time She I met her personally. She a good person And I got a good heart on a good head on the shoulders. She put on a self-love event, you know transition in her life doing things And and so I'm speaking at the event February 23rd in Orlando So that link is in the description of this video And for all the new members, thank you so much. God bless you. I really appreciate you for joining us We try to do these q and a's every week. So you'll be able to submit your questions when we on here Of course, I can't get all of them, but you know, I try to do what I can And as far as the videos I'm I'm gonna upload a video every day I just kind of have taken and trying to push myself to the next level of service And so what I'm trying to do is just make it a part of my daily work If that's 10 minutes 30 minutes and recently this week has been out I can't always say it's going to be that sometimes it might be three or four minutes But I try to post here a day. So if you just choose, you know If you just choose a time Each day in yourself development and If you read books or whatever you're doing Maybe you could add the youtube video to yourself development. Thank y'all. God bless you. We'll talk soon