 What is going on with squad? Welcome back to our channel. We are with Jules and Sod once again. We're actually in their podcast section. Set up. They actually let us use their podcast area because I thought it was so cute and they would make the video fun, you know? Yeah. It literally feels like we're on a TV set right now. It does look like it actually. But I hope you guys had a great Thanksgiving. I hope you are not that stuffed. We haven't had our Thanksgiving yet. I'm excited for it. Our Thanksgiving's tomorrow. Yeah, I'm excited for it. Tomorrow, tomorrow. But we're gonna be eating good. The next time you're watching this, I'm gonna have a gluten hangover. Oh, my God. That would be worth it. I haven't seen you gluten yet. Out of our whole friendship. Do you want to? No, I don't really don't want to see a thing. No, you can wait till we leave for that, please. But today, as you guys read by today's video, we're gonna be doing comparing our relationships. So basically, it's like questions where if we see if our relationship's a lot of like or if it's really different. I feel like our relationship's very different in a way. But we have a lot of similarities stuff. But I feel like couple-wise, we're gonna find out. Yeah. You might spill some tea. I'm very interested. There might be some tea. Might dig up something here. Yep. Yeah, exactly. This is an A1 unfiltered space. Make sure you guys go check out their podcast and make sure you guys go check out their channel. They're on podcasts, isn't it? They're on it. They're coming soon. They're coming soon. To be like soon. Coming soon. We can see you guys. Okay, I'm just gonna start off right there, right juicy. This is a juicy one, okay? I kind of already said it before the video started, but no one answered it. Oh, I'm not wording it the way that I just wrote it. It was weird. You're scaring us now. I don't even know what these questions are. Mariahs has so control of what is coming out of her mouth. Which couple does the dirty Mariahs? We're just gonna start it off with a bang, literally. Jesus. Because I don't know about this. Definitely you guys. Because the thing is, I be blocking Bill. But I be shutting him down sometimes. Just be shutting my ass down. I don't know. Okay, like how frequently do you do it? Weekly? Oh, no, you win. Yeah, you win. Oh, I don't do it weekly. Sometimes it's two weeks. I mean, there's a week when, you know, there's the time of the month. Week, but we definitely, definitely once or twice, if it is gonna be in a week. Once or twice. Definitely. No. What's about you? Once every couple months. Yeah, once a month. What? No, no, no. Honestly, I feel like you guys are fucking me. Honestly, when I'm not feeling dysphoric. Yeah, that's when it is. That's the thing. When we do, it happens like every night. All the time. Yeah. But then when we don't, it's like at least like we haven't. We haven't since we've, wait, yeah, we did. Stop, we don't even have a timeline. Okay, okay, okay, okay, we get it. Sometimes it'll really go a month. Yes, I- Well that happens. Sometimes it happens. Sometimes it's like- Sometimes we'll be like thinking about it, we'll be like, dude, it's been like three weeks. Like, what's the next time? Yeah, sometimes it, you guys gotta keep in mind, ours is like different. Yeah, it's totally different. Sometimes we feel like crappy, like crap. Yeah. It's just not gonna happen. Just a different field game. Respect. Yeah. Point one, Marvel. I'm just kidding. Who's the more clean couple? Clean? Yeah. Wait, what do you mean like clean? That's not fair because it's just not me, but Todd's a very clean person. But Bill is too. Yeah, that's the thing. So it's who's cleaner. Me and Bill. Which couple, like not like actual like- Like hygiene themselves. Yeah, not hygiene clean. I don't know. Oh yeah. Like the whole package. Cleaning in the house. Cleaning your- Wait, wait, wait. Okay, but again. This is between me and Todd. Okay, right now I'm gonna- Yeah, okay. So what does Bill do? And then what do I do? And you guys can- He's a clean freak. Okay. I am a clean every day. Okay, I say we do like a thing. Ask us like five questions. And if we do, whoever does more of those five questions, like is the cleaner one. Do you wake up and clean every morning? Yes. For the most part. Okay, he does every single morning. Every day. Obviously not while you guys are here, but like every morning he really wakes up and cleans. Okay. I'm not a lobby too, which is very rare, but you are a lobby. The dishes pile up. Well, you can't ask about the dishes. We don't really do that. My mom does that. Oh, oh. Ask, ask. Anything. It could be specifics. Done! He's about to do it. I know, he's gonna say it in your videos. You know what, we might just- Okay, wait, wait, wait. You know what, this is going too long. Let's, no, we're not putting- I be doing the garbage, the dishes. I don't do dishes. I clean toilets. I clean toilets. I have a shower. Countertops. Yes. I have a shower. He cleans everything. You're kind of bad with the shower. What are you talking about? I get on my hands and knees. He has something soaking. I say it's- What's because it's wrong? I say the same. I'm just gonna say the same. Yeah, there's no point. I love how they didn't have people. I know, they didn't- They knew they were dirty. They didn't want to say anything. They're like, what is cleaning? I don't know what- I'm not used to it. Next question. Where would the girls be without us? You know, freaking pigs pile up, like, felt. You'd be a hoarder, probably. Oh, God, it'd be bad. I don't know what else. I wouldn't be good. Oh, my God. Mariah would have paint drink cups underneath and around her bed. Mariah would have water bottle cups all around her bed. Like, same thing. I've seen moldy paint drinks from her. Yeah. She puts them in the sink and it leaves the cup in the sink. No, I actually just- Sometimes I've had paint drinks on my vanity. I had like three and I'm like, okay, I gotta fill these out. That's me and Jordan. Exactly. Now that he went to college, I'll have them stacked up when I go play games. It's bad. Yeah. Okay, let's not expose them. Okay. Yeah. This is all about exposing. Who will get married first? So that's tricky because- Probably you guys. I was gonna say, I don't really think about it as much. You don't think about it as much. Okay. Have you ever heard her talk about it? Not really. Yeah, that's the thing. Okay, I would say, I would say, based on listening what you guys think, because I know Mariah wants to get married tomorrow. Like, if she can get married. But like, for me, I feel like- I would say- It's not that. It's like a year. I would say it's definitely you guys before us. Saw definitely wants to go on T and feel his best self. Right? Before we do. Yeah, duh. It's obviously a longer journey. Okay. If you guys aren't gonna get married, probably or propose to, probably in a year or less. Yeah. Then- Mariah's like, when's it coming? Mariah's like, give it to me now! If I get on my knee tomorrow, she would say yes. This is the thing. Everybody, family, when it's your proposal, when it's your proposal. Oh my God, he better tell me when it's your proposal. Everyone, okay? If she actually just talked about this bill, you'd better tell Julia when you're proposing. Yeah, if you don't. She'd be very disappointed if you don't give me- I told her if I did. She'll say no. She'll say no. Why would I tell her? Cause she, that's gonna relate to you. What? No, I literally told her it was. No, I wouldn't. I will keep the secret. I swear to God. Because listen, if she calls me and she's like, I'm engaged, I was like, I'm happy, but I might cry that you didn't tell me. Yes. I wouldn't know it. She's like- Come full, let me know if that's bad or not. I would never spoil it. I'll think about it whenever time comes. She's literally my sister. Basically my sister. You got it. So I have to tell your twin sister as well? Yes. You have to tell all of them. Who else do you want him to tell? Yeah, I imagine to tell everyone. You gotta tell Meg, come on, and my mom, you gotta see my mom and dad. Okay, okay, okay. When the time, when the time comes. I'm just letting you know to be prepared. You gotta tell, the most important people I want you to tell is Megan, Julia, Julia. When the time comes, I will, I will. So you're a part of it, obviously. So who do I tell? I gotta tell. When the time comes, I will, I will think about it when the time comes. But I will very much, most likely, keep you in mind. Better. Yeah, perspective. Which couple has been together the longest? Oh. So. How many of you guys been together? Our six years is March 23rd. Probably. Oh, you guys are together. Yeah, we're going on seven. So they're here ahead. Oh, we're going on seven. Seven! Ah! For life first. That's crazy. Seven years. That's crazy. I was in April. That's still a lot. We're literally going on six. Yeah, so I thought six is a long time. I mean, okay, to be clear, for anyone that is in a relationship or hasn't been in a long time, I feel like anything after two years, it's the same. Yeah, yeah. Two or three years. It's like, oh, it's four. Oh, it's five. Oh, six. True colors of someone, usually. I know everything about her now. Oh, next question. Do you know like, genuinely like 99 or 100% about like, each other? He knows more about me than I know about myself. Same with him sometimes. He literally will be like, you're anxious right now and I'll be like, oh my God, wait, I am anxious. You're anxious, you're right. I'm like, I'm like her, with those like dogs. Like I know. My emotional support. Like I sense it. You just know, like looking at her, any look, anything, you know what's coming. That check of the pulse, I'm like, what? I won't even recognize I'm doing it. He's crazy. Next question. Which couple argues the most? I would say when we argue, it's like a bad argument, but like, besides that, it's like, we really don't. I don't feel like we argue. But if we did, it's like a real argument. Yeah. We don't argue. Okay. We bicker. We bicker. But it's not really like, I'm the one with the yeller, the more mad one. He's the one that's like, chill. But I don't yell. But I'm more of a mad one. We don't bicker every day, but like, you know, once, I would say a couple of times a week, we'll like, just like, you'll get annoyed. You'll get annoyed. You'll stop doing that. Like stupid. Like not actual like real fight, like argue. So it's mainly Mariah's attitude. Yeah. No, no, no. I would say, it's not that she has an attitude. I just get, I'm very... She's all feisty. I'm Capricorn. Yeah, yeah. I'm like, sad. She has a very hard-headed way of doing things. But neither of us fight often. So I would say we're equally the same. We're equally as aggressive with each other. I think I might get more annoyed quicker than they probably get annoyed with each other, but I get more annoyed with you pretty quick, depending on the situation. Refuse is really short. My boy can be talking. I've seen it happen. He can literally be having a go. Boo! Ha ha ha ha! Silence! Yeah. If I hit that max capacity in her fuse, this is gonna pop. This morning he was actually annoying me. He was getting really excited. You might win that. We have a really exciting trip coming up. So I'm excited for the trip. No, but you're... You're being annoying. He was being like annoying, like targeting me, like picking at me. It's your vacation. Like being all like... I don't know. Is he gonna tell us this? It was the way he was doing it. It wasn't even like... It's hard to explain. It's a little bit of a thing. This is the reason why I don't think I could ever fight back with this girl, because there's like literally nothing to fight back about. You didn't even do anything to her. It's just me like expressing why is this a main concern to her right now. I don't know most of the time. But this is... I'm stubborn. That's one of the things that I love about her is just like... It's funny. So I talk to her every day and I don't get annoyed with her. It's so weird. I just like to have action with you every day. Do you guys know of me? No, it's because we're not dating. Yeah, that's true. We live together. Yeah, I don't have to sleep with you. We talk on the phone. Y'all basically be dating. And I think actually going back to the cleaning, I think I win, because I clean up after him too. And Lori. Okay, you win. And Pig and Pie. You got it. I feel like aren't a mess. Yeah, except they throw out. Heads can take care of themselves. Pig and Pie can last two days in this house. Yeah, no, no, no, no. You have four extra personas. You have to take care of them. So this is actually a really good question. Any differences to you and Bill being a cisgender couple compared to Jules and Sod because he's trans? Wow, yeah. So that's a really good educational look. That is. Yeah, I would say that went into the question earlier about, I don't want to say for every trans man, but on like how much we do do it. No, but for our relationship. Our relationship, how would you say it's different? Like I said, I'm speaking for our relationship. As Sod being a trans man versus cis man, a lot of things are different. For example, sometimes we go out and he's not on tea yet. And some people will like misgender him. Oh, and that shuts you down the whole day. His whole day is ruined, but like no one's gonna. No one's going to misgender you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, yeah. And then I guess like yeah, like in like the sexy time life. Sometimes. Sometimes dysphoria does kick in or even like as of right now, like I haven't been lovey-dovey or anything. Which means he's not comfortable with his body. So like what's dysphoria? Yeah, dysphoria is like like my voice. You're not comfortable. I hate my voice. It's yeah. Isn't it like your mind is not with your body? Yeah, like I just like. Yeah, you feel like you're here. Excited to get on to it. Yeah, so that's just like going on, doing like the egg retrieval that I'm doing. It makes me feel dysphoric. And on top of that, like putting estrogen in your body when you're wanting to be onto testosterone and you have testosterone in your body and it's gonna get lower and it just it messes with things. It's probably super confusing. It does mess with things. Yeah, all of the time. For your body. Yeah, yeah, it does. So I'd say it's just. There's a lot of different things. Dating and as like me and you, like I don't think it's like any different as like a cis man. No, I think it's more. More, more. Society. Yeah, more of society. In the intimate way, it's obviously different. Like do people question you guys on how you do it? No. Right. That's exactly exactly what I'm doing. That's like the million dollar question. How do you do it? What does what? Who's there? Like hold on. Like if you have the brain to understand how we would do it. Yeah. Like you would have the brain to understand how anyone else would do it no matter what. Like I don't know. And it's just like you can literally Google that, bro. Yeah. Figure something out on yourself. You know, you got to mind your thing about it. You guys definitely have to do a lot more like harder things. Yeah. You guys have to like deal with a lot more like backlash or like just like and just like a bunch of different things as to us. It's like we don't have to worry about that. That's like we filmed a video. We never posted it because like people have misgendering me. So I was like, I'm done with this video. We didn't post it. Yeah, I think I included that. It was so bad. I think you did. Oh, in real life they were? Yeah. So you were like, what's that about? They were like, have a good day ladies. And I was like, all right, and the video is done. Oh, I didn't know. I just feel like at that point, if you don't know like for sure, just don't say anything. Just don't use Kona. Yeah. That's what I said. But at the same time, I will say Massachusetts was the first state to legalize like gay marriage and stuff like that. So there are a lot of LGBT people here. Yeah. So they could be just thinking, just saying, that's the whole reason of being on T. They're not intentionally ruining your day. Yeah, they're not intentionally. Because they don't know for sure. But there are people that will comment on stuff like, great lesbian comments. Oh, love the tiktok comments that were beautiful. Literally nothing wrong with lesbians. No, when you're not. But when you're going after him, you know what I mean? It does affect you, but. Yeah. So I was very educational if you guys learned something new. There's a lot of taking. So I would say there's differences. There's differences, but like, Kona, it's mainly like. It's the same thing. It's the same. How you think of each other is the exact same. There's really nothing different. It's just going into the real life world. It's just very different, yeah. But behind closed doors, it is the same. Literally the same. All right, so I have a next question. I want to ask, who's more clean in the relationship? Because we have like, Mariah is not as clean as me 100%. Why are you pointing to me? So we have one that is very clean and one that's not. I see you're more clean than me, maybe. Honey, you are more clean. Where do I clean to you? You literally get upset that I'm not. To scratch my back or something. No, you get upset that I'm not clean enough. And you clearly. Yeah, but then you're like, well, you're not clean enough to me. Because I was like, oh, can you. You didn't give me a kiss. She was like, well, you don't give me kisses. No, we were literally playing. We were literally. No, we were literally. And I tried. We were playing last night and me and Saul were sitting on this couch and he goes, you don't kiss me enough. And she said, well, you don't kiss me enough. I was like, you don't kiss me? Yeah, I give it back to you. Like, you don't kiss me enough. But I've never been the one saying it first. I feel like both of you have a little bit of cleanness. Bro, don't lie. No, I really don't know. Because I didn't hear and stuff from her that you're really clingy and then. But then I said. Do we face time? You guys face time every day. Yeah, I know. You guys face time every day. This is the thing. We're stuck together. Like, we're stuck together. But it's sod more often that gets upset if I'm not on your ass more. Like, if I don't cuddle him enough, if I don't kiss him enough. So who makes that more clingy? Who's the more clingy one then? Sod. Sod, okay. I disagree, but go on. I disagree. So touch me then. Well, okay. She's clingy to me. I, Mariah has a little bit of clinginess in her. But I am definitely more clingy. I'm not as clingy as him. So I feel like for, who asks the more question, I wish you were more, or the question asks you like, I wish you were more. But give it to Sod. This is the thing. So you're clingy, but like he's probably more. I get clingy, when I get clingy, I get clingy. Well, I'm definitely, Mariah is definitely disattached more than all of us. It is a little bit, just a little bit. I honestly don't, because the thing is I used to be, but I think with my past relationship, I allowed too much. So I feel like I kind of made me feel, I don't know, less clingy. She goes through waves. I look at waves, some days I'm like. And it's weird, some waves show beyond, and then I'll be like, whoa, you know, like I won't be like reciprocating the clinginess. No, you do reciprocate. He says that he is so clingy. I feel like my clinginess isn't physical. It's emotional. Same, it's emotional. That's true. So you're still clingy. I feel like in emotional clinginess, you still gotta. Yeah, but I mean like, you're back. I thought to show your emotions, you have to be kind of physical. In a way. There's words of affirmation, and then there's like touch or something. Right? Is that right? Like people like, you love touching. I don't know how clingy this is. I love touching, but it's- Obviously you don't. I feel like we're being way too deep into clingy. No, we are. We're getting too deep into clingy. I'm clingy. So the boys- She's not as clingy as me. The boys are more clingy. I don't really know. I feel like we're both not really PDA in my life. We're not. Absolutely not. We're not. Can I say that I respect you guys for that? Because- I was gonna say no judgment, but I'm totally judging. Bro, I wanna throw up in my mouth when couples are like- In public make up. Creamy! Like at the mall, like, are they like up each other's butt? Like even, oh. Come to the back! I'm sorry. I can't. I can't. If you can't go somewhere on your own, like go piss by yourself. Like, I wanna get away. Like, no offense to you, but I wanna go. Like, I'm with you all day, every day. I feel like if you love each other, there is like that like spacious need. I'd like- And dependency. I don't know how some couples do it. To be more independent. I mean, nothing wrong. That's how you like it. Do you, if you feel comfortable enough to do that, but I can't- I'll sit outside the bathroom. I'm not gonna- I just feel for other people. I hate- For me it just- Just me out. Agreed. I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I get second handed embarrassing. I can't. It's like, you know, when people are making out, like remember in high school- It's not cute. When people would make out. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, like how are you doing that in front of everyone? And they don't give a crap. That does not mean you love each other more than everyone else. Yeah, grow up in high school. In public? Like just like right in front of you, it's like- It's just not. Wait, what is the question? Like, I do not need to be hip to this. What are we here? PDA. PDA. I was just- We're the same. Definitely the same. Like, I'll lie, I mean we hug and we kiss sometimes, but it's different. But we don't feel they need to be like- No. No, I tell you that. Thank you for that. Maybe for a couple seconds, it's just like- I'm just gonna kiss. And then I'm gonna go back to doing what. But I don't even kiss in front of people, honestly. I feel like if you were stuck on bill like this, like kissing him 24 seven, I'd be like, are you even trying to hang out with me? Yeah. Bro, it's like you're more like a dog. It's like you're more like a dog. It's like you're more like a dog. Yeah, it's just like a double date, basically type of thing. I'll just get like one of those baby bath packs and put you in it. Really? And carry you around. Who's more comfortable with each other? In a sense of this, like I will not go to the bathroom if Julia is like in the bathroom. That's how I am. I will not. I will poop with you right next to me. If she's in the shower, if I'm in the shower. You're like me. If I'm in the shower and she's like, I have to go in the other bathroom. Yes. Hey. No, I'm like, okay. So Mariah literally gets mad at me. Hold on, can I explain myself? For taking a number two. I'm pee and poop shy. I'm pee and poop shy. So why? We've been dating for six to seven years. It's just like nasty. It's kind of push and disgust. This girl gets mad at me for taking a number two in my own bathroom. Do you get mad? Yeah, she got mad on FaceTime. Why would she? Because I have to pee in the shower. I'm in the shower. And I have to think. If we'll be in the shower, inside we'll be like, can you hurry up? I have to poop. I'm like, just go poop. Like I'm in the shower. Mariah can literally blow off the toilet. I would rather. Absolutely annihilate it. And I would be fine. Before I take a shower, go near that. That just shows the dedication between me and Julia. I know. And the ones that we love. What else? We don't judge. Try to think of something else. We don't judge. I'm just being comfortable with it. I'm sorry. It's me and Bill on the same level when you and Mariah. I just can't go on. I can't. What else is something that you can't do? Because that's like number one. Like I can't. Well obviously when I chew. I hate when anyone chews. I don't want to hear anything. I like ASMR. Julia puts headphones on and goes. I like ASMR. Not with food. No, no, no. Not with food. If it makes mouth sounds, I don't care. That's not me. That's disgusting. I can't. No mouth sounds. I crave for body aches. But then this girl, five seconds after she yells at me, can you smack in her food? And I don't have anything to say. If I say anything. Because I know you don't care. I don't even hear my, can't hear myself smacking. Because it doesn't bite me. Exactly. Because it's so freaking loud. She's comical. All right. We're closing out the video right here guys. I hope you enjoyed. For the most part, we are super, super similar. I think we're almost like the same. We are. I feel like that's- If you guys aren't, then we are. Yeah. That's why we all vibe so well. It's because like everything that we do, it's kind of like, we both can understand. Yeah. It's compatibility test, basically. Yeah, it is. We have very similar mindsets. Like our goals, our drives. We didn't talk about any of that. We didn't. Yeah. Business wise, our goals. Everything, yeah. Like we all have the same mindset. We all have the same like drive to like always do the best. I would say our future plans are all very similar. Yeah. Like opening up businesses and all that type of fun stuff. Houses, cars. Like everything's like similar. Everything's similar in our goals and what we like. Super weird, super cool. There you go. I like! But we live a thousand miles away. Thank you guys so much for watching. Once again, Jules and Saad. We're gonna be filming- Jules and Saad. Can I clap for myself? Jules and Saad, that's her name. Woo! We're filming a bunch of videos with them on their channel as well. So make sure to go subscribe to them. Give this video a huge thumbs up. Once again, I hope you enjoyed your holiday. Get ready for Christmas because we are ready. And we have something really exciting coming up too. That was very last minute. Oh my gosh, super exciting. Going down December 1st. So stay tuned for that and we will see you all in the next video. But until then. Peace. Love you guys.