 Hello everyone. Welcome to another Noxify the Live video. In this one, we do have a very interesting topic. Something that all narcissists will do at the end of a relationship. Yes, we do talk about sometimes how there may be slight differences among certain narcissists. But there is one thing that you can expect from every narcissist. From any narcissist that you may be dealing with. Yes, there's one thing that you can all expect at the end of a relationship. If you are dealing with a narcissist, you can expect this from all of them. This is something that they will all do without fail at the end. Yes, you can be sure that they are going to do this. Even though you may not have expected it initially or in the beginning, you may never have thought that they would turn out this way. I mean, they led you to believe that they were on your side. They were in your corner. They were your friend. They were your supporter. They were this person who was meant to be there to help you for whatever reason. Well, at least that's what they led you to believe. Because, as I said, at the end of a relationship, this is something that all narcissists will do. And that means from any part of the world, doesn't matter what age, what gender, doesn't matter who they are. If it's a narcissist, they will do this at the end. And that's why it's very important that you are watching this video right now, because I am going to give it to you. I am going to give you vital information that will help you to protect yourself. If you are aware of this before it happens, before the relationship comes to the end, if you are aware of this right now, it will help you to protect yourself. Before I begin, hit that thumbs up button down below. I'm seeing only nine thumbs ups and 111 live viewers. So if you want to know right now what all narcissists will do at the end of a relationship, hit that thumbs up button. Thank you. All right, I'm not going to waste any more time. I'm going to get right into it. And I'm sure many of you who are watching this, when I say it, you've got to be thinking, yes, of course, of course, this is something that they will all do. So here it is right now. What all narcissists will do at the end of a relationship, they will blame you. Yes, that is exactly what they are going to do. And I would even say that with all of my years of research and experience, if you're dealing with someone, and at the end of the relationship, they don't turn around and blame you for everything, then the chances are you may not have been dealing with a narcissist after all, because if you were, then that would be exactly what they would do at the end. Yes, they would always do that. You could be sure of it. I mean, they were likely blaming you even before the end. They were devaluing you. It begins with a love bombing, the idealization. They put you on a pedestal. And then before you know it, they're devaluing you. They're putting you down. They're making you feel like you're less than who you actually are. And then finally, they go to the discard. And that's where they just throw you away like a piece of garbage, like you're worth nothing. And it's kind of funny when you think about it. I mean, yeah, of course, we're not going to be worth that much after we've been around them, because they're not worth anything, and we're giving all of our value to them. And they're just heating it up and reciprocating nothing back in return, because all they have is a void that can never be filled. So, yeah, of course, once we've been interacting with them, we've been around them all of this time. Yeah, we're going to lose all of our value. And that is why they just want to throw us away like a piece of garbage. I mean, that's just how it is when you spend all of this time around worthless people, because yeah, that's exactly what they are. They're absolute garbage. And we really need to take a look at ourselves. I mean, I hate to say this, I do. I don't like to pick on people, but this is something I had to accept for myself. And it's true. This is the truth. I mean, if you were hanging around those types of people, narcissists, low value people, they have nothing to give to you. Nothing to reciprocate. All they do is take because they're bottom feeders, they're leeches, they're parasites. They're the lowest of the low, the scum of the earth. And if we are around people like that, I mean, honestly, at some point, you've got to look at ourselves and ask ourselves, what the F are we doing? What the F is wrong with us to be around people like that? I mean, you know, if we are anything of value ourselves, at some point, we have to come to this conclusion. I mean, in the beginning, yeah, of course, you know, they manipulated us, they deceived us, they gave us this illusion, they reflected back to us our own virtues and ideals. So yes, of course, I can understand if we get tricked in the beginning, but why do we stick around when they show us who they really are and they devalue us? And we're still there. I mean, this is it because they're eroding away our self-worth and self-esteem. And just by staying with them, we are disrespecting ourselves. We really are. And as psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg has said, our greatest defense against a narcissist is our self-love. If you love yourself enough, you just can't even be around them. You've just got to get away. Just when you have love for yourself and you respect yourself, you just get this feeling in the pit of your stomach. I know I do. I just start to feel sick when I am around a narcissist. I just feel like I've got to get away. I just can't be around them. And that's exactly how it should be. You shouldn't be just around them thinking that things can change or that it's your job to try to help them or to make them better. You shouldn't be trying to do that at all. I mean, you've got to think like these types of people, narcissists, they are absolute garbage. They're worth nothing. They're losers. I hate to be so blunt, but it's exactly what they are. They're not going anywhere. They're not changing or improving anything in their lives. They're staying stuck and they're bringing you down with them. I mean, honestly, it's like going to a store and you see a group of drug addicts or alcoholics outside. You're not going to go over and talk to them once you see what they're doing, once you know who they are. You're going to run a mile in the opposite direction because you're going to know you don't belong around them. You're going to know you're better than that. You will raise better. You're an educated person. You take good care of yourself. We should not lower ourselves to be around these types of people because they are losers. That's exactly what they are. And they know that they are. That's why when we get around them and we're around them long enough, then they have to devalue us. They have to put us down just so they can feel comfortable around us. And you've got to think, why didn't we ever do that to them? We never devalued them. We were trying to lift them up because we're higher up than they are. We're at a higher level. So yeah, we kind of have this ego ourselves where we think we can make them better. But honestly, it doesn't matter how great you are, they are going to pull you down. They will ruin you. And at the end of it, they're going to blame you as well. And you're going to have to deal with it all. They're not going to take responsibility for anything because, as I said, they are low-value people. Only high-value people do that. Only high-value people take responsibility. They show up. Low-value narcissists, they're nowhere to be found. They're absent. They're not even there. They just disappear. They blame you. They accuse you. And then they start a smear campaign. They turn everyone against you. They assassinate your character. Because guess what? You've got something to assassinate. You go and try and do that to them. You go and try and start a smear campaign against the narcissist. No one would even care. Everyone already knows they're a bag of shit. You would just be wasting your time. But they can do that to you. Because unlike them, you are actually something. You are a somebody. You have a character to assassinate. You have a reputation to destroy a life to ruin. They don't. And that's how it's so easy for them to get caught up in smear campaigns, lies, rumours, false accusations against you. Yeah, it's so easy for them to get involved in that because they're nothing anyway. They're not going to amount to anything. So it's just completely normal and usual for them to get involved in stuff like that. Of course, you don't want to be involved in that kind of stuff because you know yourself, you're better than that. You're greater. And you got stuck with this person who pulled you down, devalued you. And in the end, they blamed you for everything. All of you who are watching this, you got involved with the wrong person, maybe the wrong crowd. And you didn't belong there. If you did, you wouldn't be watching this video right now. If you really believe that you belonged with someone like that, you wouldn't be watching this. You wouldn't be trying to figure out what just went wrong. You wouldn't even realize that there was a problem. Just like everyone else that they're surrounded with. They're surrounded with a bunch of other fake people. They don't see anything wrong. That's perfectly fine for them. They don't mind laying in their own filth. It's no good for you because you know you deserve better than that. So of course, of course they would end up devaluing you. As I've said before, the victim initiates the devaluation. You changed in the way that you were reacting to them and validating the false self of the illusion. They could see that you disapproved of something they said or did. You didn't like something. And then they felt insecure. They may have even felt rejected by you and at that point they knew they had to devalue you. They had to put you down and keep you looking at yourself so that you don't continue looking at them and the mess that they are. Because let's be real, that's exactly what they are. They're an absolute mess that we always had to stick around and try to clean up. But no matter what you do, they are always going to be that way. They're just messy people. And there's nothing you could do to change that. But that's what happens to us though, isn't it? We get stuck in it because we're empaths. We want to help. We want to try and make things right for them. You just got to accept that's where they belong. That's just the type of people that they are. You can't fix them. You can't change them. And being around them, they're just going to bring you down with them. That's all that they're going to do. In the end, they're just going to blame you. I've said it before. You can give a narcissist your hand. You can pull them out of a ditch. And when you do that, you know what they're going to do. They're going to turn around and push you in there. They're not going to be thankful that you pull them out, that you help them. They're not really going to appreciate it. They're not going to be grateful. They're not going to feel the need to reciprocate anything back to you. No. Instead, it's just going to irritate them. Your empathic abilities, your kindness, your generosity, it's going to trigger them. And they're going to want to punish you because they already know that they are nothing like you. They are not on your level. They're never going to be as good as you are. And that is why they engage in such low-class behaviors, such as devaluation. Do you know how low down that is to devalue someone? Who does that? Just think about that for a moment. Would you go around devaluing people, trying to make them feel less than who they actually are for no reason? People who never even did anything to you, and in fact, all they ever did was try to help you. Would you go and devalue someone like that? Of course you wouldn't. But that's what low-value people like narcissists do. They come around us and they devalue us because they feel very insecure. They feel inferior in comparison to us. They feel like they're not good enough. So then they want to bring us down with them and then elevate themselves at our expense. But sometimes, you know, they devalue us and we're looking at ourselves, thinking we're not good enough. Just look at the action, the behavior. What about what they're doing? They're devaluing you. What type of low-class person does that? A high-value person will lift you up because they have the value to be able to do that, rather than bringing you down. I mean, just think about this for a moment. It's like, you really think, you know, you're around like a motivational, inspirational leader. Could be someone like Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Richard Branson, whoever it may be. You really think they're going to be focused on fault finding and nitpicking with you and trying to point out everything that's wrong with you, making you feel inferior to them. I mean, could you imagine how ridiculous that would be? Like some billionaire like Richard Branson or Elon Musk, they're coming around you and they're just like putting at you, laughing at your job, your business. I mean, it just want to make any sense. Why would they do that? People who do that, they're beneath you. They're nowhere near your level. And it's the same thing when they go to the discard and they blame you for everything. It's because they're not even capable of taking responsibility. They're not like real adults. They don't know how to deal with anything in life. And you just got to think, this is the type of person you were in a relationship with. But I can understand. I mean, you know, in the beginning, we do get manipulated. It's true. We get tricked. We get pulled into something. And in the beginning, we don't even realize what we're even a part of. We don't really understand what is happening. We're being tricked. They're mirroring us, giving us a reflection of what we think we want. Or what we think we want to see. They just become that. So that's how we get pulled into it. But then when we start to see these low value behaviors, such as the devaluation and they're putting us down, and we still stick around, when we know that they're lying to us, maybe they're cheating on us. They're stealing from us. And we still tolerate it or we overlook it. At some point, we do have to look at ourselves and think, what's going on with us? I mean, they must have eroded our self worth, our self esteem, our respect for ourselves, for us to even be able to stick around. Because otherwise we could just not even be there. I mean, I know that's what it's like for me. Like if I go to a store and I see a bunch of alcoholics or drug addicts outside, you think I'm going to stick around for long? Of course not. I am out of there as fast as I can. Because I just don't want to be around people like that. I value myself too much to go down to that level. And I'm sure many of you can relate to that. I mean, I'm not saying that I'm perfect myself. Of course, I've had a past where I've been through things, I've spoken about it in previous videos. But that's the thing. I mean, once we realize our worth, we value ourselves. We're not going to go back into that. What stops us is that value and respect that we have for ourselves. So that's how they managed to get us to remain around them is by targeting our self esteem. That's what keeps us in it. Because otherwise we just wouldn't even be there. We wouldn't even bother. We wouldn't even waste our time. Because we would realize that we're worth more. We deserve more. So that's really how you've got to look at it. And yeah, what all narcissists will do at the end of a relationship is that they will blame you. And you just got to think. What kind of a person does that? At the end, they just blame you for everything. They don't take any responsibility for anything. I mean, what kind of mature, responsible adult would do that? They wouldn't. They would have a balanced perspective. And they would understand that, yes, okay, we may have made some faults or mistakes. Sure, we're human. But what about them? They've done some things as well. The problem is if you look at it, they've done far worse things than we did. Yeah, we may have slipped up. Sometimes it may have been reactive abuse. We may have said some things we weren't proud of. But what about everything they did? They lied. They future faked. They manipulate. They give us a false character from the very beginning. Maybe they cheated on us. They stole from us. All of these things. I mean, they've done so many things wrong. There should be no surprise that of course, and again, they're just going to deny it. Because it's just so overwhelming for them. They just have to bury themselves in denial and just suppress it all. Because otherwise, if it all comes up, it's like the floodgates just open and it's like, what do they do? They just want to know how to deal with it, to be responsible, and to deal with the consequences of their actions. I mean, we can do that and they know it. That's why they parentify us and they hold us responsible for everything that went wrong, which mostly includes things that really had nothing to do with us. They're almost always the cause of everything that goes wrong. I mean, think about it, they're narcissistic. They're arrogant and entitled. They've always got to be in control. So they've always got to manage everything. And it's like, hold on. How can you be the one who has all of the authority and control? You're the one enforcing obedience and making all of their decisions. But then when things go wrong, you're blaming someone else. How does that make any logical sense? It really doesn't. I mean, if you are the authority figure and you have the power, you're the one in control, everyone else is beneath you, your superior. How are you not responsible when things go wrong? It really doesn't add up. It's like a child who wants the responsibility of a child, but then they want the power and the authority of a parent. I mean, of course, that is a recipe for disaster. Of course, that's not going to end well. But they don't care that arrogant and entitled, all they really care about is what they want in that moment, and they will do whatever it takes to get it. They don't care what happens to you. Of course, they don't care. That's why, and again, they'll blame you for everything. You think a person who cares about you is going to do that. You really think if someone cared about you, not only after devaluing you, discarding you, you think that they are then going to lie and spread rumors about you, start a smear campaign against you, blame you for everything. You think someone who cares about you is going to do that. I don't think so. And yeah, I know sometimes they use these sneaky little tactics where they act as though it wasn't them, that they might pretend like they spoke to someone, maybe a friend, and that friend told someone else that all of these lies and the blame get spread around. Yeah, they always have some excuse for why they do what they do, but with everything that they do to you, how is it that you are the one who is to blame in the end? How does that make any sense? If they had full authority and control over you, which as we know, that's typical behavior of a narcissist, then why can't they own up to what they did wrong and take responsibility for their actions? Like a mature, responsible adult. And that's how you really know what you're dealing with. I mean, as I said, if you were in a relationship with someone and at the end, they did not blame you for everything, then it's probably quite unlikely that you were dealing with a narcissist, but if at the end they did blame you for everything, the odds are you must have been dealing with someone who is highly narcissistic at the very least, because you just got to think, what normal person is going to do that? What normal person is going to go and blame you for everything? I mean, a real victim who's been targeted, they've been manipulated and abused, they typically just want to leave and get away from it all. They just want to be left alone. They haven't got the time or the energy after all of the abuse and the gaslighting. You really think they got the time to go around spreading rumors or even if something was true, you really think they got the time to do that? I mean, that just doesn't add up. It doesn't make any sense. They wouldn't have the time, they wouldn't have the energy to go around telling everyone about all of this stuff. They would just want to be left alone. And I know that many of you can relate to that. I know many of you, after everything you've been through, you just want to be left alone. You don't want to be involved in that again. You can't even be bothered to go around and tell everyone what they did to you to expose them. And of course, that's why it's very rare that narcissists do ever get exposed, because as I said, it's the typical behavior of a victim to just want to be left alone. They wouldn't have the time or the energy to go around exposing anyone. That is something that perpetrators and opportunists do. People who are seeking an opportunity to elevate their social possession or whatever it may be. A true victim is not looking to do that. They're not looking to do that at all. And you just got to think everything you've been through all of that time, all of the abuse, the manipulation, the lies, the gaslighting. Just imagine you had all of the proof, all of the evidence, and you took them to court for that. How much would you be compensated for? You'd be a billionaire. The amount of stuff you've probably been through with them, despite that, many of you, you're not even looking to do that. You just want to be left alone. You're not looking to expose them. You're not looking to elevate your social possession at their expense. That is typically something that narcissists do. It's not something that a victim would typically get involved in. But yeah, this is what they will do at the end. They will turn around and blame you for everything. Everything that went wrong, they will say that it was your fault. They will put it all on you. They will hold you accountable for things that really had nothing to do with you. And as I've said before, the narcissist is the one who comes into the relationship with little or nothing. And then they leave the relationship with a lot more than what they came in with. And despite that, they will blame you for everything. They will make these false accusations. They will start a smear campaign against you. Even though it's like, hold on, you left the relationship with a lot more than what you came in with. And yet you're blaming me. You're starting a smear campaign against me when you left with a lot more. How does that make any sense? And not only that, but you came into the relationship with so much energy, life, enthusiasm, so much money and resources, and you left with little or nothing. And they're the ones blaming you. They're the ones smearing your name while they left with everything. Now, how does that make any logical sense? And that is how you know exactly what you are dealing with. And I'm telling you, all of the flying monkeys, they're all exactly the same. They're all just as fake. They're all narcissistic. Because any normal person is going to look at it like, hold on a minute. This person came into the relationship with so much, so much life, energy and enthusiasm, so much money and resources, and they left with little or nothing. While this narcissist, they came in with practically nothing and left with everything. And yet they're the ones who are blaming you, accusing you, smearing your name, trying to destroy you. I mean, any normal person, you really think they're going to support that? Of course not. Unless they're just envious of you, which to be honest, yeah, a lot of these flying monkeys, that's exactly what they are. That's exactly what they're like. Yeah, they're just like that. And as I said, if you are around these types of people, you've got to think, what am I doing to feel like I even should be in their presence to see myself as that low? I mean, we're really going to start looking at our self worth and how we value ourselves because the alarm bells should be ringing when we are around these types of people. We should realize straight away that we are disrespecting ourselves just by being around them. Because that's really what we're doing. That is exactly what we are doing. When you spend an extended amount of time around an abuser, someone who is harmful and dangerous to you, what does that say about us, about how we value ourselves and respect ourselves? It doesn't say much good about us in all honesty. And that's when we need to separate ourselves and check in with our own evaluation of ourselves. Because it's like we should not desire to be around these types of people, people who are harmful, toxic, abusive, that is low value. It's no good. Instead, we should gravitate towards high value people, people who bring in the love, the light, the peace, the joy, that uplifting people, the foot of energy and enthusiasm, high value people, they lift people up. That's exactly what they do. That's what I love to do. That's what I get on here every day, to spread these messages. Because I have a lot of value and I want to share it with the world. And that's why I've got over 40 million views on this channel. It's not because I'm some celebrity or superstar. This has very little to do with me, other than the message that I share. This is more about the viewers who watch this. And that's how it should be. I mean, that's what a high value person does. They don't make it all about themselves. They don't always have to be the start of the show. It's about giving value to other people, lifting other people up because we have the ability to do that. And I know you do. Because if you're watching this video, you've been involved with the narcissist, you do have a lot of value. That's how you ended up finding my videos because you have been manipulated and gaslighted into believing that you're not as great as you are so that they can keep you around and continue to use and abuse you. So that is how I already know that you are a high value person yourself. The only difference, possible difference between you and I is that I am fully aware of my worth. You may not be. I mean, you may value yourself to a certain degree, but you may not realise just how great you actually are. You may not realise that at all. And this is why I say it's time to check in with ourselves, realise our worth, have this respect for ourselves, and develop this self love. Identify things that you love about yourself, your qualities, your abilities. It could even be something about your physical appearance as well. I mean, we do have this physical body. We should take care of it. We should appreciate it. There's nothing wrong with that at all. As long as we don't put too much focus on it. And we also pay attention to other qualities, things of depth and substance. So yeah, it's very important that we separate ourselves from these types of people and take the time to do that because you know what? That's exactly what they don't want you to do. If there's one thing a narcissist does not want you to do, it's for you to separate yourself from them and take the time to evaluate your own worth based on your qualities, abilities and virtues. Yeah, that is the last thing they want you to do because straight away you're going to look at yourself. You're going to realise how great you are and then it's going to be like, what about you? You're not good for me. You're not even near my level. The amount of value that I'm pouring out and you, all you're doing is just leeching off me and taking value away. So of course that's the last thing they want you to do. That is why they manipulate and gas like you. That is why in the end they blame you for everything. They start to speak campaign against you because they don't want you to realise your worth. They don't want you to realise how great you are. But here's the thing, if you've got some losing narcissist trying to blame you for everything and you've got all of these flying monkeys harassing you, that should tell you everything you need to know because normal people aren't going to do that. They're not even going to notice you. They're not even going to care about you. They're not even going to know that you're there if you're really not anything. So that should tell you everything that you need to know. It should tell you just how great you are. And that's exactly what it does for me. The way I look at it, the more flying monkeys, the better. It just reminds me just how great of a person I am. Because I already know if I was in anything, if I was nobody, nobody would even notice me. No one would even be there. I would just be living a normal life like anyone else. And yeah, I would just be an average person. But when you're going through these smear campaigns and you've got these flying monkeys harassing you, that's because you're a valuable person. That's because you're a million times better than they will ever be. They are pieces of crap compared to you. And they don't want you to know that. They don't want you to realize just how great you are. They want to keep you down just like them. You just got to get away from them and just keep watching my videos. These videos will help you when these narcissists are constantly trying to gas like you and make you think that you're so much less than who you actually are. Use my videos to reprogram yourself into accepting your true worth because you are worth so much more than what they have led you to believe. They make you believe that you're so much less than who you actually are to keep you around them. It keeps you questioning yourself and thinking that you've got to be better in order to please them. But if you could just realize your worth right now and then you would see how they're no good for you, how they're just bringing you down, then all you would want to do is move away from them. Because then you would realize that they're no good for you. You would realize that they're absolute garbage. But sometimes we don't see that when we're in it. Sometimes you just got to pull out of it and then when you're looking at it from the outside, you can see what it exactly is. You can't always see it when you're in it though. You've got to look at it from the outside. It's like you've got to climb the mountain and then look down. But yeah, this is what they will do. This is what all narcissists will do at the end of a relationship. What will they do? If you're being less than them, you will know. What will a narcissist do at the end of a relationship? They will blame you. Yes, that's right. That's exactly what they will do. All narcissists will blame you at the end of a relationship. Why? Because they're absolute losers. They're weak. They're insecure. They are incapable of taking responsibility, responding to the best of their ability, accepting and dealing with the consequences of their actions, handling things like a mature, responsible adult. They're incapable of any of that. But you know what they are capable of? They're capable of betraying you, blaming you for everything, discarding you like a piece of trash after they've used you up. They're capable of spreading lies and rumors about you, assassinating your character, smearing your name. Yeah, they're capable of all of this shit. And what does that say about us if we choose to remain around them? I mean, you just got to think about that. Someone who has shown you already what they are capable of and they have engaged in these harmful and destructive behaviors and you're still choosing to remain around them. Sometimes we just got to look at ourselves. I really just ask ourselves, what are we doing? Like seriously, what are we doing if we should value ourselves? How can we remain around these types of people when they've already shown us exactly who they are? When people like that show you who they are, you should be running away. Doesn't matter what they portray themselves to be. Doesn't matter how beautiful or handsome they are. On the inside, they are a horrible mess. They're demons. They're evil. Doesn't matter what they look like on the outside. That is irrelevant. Who cares? What matters is what is underneath. The character. How a person treats you and cares for you. That's what is most important. Thanks for the donation there, Kirsty Teco. I appreciate it. I always appreciate the donations. Means a lot, no matter how small. And also we are accepting donations for medical supplies for the children in Gaza. And this is a charity that is very important to me. It's something that I hold close to my heart because I care a lot about children. I mean, of course, part of this, what I do in here, it's about educating victims of narcissists so that hopefully they can protect their children if they have them already. Or if you're hoping to move on and start a family with someone else, it's important to educate yourself on this right now. So yeah, this charity is very important to me. Providing medical supplies to the children in Gaza. And I will be adding the option to donate to that charity to this video once I've ended the life. But if you see all of my past live videos as well, you will see that option to donate to the children in Gaza so that they can receive medical supplies, which is very important. So far, we have received the donations of $120. And of course that all goes direct to the children in Gaza for their medical supplies. I don't take any money out of that and neither does the charity, it goes straight for the children. So everything that you donate, it doesn't go anywhere else. So please, if you can show your support to this charity, it would mean a lot to me. I mean, just imagine what it's like being a child in the war injured. Of course, a horrible experience. So we do need to show our support. We do need to be there for them and just do what we can. Anyway, that is it for this video. All the narcissists will do this at the end of a relationship. They will all blame you. I hope you found this video helpful. If you did, you can show your support down below by giving it a thumbs up. Very important as it helps the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there so that other survivors will see it. 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