 What I bring that's different to you this independent of you that doesn't rely on you is what makes me good for you I'm what makes you good for me. Don't feel threatened by Someone just because they have gifts and abilities that are outside of you. They brought it with them. They are A flourishing growing person outside of you and so should you be outside of them So what what makes them? Brilliant to have in your life is their difference to you their strengths their abilities that are That are independent of you that are not controlled by you They don't depend on you that they're gonna have with or without you And I think it's settling that that that's what makes the relationship brilliant It's not what threatens it. We want to be able to flourish even in our most close relationships So what you have that is different to me what you can do and what you know That is different to me is what makes you good for me and vice versa