 Hi, you guys, I'm popping off for a real quick video. It's not gonna be long today, but I thought I would address the topic of Why other men call? Men simps who take care of their women um Because they can't do it And another thing is like if that if that same man met That man is he called simp in person. He wouldn't be calling him simp. He'd be calling him boss manager Sir How are y'all doing? So yeah, they can call men simp online But when they call when they you know when they address them in person, it's mr. Sir boss manager owner CEO Um Doctor, you know, this is why they can't call them that in person Okay So That is why So whenever someone calls, you know, oh you must be missing with a stamp. Oh, da da da da Here's your comeback. Oh you mean doctor such-and-such Oh, you mean mr. Such-and-such director of such-and-such Oh, okay. You mean such-and-such on the board of such-and-such Oh You mean mr. Such-and-such CEO of such-and-such Oh, okay. Okay Oh, you mean such-and-such phd. Oh, okay stamp Oh Because you know, most of the people that are upset is because they can't do it You know um And i'm i'm really start i'm gonna really start breaking down people's insults Because you can learn a lot from people's insults you can learn a lot about their insecurities And a lot about their character And a lot about how they really feel about you. Okay So If you wanted to someone in there upset and they call whoever you're dating a stamp or whatever Just understand that what it translates into is I can't afford you so i'm going to hate on the man who can Okay, and call him a stamp Because I can't do what he does okay a lot of people um Will laugh because You know all these words and terms and things have been invented by men to Belittle the power of women and the men who have the power to get The type of woman they want So of course they're going to make up words that mean something um Negative or anything like that, but you have to understand why You know It helps them sleep at night And helps them sleep at night and it helps them feel good about their position In life Because you can't you can't go to sleep at night comfortably knowing you can't get the type of woman you want you don't have you know what women want and You'll never be able to support fully another person and have them respect you as they do This other person who you're calling sent So you just get mad and call everybody names and go to sleep and suck your thumb Okay, so that's what they do So i'm like, okay. Well, yeah, whatever. He's whatever whatever But when you address him in person and in public you will address him as mister sir director of such and such and such and such Like everybody else. Okay Thank you. Everyone's commenting on my makeup. This is fenty. Rihanna's new lines okay so Guys Stop using that word. It makes you look broke. Like you can't afford to even take somebody out to dinner Ladies, I don't think you use it as much, but if you are using it stop using it Because i'm i'm saying, you know these insults showing lots of insecurities Um another thing, you know A lot of people Say you're supposed to be equal and bring this and that to the table and this is that blah blah blah blah I shouldn't have to take care of a grown woman blah blah blah blah blah blah and you know but I feel like Yeah, if they're your same exact age and they're putting up with you and i'm gonna say it Women have to put up with men their same age. It's not mutual like mentally Women are 10 years more mature in their mind than men are So for her to put up with a man her own age is like putting up with someone 10 years younger than her That's why I don't ever I would never date someone close to my age And if I did it was very short lived because I felt like a parent so If if you're lucky enough guys to get a woman close to your own age Mature You know be the most mature person you can be you know, why because you already thinks you're a child You know so so don't act like one Don't you know don't complain like one at least try to man up if you're dating someone your own age Because women tend to go older because they don't want to deal with another child or a child period In a grown man so If you're gonna date women your own age level up and you know at least act older Have better responsibility and better priorities like someone 10 years older or then yourself. Okay um another thing Is you know, I'm very thankful and appreciative of my husband And everything he does for me because I know that's very rare Especially You know these days, so I'm very appreciative and I always talk about him and You know women and men get mad Because oh well the only reason he's doing that for her is this isn't that blah blah blah blah blah blah, you know like um, okay But if you're so much better than me, how come you can't get someone to do that for you You know what I'm saying So, you know when you start Hurling insults and comments and stuff. It's just showing your own insecurity Why are you mad at me because I can do something but you're supposed to be better than me You can't do it. Then are you really better? You know So Yeah, are you really better if you can't do it if you're gonna fix your mouth to talk about somebody at least you need to be better okay, so And a lot of this has to do with low self-esteem and other people like if you have low self-esteem Instead of fixing yourself You pick out what's wrong with everyone else because you are too afraid to look in the mirror and do that to yourself and improve okay, so For people like that go look in the mirror and do it to yourself and fix those improvements So you don't have to be mad Okay, that's why I say, you know, I don't get mad at people because I understand why they're doing things And this is how you can control your emotions ladies Instead of getting mad at your man or whoever Ask yourself. Why are they doing this? Think about it, you know Are they hurt? Are they trying to hurt me because I hurt them? Are they insecure? Okay, do they have low self-esteem? Okay Now you're not gonna get as emotional because you understand why they're doing it. You're not taking it personally Okay, you don't ever take stuff personally. You try to understand why they're doing it first And then if you understand why they're doing it You can make a better decision on how you're going to React, okay, because you shouldn't just react. You should think first Okay So whenever someone does something wrong to me, I sit and say, you know, why would they do that to me? Is it because they're jealous? Is it because they're they can't have what I have? Is it because you know I make them feel less than what they are. Okay Well, I guess I would be mad too. So I don't you know, I don't take it personally I'm like, yeah, I'll be mad at me too, you know, and a lot of people would say, oh, that's conceited that But it's still true Oh, she might not agree with my morals because that's not how she was raised Even though her morals aren't working for her. She's still sticking to them. She's still repeating something that's not working. So Maybe she's just insane, you know When you repeat something over and over and over and get the same result and you expect different results But you keep doing the same thing over and over that's one of the definitions of insanity. So I have to chalk it up to mental illness And you know, I don't react I ask myself, why are you doing this? And then I break it down, you know So that's another way to control emotions around people who are always, you know at you How can I get a man to improve without telling him off? You can't you got to tell him off Or date somebody better and tell him look It's not happening You know, if you're afraid to tell someone off then if you're not If you're afraid to tell someone off, you don't need to be with them. Okay If you Like I will tell them off in a second Uh, can you break up To make a man propose to you Okay Here's the deal with that If he likes you more Yes If you like him more No Don't do it. It's not worth it Okay This is why I always tell y'all, okay, if y'all have read the art Of seduction y'all would understand how to pick the people that you end up with How to pick your victims is what they call it. How do you pick your victims? You don't pick someone who's going to be a challenge or too much work You pick someone that is going to be easy putting in your hand and you're able to call the shop. Okay Why are you chasing men who? You know, a lot of women are chasing men who don't even want them A lot of women are chasing men who know That these men are not attracted to you. Okay And you are doing this to yourselves. You're aiming in the wrong direction You know, a lot of women would be like, well, I just want this type of man to like me and Get in where you fit in. Okay. If this type of man don't like you Just stop looking for him. Go to the type of man that worships you I keep telling all this y'all keep going back to the man Who bash you online talk trash about you, but you still keep going over there, you know There are certain types of women that men are find attractive In a certain race, you know, they've been programmed by media by society Bicultural, um, you know Means and This is what they find attractive if you keep chasing after them and they have told you look I don't like this type of person That is your fault. You know, if this person over here It mires you likes you um worships you over here, but you're not Looking at him because you're too bent on this You're losing out on the type of person who will give you whatever you want. Okay If you ignore this you're going to keep running in a circle and keep getting left Abused and used and I'm telling y'all this because y'all know is true. Y'all can be mad. Y'all can say whatever you need to say But the truth is Be an opportunist Don't try to do what you think you're supposed to do If you want the lifestyle that you want be an opportunist Okay, keep your options open be an opportunist go where you are wanted and admired and worshiped That's where you go. Okay. You don't go where you where you're not wanted you go where you're worshiped This is common sense. Okay, and it doesn't matter what you look like There is men who will worship you in all walks of life. You know what I'm saying? So find the people who Want to worship you that is how you find someone you don't chase behind the people that are talking trash about you That's retarded. Okay. Yes. I used the word because it's mental Something is mentally wrong with you So for example a lot of people and a lot of people talk trash Oh, she only uh has what she has because Oh, she's uh, she she's like mixed or have lighter skin and and her husband is like color stuck and dot it on He likes like of course That's how he was conditioned. You think i'ma go after some pretty boy who looked better than me No, i'ma go after somebody who's gonna worship me. I don't care what color he is. Okay So if you know this in the back, you know this already you got it down You know everything you know everything about colorism if you know this why you keep going to the guys that are programmed not To think you're beautiful Why won't you go to someone who worships you and thinks you're beautiful? You know what i'm saying? Um, i'm not gonna go to somebody who thinks i'm ugly if I were to go. Okay Okay, let's look at me If I were indian or mexican Um, I would be considered dark Okay And the the top of the line man or the men who you know, we're all about something or the men that were most desirable Would not want me Okay, do you think i'm gonna go chase after them if i'm you know Oh, you know, no i'm not i'm gonna be like, uh I know over here and over this on this part of the world these men will worship me So this is where i'm going. You know, I know on this part of the town or you know, this type of man is gonna worship me So that's what i'm going for. I'm not gonna go where i'm not wanting period point blank Okay, so Gotta think about it Don't get mad because you can't have what you think you want because you don't even want it because they're not gonna treat you right You know, you think you want it But then when you get into it, you're gonna be like, wait a minute. I'm doing all the work Why because you're not his type He don't want you but he took you because you were begging and he saw an opportunity Okay So stop being someone's opportunity and be and find an opportunity And find someone to worship. Okay A lot of guys are like Uh, a lot of people were saying oh, how come, uh, you know sometimes And you know when things happen in the media a certain type of woman becomes trendy like right now Black women are trendy with with uh, you know middle eastern men Because of janet jackson and rihanna so now you see a higher interest rate in Black women by Arab men So don't buy too much into that, you know They just want to see what it's like, you know They don't want to see what's like. Oh, there's billionaire got with janet jackson. Oh, there's other billionaire is dating rihanna Oh, let me see what it's like. Let me go see what this is going on, you know So Don't get too caught up. Just remember They're trying to see if they you know what's going on, but there's truly people that will worship Any type of woman, you know period You just got to go find them You know, there are men what they call chubby chasers You big they got men out there who will worship you because you fat and that's what you like And jiggle there are men out there who will worship Every inch of your fat body, okay, believe me So go and look for them Okay, if you if you are being rejected or rejected because of your size go find somebody that likes you for your size Unless you want to lose the weight and do this and do that, but you don't have to wait you can go You know be worshiped over here Until you decide to do what you need to do, you know So there's no reason why anybody should be mad or lacking. They just keep running in the wrong direction Yeah I don't know like How do color struck men treat their chocolate daughters? chocolate daughters um A lot of the times they see themselves in them They see themselves in them. Um, if they're dark because I know james Really is like close to leila, you know, that's his spitty image almost so He sees himself in her, okay um That's how they treat them fine. I don't know like Unless they're self-hating Then I don't know but according to my family nothing you know, everybody gets treated great around here They get anything they want He gets up early on fridays to take her to school an hour early To her choir practice every friday, you know always buying her stuff like Treats her like a princess Uh So You know what they say, okay, you should create your own matchmaking. Oh, no What? I need someone to chubby My I gotta go in a second But this I just came up a little quick to tell y'all this because A lot of y'all y'all are getting mad because y'all are chasing the same type of man That this person next to you is chasing but that that type of man does not Um, you know, it's not interested in you Okay, and and I'm not trying to be mean. I'm just being honest to save your time. Okay. I'm trying to save time I'm trying to Get people to the next level before they get too old I'm trying to help y'all so stop wasting time on stuff that you already know in the back of your head and just Won't accept. Okay Um It's true It's true, you know And I feel like people know this they just don't want to accept it And I don't know why you can't change it You just have to you can't get mad at it because that's not gonna help you You can't change them you can't Hate on everybody because you can't get You know something you just gotta go find it in another place Okay, how you doing? So Don't get mad don't get mad I have seen this since I was a child, you know It is what it is Okay, it's the same in every other country with brown people in india is the same And mexico is the same and brazil is the same. Okay In every country where there's colorism is the same. So stop acting like it's just here. It's everywhere Get in where you fit in because you know some old rich white men is sitting up somewhere in new york who would love a Dark skin brown thick Brazilian girl Wow, you know somebody else is over here looking for someone light with you know This these type of features and stuff like that in their own country. They don't know the you know What's popping over here? You know, so you got to think get in where you fit in Get in where you sit in so If I want to be Worship, I'm not gonna go somewhere where they don't like women that look like me. I'm not I'm going somewhere where they worship women like me. That's where I'm going. Okay So that's where a lot of women need to be going instead of trying to Force them yourself on someone who just needs not into you. Okay, that's all I'm gonna say Because a lot of women get mad at me Because I they like oh, you don't talk about this and you don't talk about that just D Okay, and you know, I already knew the answers in the back of your mind. I don't know why are you playing This it might not be morally right. It might not be ethnic ethically conscious But it is What it already is and what it's gonna be and what it's been What you gonna do? right Where do they worship light skin skinny? 53 year old latinas girl old man look any old man Old man words of anything just go for an old man an old man or any race child My friend is a beautiful dark skin woman. She said in hawaii the men fall over her all The men in hawaii is nice looking shoes. I went to hawaii. I was like, but they were all too short Some of them were Samoan. You could tell they were tall. They thought I was from hawaii. I'm like, I wish I was there but They're beautiful in hawaii The men are beautiful and They like variety they like variety, you know, so Islander I love like islands and things like that very open minded when it comes like, you know When it comes to women who don't look like all the women there It's different. So that's what they like A lot of women have been duped into thinking. Oh, if I don't marry my own race of man I'm trained or something something like that But then your own race of man don't want to marry you unless they get to mistreat you. So with more important You know, if you dark anyway, you'll keep gonna be black anyway. So I don't know what you're talking about Oh, I want to have all black children. I don't want to you know, have children and um, you know Wipe out all my DNA and uh ancestry and blah blah blah blah blah But you but you dark. Okay, so if you make a child with someone light or a white person or A latino person, they're gonna still be brown You're gonna be like the weekend. You're gonna be like me. Okay, they're gonna be like rihanna that you still they're still considered Pretty much black, you know So you're not selling out and then most likely your mixed children are gonna marry black Because that's what's gonna worship them Okay, and then it goes back Then you have some black kids with one fourth Then they're probably gonna go marry somebody else Little lighter mix different race, but they're still gonna be black And then they're gonna go right back over here because they're gonna feel, you know, it's the cycle keeps going like this It goes from here to here to here to here That's how it goes. Okay Believe me, I know Okay, so that would be like, okay, so I'm half uh latina and I'm half black I didn't go and marry a latino I didn't marry a white guy. I didn't marry none of that. I married a black man with dark skin Because that's what worshiped me. Okay. I got in where I fit in. That's it I wouldn't try to be politically correct. I just got in where I fit in What time is it? Okay so Excuse me for being an opportunist My mom She her husband is She didn't have many races. You know what I'm saying? She got in where she fit in so Make sure if you're chasing or You shouldn't even be chasing if you chasing anything You should that should be an indicator that you need to turn around and go in the opposite direction and let something chase you okay, um Because a lot of women were hating and you know secretly behind people backs and saying this and that from that old, you know Lipstick alley thing and from like gossip or whatever and in the comments and stuff like that and you know all the haters and people They they keep saying this stuff because they don't want to open their options They don't want to open up their options. They think well, you should like me because I have a master's degree I speak proper English and clean. I'm this I'm that I have proper etiquette That's not what they're looking for. You know what I'm saying? Get in where you fit and somebody else will love that over here And you know, but you still over here Right So and and the thing about it is if you're hung up on race And you're trying to date for lifestyle you want to get that out your mind Okay Now if you Are just adamant about it and look I am not gonna you know, it's too different. I can't Then find someone who actually in your race that worships you if they might not be as attractive as what you're attracted to But find someone in your race that you like that you can deal with Who worships you as well if you ain't just having trouble, you know, there are older guys Bigger guys who would take any chick of any color in your race anytime any place, you know But and they will worship you, you know, what do you value more? being Given a great lifestyle being worshiped or being with someone you own only Find attractive in the relationship, but yet they're not feeling the same way about you You know for me, I'm going with the best opportunity It's just like a job Oh, this job is close to home. It's nice It's uh, you know, the building is beautiful. The this is nice, you know Or I'm gonna have to move over here and get uh, you know an office And a nice building overlooking the city with my name plate on it Um, you know relocation fees home, blah, blah, but I'm going over here I don't care about this place down the street that I can walk to that. I'm making minimum wage I'm going where the opportunity is. Okay, and this is how a lot of you women look to me Who can't get it through their mind? That once you get married and once you settle down you you are there for a long time so Think about this You're there for a long time. You got to enjoy your environment Enjoy your lifestyle. Enjoy the amenities that come with it. Enjoy the person worshipping you Enjoy your time off. Enjoy your option to work or not to work or you're going to be over here Slave it away for minimum wage for the rest of your life. It's because you like, you know the look of the building and it's close to your house and Then it, you know, they end up firing you anyway after 20 years because they're not loyal Their companies don't care. They just hire somebody else Okay, so think about it. Be smart Don't just let the internet and you know, uh, fake conscious movements uh make Or break your lifestyle. Don't let them push you right back into poverty, you know Get in where you fit in That's what everyone should be doing get in where they're getting in because in the future it's not gonna be a right race It's gonna be about money. It's gonna be about class. It's gonna be about money because everybody's gonna mix up anyway Everybody's gonna be paying the brown How much money you got? Okay, how much money do you have? Did you marry up? Are you still over here struggling? Okay What if Someone says say I keep a trust fund a secret. Why would you tell anybody? I mean, what would it benefit you? They're just not gonna give you as much because they think you already got something. So why would you tell them? Just tell them you get a crazy check Oh, I don't work. I'm crazy I'm disability You women should take her advice. She's not lying to you. Oh, who's that? Is that a guy? Someone says black men earn less. So if you're looking for a come up, it's crazy to target them Well, so for example, if I had married someone of a different race, of course, they would make more money. Yeah, maybe but like I said I went with what worshiped me and what could take care of me and what I could thrive, you know, so um Like I said, I have a friend who's dark dark dark and she married a white guy Her house is bigger than mine. She drives nicer cars than me and she's worshiped Okay, she's dark skin. She went in where she fit in. Okay So It is what it is. It's not that I think I'm better than you It's not that. Oh, I know I could get any guy as long as he's dark. It's not about that. It's about opportunity Okay, it's like, okay They approach me. I see, you know, I can get what I can get out of them. Okay. Let's go. I'll work with you This is gonna work because you like me more than I like you You spending money. You're gonna give me what I want. You're gonna give me the lifestyle I want. Okay. Let's do this. Okay Um, I don't have to chase behind him. I don't have to worry about, you know What he's gonna do if you're gonna leave for somebody else that he really like No, because I am what he really likes so Why not just find the person Or the type of person that really wants you instead of worrying about everything else Stop focusing on that. You're wasting your time wasting a lot of time Anyway, I gotta go y'all. This was just a quick short poppying video probably Not really short for it. Hey Gotta go I guess I'll go downstairs with y'all Someone asked me if they should get breast implants at 18. Well, you probably not finished growing it Wait till at least you're past 21 and see what happens because sometimes, you know, the little booby baby I mean the little booby women after they pop out of kid They have huge boobs Okay, then plus implants now you're gonna have giant boobs I would wait unless you have like a a cup If you had an a cup Then get some small ones. Don't go super big because they're not look fake and You know, you're not even done growing at 18 So I really wouldn't recommend getting something big I didn't need no breast implants. She my sister had to get a reduction After she had kids they went They blew up gotta go pick up the children Yeah, I was only on for a short time Would I come back later? Maybe maybe I don't know I try But y'all remember what I said, okay, and it's all in love. I'm not trying to be a hater Ain't got no reason to hate Gotta watch my step before I fall to fall My dream, um, I'm probably I don't know if I'm taking them I'll take you All right What You know, I'm live, right? You know, I'm live, right? I hope so I hope the truth be told And the truth was told Well, you gotta say it louder because I know they didn't hear If you don't keep paying these bills would If you don't keep paying these bills, I'm leaving I know that's right Well, thank you. I appreciate you paying the bills James. Bye Oh, it's so dark. Yeah, I didn't know I was live Well, I'll see y'all later. I gotta go Um, I might be back on later if I get home early