 And for me, I soon learned like very quickly at a young age that I was the problem. But I made that whatever emotional situation was going on, I made it worse. So I would run away and hide in like wherever it was, but I distanced myself from them because I believed and I truly believed this, that if I was out of the way, their problem would go away. But that just made it worse because they thought I didn't care and I had no empathy and I was just being selfish and that couldn't be further from the truth. And it's a huge stereotype, which again has a big impact on the whole infertilization and also it links back into the unintentional gaslighting. It makes relationships quite difficult. It's putting it lightly. Well,