 there's a few things going on. I think one is we have become a culture that's very introspective and it's all about well how do I feel and how do I express myself in this very kind of me-centered culture and I think that that's part of it and then I think there's this acceptance of doubting any overarching truth or so so to say that well you can only be one gender or sex which seems obvious and you know biologically it is I think when somebody questions that you're really not to question them.