 Hey there, Psych2Goers. Welcome back to our channel. What makes someone attractive? Is it their humor, the way they dress or act, or maybe their charming good looks? These qualities may be obvious, like their physical attraction, or other traits that are less so. Would you like to know more about those elusive, less obvious ones? Well, here are nine underrated qualities that make a person sexy. Number one, you know how to play the push and pull game. Are you a natural at switching between the roles of desirable and desiring? According to research, playing hard to get is a potent mating tactic originating from a perceived demand for the person. It involves being inviting and needing or giving and receiving at the same tempo as your partner's preference. The constant push and pull orchestrates a dance of sorts. The partner naturally develops a liking to your actions and joins it at will, strengthening the intimate connection between the two of you. You have mischievous tendencies. Do you often find yourself falling for the antagonist in a movie? Sexy people have an act for knowing when to be naughty and when to be playful. You know how to balance the heat at just the right amount, keeping a check on going overboard or becoming too dry. But most of the time it only appears sexy if you indulge in it as a part of your own personal fun and enjoyment. You don't fear being judged and are not putting others in a disadvantage through your playful antics. 3. You choose who you are Sexy people possess healthy levels of self-knowledge and with their natural confidence and charisma, they have a steady self-view. Since this is the case, you know exactly what you want and are not afraid to make a decision based on your needs. Since sexy people know themselves best, a person attracted to you must understand your self-view makes demanding your love futile if it doesn't work out. You are either right for them or not, with no in-betweens. 4. Your emotions physically manifest Are confident mannerisms hot Sexy people are naturally curious about the world, with an innate love for exploration and journey, and naturally your sense of wonder gets absorbed by the people you meet too. When you're devoted to keeping yourself content, you know full well who and what you desire. Are you highly attuned with yourself? When you know exactly what would satisfy you and what will deplete your energy, it makes your body language even sexier. 5. You're not passive Sexy people are initiators, confident but not arrogant. You know how to press the right dials and attract your desired person. You enjoy making people feel pursued, validating them and making them feel special. This also translates to an intimate connection in the bedroom, with a mutual exchange of control in a safe, intimate setting. 6. You are not attached to results Sexy people are not the clingy types, nor get attached to rejection in any form. You trust your place in the journey, and a slight setback would just feel like a chip in their shoulder. If something's not mutually beneficial, being the sexy person that you are, you know how to walk away and recalibrate, to a place where you shine even brighter. 7. You have a positive sense of self-worth Whether single or in a relationship, you innately understand your own self-worth. There's a high chance that you don't need to chase the feeling of fulfillment and completion, since you feel that way already, or at least are very close to feeling that way. And with such assuredness, you don't have much trouble connecting with other people too, making you excellent and hot partners. Is it getting hot in here or what? 8. You understand your partner Contrary to popular belief, sexy people are not full of themselves. You love the act of giving, and you show this by showering your partner with love in your own unique way based on your very own love language. You are able to intimately understand your partner on all personal levels, be it mental, emotional, spiritual, or sexual, possessing good intuition on their desires. 9. You know how to live in the moment Do you know anyone who's an avid thrill-seeker? Sexy people can be highly spontaneous people. Yep, you're not afraid to jump at opportunities in the short time. If someone sparks your interest at a party, you'll go up to them with little to no hesitation. A sexy person hardly ever doubts themselves, and you show this in every aspect of your life, so it's no wonder sexy people are extremely passionate people as well. Sexiness can be a highly subjective domain. There are many such underrated traits that may actually be majorly attractive, but at the end of the day, as long as you feel a sense of interpersonal connection with someone, then that's all the attractiveness one needs. There are no universal criteria. It all depends on what feels right. If they make you hear violins all around, that is all the sexiness you need. Can you think of any other such traits? Do you think this video helped you recognize some of them? Feel free to leave a comment down below with your thoughts, experiences, or suggestions. If you found this video interesting, be sure to hit the like button and share it with ones out there unaware of these hidden traits. Don't forget to subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell for more new videos. And thanks for watching.