 Hi, she was seven. I'm back and I'm going to be speaking with Sean. Okay, Sean She has her own mobile business online shoe business She is Really down to earth. She's a Pisces like me and we met a few years ago at a at a Halloween party And I did her reading and I've been doing a few of her readings you know Over the years and I have her on the phone right now and we're gonna talk about her life her lifestyle How she got what she got how she got to be here. She's gonna tell her story and You know how she you know got the man that she married so Y'all want to welcome Sean. Hi Sean. How are you? My name is Sean Apparently living in Houston Texas Mm-hmm July 23 a year in July one year But I've been with my Paul says 2009 Wow But I'm gonna go back further than that. I love me to try to leave me now. I use a shoplift You used to shoplift? Yes, I shoplift For state-to-state state. Okay. I've been I've been locked up twice, I've been contented twice So I was hoping to keep a job because I wasn't Like doing one about telling me nothing I'm not like that But I really had a bad shot at the head. No drugs. No drugs and I only money You needed that money, but you didn't want to work for it So it wasn't over this one, but I want to pass money all my life Think I had two jobs in my life My kid, we never lived in the project You know what never lived in the project. I always had homes. My mom was a nurse My dad had a cast So I left home at 16 had a baby at 16 my mama doc my daughter But she still caught me mom. Mm-hmm I got a job at home when I was like 2017-18 I went to the penitentiary at 19 or 20 Mm-hmm first time I was young. I was a penitentiary. I've been three years now for that We did a three-year service for shoplifting and when I got out, I still was shoplifting and I went back When I was 21 years old Then I had a bit I met my I met a guy Had a baby from my about two kids I had a baby from him He's not passed. He was married. I was married. There was an every year Tire this past my son's day. I met another I met another guy And I was with him for 15 years Mm-hmm That's one of the things I got into another relationship. I was just got for 15 years and this guy didn't want anything Was dragging me down and I always made money and I was a seamen. He was like, I don't know like He wasn't good for my spirit. That's all right But it's in the 15 years 10 years 10 years So he was dragging you down and you got out You know, he never had a job, but I thought I had a job It was what we had to piss them I did that and he did with and with Terry Did you miss okay? He did do that But mentally in a relationship Right, I think he thought he hold me Like you know, I took him out the bottoms. Mm-hmm, and they don't shine I've never had a job like I've had two jobs in my life I was still feeling and I went to jail again, but it's three months. It's time. I didn't go back to the penitentiary I did three months in the county You know after that when I got out I cried and I cried and I cried I was going to take that taste on my mom Man on my life, but I wasn't doing that cuz me Let's take a plan for my own stuff. Mm-hmm Oh, because I had that Yo, it's coming for me. That's all I used to do. That's all I knew. I knew my money was bad and I went to jail that last time when I came home. He didn't give me a trick no more It's not a bad thing my mom He switched up for me. Mm-hmm. So It only used to be a consistent. He was not consistent. So I left you know, I Moved in my own condo and you know, I was doing jokes traffic trash can do a traffic mm-hmm The late money and my cousin She's I got a million dollars next to you and I think it oh no She's kidding me. So yeah, I mean I'm leaving. She said don't go don't go. Don't go. I've seen snakes She dreams snakes. Okay. I'm wanting away This is our spiritual. I was protected, right? Mm-hmm, but the police did come the police did come out But I like they didn't give us They didn't give us but there was an eye opening for me. Mm-hmm. So I caught my back and told her I said you was right Because of so it's given a number. She said you need to go So this guy he's 20 years older than me And he's a Caucasian. Mm-hmm. I'm like And he said I say I called him over Monday. Can I come to your house? They know I found out that he'll drive away You popped up I'm already a driveway, right? And he said And I was over there with that. He was he was sickly and I got him well and My condo he wants to check about three three three months three three months. Oh my condo He pays your condo up for three months He won't be a chick for me. He said it's for my son three months in my condo You know, and there's mother's day my family medium made two thousand that mother's day And he said well, you I don't tell me I'm gonna say I got some condos on the walk. You can live with you. So I packed up. I packed up But he gave you a condo Yes, but he said that with me. Oh, I said he stayed there with me Yeah, because you know He stayed there with me at the condo. So it was part of them the two-bedroom And then he had for every Three condos on the water and then we moved to the three-bedroom Look, I stayed up about two years Three years. They say no going for a house, baby. Don't look for house. I'm not used to this I'll be for how it's like maybe a hundred fifty thousand, you know, so small three-bedroom too bad And he wasn't in with That's not good enough. No, you want to be house. I'll thank you Okay, so I'm happy him. I don't get a lame thing. So I want some small and I'm scary on top of it So the real estate agents of this house is a three-story With a pool on the water on the back of the canal three-story on on the water With all the bathrooms. I have full of bathroom. Wow And I'm like, I don't know this way. Oh, it's really scary. It's like a dream. I'm like, I'm in a dream Like that's what happened. So we get up behind He put his own nice We had it on different stuff in the house and that's like that My first car was the X6 BMW Your first car was a BMW Yes, X6 was younger. 2009. So my first luxury car ever in my life 2009 ever You know brand BMW luxury I've been for stuff. I had nothing to do it. I thought money Start laundry Okay Got a little ratchet Simply You want to take the coolant, you know, but I thought it's gonna be and this isn't it but some turning speed around and we work it out and I said I want to do them up, but he took my car for me. He took my X6 for me get to the fun He took my band and locked it up my little bootie he locked it up in this type of the wall watch and I had a little man So you couldn't even make money that way Downgrade it to a Cadillac Okay Two more years later, but I missed the clutch in it. Well, you gotta say it. I can't drive it or whatever, right? So it's a Mercedes Shaded in for a fast Must say that's what I'm trying to turn it. What did I want to do? Kind of skip it. That's what I want to do. And I'll tell them about my business I want to be seen here He'll only but I started off there a runner band And then I thought I'm trying to climb it in the back of the band But it was a new cargo base. I thought I'm trying to climb it up in the back of the band I went with the Mercedes, so it was open and they say what you want to do and I told him what I want to do So the people in the safe would I want to do and they saw me Austin and they did it They didn't have been about this out of there, you know, I Yeah, and I was on TV Twice the first vocal bootie came I saw that on like I saw Yeah, I saw that and That's a Mercedes van cargo van that you sell out of it, right? And then your store is also online too, right? Yeah, no, no, I took it down because I can't you go with it Oh, okay, do we not take it down because we don't know what side they went, right? They got a try it on Yes, right. So it's another mother here to me, you know in town and I drive to them That's good, so what made what made y'all to want to get married like After y'all made it He's getting old so he didn't want to be alone So you in the wheel Y'all have any prenups, well, I don't mean to get your business, but Okay It's not easy it's not easy. I keep telling people, you know, it's a job too What Uh-huh So he drank a lot So but do you think it's worth it in the end Because you got what you wanted Thank you Right they treat they treat you bad and you don't have nothing to show for it So at least you have something to show for me like you can do you can call me whatever you want Just keep that money coming in, you know Like you can't do nothing to me, right? Um, that's I mean, that's a good business head. I'd like to say that's a business mind You know, this is a business, you know, of course you like, you know the company y'all get along sometimes, you know It's not all people's offering But you know what you wanted in life and you know, you got it That's that's the you know, that's what it's all about So I got some questions that some of these ladies are asking I always had a business maybe I said this all my life. I want to write me with a f1 pp I always say that right and when I'm gonna be at the door slam Oh, he had a right truck Oh, yeah We had a shipping He had a shipping I couldn't have no shoes. I said it Oh, I've been little I was getting myself on the water The house when I picked it on the water when I was little You know, we are visions and our vision means like an ocean like my house at the end, you know, like in california Like when Ohio was sitting up on top And the ocean wasn't even he knows what So you were manifesting from a young age the lifestyle that you want to you already knew what you want Yes I think myself, I was I think I dated my life Well, I'm a Pisces though. I know I know the feeling that's You know it, but we'll follow through going in these meetings And it ain't that bad we like Yeah, we like the lifestyle, but we don't want to work for it. No, we don't we want to find the easiest way To get what we want And we don't like another thing is like we got very strong, you know abilities as far as Intuition and and things like that. So we know what path to follow when it's My mother I feel it and sometimes I don't think I feel it It's tough from and like I've seen somebody other day and they like I said, oh she can go get high or whatever, right? And the guy's like, oh my god, how you know that? How you do that? Like, oh my god, so I'm scared like I can say well on my phone. I'm like, whoa Look, I'm a scary And we feel it. We don't like you. I don't know We don't know what I'm gonna be other than what you were gonna bag a little more This way swim away. Mm-hmm Yep, that's true Yep, I like I don't deal with certain people and yeah, some people I I find very, um Interesting and some people I won't even like make eye contact with Yeah I think it's sad when people think there's Boozy Better than someone because I can't act that way Because my money my money say I can do that, but I'll be out there buying my hand grand bag I'll just work. I'll go to the retail shop later. I go to the retail retail shop. Yeah I love vintage stuff. I love the vintage I always see myself like in the house with the big challenge on it I'm gonna go to one of them house and the we got Mm-hmm You know, they got a tour and I I get the tour there in Louisiana and it's very interesting, but you know, you might get a little mad No Right Right, but you know, it's it's nice though. They're very nice and I think it's something you should do Yeah Right Mm-hmm Right now you don't get that money back now you getting that money right back Now you putting it back in your family So you That will make a good movie That's what I'm doing Okay, so I got I got can I ask you a question now that somebody asked me to ask Yes Okay, um, okay, so how did the relationship start and what attracted him to to you? Or whatever Mm-hmm So how did how did uh, like how did he tell you he liked You know So how did he tell you that he liked you like I want to be with you. I want you to be my woman. How did he tell you that? Because that You know when they bring them on like almost So he waited his dad died to marry you So he always had a theme for black women Yes, okay So that answers that question Okay, so the next question somebody asked me to ask you is Um What things should you never say to a man with money to avoid messing up him paying for you? You say it Is there anything that you wouldn't say Which I don't know how to handle something like that Maybe that's why he liked you because you was real Yeah, real yes Okay, thank you to shake out and come in with my nose turned up and I'll let because everybody's coming in with their nose turned up They'd be in their place. Right. They give nothing. They give nothing Right comes up. You know that they've been like humble They like humble Yes So you go for the guy with money, but don't flash don't look like it. Don't look like That's smart. You're passing up on the street. All right. That's smart Okay, this is the last question somebody asked Did you ever feel like You didn't feel like you belong or couldn't be yourself or What do you do to feel more confident when you're around like people with a lot of money? Oh He's a multi-millionaire That if you don't know what more time that means that there's more than one million you're right more than one two Three So So no big no big purses don't do no twenty three hundred dollar bands and we don't do that babe We do not do it We do hundred and fifty thousand dollar cars, but we don't do the bands like that So you got a hundred and fifty dollar car, but you shop regular Yes, okay Mm-hmm I saw that picture is that that's the That's nice Right China how you like that Yeah Well, that's I mean that's cool. Um, okay now can I I'm gonna ask you my own questions that I came up with okay I got questions. Okay. So what what advice would you give someone who? Wants to marry up marry well so that they don't have to struggle and things like that Get rid of most of your friends and get rid of most of your friends and don't ask snooty Do not ask snooty Why do you gotta get rid of their friends? Well, what I'm saying is because the physical get to be again They're gonna fall out. Oh They're gonna be asking you for money or trying to money. I've been through it. I've been through it. Yes Are trying to flirt with him? Yes, okay, got you So I'm gonna just be on the truck your man squeeze your friends And you don't even know how about the girls and I wouldn't have no big pants to win I had a big pants to win, but I had no 15 bridesmaid and I had one girl What wound up Did you see my wig? Yeah on the yacht. I you know, I got married on a yacht too, and I only had one bridesmaid Yeah, one too. Yep on a yacht in keema You got married on a keema too. Yes And I'm advised that you are one Exactly Yeah, we save money for other stuff Are you serious? I'm serious like if you go and look through my pictures on facebook You'll probably see a couple pictures Of my yacht. Uh, it's not my yacht, but you know the rental yachts you rent and they do the captain does the You know the wedding they have the food we had cake and everything the reception and the dj was on board Yep, yep, yep. Yeah, wouldn't they mad me though when they mad me though? Oh, she did Yes, remember that That's nice, you know, you know, rest of that's all right Yeah That's a good that's a good way to get married And that's the way it doesn't take away. Yeah, I had one of her house. Then I had one of her house Hello You made sure he was gonna get what you want. Hello Yeah, and um I think simple is better when it comes to weddings Right. I cannot And the good thing about a yacht is they give you a limit You can only buy this many people and that's it. So you got to pick your closest people and that's it Like I dated my husband five years before we got married When I saw that you married him I was like, yes, because I remember when I first did your reading I was like, yeah, you need to stick with him You did you did you said that don't don't give him up I said Yeah I know I like I loved your dress It was so pretty that pink and that blue I know I saw that, you know, I thought you had a mate I love your colors Oh It's coming up casino is good Yeah, I just played the slot machines Well, you know, that's good and I bet like I like how you keep it real You could joke with him and y'all could fight and then make up and you know Endure the hardships, but you had your goal in mind and you got what you wanted in life. Like you live in your dream What is somebody how do you react when somebody calls you a gold digger? Like if they say, oh, she's this a gold digger I'll say good answer You proud of that me too, right? I bet you do I love like I love your style. I think that would be the perfect new business, of course A lot of women need help styling themselves because they just they just don't know what how to you know How they're supposed to dress for their body type or whatever Yes, so I want to say that, you know, a lot of people will marry get money and just sit around you got married made businesses and made more money Yeah, and you keep doing more That's your brain for money. Yeah, that's your passion. That's what you got a knack for And don't and do not do nobody if you can help it Then you broke the money shop, right? Oh money go for the old money Old money Key word old money put it back into the family. Well, go daddy just got the dogs one right your dream So you don't need no plastic surgery So, yeah, I know a lot of these women get with guys with money just to get plastic surgery Yeah, so you kept it. So now your generations, you know to come is gonna be paid super paid Yes Because of the choice of me Please don't do that. Please do not do that. Right. Do not take about him because they love you Exactly. That's what I tell them. Look make sure they like you more than you like them Because you can cut them out they can mess up you about business they about you I always try to tell these ladies look get somebody who you look better than Who loves you more than you love them and you're gonna have the life you want I bet you got more money in there than somebody would a little bit Yes Yeah, she should have started her own business with his money You know, you found your purpose your passion and you got sponsored to do it and you live in your dream And that's what it's all about Yeah, I think more if more people were free to do what they loved and they had somebody to support them, you know They'll be a lot happier, you know That's true I don't Like I I do this. So I don't be getting into trouble You know, um, so I found my purpose and you found your purpose and you know, we had help but you know, yeah You're older than you too, right? My husband is older than me. Yes You met him at the party Yeah There you are Okay, so how old are you when you got married to the husband you're with now you don't even look that old Yeah I thought you was like in your 30s Right well, I would never guess that Hmm You look very young and youthful Maybe because you never worked I guess for my man, what I can't do and I hate what I can't do I used to when I first started my business as a way to hear how they finish shooting to hear about me I can't do it. I'm gonna tell them I don't know Somebody to give me some cute customers You know, I had a male guy on my business, you know, I had to redo it So I gotta give my, you and I out myself again Mm-hmm Yeah, I was looking at your um, Facebook and I saw a lot of cute shoes on there, but you know Those are some high heels I feel like if they see them they gonna want them Yeah, they want them Yes I gotta come I gotta come see your store Your mobile store I wear I wear flats boots sandals flip-flops I wear heels on occasion You want heels? I wear heels when I go out So you do what? I bet you like Like a heel So you're not a wedge girl I have like one, two pair wedges I have more heels I'm not a wedge girl I used to You know she's not a wedge girl if I can Dresses that won't go with wedges Like when I go out, I go out, you know I dress well Yes, I you know my feet might hurt but I know I'm a little good I feel like if you're gonna go out go all the way out Yeah, that's right And plus man what what man likes? Oh, let me see a nice leg and a wedge. No, let me see a nice leg and a heel Right Okay, well I want I want you to I want to see your mobile store So, you know, wherever like if you ever on, you know, my side of town I'm in Katie I've been came out of town my girlfriend work out for Rachel. Oh, okay Well, when you next time you're over here I'll let you know. Call me. I'll come I'll come get I'll come come get some shoes Yeah, yeah, about $20 in my heels like what if I have kisses? Okay Yeah, that's a price I need some new shoes actually What size you were eight or nine Nine and a half Nine and a half. Yeah Can you do some teens? Huh Can you do some teens? I don't have no head size I can do a 10 or nine and a half. Yes Okay, all right My shoes were kind of kept on a smaller But they're like teens right I could probably do a 10 if they run small Yeah, they do they run small. I'm tall so I have big feet No, you're people not, you know, they call me trying to play. I said play. I think you see. Oh, okay No Yep, you know top of the teams now. Oh, wow Yes Well, yeah, I want to buy some shoes So the next time you're over here, I'm always at home. Y'all you just text me or whatever I'ma be on Mesa Road and I'll come find you Oh, yeah, I'll be by that little Yeah Oh, okay, I know I know exactly where it is by that Starbucks. Yes Okay Thank you so much for doing this for me and I'll send you a copy of the video But thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate it. Okay. 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