 Barbara says, went out with bachelor number seven great this afternoon now he's quiet after date do men get quiet to process the date. Yes, men will. You know, I went through a period after my first date with my beloved where I kind of took a step back because the chemicals came on so strong I need to come back to a little bit of an equilibrium. And in that coming back I pulled back just a little bit get my sense of center. And when we were apart, I actually began missing her but what I mostly I didn't miss her I just appreciated her so much that that time apart I felt like I was missing her. But men do need to come back to a little equilibrium, especially after the hormones and the pheromones and the testosterone gets flooded. There is a sense of coming back to center. So yes, that does happen.