 Three reasons why the narcissist disappears one Your supply has lost its potency It's no longer exciting to them anymore They no longer interested Because they get bored very easily they need constant entertainment and After a while their entertainment becomes to beat you down to make you miserable and then To just discard you so that is one reason Why they disappear because they get bored very easily So of course at some point They've got to go They don't take it personally It has nothing to do with you as a person that's just the way they are and It will repeat itself with whoever they're with They will always be the same Yeah, that is the first reason Why narcissists disappear? and the second reason is Because of new supply they've targeted someone else they've Trained a new target to be their supply They found someone else who they can abuse Someone who they see as a fool Dormat Someone who they may later use as their emotional punching bag So Yeah, someone else is taking your place So they don't need you anymore but then You have to recognize that you would never really anything significant to them anyway It's just an illusion of significance I mean many of you may be watching this and you may be surprised that they just disappeared That's because you fell for the illusion the trick the game that You actually matter to them and the truth is you never did The only thing that matters to a narcissist is what you give to them or how you can make them feel They see you as an object But as a separate person with your own wants and needs your own dreams and goals And that's how it's so easy for them to leave you So yeah, I recognize that It's just an illusion of significance that you had to them It wasn't real and that brings me to the third reason Why narcissists disappear they disappear when they know That you're onto them or that you figured them out When they know that you're no longer susceptible to them ablation But they know that you're no longer under their spell Because at that point they don't have much use for you They need someone who's going to validate the illusion and they especially have to disappear then if you're Constantly questioning and confronted them. They don't want to deal with that They don't want to take accountability for the actions or deal with the consequences and Of course, they fear being exposed They don't want you to bring that information or evidence to other people and Also when you're no longer susceptible to them in ablation They fear that you may leave them They fear that you're the one who's going to be initiating the discards They don't want that to happen They can't deal with rejection So if they sense that you're thinking of leaving and this could be a fourth reason Then They will try to beat you to the punch They will disappear Before you get the chance to disappear on them Because they're very insecure. They always have to be in control So yeah, that is Most often what they will do they sense that you are about to leave keep in mind that Even when they do disappear That doesn't mean they're gone forever They will always have some reason or excuse to come back they will prove it you And they will come back with a fake apology a false epiphany Reason for why they had to leave And they will try and make you think that things are going to be different or better now They'll tell you whatever you want to cure But they'll never actually follow it up with action. Well, if they do it's not going to be consistent anyway It's just gonna be something they use to lure you back in again And then before you know it things will go back to normal. So yeah, these are the three or four reasons Why narcissists disappear and I do hope that this video is helpful to you If it is, please give it a thumbs up down below helps to support our community and I'm going to be leaving this city tomorrow So let's make the most of it right now and Enjoy this incredible view. Yeah, I've had a great time here But I'm looking forward to My next destination now where I'm going tomorrow And I can't wait to share that with you as well. If you haven't already check out my Instagram Follow me on there. It's not survivor YouTube You can see recent pictures and videos of my travels and They have short videos on narcissistic abuse and some quotes as well. So check on my Instagram It's not survivor YouTube And if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me, you could do that for my website Snarksfiver.co.uk All right, that's all for today Thank you all for watching and I will talk to you soon