 Tiffany, unmute yourself, please. Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. How about we start with being a little civil? Hi, how are you, Tiffany? Wouldn't you think that would be a reasonable way to start a conversation with somebody you've never met? We've never met, we've never met, man. I said I had to verify that you're not a man. I didn't say you were. So please don't go down that path. What I'm saying is you've already come through the door like you're my enemy wanting to fight. I don't know you. Do you know me? Do you know? Well, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I think you need to understand something. No, no, no. You can talk to people on your side there. Don't tell me to calm down. You're the one that came in talking loud. You didn't even say hello. I'm well. How old are you? All right, what's the issue? So it's no issue. I just want to, I have a slight disagreement with what you just recently said about most women go to school and get degrees and they prefer that than searching for a man. What particular group are you talking about? Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. That's not what I said. Okay, please repeat. No, no, that's not what I said. Okay, repeat. So I can be clear? I said many women will spend more time and more effort getting a college degree than understanding the kind and caliber of men they want to marry, have children with to spend the rest of their life with. Okay, well, I mean, what would be the issue with that? So for example, you go- Hold on, hold on, hold on. Do you want to get married? I will be married in May. May 29th at once. Okay, you're going to be married, you're engaged. Yes, I am engaged. So why is this a question for you if you're engaged? You should be happy on down the path of life. This isn't your fight. It's not my fight, but my point is the reason why I'm calling in is because you stated that women go to school because I have a degree, but I don't uphold that. I don't care about those- You've already established that you misunderstood what I said. Okay. So I'm sorry that you misunderstood that, but I can't be responsible for you not hearing it. Well, you've explained, but I still disagree that most women go to school just instead of- I didn't say most, I said many. Okay, well, I disagree that many women go to school instead of learning the caliber of the men that they want. If you're talking about- How about this? One in four black women will marry. One in four black women will marry. That's less than half of the next group, white women. Why did you think so many black women are not marrying anybody? Black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or other? Why? I believe it's because they grow up in a single-parent household where the mothers work her tail off and she doesn't have that man on her side to build a- Well, how did you- Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. No child gets born in this world, in this country, that a woman didn't want to be born. Being a single parent is not a requirement. I was raised in a single-parent household and often it's a choice. You choose to have a child. And here's the thing. If you married before you had a baby, you would have a man more likely than not. Okay. True or false? True. So being a single-parent often is a choice. It is a choice. So if that's the case, we can't make it a- We can't give a medal for that. No, we can't give a medal for that at all. I don't think that- But I'm saying for black women in particular, because I am a black woman, that is why oftentimes many of us, because you said many go to school and have to work and get these masters, PhDs, bachelors, whatever you want to call- You don't have to, ma'am. That's a choice. It's a choice, but a lot of us feel like we have to because we don't have the mail in our life. Okay, okay, let's, first of all, who's respond- Okay, if that's the case, then why don't- If you were raising it, okay, let's start with number one. You said that many of these women are single-parents. Why? A lot of them are, no, it's not that they're single-parents, it's that they have, they feel like they need to go to school to work extra hard to become the man- No, no, no, okay, but that means you're a single-parent. You are a single-parent. Why is she a single-parent, though? What I'm talking about is the specific thing that you talked about women having to go to school to work. But you're going about, okay, Tiffany, before going to school, you gave the justification that she's a single-parent and she feels like she has to. Why is she a single-parent? That's the first thing. She's a single-parent because she decided not to be with that man or that man decided to exit the relationship- Yeah, but 80% of children in the black community are born outside of marriage. That's true. Ma'am, here's the bottom line. If you're a single-parent, marry before you carry because we know that raising a child in a one-parent household statistically has the worst outcomes for the child. That is correct. So there is no, so excuse me if I can't give a woman leeway for saying, well, she's a single-parent and she felt she had to do this, this, this. Well, here's the thing, how you alleviate all this, don't have any children until you get married. 500% pregnancy. But that's not how you started it. Because- I would be talking about the whole degree in women having to, many women- If you had a husband, if these women that you're talking about had a husband and a family and a supportive family unit, they wouldn't have to do everything on their own, now would they? That is correct. Well, then there's a problem. There is a problem. So because we choose to do things out of order and incorrectly, that's a lot of choice. That is true? That is correct. Well, then everything, then if it turns out good, she gets the credit, but if it turns out poorly, she gets the credit as well. Well, why would she get the credit if it turns out poorly? Because if she, why would, oh, excuse me? Why would she get the credit if it turns out poorly? I said if it turns out good, she gets the credit. Oh, okay. I thought you said also if it turns out bad, she gets the credit as well. She does. And how is that so? Cause the first part is true. If it turns out well, does she get the credit? If it turns out well, yes, she gets the credit, but it's not just her. No, excuse me, excuse me. So if it turns out poorly, she gets the credit for that too. That's simple logic. That's simple logic, ma'am. That's simple logic. It would be a family if it turns out poorly. Yes, if you go take a test and make an A, you get the credit for that, which is an A. But if you go to a test and perform poorly and get an F, you get the credit for that, which is an F. I mean, you get the credit, but- The credit is an F. The whole debt? I mean, that- The credit is an F. Yes, and that's what you got. And what does that mean? You didn't perform. That means your best wasn't good enough. That is correct. So that's credit. See, what you just showed- Credit, but it's still credit. No, no, no, no, man, what, no. I used the word the way I went to use them, because I knew, I banked on you were gonna give me the response you gave me. You're willing to give women credit for when they do well, but when they do poorly, you want it to be shared. No, you get the credit if it's good and you get the credit if it's bad. That's equality. Yeah, but the- There's no yeah, but. There's no yeah, but, ma'am. You get the credit if it's good. You're willing to give her credit if it turns out good. You can give her the same credit if it turns out poorly. Unless women are special and need protection. Oh, okay, unless they're special, okay. Are you not equal? Are you not equal citizens? Are you not adults? Equal, I wouldn't say equal. I said equal citizens. Equal citizens? Yes. You don't know how you define equal citizens. Equal citizens. Do you not have the same rights in this country as a man? Not necessarily. What rights don't you have that a man does? Aborting a baby. What rights don't you have that a man does? Don't we have? I have to think of that. See, that's the answer. You don't- No, ma'am, no, ma'am, I asked you three times. There are no rights that you don't have that a man does. And actually, you made my point even when you misheard me. You have some rights that a man doesn't have because you can abort a child. You can make me a parent even if I don't want to be. Thank you for proving my point, that ladies, you like to give yourself all the outs and under the accountability. No, we gotta take the accountability. That's not anything you've said, ma'am. So if they wanna take the accountability, if you want them to take the accountability, then if she does not, if she fails, that's her responsibility as well. Accountability will be choosing the right man No, ma'am, no, ma'am, if she does well and gets credit for doing well, if she fails, she has to be accountable for that failure as well. And that is correct, she does. All right, well, thank you. We've finally got it on the same point on deck. Thank you.