 Okay and so the next one continuing off of that is he probably won't leave his wife for you. It's possible that he will and if he does don't be surprised when he leaves you for another woman and it's going back to that thing where people have patterns and notice what pattern you are in of another person's because that's that's what happens and usually when people are in these patterns they're really good at shifting kind of perspective on things because they're in this perspective that they've been doing over and over and over again and so if they're a cheater and they're in a kind of thing where they've been getting into relationships cheating getting into another relationship from cheating and then getting out of that one into another one what they'll do is they'll they'll shift the perspective and they'll be like okay look at it from this way right like oh he tricked me and we were so good at the beginning and then he turned into the devil and now he's the devil and you're the sweet kind angel that I'm dating now and you're amazing but one day you're gonna end up being the devil and it's gonna be the same thing over and over and over again for that person until that person is dead or fixes their pattern which they probably won't so it'll probably be until the rest of their life so my suggestion is that you stay out of bad patterns and only look for good patterns look for good patterns and disregard bad patterns