 Ladies and gentlemen Tony Gaskins here See if I got this thing Working right tonight Want to pop in and do my Wednesday? bonus hey miss LC Bless you Okay, so I think this working because that's a member Hey there mama tish God bless you want to pop in do the Q&A so y'all um If you knew to the Q&A just remember to put the hashtag Q in front of your question and Let me see. I think we started probably a couple minutes early here Make some a chat Set up right Signs or your friends are jealous of you You know one one way you can always tell if your friend jealous of you is when they see you doing good They don't start asking you for something that's when you tell they're not jealous of you and You also can tell by when you tell them something how enthusiastic their feedback is That first especially if you tell them in person What that first face they make the first face they make Yeah, y'all hold on. I gotta have a commercial break. I forgot to pray. Amen. He's too late Give him a chance we can Tony I met a guy on Instagram Been talking for a week hour a day. He has good character, but it's long distance. Should I continue? Well, Trisha, he has good character right now And it's her first week. He isn't he is long distance and y'all just talking So it's really you don't have much to lose right now when you start going past, you know Three months six months now. That's when the stakes get a little higher But for right now, it's kind of like research you get to learn you get to talk to the guy you get to learn about him You get to kind of see how guys communicate see how guys move when they meet you on social media So it's some lessons to be gained in there. Hey, Tony, what are your thoughts on dating a guy with a roommate? He's 28 they consider themselves as brothers, but are really just best friends Um He's a late bloomer 28 is a bit old to have a roommate. So But I mean don't hurt to date him to see if you don't have any other options right now It doesn't mean that he's a bad guy. He could just be physically smart and doing the right thing with his money But you just have to pay attention to see if that friend is a bad influence Hey, Tony, can you talk about the guys who don't have a mom around and have issues with women? Um, I mean that kind of speaks to itself If you see Kayla Rose God bless you if you see a guy Pull out in the life Lord bless you Kayla if you see a guy who Doesn't have a mom around and he has issues with women then that lets you know that he's harboring some resentment and That could be very dangerous whereas you have some man who maybe didn't have a relationship with their mom and because of that They want a wife and they want to have that interaction with a woman that they can love Because they didn't have that with their mom or they don't have that with their mom so a Person can go one end of the spectrum or the other just like when somebody is you know violated when they're young Some people become very promiscuous and some people become very reserved so think about that Make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question so I it'll stick out to me Try to keep the chat clear y'all only put questions not comments only put questions in there So we could keep the chat clear How do you have the friends that don't really initiate contact with you and you always have to start a communication with them If it's not going both ways Then either they're super super busy or they don't view you as a friend the way you view them as a friend So it just depends you know sometimes people just really busy and they caught up in their life They built in their life So you have to be able to you know recognize that Lorraine God bless you Lorraine God bless your point in our life Lord Bless you Lorraine. I really really wow Bless you Lorraine Black diamond bless your point in our life Lord. Hello, Mr. Gaskin What are your top three things that women do that turn men off in the dating stage that can result in him not wanting to move forward Every man top three things may be different a little bit I Think for me one of the biggest things was a woman who was Argumentative like a woman who you just met her and she won't argue You know, she won't fuss fighting argues like she won't debate about everything, you know Then another thing is when a woman is not just being authentic like a lot of times humans don't realize that we're all a window You know and that people could see right through you and a lot of times we don't realize that and so a woman may Be nervous and she may be putting on either trying to act a certain way talk a certain way You know be a certain way and just not being true and authentic to herself and that's a huge Turnoff and then a woman who just hasn't dealt with her issues, you know And she's projecting whether she want to be loose booty or whether she wants to be You know guarded in you know, like a like a guard dog That that's real Off-putting Do you think men move to a new relationship so fast to avoid the pain? Absolutely, Marilyn. That's that's what a man does I saw one time a man say men don't heal we a joke and That's true a lot cuz he if a man sits in his stillness and he's quiet He really got to see and hear and feel everything that he's done and that could be so painful It could be so real that a lot of times that's why men go from one into one into to match that pain Now y'all y'all let me think Lorraine Cress again Why don't I lie Lord? I Met a guy recently asked him to look at a two-minute video for my business He lied and said he did wasn't expecting him To buy now giving me excuses I Cut them off thoughts You probably introduced business too early, you know, if you meet a guy and y'all meeting to like on a romantic tip y'all gonna talk Then you don't want to introduce business into a romantic situation where you meet somebody that you want to date so that kind of was a little off-putting in itself and Kind of threw things off because then it's like oh you You want to do business with me or are you looking to meet a man that you can date? You know, so you kind of want to separate the two in the beginning and don't just be that you know for with the business situation Caramel kisses mama tears share. I've seen a few moderators God bless y'all really appreciate that help Pretty humble last year. How do you completely let go when you can't cut the person completely off? Because small children are involved. You can't completely let go, you know in a whole sense of the word So you got to realize that that's your lot in life and that that comes with lying down with somebody that comes with Giving somebody your body is that you may get up and never be the same And so that's something that you lose in life And that's why it's very important to save yourself until marriage and then sometimes it happens in marriage But at least with marriage you you know that you went about it in a very real way and that you was Given a lifelong commitment. So if it didn't work out You don't really you can't blame yourself at all But when you sleep with somebody before marriage, you're taking a huge gamble And what you got to realize is when you gamble sometimes you lose your shirt sometimes you you lose your Km-23 y'all keep your all comments, you know out the chat. We really don't know about it Really want to see any additional Messages on here. All right. Well, no get nobody confused and A lot of people don't wrote in about that when they ask a question. They want to hear one answer From the person page that they own so y'all keep y'all comments out of the chat Okay, we're gonna change some things on here only put questions in the chat Only put questions in the chat Mariam God bless you Hi Tony if you ask a man not to like a certain woman's pictures on IG and he goes and likes a lot of her pics back to back After he told you he wasn't going to what kind of message is he trying to send? He basically try and tell you the kisses behind basically telling you the kisses behind and Stop trying him like a basal Which if you don't know the basis like like a crackhead so That's what he telling you it's really the social media equivalent of spitting in your face So what you have to do is just sit there right now and just kind of Envision just envision you looking at him and then envision him doing like this Just envision that and then envision that that What y'all call it a loogie that flim coming through the air and Just hitting you right there and just letting went and just envision that and let a little bit of it Get in your nose and let a little bit of it get in your eye and Then it's dead mucus and he and it just and you got to get that out your face That's the equivalent what he did you on social media He spit in your face and so with a man taking do that because social media is real and So that's that's a man shooting his shot when he going liking a bunch of these pictures He shooting shot he trying to get her attention. He trying to let her know a I see you. I'm on you. I'm watching you Coming to an inbox near you. That's what a man is doing when he liking a woman a bunch of woman pictures So that's emotional cheating that he want to become physical cheating if he can make it get there Millie God bless you now part in the life. Thank you Tony for being a blessing in my life You are helping me grow into the God-fearing woman. I want to become God bless you on your family. Hey, bless it, Millie bless you now Yeah, Maryam, I want you to really get that point Miss LC. God bless you now I've been independent my entire adult life because my parents never cared about my path. I Work hard as a single mom pay my own bills but keeping home intact is a challenge seem to Turn my ex off why Some men just looking for a woman that's gonna cater to him Some men looking for a woman who was you know raised to be very Home-centered and domesticated and just focused on the man You know, he may drew up seeing that to where a woman is not independent And she's more so dependent or co-dependent on her man and she's just serving him hand and foot three hots a day three hot meals a day SOD what I call it says on a man, okay And that's just what she did and so some men they're looking for that. And so you come in independent Strong focus, you know, take care your child and then You may not be able to really, you know, be on top of the house like that because of what you're doing Takita Harris God bless you God bless you Well chairs if his mom was the same then that it's still the same thing, you know It could mean that he resented that or maybe he saw his mom resent that maybe he felt, you know neglected by his mom and so That makes him not like when you do it or it may not have anything to do with your independence I know a lot of times what I noticed a lot of time women want to put their Independence as the reason why their ex left sometimes just was you, you know, sometimes he just ain't want to be with you Sometimes it ain't got nothing to do with your independence with your co-dependence with your dependence. It's just He just fell out of the relationship. He just wasn't feeling it anymore. And it just you know He saw this over here and intrigued by that and curious curiosity kill the cat type thing Black diamond God bless you. Yeah, you need a session black down because you popping in here with all these questions You definitely need your session now. You don't pay for your session all the question now last question Blessing I'm poor in a life Lord when men take women to meet their parents does that whole wait? If not, what's their reasoning? They don't really hold weight in most cases, you know in most cases unless he was raised very very conservative by you know, like Bible thumping parents or something But typically a family expects to meet multiple women as the young man is looking for his life partner, so a Lot of times women puts more stock into that than it actually Holds and it don't mean a whole lot Even God bless you now. I exchanged numbers with a guy two months ago We talking chat on video for hours today He told me that I remind him of his mom aunt and first love all in one not sure what that meant your thoughts It's definitely a good a good thing. I mean a good compliment. He's trying to give you he's trying to give you a compliment But it is a little awkward. It is a little awkward, you know, because on one side when y'all y'all all the way together y'all get all the way together get married get intimate on one side is Incessual when you tell much you remind me of my mama and my aunt and then on the other side It's kind of so tie-ish when you say you remind me of my first love. So it's kind of like Cannot be my own person, you know how some people say I don't want to be the next Michael Jordan. I want to be the first Tony Gaskin, you know, it's like in your case. It's like I don't want to be the next First love I want to be the first me You know, so that is a little awkward there starfish God bless you What is a good way to capitalize on your gifts? If you're very caring big-hearted and want to see others believing themselves how to use strengths That's like a life coach. That's like a life coach, you know consultant accountability partner and A lot of time people don't realize like if you like to help others then you could help others full-time, you know Like I'm helping y'all and while I'm helping you though You blessing me, you know, you bless me with a blessing And so that's a financial blessing while I'm doing what I would do for free Like I set up something like this and this what I did for free for years But I've been doing what I'm doing right now. I've been doing this since 10th grade, you know Answering questions from women about men and from men about women. I've been doing this literally since 10th grade and so on three-way calls all that and Then this right here came about so I say that to say You know becoming life coach take the life coach certification caramel kisses She posts Tony gas and Academy comm in there with the coupon code then join my mentor dot life and start serving Gina God bless you now boyfriend and sis. He's in love with me Actions aligned with that wants to marry me, but sometimes it feels more like he's obsessed with me How can I tell if it's true love or just an obsession? It's gonna feel like that. That's what love gonna feel like. Let me grab this real quick VC God bless. It does a guy catch feelings after being friends with benefits for over a year. Nope. He don't Know you don't Now back to the obsession now It's kind of like When you say obsession do you really mean The true sense of the word Like does it sound does it feel like he just really in love with you just really all day all the way there? with you or Or you mean like you waking up every morning and you Opening your eyes and he like Staring you in the face while you've been sleeping in and you say wow, how are you already up? And he's like I didn't go to sleep. I watched you all night Now if you mean like on a level like that that Then okay, we got an issue But if it's just like he always want to be around you hang out stuff like that that could just truly just be in love Beverly God bless you now My husband keeps coming by my apartment and we are separated because he cheated on me for five years How do I stop him? I had boys in blue stand over there One night. I'll give him a fair warning like listen you come over here again. I'm finna put my RO on you and If he tried me again, I got to put that RO on him and he come over there again I got to have a boys in blue come on over there and take them to sit down for a night And then I'm gonna call it cousin or somebody to be a little mop But you got to let people know like I'm moving on with my life. I negate his chance I'm moving on with my life and like things really could go down If you show up over here and I don't move down with my life and got my new partner over here And you showing up knocking at the door So what what men will do is men will try to force the issue force the issue force the issue and that mean That's a lack of respect and that's a form of abuse and you got to stop that Without you getting out of character. So you don't have to get out of character the 9-1-1 Yes, hello, this is non-emergency, but could you send a patrol car over here? I have an unwanted guess that keeps popping up You said I'm saying you ain't got to get out of character you go out there screaming yelling all that now You got you out of character now. He see that you he still could press buttons the only button. I'm pressing it In three buttons on that phone Yes Daniel God bless you. Thank you for your wisdom and really breaking down the game the teddy bear video spoke to my soul Setting standards and working on loving myself. God bless you If you missed the video I did today to tell you about video make sure you get to catch that Kim bless you're talking to a guy who was getting out of a relationship told me he wants me But there are a few loose ends. Not sure what to what to do. I like them Move on with move on about your business because if he really liked you He wouldn't have told you it's a few loose ends and he wouldn't have told you he getting out of relationship He to close that door in a relationship he to come right in he wouldn't tell you nothing about no loose ends He don't like you. He wants you to be uncertain. He wants to be on your toes He wants you to be insecure and he just gonna kind of use you and drag you out and you're gonna be a band-aid Nicole Baker God bless you now move back in state last year Dating a couple months and it's going well. He thinks highly of my family for good reason How do I tell him? It's my family mom, bro, etc. Without him viewing me different Oh, he doesn't think highly of my family for good reason. Okay. How do I tell him? It's my family mom, bro, etc. Without him viewing me different You just tell him you just tell him it if he views you different and that's his problem not yours Latina God bless you now But you got to tell him that's his problem because some men don't like your family because they want to isolate you from your family Cuz see if a man put you on an island away from your family who loves you Then your family can't hear your screams. So some men don't like your family just because of their own Reasoning and have nothing to do with them. Now you say it for a good reason, but it's like If your family giving him good reason not to like him, why is that? What is it about him that they don't like do they just are they just doing it nasty and mean spirit? It just so you have to be single, you know, I find that hard to believe and if that is why they doing it then You ought to be trying to get distance from your family because of their toxicity. So either It's an issue with him That's causing red flags in your family or it's an issue with your family Just trying to sabotage and keep you single and then that means the issue is with you Because you need to be trying to get distance to just teach them a lesson Can y'all God bless you now my ex and I are communicating again after seven months no contact He's asking a lot of personal growth questions inventing Opening up to me about his issues should I put an end to this? I mean you already in it now, you know, so you got to ask yourself why you got in it and Then you got to ask yourself how long you're gonna be into it so You know, it could be If he coming back a new man to change man me and my wife and dating we were apart Seven months. I mean six months, but the first time we had only been together two to three months So now if y'all is together for years and Now he didn't come back after seven months of silence and yeah, put it into a move on But if y'all were just together for a little bit, he didn't really get to know you You didn't really get to know him and now he's come back seven months later And he's a completely different person. It could be something there, but that's where you got to use your wisdom and discretion Been to God bless I couldn't wait to see here or maybe be here by the way There's nothing that you have said in your videos that I haven't told my friends. You truly confirmed that I wasn't crazy Too hard on guys. I feel like I can be a coach. I'm Muslim. Hey, God bless you now for being here God bless you now for being here on the Christian channel and you know inner faith Coaching man, you ought to be a coach take the life coach certification and join us on my mentor dot life If you giving it out like that giving the game I a got to use the gill Simone Roy God bless you now part and part in your life. I don't know I can't really see your picture But I'm praying you bless. Thank you for being a blessing to me and my daughter. God is using you to break generational curses Blessing sir a God bless you Pull out in our life now I really appreciate y'all with them blessing now I feel like it was some some I miss Carrie 93 God bless you now. I see you. Hold on Cherise. Let me get you here Hi, Tony. Is it wrong or bad to send someone a song in this time? You haven't talked to in a while It's uplifting no ulterior motives. God bless you. Well, you got to ask yourself. Do you want to open that door up? Are you opening the door that need to stay closed? If you're not opening the door that need to stay closed Latina Jones, bless you now Daniel Thank you for your wisdom and really breaking down the game the teddy bear video spoke to my soul. Okay. I've seen that one bless you Danielle Beverly I saw that one Nicole All on Kim keep moving About your life. Okay VC Okay, I didn't really get the answer on that one too good VC does a guy catch feelings after being friends with benefits Over a year. No, no, he don't you got it what you got to look at that light. It's kind of like Like if you have a a sports team You know what I mean, and it's a play on the end of the bench Who just kind of a role player the team don't fall in love with the guy after a year and say, oh I'm gonna make you the star It'd be like, no, we'll keep you on keep playing your role coming off that end of that bench But you're not finna get in here and replace LeBron James. You said I mean So that's what you have to realize when you friends with benefits. You're a role player you were coming off the bench and so You he's not gonna move you from a bench player to the star franchise player a Man who want to be with you? You're never gonna be friends with benefits Elena see God bless you now if you sent a financial blessing up there to the top and I miss you Put your keep putting your question in there because I'm trying to seal a lot of them yellow ones I was trying to get to them all Elena see is it wrong for a man? Blessing to be in a relationship for over four years with no kids living together Known each other six years prior He wants to start his own business to pass down to his nephews and nephews kids What happens if he marries? It just a thing it's not wrong for what the man See the man doing what whoever he went allowing him to do I mean that's just his personal choice ain't nothing wrong with wanting to start a business and give it to your nephews That's your family. You don't have kids Obviously if he get married then that may change he gonna put his kids before his nephews But that might mean he have no intention of having his own kids and getting married So it's the woman that stand with him That's playing the fool because if she want to be married and she won't have kids And she done been with him for four years and been knowing them for ten and he still ain't elevated her from Roommate shacking up mate to wife That's on her because what he doing ain't nothing wrong with Him making that choice for his life But if a person is in that situation and don't want that same thing then that person has to make a choice for their life He's making his choice for his life The person the woman he went got to make a choice for her life and say this ain't for me I gots to go because I need to be with a man who want to get married and have his own children instead of trying to start a business and Create a legacy for his sister or his brother sons So you see what I mean So each of us got to make a decision for our life and we can't get mad at somebody else for doing what they want to do for their life and If that don't fit in our plans, then we got to get up and get gone five years two years five years Five years year two left was has been miscarriage Said he didn't know what to do Christmas came and said I should help with gifts for kids since he helps with Mine he wasn't working then spend less time Now did I mess up miss LC you gonna have to you have to get your coaching session system? Because all that abbreviation I Tried to go to a abbreviation university, but I did not do too. Well You're gonna need a coaching session LC Kimberly God bless you now. God bless you bless you Now y'all hold on now. Let me make sure Cherise God bless you now for that additional blessing. Let me see Let me see if I could get up here to the yellows just to make sure that I got everybody Pat beer God bless you now. I see you here in the chat a man changes his IG Private to public constantly Amy Adams We'll see him Amy Sonia bless you son See son Yeah, see some of y'all um you in the chat you put the message in the chat. I Don't know if that's a super chat or a sticker. I don't know But um, I don't know how do you completely let go when you cut the person completely off because Okay, I answered that one Alright, I think I got them all Kayla God bless you now. I need to release soul time You have been such an inspiration for over a year. I'm wondering what is the first priority for really releasing a soul time? You got to take the course take the soul cop soul time course is only five dollars. I Made a five dollars, but I go through all the steps in there step one two three four five six seven eight nine ten But you're gonna have to cut all ties. You're gonna have to cut all ties the whole process I think I got a video on it too, but it's it's so long. It's so in-depth. I can't really go into it here because I'll be cheating Natasha Oliver God bless you Tony. Do you encourage online dating now that? This here is here Okay 19 No, because that ain't changing online day. It's still gonna be a hot mess Still gonna be a mess on there. It actually probably gonna increase the desperation of the people on there and then other than that it's like You meet somebody online, they just gonna want to meet you in person and cough in your face with the 19 anyway, so You know the world starting to open back up now So you ain't got too much longer for you could step out with your face masking and meet somebody with your eyes and eyebrows, you know blanking just make sure your eyebrows and your lashes, you know on flea and You attract somebody But don't get on that line. No, don't get on that line and you got to remember You know, it's it's people traditional who have traditional wear that have all this covered up and just their eyes opening and they be meeting love so going out there with your mask on and You know meet love But don't get on that line. I'm trying to tell you now Crystal the dance of God bless you now. No, it's not the dancer. Okay. They're like ballet and stuff I met a guy that's 30 and have Everything good job car. No kids in a house. I'm 31 and Had to move back with my mom to save up for a car I feel less than a woman because I'm not on his level. Am I wrong? You're not wrong for how you feeling but what you got to understand a Kimberly Charlton God bless you now But what you got to understand is he may not be judging you like you judging you Okay, so Understand that because a lot of men most men is they're looking to provide like they expect That's why you hear guys say all the time. I Need to be financially stable before I get married It's some truth to that statement some men use it as an excuse But deep down a man want to be able to provide like I don't want my my woman My wife to have to go on somebody else job work for somebody unless she want to unless that is her career choice But I want her to be able to be home be full-time with our kids if she want to be working our businesses and Not go punch somebody else clock and be on a schedule and job scared So a man is not really judging a woman The same way a woman may judge a man if the man living with his mama Because a lot of women want a provider man a man that can provide him he living off of his mama So he could get his money together a woman may be more quick to judge him Then a man will be a real man to judge you A lot of God bless you now I really want to take your course, especially with the much appreciated discount you offer. However, I'm studying other courses At the moment. Okay. Now that that ATM stem at the moment if that's them at the moment Whoo, I really think that abbreviation University Now how did he hit me ATM at the moment? I need to spend some time with that That felt good to get that. I was like ATM. You got to go to the ATM and In preparation of launching an online boutique in a few weeks seeking advice on what to do, please If you get ready to launch online boutique that mean you got a little business money So I would say sign up for your consultation so that you could cross your teas and dot your eyes and we got business consultants brand coaches on my mentor dot life But just do one thing at a time, you know, so you're doing the online boutique You're passionate about that just go ahead and do that, you know And then once you get that and it got legs and it's running and you got your system in place Then you could take the life coach certification because It's gonna be other people that want you to coach them on how to build their brand how to start their online boutique so understand that right there and So the money that you spend when you invest in yourself and you do something Anything you do you could teach somebody else how to do it So if it costs you a thousand dollars start your online boutique You're gonna make ten times that teaching other people how to do it because they gonna want to start their online boutique And they'll pay you a hundred dollars an hour or whatever per hour for you to teach them So that they don't make the mistakes that you made while you were learning So that's how that work every single person could be a mentor It's people who work in corporate full-time and they on my mentor dot life coaching Clients on their off-days Just from their expertise if they climb the ladder in corporate America Then they are a career coach on my mentor dot life helping other people climb the ladder. So understand that Lex Comte Been dating a man six weeks Says he doesn't want a relationship right now Is it too soon to ask for a relationship after six weeks should we keep dating? No, because what you got to realize is the time period that you with a man is to see if he won a relationship is around three months So if he volunteered to say I don't want a relationship didn't that mean he don't want to be with you He wouldn't tell you that a new day to see God bless you now. He wouldn't tell you that so And if you ask him That mean that to him that'll make it look like you need some Gatorade Because you thirsty and so that's gonna be a turn off So if you pop that question six weeks in he probably like whoa, hold on I hold on give me some time to get know you like what's your middle name? Just met you you said I mean, so if you pop that question, that's a red flag to him If he just volunteered that information That's a red flag to you and you need to go and get gone because he telling you I don't want a relationship So what that means in English is? You're not my wife. I don't want to be with you But if you stick around I'm gonna put you on your bike and then you're gonna be friends with benefits And really not friends frenemies with benefits Jivar is wrong God bless you now. Hello, mr. Gaskin's been talking with this girl for months and have made it official I slowed it down because of me not converting to her beliefs as fast as I should have how can I win her back? You have to go and convert to them beliefs now when you say beliefs now if you talk about religious beliefs then and you Strong in your religious belief then go on about your business if you talk about beliefs and you mean Foundational beliefs and you strong in your foundational beliefs like you don't want kids or you don't want this or that and it's Foundational then gone about your business don't go winning her back just out of ego just to get her just to say you won because if y'all was on two different pages and y'all were unequally yoke that probably means y'all are not supposed to be together Because you wouldn't have to convert to somebody beliefs. That's for you So if you got to convert to somebody believes whether that whatever kind of beliefs that is then That person may not be for you To mark I bless you I am bored at work and want to change careers to a role that better utilize my skills What advice do you have to combat fear of? Rejection Well, you got to build while you there you balance the dream with the job until the dream becomes the job So you don't have to worry about rejection when you keep your security you keep your job And then you tiptoe and you do some other things and then You don't have to just take no blind leap. You'll see a bridge built You'll see a bridge built and then you'll be able to walk cross I balanced doing this right here what I'm doing with working 40 hours a week on a job that I really didn't care for and Then after balancing that for almost Four years four to five years, then I saw my opportunity boom met somebody old friend from high school and say a Want to invest in you and give your year salary to leave your job Get your year salary give you a year to get on your feet and you give me X amount of percent of your company That you publish your books through and you know do your speaking engagements through and all of that I will work zero dollars and this friend came and just want to invest in me So that gave me one year. I was only making 20,000 a year, but that gave me a year to focus Boom so your bridge will come either you'll build up your savings You might get a credit card. You build up your credit. You might get a card. That's $25,000 limit to where This your loan you got interest on it But you you loan it to yourself and you building credit at the same time You see what I mean like something gonna happen and can't nobody judge you for that Motive mindset God bless if a guy asks you if you want kids does that mean anything? Yeah, I mean everything it mean everything Because if he do or don't want them that answer to his question mean everything to him T look God bless you now if coaching expert if coaching Expertises I specialize in aren't on my mentor list Do I have to just choose what's listed or could I ask for specifics? I emailed the info mailbox, but haven't received a response would like to get on the site ASAP email again You know they just they get inundated with emails and it could have went to the junk mail Depending on where you emailing from or you know your system so email again We pretty much got about everything on there we can have on there some of the stuff We can't add if it increases liability on my mentor got life. So You probably may have to pick something that's on there if if what you dealing with deals with any type of you know tricky areas Abuse and medical stuff health and all of that and stuff where you touching on that stuff and it's going into depression or Medical issues or anything like that, but if it's something kind of generic to where it has nothing to do with Diagnosing or prescribing then you you may be able to get away with it But when you email in when they get it they'll send it to me and I'll tell them Yes, I know if we could add it or not Just for because it's only for life coaches. Okay Crystal bell God bless your high Tony. I want love, but I'm scared any feedback on this You don't want love that mean you don't want love Erica make Lord God bless you now You don't want love because love and fear don't mix when you really won't love That means that you will have done the work that means that you'll have watched the videos You have read the books. You have healed you have worked on yourself and that's going to produce confidence When you operate from fear you you have fear because you haven't learned what you need to learn about love and relationships, so it's kind of like It's kind of like in our end I see your question I'm gonna get you right here in a minute It's kind of like if you getting ready for a test if you've been studying an hour two hours every day All week and that test on Friday You're not gonna have fear because you've been studying and you know, you know it like the back of your hand If you have not been studying and you only got to study one day You're gonna be fearful when it come time that test because you know, you're not prepared Same thing with love when you really are immersed in these teachings and you really learning from different Qualified sources you're gonna get so much knowledge and wisdom It's gonna build confidence and you're not gonna fear the dating scene and I see people put that in the comments They say I can't wait to my next relationship. I learned all this. I'm finna be so ready. That's when that's the point You got to get to NRN honestly, what is your thoughts on women dating younger men? Well, you know always tell people to think about it like this go you could go into a kindergarten classroom and See how a five-year-old boy talking how fire your girl talk That little boy he might be like Hi Yeah, la ba-ba-ba-da la was saying so but yeah, so I would find the color with the crayon that then the crayon The fire your boy like might talk like that The girl you defy your girl you taught her hi How are you? My name is Chloe and this is a beautiful polka dot ensemble that my mom picked for me Are you Tate instead? so you see what I'm saying so it shows you the difference in the maturity of The female and the male and that kind of goes into life to where you will see a man in his 40s Still acting a fool still in the club still, you know doing this stuff And you like right you 40 Whereas you look at a woman and she's probably like In the club yawning at 30 you said I mean 30 32 definitely she like and so when a woman dated a younger man, it's kind of like Trying to teach your little brother the game You know, it's kind of like raising a teenage son So you got to be very careful with that especially if it go beyond three years younger than you Uh, Joe Misha God bless you now I'm 20 so the guys I encounter in my age range don't seem very mature see what Joe Misha just said She's just piggyback right off what I was just saying she didn't know is maturity something that they'll grow into or should I keep it moving? Keep it moving unless you meet a man who is mature there are special men I got married when I was 23 I was moving on a different level But my wife actually was two years younger than me my wife two years younger than me So it was like she felt like my age You said I'm saying and she was two years younger than me So that's the difference between men and women And so but here's the thing at 20 my wife was 20 when we got married you feel me so So really that make like two and a half years younger than me, but So a woman you could be mature and at that point, but a man at 20 You really need to be focused on on your paper focus on your and when I say paper that could be college degree Certificate and your money all of the above Motive mindset God bless you we are currently friends But he asked me if I wanted kids, but I was wondering if he was thinking of seeing me as a wife because of that question If y'all friends he on won't you? Cuz a man ain't gonna be friends with a woman that he could that he won't that he see as a wife again You don't go from the bench player To LeBron James LeBron James came in LeBron James So LeBron James he's starting from the first day. He stepped in lead. You see what I'm saying LeBron James was never Lou Williams six man of the year So that's what you got understanding relationship when a man see a woman and he sees wife potential He's not gonna put you in the friend zone. He put you in the wife zone wife in preparation zone so when you say we friends you there for potential friend with benefits and You could be a baby mama because he may want multiple baby mamas because he may want to feel like a king of the old days To have multiple women and concubines. You see what I mean? So and now yes, there are exceptions to the rule But that's how people get hurt trying to be an exception to the rule So understand that right there now. I know that hard to hear but that's that that's the blood raw true Drill 55 God bless you. Thank you for all you do Tony and bless the Queen For allowing you to do so. Hey God bless you know, I really been mother's day coming up there week Got my wife's a great gift for mother's day some great plans cuz I'm like man, she let me come on here and do these lives a few times a week and We'll do our date earlier. We did our bike ride today. I'm still stank smelling like outside and Had our dinner or whatnot and Well watching our Netflix and she let me come in here and do this live man. She really be supportive Let me see I Send a prayer text to both my kids fathers and ask for God's protection and for them to be Better fathers. They both question. Why did I pray for them and they know I have a relationship with God? Why? Well, it kind of really what they saying is why you Sending me these prayers like say your prayer to God and keep that between you and God Don't send me your prayer to slap me in your face slap me in my face with your prayer You know like a Pharisee on standing on the cone of praying. That's really what they mean in language like keep your prayers between You and God because when you send me your prayers now It's like you trying to manipulate me with religion or with a prayer like use like it's kind of like at the Thanksgiving Dinner the where the person be praying and they'd be like Lord and help Certain people to realize how blessed and favored they are to have family That deals with them and puts up with them Not anyone in this house, but Lord, you know who needs that on this day of Thanksgiving So they're looking at it like that like you trying to use that to manipulate Let me see now What does it mean when a man seems nervous to talk to you give you eye contact or approach you? I have a feeling that this man at my job wants to pursue me, but our connection feels stagnant That means he's taken that means that he is taken and He's battling and he's fighting with the urge to cheat on his woman So you may be attractive to him, but he's taken Because what you got to realize the one thing that's gonna give a man courage is when he see a woman that he wants and if he is Available emotionally available and physically available. He gonna approach you if he got to be sweating shaking Stutter he gonna approach you when a man keep making icon looking at you looking at you looking at you But he's not approaching you That's because he's he's at war in his mind like to cheat or not to cheat the cheater not to cheat Oh, I want to cheat. Oh, he got to catch us up. Oh, I want to cheat. Oh got to catch us up And so that's what he going through and and me and go through that a lot But a lot of times as a woman you don't have a clue that he got a little situation already Courtney God bless you. Hello Tony Do you believe the idea of women waiting for God to send her husband or do you believe that a woman plays an Active part in being found by her husband. What is her part? Thank you and love your video That's a loaded question right there now Um, let me see this 499 for it disappear on because it's gonna leave hold on get right back to you Dating for a year. Miss Kay Johnson. God bless you now He's a ex hustler starting to see some old patterns because Surface because he's feeling money isn't enough. I make more He's a grown man and a good man help Well, he might not be growing in good if he's showing you old patterns So if you trying to go back to hustling he trying to get back into some stuff That's a huge red flag and y'all year-end. So this To do or not to do so you either make a move or not Courtney back to your question Faith without works is dead So that's what the Bible say so what that means is a Woman who's sitting in her house praying to God saying Lord, please send my hood Please send my hood Lord, please Lord. I'm ready for my own ready for my hug But she's not taking care of herself. She's not preparing herself And she just sitting at home and she's spending that man To walk up to the doorbell rain the doorbell Yes, God sent me I'm here to make you my wife. You see what I'm saying. That's never gonna happen Or she going out and she's speed walking. She on her phone. She's not in Expectation so you remember Ruth in the Bible when Naomi was trying to tell her that hey, you got to move on with your life Now I meet you a man rule was in the field working So she was in the field of Boas working and when Boas pulled up Boas say who is that? Hey, that's roof and then his homeboy put them on and say hey, that's roof He said hey, okay, boom. I got it. What's going on? Hey, Jeffrey. Come here. Let me holler at you Hey, she walking behind you drop some weed on the ground so she could get us something. Hey mark. Come here. Let me holler at you Hey, keep an eye on her don't let nobody else holler. I'm finna see what's going on Then he went and he started checking so guess what she was out and about then they only said listen According to tradition you need to go lay at his feet now today. That's not our tradition You go lay at his feet. You're gonna get flipped over. You hear me? But by then Roof was able to go lay at his feet and then he seen he said, okay, so you available. All right Let me go down here and check and see what I got to do What's what went down there? Hey, you wanna cuz you in line for you the next to Ken He said no good because she not finna get half of my stuff. I'm good already got me a little thing at the house So then boy I said, okay, cool. I alright you out the way sign this her paper. Let all the witnesses see it. Hey, she mine So roof, come on baby. Gotcha. Let go and so Roof was active. She was out. She was working. She was about she was what I call prepared in Position and that's what happens is a lot of women They say they prepare but they don't get position. You got to walk around in Expectation your head got to be up. You can't be on your phone You got to be walking normal speed to where some women walk so fast a man gotta pull a hamstring to catch up to By the time he get up to a heat out of breath and he done put his hamstring from when he played in college and so You have to be an expectation and you're gonna meet your husband Britney Johnson. God bless you now second day now. I saw somebody else question disappeared. I'm gonna find you. I'm gonna find you I'm Britney John second day. No contact. He called today. I didn't answer Never not answer before. What is he thinking? He think you playing mind games Because he know you send by the phone send by the phone looking at it and now he watching this live And he see you on here answering asking question. So he's oh, that's where she was Got some for her I'm gonna see what she do now after I don't call her for another seven days So you send I'm saying so it's kind of like this You played your hand wrong because you really haven't been in my videos that long and deep enough But you played your hand wrong when a man go no contact for a day or two When he called you if you want something with him if you want to be with him Then you answer the phone and you check him on going absent When you return that energy and you don't answer now you playing mind games and when you play mind games Everybody loses, but when you answer that phone and say hey, where you been for the last two days, you know Where you been for the last two days and he's like, oh, you know, da da da da da, and then you like listen This ain't gonna fly because if you trying to deal with me Then you got to deal with me ain't no breaks in relationships And I'm not just gonna be sitting on hold while you going in you know Tricking off doing what you want to do and you check them just like that Of course not not with my accent come out accent may come off a little more You know a brace of you do it in your accent So listen, you know, I'm just really not with the games at this stage of my life And if you are looking for something serious You see I'm saying you doing your accent is gonna come off a little better. I don't date me So it would sound a little awkward in my voice Beverly God bless you now. I need to stop my husband from coming to my apartment I left him because he cheated on me for five years now Beverly You must have got a phone call when I answered your question the first time Beverly So Beverly Beverly Beverly Let's everybody make sure Beverly listen Beverly. Are you listening? Beverly can you hear me? Okay, Beverly. Can you hear me? Testing testing now listen with your husband keep coming to your place What you got to realize is that you got to move on with your life So you got to send him a very real message. This is your ex-husband. You know how he moves So, you know what you got to say and what tone you got to say it in for him to take you serious And if no matter how you say it, he won't take you serious Then you got to call them boys in blue. Like I said earlier. Ah, yes This is not an emergency, but could you send a patrol car over here? Someone is at my door continues to knock Yes, thank you very I'm not in danger, but please could you just protect and serve as you're paid for by the taxes? Okay, thank you Just like that and that's after you don't let him know in a very real way after you don't let him know I am that girl. God bless you. God bless you. What do you think now? Let me show how much longer I got Okay, I'm gonna get ready to go. Okay. I asked too many questions. I'm asking questions a real fast clip I normally do 90 minutes, but I'm about to get ready to go on y'all. What do you think about a man that made his mom cry? Because he feels entitled That made his mom cry because he feels entitled Well, he well if he disrespected his mom Meaning if he dishonored her then he got to answer the God The Bible say, you know honor die mother and father and your days will be long upon this earth Now you disrespecting your mom and father then your day is gonna be short upon this earth now If mama just seeing it like he felt entitled and mama and her feelings misreading the situation I cut my TV on he'll play with my remote Then it comes down to precession, but because sometimes a person could just be sensitive to some real talk You know, like I may tell my mom mama, you know, the Bible said husband will forsake his mother and father and cleave to his wife Understand that my wife come before anybody mama. I love you But you raised me to be a man and when a man gets married my wife comes first The Bible tell me to love My wife is Christ love the church So if I can't answer your call because I'm tending to my wife Then don't get in your feelings about that You got to understand the hierarchy and the way things go right now Because you healthy and you able by that you not in no dire need So Dacker hurt somebody mama feelings and she could start crying Mama could say oh, he felt entitled, but no he following the law You said I mean of what he called in order to do by God. So it's also Subjective, but if he disrespect her, you know cursing up cursed out or yell data and you know dishonor her now He got to pay for that by the Lord is It possible to create a new color category for military on my mentor I am former Navy Navy and would love to reach out to our vets Oh, yeah, military be good, but now I Would imagine people in the military see my mentor dot life because I got some clients several clients in the military So you may actually be a better coach for them than me because I've never been in the military So yeah, we can add military. We can add military So like what we can't add would be like mental breakdown What we can't add for life coaches on my mentor dot life is like PTSD you said I mean we can't add stuff that's dealing with you know the mental like Depression all that abuse all that but what you're talking about. Yes military that could be added So email info at my mentor dot life When you ready to sign up and we can add military coach What kind of relationship should I expect from a man who was abandoned by his mother? You can't really you know, I can't really give you an expectation because remember, it's two ends of the spectrum So one man he may resent women and be Like bop bop bop you said I mean and then the other man he may be like super ready For a woman because he's yearning for a connection with a woman because he didn't have that from his mother So you just got to go in wide-eyed and just open eye open ear Paying attention looking for the signs and being sensitive To the spirit so that you can feel if something off so that you catch it and you'll catch it within the first three months six months definitely Semi-sweet God bless you now God guy at job blurts heavy for six months. We finally exchanged numbers and Social media saw girlfriend on his IG confirmed Confronted him that he's a cheater Is that ego or point? He's approved point. He's he is proving Confronted him that he's a cheater I don't stand by you mean a point he proven Ego he's just a cheater You know he just a cheater and see that speaks to what I said earlier So with the other young lady who asked about the guy on her job who keep looking at her and she feeling something But he's not approaching her that's cuz he in a relationship Just like this guy right here took six months to shoot a shot because a guy always got that little devil He got that little angel and the little devil say man come on I shoot your shot man ain't no wrong having a little friend on the side in the angels are like listen You need to be faithful now what goes around comes around so be faithful. Your woman is faithful. She loves you She's counting on you and it just depends on which one he listening to if he listening the Motivational YouTube videos he gonna listen to the angel if he listening old trap music He gonna listen to the devil you see what I mean? So that's all it is so it's good You confront now you got to cut them off completely and that Solomon God bless you now What does it mean when a guy looks at you googly-eyed every time you're together? Seems distant sometimes went apart when he starts really missing me We are three hours apart um This sound like a bunch of nothing. I you know sometimes guys just do things. They don't really make sense You know a man looking at you googly-eyed that's on purpose He's looking at you googly-eyed because he knows you calculating it and so A man does that on purpose because men are masters of the poker face That's why you see some of the greatest poker players in the world are men Men are masters at the poker face at looking at you and not letting you know what we think him And so when a man looking at you googly-eyed, that's very intentional when y'all three hours apart and he gets distant That's because he entertaining something else it could let's let's hope it's a video game and not another woman But a man is not gonna be distant when he missing you because three hours ain't nothing for a man Three hours ain't nothing. I drive two hours just to get to the to the NBA basketball game You see what I'm saying? So I'm driving four hours just to go to the NBA basketball game with my wife you feel me so Three hours Because this right here what what a woman got What a woman got just the desire just the pursuit of it will make a man go to the moon and back That's why the first astronaut landed on the moon so that he could brag about it to his woman He goes for no giant step for men small step for mankind all of that. He went to come by And be able to a you know in the first astronaut on the moon, don't you oh Oh come up, baby. You want to let me tell you what that moon was like. Okay. Not first. This will happen That's what that's all he was doing. So what you got to realize if a man three hours away from you and he get distant That's cuz he preoccupied But see women y'all are Anticisers So you'll come up with a narrative your brain to give you a narrative that say Whoo, he look at me googly-eyed when he with me Whoo, and then when we apart and he starts to really missing me he gets distant That don't even make sense because think about it when the person really missing you they can be calling you all the time They're gonna be want to FaceTime you they're gonna be Kiss me through the phone. You see I'm saying they're gonna be sending you YouTube videos or songs lyric sheets So so that's why you got to think about what you're thinking about Let me see now I got these spotlights in my eyes y'all got to forgive me now spotlight draining me Real lady. God bless you now This love gift is just because I'm on my way. I'm ordering my burp your book ace out and once my Hoodie arrives every time once my hood old hoodie, maybe you mean hoodie Arise every time I write on Sundays. I will put my white hoodie on for extra inspiration. Okay, you order the hoodie Okay, God bless you order one of the hood That's under the um video. Hey, God bless you now Leela J and y'all got to forgive tea spraying for that You know, sometimes they ain't be kind of light I'll be wearing them tea them tea spraying shirts and that ink so understand that come from tea spraying I don't make them shirts. Okay tea spraying make them shirts and with this hill situation. They're probably trying to save ink So they just be putting your love they be doing like this on the shirt Instead of putting it through the print because I get some of them tea spraying shirts and I'd be like I can't even see the word on here. So y'all, please don't hold that against me You know and my brand that tea spraying make them tea shirts and that youtube went and partnered with them You know, so please understand that Leela j. God bless you've been dating a guy for one year A guy for one year for now He only put me on my bike once still hasn't made it official should I give him more time new Got to go You need to give him a two week notice what you need to give him That's all the time you need to give him is a two week notice because listen It's been 12 months. Remember 12 months by the end of that 12 months It's time to you in a hot step up in my life or step out of my life You in a hot that 12 months and he didn't test drove you so you don't let them test dry the Lambo For those y'all who don't know what she mean when she put me on my bike. She told my back But I pronounce it by I'm saying back But I guess it sounded like bike to y'all because you're not from Where I'm from so I be saying on your bike and So for the people who may be new here. She's saying she taught my they only slept together one time So you don't let them test drive the Lambo And it taking him a year to decide if he want to pay for the Lambo and drive it on off the lot so Got to go Got to go Real later 228 a bless you for that for that blessing you sent bless you for that blessing you sent now Scott tisha scott tisha a god bless you now And I wonder if your daddy name scott Because and and that I'm very curious if you know if he did you like that scott tisha Because I'll be seeing I'll be meeting georgina's and larry isha's and stuff like that. That's you know That's a beautiful name, but if his name scott I'm very interested to know about that Why did he bring me home? to his wife Even asked permission from his wife to be friends with me She said yes, but I cut the relationship off after much prayer and soul searching No judgment only 30 That is beyond me um You look that good scott tisha You must look that good to him. I really can't see a man doing that unless He got a soul tie with his wife And he felt like this his wife is his soul tie that he cannot leave But this other women look this other woman looked so good That he got to be like, you know, baby can I be her friend? And so I really don't know what that was about because me personally I ain't bringing now a woman in my house talking about baby. Can this be my friend? It'll be the lad. They on earth why ask that so that that right there's beyond me I but you did the right thing by cutting it off because that's just a little awkward That's a little awkward there. But yeah, it sound like that was for the setup Maybe him and her knew what friend mean and maybe you was finna be in like the movie on Get out The way they were finna have you in there part of that there So friend might mean something different to them What advice do you give to a single mom having a hard time letting go of baby daddy? He cut me off. I love him and I'm sad Son won't grow with him plans to move out of state You probably gonna need coaching and being a single mom, you know, it's coaches on my mentor that life. That's $25 an hour But it really just gonna be a process, you know, so you do the same thing that you learn in the soul ties course And the win to let go course you go through the same process, but just being that You have a child with him. It's just gonna take it could take longer And it just may be in a more a more intense or a more painful process But you do the same process as if you was breaking up with a boyfriend You cut all ties your only conversation is about y'all son And not about anything else not what you're doing. How you doing who you dating where you're going where you was What's up next? None of that Little Johnny is doing good. Here's his letter from school. He has a play coming up This and that all about little Johnny nothing else. So you cut all ties And then you get new knowledge And that's gonna build your confidence and that's gonna help you heal your heart Brianna god bless you now Question i'm on the dating scene now I am a news anchor and feel like I intimidate most men on the other hand Some only want arm candy any advice Well, I'll tell you this um well If a man ain't ready, he really don't want you to end up on the news during the dating segment talking about him Ah, yes, we're alive at fox new five and we have a dog on the loose You said I mean so he might just be thinking like you so connected in the city And it could be some insecurity in in that sense to where He doesn't feel like he could fit in your circle and go shake bob hand at the news station And things of that nature, but on average I'll be honest with you Men are not really intimidated by women I'll be honest with you. Men are not really intimidated by women. It's it's more so And women aren't really intimidated by men, you know, we because we created to relate we created to connect So typically what it is what a man is it's just something that he's looking for or he's not mature or in that place And it's also, you know, what you're thinking about Oh, wow She said I work for fox 55. I seen that right full caramel kids got you on up out of them Now now y'all don't get upset when you see them comments get deleted. We just trying to keep this her chat clear I told my wife, I said man, I'm gonna try to do 60 minutes and she always look at me like What y'all yeah, they question still be flying. So I'm trying to Now the max I got I got 14 more minutes on here now and I got to get on out of dodge If a man you are just getting to know Text you every day, but doesn't call you every day. Is that a red flag? Okay, I think yeah, so you knew here. God bless you. Welcome to the channel. Welcome to the channel. I appreciate you being here But absolutely, that's a red flag. You cannot build a relationship on text message You got to be able to talk you got to be able to hear that voice inflection You got to be able to hear if the person stuttering hit the person line You can't build a relationship on text message text message is not real communication So if you dating a man and the man only texting you he don't want you That means he's juggling you with other women because a man who want you he want to hear your voice He want to hear how you sound he want to be listening to your voice So he could let your voice play in his head while he's sleeping He won't fall in love with the sound of your voice a man who really really really wants you gonna put you on FaceTime You should I mean so he gonna have you on FaceTime and want to talk to you looking you in your eyes even with your bonnet on Or what have you? wild flavors and s see god bless you That sounded a little exotic Why do men play on women when they are down? after Exits a toxic relationship He got me on my back then ghosts Cut it off, but feels like I watched social account from different profiles any videos on players Well, I'll tell you what With the way you putting your question is you saying why do men play on women after she didn't come out of talks relationship but The onus is on you To heal See I wrote him a book mrs. Right And got it in here with me That you got a heal before you deal So what that means is You played yourself See if I come up to you and I say a Can you answer my emails for me? For a hundred thousand a year You're not gonna say absolutely not Tony I can only do that for 12,000 a year. I will not accept a hundred thousand from you to answer emails Humans gonna take whatever you willing to give So if you come out of talks relationship and you written you willing to go into a Situationship and get on your back he gonna let you Do every summer salt Flipping toast that you want to do he's not gonna say hey, hey, hey, hey Listen, listen, you just came out of a toxic relationship I don't want to sleep with you Please please put your clothes on get back up get back up. Please. Please. Let me he's not gonna do that He's gonna say, okay. Thank you. All right. Here we go He finna dive in now phase first and so that's what you got to understand is that Each of us got to accept our responsibility for our actions He ain't do nothing to you. You did it to yourself Now if he did something to you meaning he took that from you now, he's in the wrong now He going to jail But if you willingly Concentrally went into this knowing that you hurting Knowing that you haven't healed As an adult that's on you And that's that's sometimes hard to heal, you know, but we got to hear Wavy black queen god bless you now we all like That one way or another, but why is it so important to a man? He will sabotage a good woman and cheat when he could have just stayed single Now that's the question of the ages That's the question of the ages and to be honest with you Explaining that question to a woman would be futile. I don't even know what futiles mean, but that sound good right there So we're gonna make that mean something tonight But women just never understand that answer to be honest with you because men don't understand it It's just something that men do and so And me I try to explain it and explain to y'all about the call of a man to replenish and be fruitful And that urge and that tick that's in a man that's making him go But it makes no sense to a woman because when a woman meet a man She she could turn off that reproductive desire to just be with whoever but men Is it it takes really him being renewed? You know by god, that's how I changed I was renewed my spirit was renewed and I tapped into my purpose And I tapped not just my purpose. I tapped into my god giving purpose So that's what gives me the strength and the courage and the confidence to live a righteous lifestyle Had it not been for me tapping into my god-given purpose. I'll be still out here still be out here dawg But a man has to tap into that god-given purpose something that's bigger than him Lynn W. God bless you just a small blessing for your video today Ladies, please take time to listen to tonic daily video. You will be here. Hey god bless you No, I so appreciate that Miss the actual bless you now I'm a new evangelist and I'm considering becoming a coach for women How do you establish trust with clients and get started when you're new to coaching? um For help with marketing you could join my mentor that life and you establish trust by what you give So if a person wondering if I could be their life coach, they could go online and read My quotes they can see my videos and that builds a rapport and they hear enough from me that they say, okay I see what he rocking with On my mentor that life we got a blog session So you could write a blog every day or three times a week and to where when the person finds your profile They could read your mindset and see where your heart sat and see where you're speaking from Then you also build trust by starting at a low price point. So if you come in at $25 an hour now You're starting there improving yourself and then the more clients you get the more clients you get The more demand you can start to raise your rate to be able to manage it. That's why my rate is at $275 now Which is still less than half of my market value But it's at $275 because I've been coaching for 13 years. So I have to build it as I go See, so that's how you build trust by what you give um Juicy Vic God bless you now Husband seemed to want me back He tried to hook up with me during the drop-off of our son told him To change now acting like he is too good games. He has our pics on facebook Yeah, y'all pics on facebook for everybody else, but not for y'all and the reason why he acting too good is he really Don't want you and he don't want to change He's just trying to sleep with you to see if he's still that was out of ego to see if he still got control in your life So you just got to stand your ground keep doing what you're doing and realize that that's not what he wants He don't want y'all. So just keep your legs closed. Keep your eyes open and just keep going about your business W bae god bless you If a guy friend asks me how I how I would like to be courted Can I tell him that after 90 days of consistency? I expect a relationship Can I tell him that after 90 days of consistency? I expect a relationship And after 12 to 18 months, I expect a proposal Um, the first thing you said that was wrong to me is a guy friend. Okay You really don't do this with guy friends. It's need to be A guy you dating if it's a guy friend then he need to go ahead and make up his mind Do you want to be a friend or you want to be a boyfriend? Now number two is A man shouldn't ask you how you want to be courted because that's common sense. That's in eight You know when you go to the kindergarten classroom D little boy know how to deal with these little girls. They come up. Hey, here's Um, here's my new dinosaur. Do you want to play with it? And then they sit there and he put her on around and they playing with his dinosaur You yeah, that's in eight. He already know what to do. But see when a man don't really want you He'll ask you how you want to be courted because he's gonna do it the way You tell him so when you read a man your script He's gonna play the role He's gonna be denzel in it and he and he want to ask her And then when he play it to the tee and he denzel in that script And then he don't get what he thought he was coming for He's gonna flip the script be ready to cuss you out and be like listen I did exactly what you said you wanted and you're still talking about Your celibate You don't even know what celibate is because you're saying it wrong. It's celibate And that is a priest. You're after it. This one's sick and tired of you And so he gonna hit you with that and you're gonna be like wow What's going on? Because he never wanted you but he want to get you from friends to friends with benefits That's what you got to understand Scott teacher god bless you now. Scott teacher came back Scott daughter god bless you. How do I publish my book? Who the sun sets free? It's my autobiography It will help many women who have been through a lot of stuff any advice welcome um right now the birth your book program is 50% off I took it from $100 to $50 for the Situation we in because people at home So make sure you visit tonygasinsacademy.com and the reason why I say that just because That's a hour long worth of talking and I don't want to say the wrong thing and mislead you And I just put an update in there today for a new publishing site because one of them closed down And I added another publishing site on there. So The course only $47. Just see that as a part of your book expense So that now you got lifetime access to it and you can refresh you can go through it as many times as you need to Amanda god bless you. Hey tony I got about three more minutes on here now. There's people bad time people got to get ready for bed They catch they ten o'clock show Um Yeah, you can use the birth your book for that It's it's for non-fiction books But it'll still apply when it comes to how to publish it edit it Get it formatted all of that the writing schedule still will work for you too But just a devotional you'll be done a lot faster than a regular non-fiction book Amanda bless you now. Hi tony. Thank you for all you do God bless you. Do you and sherry have plans to write a parenting book? I'm still single and have all your books But I want to raise kingdom children one day, you know to be honest with you I would love to do that, but I'm a little nervous about it. Just because the way we parent is so Opposite of today's time just we really Train our kids up like the bible says and it's just so foreign to people today Like, you know, our son don't have temper tantrums. They don't you know Get in trouble in school. They don't give us no issues because we we're so consistent and we own them that I just feel like It'll be a shock, you know, even in the way we train our sons just in school and life Like my son was telling me his workout today He ran a mile on the treadmill Then he did on on 7.3 speed if y'all gotta been on the treadmill, you know 7.3 you moving Then he did sprints at eight and a half speed And he yay big so them legs had to be moving Then he got off and did a soccer workout on the dribble up out Then he did an out workout and this kid 13 And it's still in school. So he getting straight a's no a minuses Then he going to train in his body Like a olympic athlete, you see what I mean? So the way we parent is just You got to be immersed in it and you got to be all the way in And so that's what scares me because today the world's so lenient on their kids and Lil bobby cussing mama and spitting on the ground when she telling them to do something and You know terrible tools temper tantrum in the grocery store laying out on all on the floor So I gotta talk to my wife about it just because you know, but I would love to do that though We might have to do it independently though because the publisher might be like man. It's too real It's too real for this For the lost world Whitney Brooks god bless you Ginger bless you now bless you wow y'all be blessing me on hill My goodness Ginger god bless you now finally figured out how to sin. I appreciate your work all the best God bless you ginger ginger was working Trying to get a blessing to me lord bless a 10 fold now give a 10 fold a 90 minutes I got the gold. Let me answer the last question from d love since it popped in right here My books on amazon.com anywhere anywhere you buy books from you could you could find my books Hi, Tony. I have been considering signing up to be a coach. I have been on My strengthening I have been strengthening my walk With god so I could coach on faith, but I'm not sure what else I could coach on advise um I wouldn't coach on faith, you know, you could add that is one of your things but You're still imperfect. You're still working on strengthening your relationship with god You can coach on confidence. You could coach on self love all of those things Are encompassed in faith, you know, because What the bible tell us to be wise as a serpent harmless as a dove So when you put yourself in a box You don't get the opportunity to show your love And your heart to someone who may not be into faith But if it says confidence coach or if it says self love coach if it says mindset coach This person comes and they're working with you and then they inquire within and say, how did you get so emotionally intelligent? Like how did you get to this place and then you're able to share your faith with them? So when you have bible thumper calm in your bio The people that you're supposed to reach you can't even reach them because they just like okay. No, okay That little Pharisee you see what I mean? So you have to be wise about it And you go about it in a way to where I'm a devout christian But I talk about very very real stuff, you know, I talk about fornication. I talk about oral set I talk about everything that people deal with I talk about pornography Pern I talk about all this stuff because it's real life So even a person like the sister in here earlier today, who's a musler? So you got to have it open to where you who you are and what you believe in but You're a fisherman of men So you reel a man and then they inquire within about your stability and why are you at where why you are Where you are and then you're able to express your faith But first they feel your love It's a quote that says share the gospel And if you must speak So you got to be able to show a heart of love Tammy god bless you. Thank you for your birthday book course. It helped. Hey. Thank you. Tammy We got your feedback that you sent in, you know telling us to mention the other side So that's actually why I did update the day. You see how I be working I've been meaning to do that. I just be having so much going on and be tired up Amanda god bless you the holy bible is sufficient But I will be on the lookout for The one you and should rewrite independently by god's grace even if it's a course under your platform god Hey, you know what amanda Thank you for that. We're gonna do a parenting course For the parents that just need a little reinforcement a little help The the know what another Parent is doing we're gonna do a course. That's what we're gonna do That's what we're gonna do instead of a book because these books People ain't reading like they used to Like they post to hey god bless y'all now Let me see We got to go Devante say what do you think the top three qualities a wife should have? Um A relationship with god and when she got a relationship with god to be honest with you that number one quality That means she's gonna be humble that means she's gonna be faithful That means she's gonna be honest that means she's gonna be righteous. So you see what I'm saying So those are things that it encompasses humility faithfulness trustworthiness Selfless love all of those things come with being a true woman of god See love god bless you now you you hit with it buzzer beetle Lord, I thank you Lord, I thank you lord had me on here a few more seconds and then see love hitting with this buzzer beetle Just had to say thanks for today's video if you miss today's video I actually posted two of them one was a bonus But the one maybe she talking about is called the teddy the teddy bear syndrome Tamar god bless you now. All right y'all. I got to go don't send no more blessing now I've been to go on here then get up here and close this hill thing god God bless you and I appreciate you and tomorrow thursday So I'm gonna take tomorrow off on the live But I have a video and I try to do a live Friday night depending on how my spirit feeling God bless you