 The reason why you cannot defeat the narcissist you are not mentally prepared For the situation of defeating the narcissist you can't go toe-to-toe with them You can't directly oppose or compete with them But I'm not saying that you're not strong enough to do that. I'm just saying that in your heart You can't lower your ethical standards By behaving in a malignant self-centered and despicable manner You can't be very unfair and dishonest Narcissus are very weak Which is why they don't play fair They manipulate they deny any wrongdoing They shift the blame They gaslight They play the victim role They will use unfair and unkind comments or tactics They will use your flaws against you They will use anything that you secretly confided in them Whether it's something that happened in your childhood Or something about your sexual health They will use your weaknesses against you They will make you insecure So that they can defeat you So how can you defeat someone? Who is willing to do that? You're a warm-hearted person You're kind and sympathetic You want to help other people You don't want to break them down You did everything in your power To make them a better person To give them a better life You did everything you could To show them how much you cared about them But when you do that They just see it as though they have control over you They see it as though you still care And they see your kindness as a weakness They see it as something for them to exploit The kinder you are to a narcissist The more they will take advantage of you And the more they will try to destroy you in the end Once you've realized that you're being taken for granted But the reason why it's so difficult For you to defeat the narcissist Is because you're not a narcissist They can do all of this crazy stuff They can go all out to defeat you Because they are the narcissist And that's just what narcissists do But you just don't have it in you You don't have the interest or desire To criticize, cause harm or harass someone That's what narcissists do They're the ones who hold grudges They're always looking for ways to undermine you Because they see your power They see that you are strong They see that you're able to succeed Without doing anything that they're doing And they hate you for that But they also see it as something That is a benefit to them Because they're willing to fight dirty They're willing to use every possible way to defeat you Especially involving betrayal and deception They don't mind getting in the mud Because they see it as an opportunity to drag you through it The narcissist will sink the ship Just to take you down Even if it means that they're going to drown in the process They will sabotage themselves just to get to you Narcissists are very ruthless and determined They show no pity or compassion for other people They're driven by their own wants, needs and desires While you are driven by your compassion for other people You have strong empathy You don't want to see other people hurt There are two types of people in this world People who build And people who destroy Narcissists destroy While you prefer to build And that is why you cannot defeat the narcissist Thank you for watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coach the inquiries You can email me at coach-and-anarch-surviver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon