 What's going on you guys? So last time we talked a lot about why Practical and logical guys have a tougher time with their dating lives and why a lot of the dating advice that they get Generally isn't very good. Now in this video what we're going to be talking about is we're going to be talking about How those practical and logical guys can be successful in their dating lives what they should do and at the end I'm actually going to share with you why I think they actually have an advantage in some ways Okay, now it's might be hard to see but at speaking as a practical and logical guy myself I definitely think there is okay cool. So let's talk a little bit about What practical and logical guys can do to be successful? So I'm going to talk about a few things that I think are the main ones that hold them back from being successful in there Or you know learning and being successful in their dating lives One of the first things that I noticed about practical and logical guys is because they're smart guys Who have maybe been successful in other areas they come in with a little bit of an ego You know they kind of assume that it's like like if Michael Jordan when he came from basketball and started playing baseball he actually learned really quickly and You know some people think he could have even gone to the major leagues That's pretty incredible for a guy who's played basketball his whole life and really just started playing baseball right then and there You're not going to learn like Michael Jordan Michael Jordan went from one sport to another physical sport It would be like if Michael Jordan Went from basketball to like basket weaving or something like that. Okay, it's a completely different discipline with completely different set of skills What you have to see yourself as is like practical and logical guys They have a great product You have a great product if women could see it They would you know be all be all into you your problem is that your marketing is not good for your product Okay, and sometimes people watching this might think they have their products great and it's actually not great So you got to work on that too, but if you do have a great product meaning that you're a guy who's Caring who's ambitious who's confident, but you just don't know how to talk to women Then yeah, then okay We need to work on the marketing side of it to show that confidence to show that those sides of yourselves Okay, and marketing is the skill just like anything else That's one thing that I had to learn when I was growing my own business when I was growing this business I quickly learned that just giving really good advice and having the skill to do it Wasn't enough and I would get mad. I would be like oh, it shouldn't be that way Just giving the best advice should be all you need But I knew from seeing other guys who were giving not so good advice, but they had good marketing They were doing a lot better than me. So I had to learn the game I could either get angry about it or I could learn it and be able to succeed Like those guys were but actually give good advice and obviously, you know having a great product will help in the marketing But you can have the best product in the world But if there's no marketing behind it or no good marketing behind it no one's gonna buy it okay, so think of it as that and Kind of shed your ego and don't just because you've been successful in other areas doesn't mean you're automatically gonna be Immediately successful here. You're in a different realm and that's okay. You know, it's okay to ask for help in this area I find that guys especially the practical and logical ones they tend to not ask for help as much You know, I've looked for mentors in this area because I admitted to myself. Look, I'm not good at this I'm not very smart socially. I'm not very just good at this stuff So like I reached out to people who I thought were good and some of the mentors I have are a little crazy But it worked for me and that's why I do what I do. Okay, and I had continued to have mentors in my life I've mentors for everything All right So if you're on this path and you're a practical and logical guy and you're starting to do all of these different things What is it about? Being a practical and logical guy that I think is kind of a superpower. That's actually going to really help you okay, and Admittedly, I think at the beginning when it comes to understanding social situations these kinds of guys have a disadvantage at the beginning Okay, you have it harder at the start but if you take the time to actually learn this stuff as a Practical as a logical guy if you're able to break down social interaction to fundamental components which is exactly what I have made my life's work to be able to do and What I'm going to be releasing in the practical approaching system Then you are going to master it at a level that most people wouldn't even dream about for me I remember learning this stuff learning how to walk up and talk to women and express myself and be charismatic and You know be more empathetic and all those different things that I talk about I Remember going through it and I remember it was like harder for me I was I would learn slower than a lot of other people and at first that was frustrating And I want I like why can't I just learn as quickly as like my friends or whatever But once I started to actually master my social skills and Learned game and confidence and all that stuff Once I mastered that I mastered it at a level that the people around me my friends the guys who originally I'd been jealous of couldn't and Is because if you know things and you're able to break them down like the way that I've done Then no matter how you're feeling no matter how you're doing it You don't need to pick yourself up or do a lot of the things that a lot of other guys talk about to be able to do To be able to be successful Okay, the classic example is like if you meet a guy who's like naturally good with women or naturally good with people Maybe they were good enough people that people in high school and college and you take them out and then as an adult They have trouble making friends They have no new friends all the people that they met have been from high school and college and usually they get their girlfriend Or wife during that period of time That wife leaves them, you know usually they end up coming to me for coaching or usually they end up doing something else Like or just being lonely for the rest of their lives a lot of times that happens Sometimes it doesn't sometimes they stay happy forever with that person, but I've seen that happen a lot It's because they haven't broken it down like a practical and logical guy would do if you are able to Push through the discomfort period that is good That's going to take to get good at this sort of stuff You will achieve a power that most people will not be able to possess And it's because it's hard for you at the beginning Play to your strengths recognize that this is going to be tough for you at the beginning But if you make it through it is going to be an incredibly rewarding experience Probably the most rewarding experience that you're ever going to have in your life You know, I know guys who come through my coaching programs They come through that and afterward they tell me Lloyd this hasn't just helped my dating life You know, I'm dating the girls that I want to date I either have a really awesome girlfriend or I'm dating multiple women or Not or and I'm succeeding tremendously in my business and my financial and whatever all of those things where people's skills are necessary They start doing way way better and it's because they've learned it and they've mastered it at a level that most people Just aren't going to get to and so if you're a practical and logical guy watching this I really invite you to experiment with that side of yourself. Okay, don't expect to learn it right away That's okay. That's totally fine. You know, that's why I'm coming out with the approaching system So I can break it down for you guys and make it easy for you Also, see where you're at in terms of your mating intelligence One thing I've noticed that a lot of smart guys is that they're very smart when it comes to math computer science or whatever their discipline is So they can take get very high IQs But when it comes to maybe their intelligent emotional intelligence quotient, they're not so high But even guys who have a high emotional intelligence quotient and a high IQ their mating intelligence is something that's completely different There's not maybe some overlap with the EQ, but there's not a lot of whole overlap with the IQ and the mating intelligence So if you want to know how smart you are when it comes to the man-to-woman dynamic, then take the test that I have prepared for you here It's free. You'll just be added to the mailing list and basically I'll tell you your scores I'm gonna be coming out with a message today about that So again, you guys if you want to get more information about the approaching system Please click the link in the description box below. That's a great way to raise your mating intelligence And I'll see you guys in the next episode tomorrow