 میرے مجھے جمہے پورا ایک اعصم کرسکتے ہیں ، میں یہ ابترہا بڑا لے ہیں ، یہ ایک اجتماع کرنے کے لئے آپ کو بنا چاہتے ہیں ، آپ کی چچرا چاہتے ہیں ، آپ یہ ابترہا بڑا لے ہیں ، آپ کا بات بين ایک عصوصے اور آپ کی چچرا چاہتے ہیں ، جس کبینی بیٹھا دیتا囉 ا**ا ، اور میں آنہ ہوں کہ ہمارے جو many ڈیارے ایک جو جو ہمارے کھاتے ہیں جو ہمارے کھاتے ہیں کی سوالا جنگ لے ہیں میں بڑا حبت ہے۔ لیکن ہمارسی کھلکتا ہے وہ حظہ ہوسکتا ہے۔ انہوں سے بہت نمیات کیا ہوں کہ ہمارسی سهر ہوتا ہے کہ محاج alsoہ کے فرمان کے پاس سوال کر رہا ہے گناہی جب خوبصورت ہوں کے ساتھ ہمارسی کھلی کریں اللہ میں لlat' جب ہمشاہی جانتا ہے کے ساتھ ہمانا تب ہونے اور ہمارسی کی فرمان پر گناہی جانتا ہے جو ہمارسی زندگی کے تصہب کی دل ہے جو میں معمول ہے اپنے عقاہت سارے سخت میں عقاہت کو سارے دی لے اور سیدوں میں کیسے کہ نا تک ہی بیٹوں کے لئے سلیفت کیلہ کے لئے اللہ کے لئے ماناتا ہے سیدہ جب بہتvelmente تھا کیا تھا کہ اس implemented اس کیا ابنی ہوتا ہے کہ آیا کے ساتھ سودنیئی ہیں کہ آپ کو ایک بات لگو ملکنے لسن السلیف میں ہی لئے ہی لئے ہی لگو کیا؟۔ بہتھوئی تو میں ملکنے جب سے ایک آخر جب آپ کو ایک اور ایک بات لگوی کی ساری دور کیا ہے ، بہتب exactly سنویں جانتا ہوں جیسے ہم دن جنہتا ، ہم جانتا ہوں ۔ لیکن یہ جانتا ہے۔ ہم جانتا ہے۔ ہم جانتا ہوں جانتا ہوں۔ یہ جانتا ہے۔ ہم ایسان پر مجھے ہی دلگوںکٹر ساتھ جب کوننڈی مجھےگارے گا میا کردکھیں ساتھ کسکی اسیکر دارنے کیا ہیں۔ کے لئے ، س꼬 کوچنے کیا گا ، ہموں کوچنے کوچنے کیا نہیں ہے۔ تو کم یا کل کل کل کلل لیکن آ當 اے جائے گا تو Morris ایمان ہوتا ہے جو وہ سکریفائز ہے وہ یہ ہے۔ آپ کتیٹ کے مجاہد تک ہے۔ میں اسی لگی کینی نہیں ،ится مجاہد نکل ہوں گیں اگر ہی نہیں موجنا ہے کہ مجاہد ساکریفائس یہ بلی大رہ شکریفائس ہے۔ ساکریفائی کی حق ہے۔ ایک وقت کہ اس میں وقت جس کے مجاہدی جو مجانے والے دوسرم المہارے ویڈز لگے، ہمیں کسی نbble مجھے سے بات ساکریفائی اس کے ممجھیں۔ ایک ساکریفائی اور جس سے آپ ساکریف سے بچا ہونے اور ساکریفہ کے رکھی جُت کیا تھا when I want and I must go as I want and as I wish or what was the point of get married well you know what you can't control my life I know I can't control your life but come on I'm a husband yes you're wife I'm saying go every second we can no problem but every single weekend you want to go well you know what سوحانی اللہ these are some of the challenge as we're facing we brought up our children but we didn't tell them we didn't teach them they didn't لیکن ہم کے لئے اور ہمیں سو Maurاہ قلع کے ذکر کے ساتھ دکھتے ہیں کہ最ودی کھستان ہوا تھیں ، اور کسی نہیں ہے۔ کیا کا سوانے کیا کہ وہ یہ سورتے ہیں کہ جدہ سکتا ہے۔ یہ سورتے podría ہمارے ح still تھی ان کو اپنے والے وپنے والے گیا تھا اور اپنے والے گیا سارتے ہیں اور یہ عربی ہے جب سکتا ہے۔ ہمیں بہت منس ہوں ہمیں مدر ایک کسی تو تبیاری ہے۔ یہ بہت کسی دیکھا ہے ، یہ تبیاری ہے کہ یہ ساتھ کیا لیکن ہمارے گنورت پر کرتا ہوں۔ میں because sometimes کہتے То کہ میں کروش کرتا ہوں، تھا کہ من الو شہارت اس کے ساتھ نہیں ہے۔ its becoming more and more. how many of us have told our children that you know What when you marry it's going to be a big sacrifice and how many of us are ready to sacrifice for our own marriage is. how many I know here today we're probably speaking to a lot of mothers and we're speaking ابھی مسانا لیکن کتی ہے۔ اللہ کے سیدوں میں کہا ہوں مجھے بہت بہتiting رہا ہے تو آپ کو مماریت کیا اور بہتہ کیا پر کامیر کیا ہے کہ وہ حاہت ہے۔ انہتے ہموں کے کے اچھا سے ہمہارا ہوں گی تاریخہ ہوتا ہے اور ہمیں کو ایسا城ہ بھی صحیح ہم دائیں گے۔ تا آپ کرنے میں جو جانے آپ کی جاناہیں لیکن آپ کی جاناہ تب ا کیا جاناہ Joy دائیتے ہیں۔ کہاں کننہ اچھا۔ سبھی بچسکتے ہیں ڈبکہ ، سبھی آپ پر حیرت پر عملتیں لیں ، اگر آپ میں ڈبکتے ہیں ، میں مجھا جمعہ کریں ڈبکہ ، ہمارے بارے میں جانا جائیں۔ مجھے اگر لوگ میشہ ل diameter پر حیرت پاک رہے ہیں ، کبھی جو چیزیں جواران پہنے کے لئے تریک پہلے ہیں، ہمارے ڈبک جنگ بھی موجود کے ساتھ کنیتی ہے ، اس spectacleہ جو تاکہ換شادہ希望 eigenlijk ملونات ہے کہ چائے مجھے کرتے ہیں مرتب نوجائی کی很 تلقے دune جو جو تاکہ آپ جانتے ہیں اور آپ جانتے ہیں بات她گہ تhealth انہ our own children and ourselves but my mothers and sisters let's move beyond this and let's go to something that I should have perhaps started with but I didn't intentionally because I wanted to bring up materialism before anything else I feel it's one of the biggest crises one of the challenges we're facing we have also facing my mothers and sisters a distance from اللہ سبحانہ وتعالہ we think we can solve all our problems with money that's what we think we think we can solve all our problems with power with position with who you know these are worldly matters the truth is we solve our problems by our connection with اللہ سبحانہ وتعالہ even if I don't have a lot the truth is I will be able to achieve contentment if I'm close to اللہ سبحانہ وتعالہ سبحانہ وتعالہ سبحانہ وتعالہ سبحانہ you look at me and you think I don't have challenges I have huge challenges I have people who perhaps don't even want to see me alive عش اللہ and why not because I said anything nasty just because they don't want to see someone maybe who's successful in some way the same will happen to you people don't want to see your success perhaps every single person that we have with اُس انگران���گ جا رہا ہے اس سے جو ہمارقصرہ دوڑے میں کسی سوچ ہیں ۔ یہ لہذا ہمارسا لتے ہیں جب کہنا تو اگر ناقصرہ دوائہ یا جو اللہ کمی기ہ جو بہت محر اُن اگر اور امارہ مرشد اور سبسی کو طرح دیکھتے ہیں آپ کو سوچرا ہوتا ہے ہمیلہی ہمیلہ کیا پہلی ہے اسی طرح سے ہوتا ہے و میں بہت ہی جانتے ہیں آپ ہی کار ح day نکر ہمہت will ہم آپ کی ساتھ بہت ہی ہے آپ ہی ساتھ محبوظیں ہمہت لی دینا میں آپ تو بہت سوچرا ہی ہے بس میں بہت منطلعہ ہے آپ سوچرا بہت سی because ، خیلی میکنی ہے اس بہت سوچ重ہ جیسا ہے انہوں کے بارات میں ہوتا ہے کربتا ہے مرودہ ہے آپ کوسمعل ت aik ہ diss اچھجاد ہے اچھی ایس سلحنا چانہ ہو ج Shane اُسی دور ہو دینیں ایک ہ planner کے دو transitioned ایک آفاہ نغ بھی بھی آestone من Install بھی بھی بھی為什麼 نبرو بات Stück fragrant نہaba پیچھ پ پیچھ پیچھ پہلے بک سکتا ہے جو آپ کی نسان اور آپ کی نسان اور at the same time آپی مساملان کیا آپ کو سنگتے ہیں آپ کیا آپ جانا چاہتے ہیں تو جمہ پہنچ ہے ایک одним۔ آپ کو جانا چاہتے ہیں تو جمہ پہنچ ہے۔ الحمدلہ ، ہمجس کے لئے جمھ مستوعے جو، آپ جانا لے بہت ہوں کہ whatever you're doing to keep fit حالہ ہے ہے۔ جدوانی ہےہا ہے تجار کیوں جو لای ہی تجار ہی نہیں بڑے ہیں جب آپ سبحان اللہ سبحان اللہ lows بعد میں سب کیا آپ کو پہنچ ہے۔ آپ کافت کرنا چاہتے ہیں۔ nem بھی سبحان اللہ سبحان اللہ سبحان اللہ سبحان اللہ سبحان اللہ اور ہموں کو سیشتا ہی تک ، سیشتا ہی سیشتا ہے ، یہ مشکل نہیں ہے۔ یہ کہتے ہیں آپ ایک سوان سوحان اللہ کا سوچ تک مردت ہے۔ وہ محاوزی ہوتا ہے ، یہ بہت متدی ہے۔ہنہوں لیکن ہمجھ بہت اپنے لئے گیا ہے ، کے لئے جانتا ہے۔ ایک حالت سے مر poczتی ہے اور آپ بر اپنی بنا چاہتا ہے اور آپ آپ آپ کزیک jouer اور quando بعدٹ سو Pat ville سو ان آپ آپ کیا یہ آپ کیی big ا belongs دیا سب کچھ اپنی جانتا ہے تم estran جی own کیتا ہے ہے کہ آپ اپنی ان دا چیز سے بہت سوعدتہ Vamos بہت adolescents Eldو its وکب اس Golf Bright t بہلani یہ ڈامروری دوئے چیز تو آپ آپ ان چیز سمجھنے الأگی what زخنچین کام پر اس سے جانتا ہے ان کے حaska وی اس کی ہے اس میںamour شکری Onion اس میں کچھ لیے ہے کہ یہ ہے جب اندرس جو اندرس اور اندرس ہوا ہے ، میں شلی اللہ، کے لئے بات was ایک بات ہے ، آن گی؟ جسی آپ کو سنبتا جاتا ہے۔ یہاں ، لوگ پر اللہ ہوتا ہے تو آپ کیا جو بہت ش sotto کے لیے چاہتے ہیں۔ آپ کیا جو بہت شatisfت کو لگتا ہے۔ اس میں بہت ش죵ہ بہت صلاح کے لئے ، اس میں خود سالان کی بات ہے۔ نبارے کو ایسا ہی ہی اکimat رہے ہیں ، because لہذا جب انجنوں کو شاہتان بھی کرنا کیا جائے گا ، اُن ہی ہنوں کے سامنہ کو بھی بھی ہیoton کے لیے تھا نا! اب آپ نے کیوں کہتا ہوں گا ہے کہ you ان پرجے نوز مہارم ہے کہ ہے کہ انہ اس کے بارے کیا ہے کہaser پھر جانا نا جہاں بھی ایسے سارے بھی کہا جانا جا جائیں جا جیünkی کیا ہے کہ آپ بھی مفہ مدے کریں جو یہ کچھ کافت ہے جو کافت ہے جو کافت ہے جو کافت ہے جیھو جانا جا جا ہے جو ان ساقے جب ہم فملوستی ہیں جو ہم رکھا ہوں because انا بھی جا مجھے بھی جو ہماری اعتاد والمہ آج ہے.. آپ کیا COVID بارانبھاbig آپ ایک درحن کم جاتا ہے ، لیکن آپ درحنیں ناقلences آگے دہلے ہوجاتا ہے. لیکن میرے ناظر اور ساتھ ہمارے مطلب ہ یا کروش میش رہا ہے تو لیکن اتا ہونے کے زیادہ اللی سے ایک اس آج نام ہے۔ the reason why I gave this example is پیان ہیں ان کو درحنے کے ساتھ بہت جملے ہے لہن کچھ درحنے سے کجتے ہیں ان کچھ درحنے کے ساتھ ، ان کچھ درحنے کے ساتھ درحنے کے ساتھ وہ ناکرine ببران سکتے ہیں جنت رہے ہیں جنت ریجیم کے بران کے باران کرنے کیا کے بار 되게 سیکیڈ ناکر کرنے سے میں پر سبت کرنے کیا اور laundry ناکر میں جانا ہے لیکن جب وہ سبیہ ایک باران ہر نوی جاتا ہے ہمسکتے ہوں Wes because میں اس کے لیکن سوچ نیز کیا جس دیگی نہیں آپ کے لگی نوی جارہے ہیں جانتے ہیں گے آپ کی طرف آپ کے لگے ویشن ان کے لڑے آپ legs سے ظاہورہتے ہیں اور بتاعمار altre than thing will have actually will be able to it want to be able to come to your assistance at that point. but i tell you what if you used it in the right ڈایریکشن and if you did not compromise your link with unless you pangnellو حادوellی than indeed you will be a person who is really happy you'll be a person who will be thighs and who have come out and in the comments here after that's what we all want I'm a person I believe in a big and comfortable look at the Internet There are people who say don't use it that's a bigcalm I have to use it There are people who say this social media stayed far away from Yes it's easy for me to stay away from social media but it's another protectors because the reality on the ground is something else I can say but i need what's up what's that is صندوق بات کیں وہ بات کو باپسز ساجر بات کا لbar پر گالن của تحدي کی تھی ل کیوں کہ میں بונים کے سو jakiś ساتھ مجے جانتا ہوں شows جو بہتinks 건jay چاہتا ہوں بات continue دی آ Bora畫 پیچھ مجانیں بوجودafe مجمل جانتا ہے پیچھ صند happiness ا900 دی گو اور بات عہمان مجم اسم لئے ہی جانتا ہے کہ ہم ایک ہونے کیا ہوں کہ خاف کیا نہیں ہے اور عقق آن دردان کےاں سبھان اللہ اللہ میں ، ایک کتا انہوں کا جب میں ہمیں کسکی نظر لیا ہے کہ جانتے ہیں کہ جب جانتے ہیں کہ جانتے ہیں ، ہمیں کسکے نظرو یہ کیا جانتا ہے ، آپ کتا ہے ، آپ جب انگرشتہ کرتے ہیں ، کہ ا Ok آنا جانتے ہیں ، میں کچھ ایک کسکا کسکہ ہمیں ایک جانتا ہیں ، میں مجھے مباشر کرتی تھا اور انعامض کرناред کیوں اس جانتا ہے۔ And I got such a beautiful response from so many different websites and I actually managed to get to the diagnosis of it and the problem was solved after a period of time. And I got stretches and exercises on youtube and I started following them and I started making sure that I did it and honestly I am talking of myself, I helped myself. Through what? Through that same internet and you know what interacting with people they put it up on their social media and their websites مجھے گا اور یک스 ہی انتر بیشت ہے تو اس سے خوبصور کرنے کے ساتھ آپ کی مجھے بیالنس ہے ہم کوئی خوبصور کرنا ہے ہمارے ہم منجزت ن accumیت اشارت لیے ہمیہد حدود لگانے میں ہم نہیں ساکنے ساتھ جاتا ہے ہمارے ایک محکو hin اانا کی طرحہ کرنا ہے ہمارے کیا ہمینا سوفیت کامت کرنے کیونکہ ہم مجھے جنگ ہیں جب میں اس پرہ مجھے برانے کے ساتھ چاہیت لاکھا جم ہوں گے مباہی نہیں ہے اس کے بارے میں ناری جو کسی لگsی ہے ، اس سے نہیں جلیمیہت کی ارسان سے بھی غیر کیا جائے گا پڑھ اس دتے ہیں کہ آپ کو بہت کسی انہت کو دبات کرے گا منطق کسی ہوں کے لئے ایک مستطع بھی ہے کے لئے جانوٹنے والدر نشال اور ماٹیوریلزم کیا جس مجھےcoٹنے والدران کے لئے ، جید ہے وہی حالت میں آپ کیا بالکنی have one you cannot be a good Muslim know we want to teach them you can be balanced that's what we want to teach and this is the reason why I've used social media the way I have people say well.. why are you on Instagram and I tell them you know what it's in order to show the young children or the youth of today that you can be a Muslim you can be a good Muslim and you can have a little bit of fun I know their problems اور ہماری مناریہ اس سے گلوب کرو اور پالستان اور افغانیسٹان جانتا ہوں اور سوما لیہ جانتا ہوں ، فلیپین اور کا اشوار جب وہ بہت مہ刻ره ہوتا ہے ہماری حاطر راستہ ہوتا ہے۔ گرو کیا سوانبا ہوں اور یہاں مقation ہوں۔ ہماری حلے میں پیدا کرنے کے لئے ہمارا ہوں۔ کیا از اس سے خوبک رہا ہوںبا ہوں اور کونکرہان کے حام پر کرنا رہ autonomousدیز اور ان کو سخیال کرنا ہوں۔ own way but i know people will never be satisfied they always want you to do things the way they want know live your life the way you have to live it you strike the balance you have a family you have so many other things and you need to be religious but at the same time they need to have fun i need to take my children sometimes out it doesn't mean that because the world is suffering in syria my children must be blocked at home and they must sit in the room and locked that's it doesn't mean that i will definitely out to them i will teach my children about it i will take my children i will make them give away some of their own things some of their pocket money and so on but i will also let them have a little bit of fun i don't get so much of time with my children so i will take them so that's the reason why i will show on social media a few things i know a lot of people have picked on me because perhaps i've done things that others might not have they say no you're supposed to be a scholar yes yes definitely you're supposed to teach you learn quran from me you learn hadith from me you learn to see from me and at the same time you learn that you need to have a bit of fun sometimes you need to really take your family go out have a meal enjoy it go and have you know go and do something daring if that's the type of person you are masha Allah there's nothing wrong with it absolutely nothing these are challenges when we decide to tell the youth that you need to divorce yourself from what's going on on the globe we've created a group of people who are not real people they are either hypocrites or there are people who keep on looking at others and wishing and wanting and at the same time they're not getting so they develop bad habits they get into pornography they get into you know so many other bad things pornography is a disaster it's a disaster but why do people go into it i did a lot of studying i've mixed with people who are gurus when it comes to teaching people how to get out of these type of bad habits and and you know counseling them and so on and having workshops i've met some people on a global level who are powerful in this regard and they tell me idol mind do something physical you know my child i bought for him a little small helicopter the size that you know one of the smallest they say it's the smallest in the world not so expensive subhan Allah and a few days ago he was playing with it and he was saying this is awesome and he's flying it inside and indoors and and i'm thinking to myself allhamdulillah this is far better than sitting on your ipad you know the games of today are a challenge they killing people computer game the more you kill the more points you get i fail to understand why they don't make a game where the more lives you save the more points you earn i haven't seen that it should be but someone somewhere is serving an agenda and a purpose and we getting caught we just buy them the game i want this game i want that game where did they learn about it from school school where did they get it from the tv from wherever else all the pressure but no something physical when they do something and you acknowledge them and you know something beautiful so take them out but you're going to have to spend time with them i know you must be saying tell our husbands the reality is they will hear what i've said they will hear it definitely the husbands we need to spend time with our family members time is one of the most valuable things it's far more valuable than throwing a thousand rands or twenty thousand rands at someone if you want to build them spend time with them that's what it is i am here this morning spending time with you i could have just sent it to you and told you you know what play this no it's important i'm here personally myself i'm here and i've decided let's talk about it this is a cause one of the challenges we are facing is also the aids and and diseases that people are perhaps affected with not to say that we shouldn't be doing something about helping those who are affected but we should also be talking about how it is spread and how we can prevent a lot of us are guilty of not talking about it sometimes we are guilty of misbehaving sexually it's a reality it's a fact may Allah protect us all we're living in a hyper sexual age there's no need to deny that it's a reality a lot of us are hooked onto pornography and we want to help the world so like i say when you live a real life you will face challenges people might look at you and think you know what why is this person doing this we need to strike a balance a balance between what's happening on the ground understanding it doing something about it living your life fulfilling your responsibilities to Allah and to your family and at the same time trying to make sure that when you die you go to a good place and those whom you leave behind will be left behind in a good place as well what a big challenge what a big challenge subhanallah may Allah make it easy for us so i recall the difference between facebook the way i use it and twitter the way i use it and instagram the way i use it and snapchat the way i use it i can quickly let you know because it's part of the challenge facebook i've normally tried to keep it clean a message a day for muslims for non muslims if they look at it it's coming from a muslim leader so i don't need to say that oh you know what this is a teaching of islam the fact that it's coming from someone like me even the non muslims would know this is something to do with islam and it's something to do with islamic religion secondly when it comes to twitter the same so we've tried to keep it short so that it's 140 characters it fits here it fits there because i don't have the time to create a message three four times a day to fit here and another one which is longer for facebook so it the both go there i cannot interact with everyone i have admin that actually looks at it and they happen to be family members of mine and a few others and they happen to help me for the sake of Allah subhanahu وatal الحمد اللہ it's good so what happened to instagram well instagram many years ago i heard about it and i thought to myself do you know what it's not for me because you got to put photos there photos then i thought to myself no it's not just photos i can create an image and write a message on that image and that can be the image i can put it up because instagram is just to put up pictures and little videos so what happened is i started taking some of these posts and converting them myself myself by searching googling for images and if you google for an image in arabic it's very interesting because you find images that others might not have seen subhanallah you see and then your message is in english so now you you have a say for example is a message last night i searched on google i'm going to tell you what it was it was about sadness we spoke about being sad and i just before i slept at midnight almost i googled حزین جدن what does that mean very sad and then i said ڈفل حزین and then i found an image and i saw four five images so i asked my wife which image is better i thought one with a little boy was better and she thought the one with a little girl was better and i said okay i'm going to take this should i put the you know the writing on the on the side or at the top and bottom she said the previous one was top and bottom so i suggest you do it in the middle and i did it in the middle and i put it up and i know that people on the globe would appreciate it so many people are there why am i doing this because the children are there the youth are there they on instagram they sitting go and check they like it before you've actually posted it i don't know how that works but before i can refresh my page there's already two three likes where did you come from man but that's how they are so because they are there it's my responsibility and duty to get to where they are people say yes come to the masjid for a program go to mashaAllah this sulayman nana memorial for a program yes correct we can only fit a certain number this talk will probably be watched by 20 000 people in no time online subhanallah if Allah wills and if it's done properly so now if you take a careful look at technology there's no point in me saying that i'm not going to use it because you're not allowed to use it when i'm a responsible person to create leaders or to help people to come out of their shell and to learn something about the dean when they are just using it for dunya for the world so i'll come out and i'll tell them i'll give them a good message they will be proud to associate with someone who's balanced why because they know it's not an embarrassment if my muslim non muslim friends see the quotations of this person i'm following they will know that you know what this is a lovely lovely lovely way of life beautiful i'm not going to say something embarrassing i'm not going to say something dirty i'm not going to say that quit your life you know get a life forget about perfume and makeup and everything else throw it away i'm only going to teach you how to balance yourself balance it we're not saying throw it away it's a realistic approach it's not an idealistic approach it's a realistic approach so basically after that you find like the other day and i'm just telling you this because it's a challenge and i'm telling it to you because i'm here in person to talk to you the other day i was at i was in port Elizabeth and i went to quantu game reserve mashallah beautiful place i was there just for a day they wanted me to stay longer but i couldn't because i didn't have the time so what happened is we went to feed the elephants so i was feeding the elephants and they told the one of the game rangers told me or one of the guys there the trainers told me you know what don't use your right hand i used my right hand they said no use your left because it's safer for you it's more protective in case something happens you got to go or whatever else you have more maneuvering you're a right-handed person whatever their explanation was so i used the left and i decided you know what i'm going to put this up on instagram قرآن قرآن قرآن قرآن قرآن why just so that people know being religious is not being boring you don't have to be a boring person some people think you religious that's it you sit in the masjid and that's it not being boring i want the young people to come towards religion that's the dream i want them to come it's a challenge we're facing and how to bring them if they see okay it's interesting i can't be a religious person and look wow i can enjoy myself that's the way so there are so many people across the globe who might have wanted to do this and they're going to say hey i need to do this and guess what so i put it up and mashallah you get hundreds of beautiful comments lovely people commenting and a little while later my son says you see somebody says you're not a proper muslim i say what do you mean because you're feeding the elephant with your left it's so easy for me to answer that and say look we are told and this is the truth we are told to feed ourselves with the right as for how you feed an animal there's no rules in islam about that so it was easy for me to argue but guess what i decided to explain by doing what by putting up another clip of me feeding with the right earlier on you know earlier on when i was still learning if you notice i quickly took my hand out because i was a little bit scared some of you who might have seen i'm sure a lot of you would have seen it because most of us would probably know what instagram is all about when we probably have accounts there i just hope we're all doing the right thing on there mashallah so when that happened then you can hear this guy in the background say use your left hand thank you thank you thank you so much so what happened i had to explain myself i wasn't a typical maulana who comes and says listen guys you go to you go to know if you don't trust me then just shut up and get out that's not how it works anymore it doesn't work like you got to explain you got to talk you sometimes i have said i'm sorry when i when i know that i wasn't wrong just to sort the problem out i'm sorry it's okay oh i'm sorry i shouldn't have done that i should you know i i perhaps will improve next time thank you so much thank you for your input and so on sometimes subhanallah it's good to listen like when i when i attend functions i always tell the volunteers please email me telling me where i went wrong because that's how i want to improve and when they email me telling me where i went wrong i get that email and you know what i respond to it i reply thank you so much i appreciate your comment and i appreciate the correction and i will take it and you will notice the next time give you an example can i tell you did you notice i spoke about mothers in law today and what did i say a few seconds later i said look some of the daughters in law also to blame did you hear me say that guess why last week someone sent me an email a long email telling me you've blasted us enough what about the daughters in law there are some of them are like this and like this so there is an exception when people are generally good shaitan is bad it's not that there are some mothers in law who are absolutely amazing i've come across daughters in law sons in law who will say i wouldn't trade this mother in law for anything on earth machallah goals that's where i'd like to be one day soon when i'm a father in law they must say wow top man you know i don't want to be a pain and some fathers in law mothers in law are so dominating controlling as though they the ones who got married it's like you got married to them that's what it is but then you have the other side of the coin needs to be spoken about some daughters in law are such that they come in already you know ready for a rugby match you know they've come in with the the tea the guards you know the mouth guards and everything the bandage around their head and they want to just fight that's not what you're there for they're not all you know not all mothers in law are bad sometimes the mistake is on the other side it's a sacrifice it's something great it's something that we need to face in such a way that when i leave this world i've left it a better place and i'm gone to a better place like i said one second after you close your eyes you know what you're going to need the amount of sacrifice that you've made for the sake of allah where's your salah my mothers and sisters where's your salah today we came here on time why we want to listen to a talk or two what about our salah if you missed fudger today he wasted it are we ready inshallah to change that i hope and i pray we can inshallah we all should improve myself included sometimes salah time comes and we dilly dallying we going you know we doing something else i'll do it just now don't say just now please fulfill it it's a challenge you know why today there's no baraka in time there's no blessings in time anymore in the sense that before we could get five things done in the morning and it's still be an hour left today you and i know one thing you're about to do and your morning is almost over it's a fact it's a sign of qiyama mashallah may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless us all and may allah grant us all goodness and ease may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala help us improve ourselves and then help us to help others to