 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARC survivor live video just on the balcony today at my hotel in the mountains. I've been doing lots of exploring today, I've been to some temples and a waterfall. So it's been a really good day, I've enjoyed it, had a great time and now I'm just back at the hotel tonight going to do some work and I thought I'd put this live video out as well. So let's get into it. This is why you don't hear from the narcissist. Many of you may be in a situation where the narcissist has just disappeared. They've ghosted you and you don't know why because maybe things were going okay. Everything was fine and then all of a sudden they just left. Sometimes it may be new supply but that's not always the case especially if you were dealing with a sociopath or a psychopath then it's not always going to be the new supply. Another reason and this is actually a lot more common than people think but another reason why you don't hear from the narcissist, it's actually quite simple and you will know if this was true in your case because when you look back you will remember how at one moment they were talking to you, you were seeing them, everything was okay, maybe you were texting them or messaging them on social media and they were responding to you and they were calling you or you were answering their phone calls so you were in contact with them. There was communication but then all of a sudden they disappeared without any closure without an explanation but if you look back you will notice that at that point in time you were starting to catch on, you were starting to figure them out, you were starting to realise what they were doing to you, you were starting to realise that you were being manipulated, you were being tricked and deceived and you started to notice that they were unfairly gaining advantage over you which they were using against you, which they were using to hurt you and if you look back you will notice that that was the moment, when you started to figure things out, when you caught on to the game, that is when they cut contact with you, that is when they disappeared, that is when they ghosted you and that is how you know that that was the reason why they did that, that is how you know because the thing is with with narcissists is they need you to validate their false self, they need you to support their false narrative and reflect back to them what they want to believe about themselves, that is what they need you to do and if you won't do that then they can't be around you, they can't be in your presence, they won't even want to talk to you because then you're making them feel bad about themselves and even a normal person they don't want to be around someone who makes them feel bad about themselves and once you start to catch on to them and figure them out you can't help it you just automatically reflect it back to them everything that they don't want to see about themselves and of course they hate that because remember they want to feel special and important attractive and desirable, they don't want to feel like a pile of shit but the truth is once you start to figure them out that's exactly how you make them feel so of course they don't want to be around you after that and that's what you need to understand when they disappear when they ghost you especially if you've already questioned and confronted them on it you've brought up things to them you've told them the things that you don't like about them they hate that they don't like it when you bring that to them but if you remember before you did that before you confronted them before you let them know that you were on to them everything was fine they were always there for you you were always talking to them they were always talking to you it's only when you start to figure them out when you start to the key word here is rejects their false self when you reject their false narrative of course they're not going to come back after that because you've already rejected them they didn't reject you you rejected them first and you didn't even realize it because by not validating their false self and support the false narrative they take that as a form of rejection and it causes a narcissistic injury it hurts them and in fact that hurts them more than anything else as I've said before but actually you may think that it's you and they don't want to talk to you or be around you when in fact it has nothing to do with you because you are just an object to an extension of them narcissists live in a world with a population of one it's only them it's like the matrix it's like you're either just another agent Smith or you don't even exist but when you become the one you become Neo and you take the red pill there is no going back after that it's too late because then you see through them you see them for what they actually are and it may look like they're running from you when in actuality they are running from themselves they're running from a reflection of themselves that they don't like because you've constantly reflecting it back to them and they're just trying to push it away every time they see you or talk to you they're forced to deal with that and if you pay attention and you notice their responses you notice their reactions you will see it you will remember that time that situation when you didn't view them how they wanted to be seen and they felt that it affected them it hurt them they didn't like that and they never want to feel like that again so of course you're not gonna hear from them of course they're gonna ghost you of course they're gonna disappear you have to remember that answers is a very insecure and if they don't feel like they are perfect when they're around you then they're not gonna want to be around you at all if you look back you will remember the time when you questioned and confronted them you reflected back to them their own insecurities maybe unknowingly at the time and yeah they felt rejected they felt hurt they felt like they weren't good enough for you they felt like they could never be good enough for you so why would they want to be around you if they know that all they're gonna feel is hurt and rejected all they're gonna feel is like they could never be good enough you already rejected them you just didn't even know it you rejected them first and then they had no choice but to walk away they had no choice but to walk off the stage because you ain't gonna support their act anymore you ain't gonna validate it so that is why you don't hear from the narcissist thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you if it did please give it a thumbs up down below and let me know your thoughts in the comment section let me know if you agree with this or not and hit that subscribe button to receive notifications for my future videos share the video if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me you can do that from my website it is naksa5er.co.uk and also check on my Instagram I've got new pictures and videos every day of my travels on there it is naksa5er YouTube and Instagram just like the thank you all for joining me and I will talk to you in another one very soon