 little things that can reveal a lot about you. Number one, how often you check your phone that people who struggle with their mental health are more likely to intensively use their smartphone as a form of therapy? As your anxiety levels increase, the more you might use your smartphone. Two, how you treat service staff. Is your date complaining nonstop about your waitress? When you take notice of things like that, you might learn some interesting details about how they handle stress. Number three, what type of shoes you wear? Those who wear comfortable shoes are likely to be agreeable, or if you wear uncomfortable shoes, you're likely a calm person with a touch of internalized pain. If you're someone who's more so aggressive, you probably like to wear ankle boots. And if you enjoy having new shoes or want to wear clean, well-maintained shoes, you might be trying to calm yourself due to an anxious and clingy personality.