 text is not a flawless way of communicating. Well, it's pretty suboptimal at communicating emotions and how you're saying things, unless you use emojis, which a lot of people don't. I think sometimes it can be hard specifically for me from what I've found to know what someone's saying. Are they saying it in an annoying, aggressive way or are they saying it just plainly in a nice way? I have no idea. And I'm your stereotypical autistic where it's like jokes and sarcasm just go over my head and I never catch it and I have to apologize every time and it's very awkward and very embarrassing even in real life with my husband. He's neurotypical so I have fun and he knows this he knows that sarcasm and jokes go over my head but he doesn't anyway just mess with me in a way.