 Alright guys day four. I was lunch our next speaker up is Manhoor a returning speaker to the 21 convention. He spoke in 2007 when this event was I Don't say nothing, but pretty close just totally starting up out of nowhere, and that meant a lot to me Came back in 2008 did a killer job Last year he was coming and he got pickpocketed and lost a lot of money. So it sucked, but he's back He's back. It is the grand return of Manhoor and it is an honor to have him here Thank you coming again, man. Appreciate it Okay, so yeah last year I got pickpocketed at the airport and lost my ability to fly here lost some money It's all good. I'm back now If you guys don't know me, I'm what's up. I have to be on the stage Okay I'm ex-military. I'm doing mixed martial arts for almost 20 years I'm trained mentor guys in all kinds of different areas. So this is just something I like to put myself into I'm not necessarily my identity, but I definitely like to give to you guys Today we're gonna be covering two main concepts first off, let's see here asshole game a lot of misconceptions in the community about this You know, nobody wants to be an asshole. Nobody wants to delve into their dark side Guys try to start negging a girl and they come across as just a prick, you know, all of a sudden it just consumes them and They're you know, all of a sudden their hatred of women comes out, you know, they're like competing with women or anything like that and We're also going to be discussing What seduction really looks like in a contrast to say what all the marketing jargon out there all the pretty Unicorn videos about you know opening and the fly stuff out there Okay Okay, so like I mentioned Being a being an asshole or being a dick or having that horse side to you. It's just a tool It's not your identity as a man. We have a range of behavior that we can fall into You know, I have my side. That's kind of an asshole. I also have a super compassionate side Like I said, I've trained a mentor guys in all kinds of different areas doing it for a long time So, you know, it's not an identity. I'm not I'm not consumed by that It's just being an asshole just a tool that I can use from time to time. Okay Also, if you guys I want to be able to explain it to you guys so you can actually use it rather than Not not understand it then you get out there on the field and you just get all negative And then you just like fly off the handle either your steak crashes Where you start cussing a girl out or something like that? And I already mentioned here opening guru style versus closing style So this is like the best illustration I can make so you have your your typical Guru like you've got all that fluff material like coming. Hey guys Let's get a nose done, right? So you got this whole range of like material for opening that opens well Okay, you can come in just hella high-energy dancing and girls like he Okay, but guys that actually fucked the girls they talked to their range of how they come in is a little bit smaller a Little bit different area of the spectrum. Okay, and in actuality a lot of this fluffy opening stuff Some of these guys do actually takes away from their ability to have sex with the girl later You're actually sacrificing That capability with her by doing that. Thanks. Okay I'm gonna tell a story real quick So I I had a date with a girl. I met online And I would say hey meet me at the theater. So she gets there. I'm running late I show up about you know five minutes late, and I see you like 20 feet away. So I March up to her. I grab her from behind like this. Yo, and she flips out. She's like She's like, how'd you know it was me? It couldn't my what if it wasn't me? I said, you know, I knew it was you I don't care, you know, whatever So it started out like she just was like freaking out. She was nervous I went to buy tickets and like she'd always she was standing there I walk up to the counter to get him and she does one of these like one of these right I know as we go inside watch the movie and I you know during the previews or is that movie are Repo men you guys seen that Jude law force Whitaker. I can't stand the idea of an Organization harvesting organs and then killing people when they can't pay. I was like fuck this movie I would fucking I would blow that shit up that if that ever happened. I was like anger. I was like fuck this Right, so I'm like showing like this like side to me. I'm like I was pissed I was I can't believe this anyway. She's like gets all kind of excited She kind of like leans into me, you know, I kind of start to snuggle Well, I get closer like grab her I grab her arm or something I like rested on my like dick and And she kind of like like bought quarters of movies She's all like rubbing it like this and then she gets like more like kind of more like, you know Like hey, this is going down and I'm like, all right. I know what's going on. So Halfway through the movie. I said, you know what? Let's get the fuck out of here I pick I grab her like on the way back to her car like I throw against the wall I'm like like up between her legs like making out with her and shit like spiking her get her back to her car And I bang the shit out of her in her back seat and we don't even finish the movie. Okay, and Thing is is We'll talk with realness here. Okay, if if these guys in the community had seen me Start start this thing out. They'd have been like man or fucking sucks They'd be on like rev 31, you know, like man or I saw him on a date and the girl was scared of him He sucks so bad, right? But that's like there's a realness to what goes on here And the realness is is that you're not always going to get good reactions Girls are gonna be all kinds of different states of mind. You're dealing with real life here You're not dealing with some kind of fairy tale magic land Pooh a fairy tale here. Okay, deal with it all that is what this is about This is not about, you know, having it's a pretty little encounter This is about just having the flexibility and the range is a guy to deal with anything that that you see As far as leading You know a lot of guys see leading as I was dominant and I told her what to do Right and of course that comes into play and there are plenty of girls that respond really well to that But leading in the case of this girl was not at all telling her what to do because right off the bat She was scared out of her little mind She was like she was like this and what leading how leading was defined in this case Was that I led myself first, okay? I could tell that she was fretful. I could tell that she was nervous I simply stayed composed myself. Okay. I was just chill and social. I saw this. I didn't care that she was nervous I thought it was kind of funny So I led myself first allowed her her space and her time to get back on my track I showed her aside that she could relate to okay, so in this case, that's how leading would be defined Not some like dominant Bitch get on your knees kind of thing. Okay as far as assholeness. I think I described that pretty well the whole like Talking shit at repo men and Jude Law and force Whitaker. I really can't stand the idea of that And like I mentioned before it is a good. I it is your space as a male to have a strong negative Idea or opinion about stuff and just express it freely. Okay. I mean you can't just be all unicorns and angels You've got to be down here Talking shit, too, man. That's just how it is. I know in the military we We train guys in super harsh scenarios and environments put them under a lot of stress I went through a ton of stress myself and basically what it did is By the time they got to the real job or a real situation. It was cake They're like this is fucking easy, right? So if I explain to you some definitions and boundaries to asshole game, you'll be able to use it Okay, and when you're faced with these situations, you'll be like, oh, I've done this before this isn't a big deal And you'll stay composed. Okay We're gonna start with opening just because it's pretty much the first thing right Yeah My one of my big mentalities and I try to teach us to students or whatnot I'm the most important thing. It's gonna happen to her tonight. Like I walk up like boom. I'm here. Okay I get to hog her attention. It's not even I get to hog it. I'm like, yo, you know, this is why you came out tonight Boot camp with with Tyler about about two months ago We get in line to this club we get inside Me and a student pull two hotties within five minutes of being there take him home. I Give mine a facial he gets some resistance, but whatever he got to learn You know, I basically got to walk him through LMI, which is pretty fucking awesome. It doesn't happen a lot on boot camps But he said afterwards is like, I can't believe it. He's like We were there for five minutes. What the fuck? I'm like, dude, why do you think they got all pretty tonight? Why do you think they showed up? Okay, you've got to get in your head What your value is to these chicks? Do you think they want to fucking show around at a club? They do it three times a week. How many times do you think they're gonna meet a guy that'll fuck them that'll like, you know Just just turn them out the way they want to be turned out. Okay. This is a new experience. It's it's savage It's what they want. This is just a simple biology here same thing I'm here, right you walk up like that. That's that's the vibe you project. Oh, okay you get to talk to me simply because I'm standing here and It's not what I'm saying. It's simply the fact I'm standing here. Okay, a lot of guys get Really consume with this idea and I'm telling you I I've been this through these phases of myself Well, I'm like, what do I say? Come on brain think of something awesome and funny to say and then you start thinking that the value you have Towards these girls you're approaching is the funny thing you say and you're fucking yourself up Because if you lose sight of the masculine feminine dynamic going on and simply think the value is coming out of your mouth You're you're often the wrong headspace and you'll have to work backwards to get to where you want to be Okay, I like this. It's not a question if they like it or not. It's just simply biology at work They want a guy that walks up like boom. I'm here. That is just it just hits our biological buttons Okay, so identify with that mindset. You're aware of it now. You can take steps to get yourself there in her game of opening Okay, emotional independence You guys know flawless natural natural Tim of RSD good buddy of mine He was the first one where I got to see Like from another person like I got to watch it like what this was It's basically, you know, you look at somebody's face and there's just no there's just no emotional like neediness They're like they don't want a reaction from you at all There was a you guys know JTR J the Ripper from Casanova He posted this this this thread up a couple years ago and he's like, yeah I was crossing the street and I felt the eyes of All the people in the cars Watching me I felt them on me and it like it drove me crazy like I was being pulled in all these different directions And I was like fuck that's that's incredible. I'm like that must be what's going on through the minds of These beginner guys and then I went out that night. I was like, holy shit I'm feeling it too and it made me identify what was going on here So what I did and everybody's got their own different ways is I can I visually and physically Severed those ties so that I remain centered on myself And that's what allows you to open up just walk up to a crowded group of girls The tricks on the on the dancing on the bar, you know Based which use you sever your emotional ties to everybody else in the room around you. What does this poo a think of me? What do what are her female friends gonna think of me? What's my buddy gonna think? What am I gonna think? You know like Cut that shit off Stay centered to yourself Immersion this is a big one and it's just something I've just recently been exploring being able to explain it to you guys Immersion has a lot to do with your full Undivided focus on the present moment with you and the girl. Okay, so you're not thinking about Her girlfriends over here. You're not thinking about your buddies behind you. You are simply immersed in the moment with her Okay, a lot of stuff comes from that I Contact your vibe, you know just being present with her. I'd like to talk a lot about toly He'll help you a lot with that. Okay You're talking to a cute girl Nothing else going on. You're simply talking to a girl. You're not trying to raise your poo account. You're not trying to okay What does he think about over there? You are simply talking to a cute girl and there's no outcome dependence be in the moment Okay, that's what that idea of immersion is I talked about this last year this last point right here I love bringing up every point every every time your personal level of excellence Dictates your mental level of deservedness that shapes your behavior of entitlement the thing that's attractive about guys that are good with women Is they have a super high level of entitlement like they just walk up like boom You know like hey what's going on kind of thing and they like they like grab girls I get over here and they're doing all this stuff because there's this their behavior is one of entitlement Which comes from that deservedness which come you know your personal level of excellence Of course, there's other ways to do this, but one big thing is how you live your life Okay, like say at the gym you kick ass at the gym grades at school your finances your career everything you do You do to your utmost therefore when you walk up to a girl, you're like, uh, right? It's all here. I am it Okay This is a super important one male female dynamic Poetron versus closer a lot of a lot of guys they walk up to a girl and And they they go into like this whole like back turn I can't really look at a girl and Telling you like if you want to be Inside a girl you've got to establish the male female dynamic. Okay, that's hey man You guys don't open with words you open up with eye contact whether you're going direct or indirect your opener is eye contact Okay, she might see you walk up. She might not you you you you walk up. You're like boom eye contact. Yo, what's going on? Okay, that's how you open if you start thinking I need to come out with some kind of words first You're fucked first. Just focus just walk up focus on getting eye contact with her Taking over her attention and that's all you worry about the words will come guys You've read all the fucking theory. There is you know it You know how to talk you've been talking since you were two years old some of you guys maybe like seven Todd muck is not kidding Yeah, okay power of eye contact Erica's big into this a lot of powerful things happen in eye contact I'll tell you right now one of the most enjoyable things about being with a girl is eye contact I mean, it's just so it's just so Powerful right there if you're not making eye contact with a girl. Why are you even doing this? Okay, you're like you're like getting rid of like one of the big boons of doing this. Okay eye contact is super special Really intimate and something you want to be there with tonality You want to talk to her like a man talks to a woman. This is big We start slipping into like entertaining like hey, you know like our world all over the place We're like and you can hear in our voice like so blah blah blah blah blah and you hear there's like a question whether than like Whereas like where a man talks to a woman. He's simply making statements. He's stating facts. He's telling her a story He's just telling the story. He doesn't need her to react to it in any way. We'll go into that in more detail later Breathing correctly and maintaining volume Man Anthony Robbins has a vocal coach that he's quoted as saying This guy changed my speaking and he'd been speaking for like 10 years already the guy's called Roger Love Look him up. His audio series is that shit and he and it took correct There's so many wrong things I was doing like I was breathing wrong. I was speaking wrong You know you guys are talking in a club and you can't get any volume. It's there's reasons There's physiological reasons why that's happening He had us do a breathing exercise where he said take a deep breath and I went And I lifted up my shoulders He's like if you guys lift up your shoulders, you are fucking wrong He didn't say the F word, but you know you get the picture you breathe from here from your stomach and Then back in and of course we have a problem with that because most of us have little guts that we don't want fucking showing Okay, but what's more important here the fact that you have some volume and you can actually talk to her And she can actually hear you inside the club or you have a little pooch hanging out. Okay, get over yourself Breathe correctly. Okay, make sure you're talking just when your stomach is coming in Because if you're if you're doing anything else, you're basically wrong This also allows you to have natural pauses inside your speech Okay, so when you're like, oh no, I'm running out and did take another breath you pause which is attractive They don't want some guy that's like motor-mouthing like what I'm doing up here, right? So also a lot of you guys and I was with my buddy the other day And he was leaving a voice message and he starts running out of breath and instead of taking another breath He goes. Yeah, so blah blah blah and I swore to God all you guys in here to this room probably do that Do you have you guys ever listen to yourself on audio? You're like God fucking damn. I sound all scratchy I thought I sound like hot shit. What's this? It's because you're still trying to talk and you have no air in your lungs breathe, okay? Projecting the right vibe she feels what you feel this is really powerful if you guys can get this down Everything else would be pretty much over I don't walk up as a blank state to it to a girl. Okay. I don't walk up program me now I'm projecting an emotion already. So when I walk up I'm like like like this, you know and she just gets like that's one way to open I she just gets a catch on that vibe, too Or I come in like this and I'm like Helisexual just because maybe we've been making eyes or whatever or I'm just a horny bitch at that time, right? But no matter what I am projecting an emotion when I walk up, okay? This most of this game has a lot to do with you leading yourselves being able to control yourselves Having a lot of control of your emotional state Okay, so you're not walking up either feeling like crap or you're walking out like Blank slide program me and then at that point you are reactionary because you are waiting for a reaction to tell Yourself how to feel. Okay. That's BS. You need to tell yourself how to feel be so Solid about it that you walk up projecting that okay Opening examples kind of bring it all together. So I was with my wing couple Three four years ago, maybe maybe longer than that and we're driving on the street And I make the mistake of saying that the girl flipping signs on the street corner is hot He immediately pulls over and says go talk to her I'm like fuck you this guy was like non-community like knew nothing about it. He just like if you see the cute girl He's gonna talk to her. So he pulls over. I Walk across the crosswalk walk up to her every car around of course knows exactly what I'm gonna do But since I'm cut off emotionally, I'm immersed in what I'm about to do. They don't matter at all Walk up to her. She's like holy shit. I love this like get her number of blah, blah It's awesome. My buddy comes in gets her number two But that's you know the point is is just just sever that shit be you you are not the cars around you You do not own their reactions to you. You are simply responsible for your actions your thoughts your behaviors One of my favorites is and this happened to the night. I was I was out with libido But when I was I was I was out in Kentucky and they have these coyote ugly bars And the girls get up and like they like just they like dance on the bar like this And they they have like whipped cream contest and they it's just like a meat market and the guys like sit back and they're like this and They just watch and then the girls get off the stage and they just and just walk off and the guys are like Like this whole time. I'm like what the fuck. I'm like I like Walk up. I'm just like yo, I'm like they're like right here I'm just like boom and of course they're like oh shit like the one guy that's I'm like strutting my stuff I'm like I'm a horny little bitch come talk to me and none of these guys are even talking to him Then there's me right so, you know, and then the other night. There was some girls at that and that stripper pole at Shillers, I'm not sure what the name was and All the guys were like like this and I'm just like walking up like yo and of course they were like see like And then and then of course like like the one guy that's been watching this that actually has some balls Once he sees me like comfortable with it like he walks up and like stands right next to me talks there, too I'm like the fuck out of here, dude If you're at a strip club Something I do There will be a couple of girls on different stages with the guys scattered all around I'll be walking by I'm like Yeah, blah blah blah. I'm just like talking the girl while she's dancing on stage And she goes ha and like we'll have a conversation while her customers are like trying to tip her And I'm just like hogging her attention and do I care if anybody's watching? No, it's not my business That is not my business. Okay, fuck that Unreactedness at the beginning we'll we'll go over Unreactedness and all this stuff like throughout the entire thing. I'm sure you're kind of catching glimpses of that But the beginning is a big deal. It's just because it's where you guys are mostly at It's a nice phone ringer there Okay Unreactedness most importantly to yourself. Okay, who's gonna be your biggest enemy out there? It's gonna be you guys. Okay, it's to me. It's still me. All right Your first set of the night say you've been at work all week all week and it's Friday night And you haven't been out in five days and you're like gee I I'm so uncalibrated right now And I've just been talking about you know mathematics and guys. I'm I'm half nerd myself Okay, I develop websites and I'm good at math and all that stuff So I understand right and you're like shit I don't want to talk to girl because I'll start talking about like numbers and stuff, you know And I'm telling you you have to fucking blast through that okay be unreactive to yourself hit those first sets You're gonna say some awkward funny stuff and it's okay Okay, get it out there. You've got excess nervous energy burn it off freak some girls out That's what they're there for like the world is your playground right like I'll say some shit like and and my Buddy was like that girl is afraid of you. I'm like, yeah, I just talked to her Whatever it happens get out you can't calibrate yourself You can't have that badass night until you get out that yeah, you know that that fucking shit that's been hanging out all week in there Okay Ego or no ego and there's a big discussion and we talk about it all the time on rsd Is it about having an ego about not having ego the truth of the matter is whether you have an ego or not You just can't be sensitive to stuff. Okay, sure. I have okay. Maybe I've got a huge ego But it's just not Sensitive to anything. Okay, that is what is fucked up about an ego is when it's always looking for a validation and stuff So just don't be thrown off your game a lot of girls a lot of girls will Bate you with nonsense try to get you off your game Because they don't want a guy who can be thrown off his game This is all about dudes dudes that that bang girls don't get thrown off their game Okay, that's all there is to it whether you want to see it as removing your ego or not having a sense of the ego Just stay focused. Okay. It's a girl's job to fuck with you. That's it on a biological level She's got to test you so don't worry about it. Don't get thrown off. Don't get all pissed off You know, don't don't get all down on yourself. Just don't worry about that Um guys will do it to What like a year back? I was out at a bar in San Diego and I'm talking these two girls They've got their like little beta showed guy hanging out with them and I only say that I only like insult the guy because he was a Little shit like that's that's all there was to it, you know, no redeeming call is whatsoever He I'm talking the two girls and then he comes up on the side here. He goes And I I can't exaggerate it He starts making noises like a fucking mule or something like screaming like high-pitched and I look at I'm like and Then I start talking back to the two girls, right and he's just like, oh shit What did I just do like he was hoping for reaction that would validate his Retardiness when I didn't give it to him. It just kind of like it is like a fart in the air Like it's like all the air went out of his sails, right? So just that shit will happen. This ain't about pretty poor fucking pickups This is about life and the weird shit that goes on in it. Okay, it's a zoo out there I kind of already went over this girls trying to blow you out just because they're having a bad day This is real. Okay. This is not poor magic land. There are girls out there You walk up. You're the most badass guy ever and they don't care because they're on there It's that time of the month. They just got fired. It doesn't matter. They're having a bad day What I do is I just I just kind of ignored I'll tell you what I'm not talking to her I'm talking to her other friend. That's having a better time. Okay This kind of fades right into that so basically what ends up happening is By being unreacted to it and continuing on with what you're doing What'll invariably happen is they'll actually start apologizing for their friend. Oh, I'm sorry She's not having a good day today. I'm like, don't worry about it. It's cool Okay, but by not reacting to it by not gonna get in my head by continuing on the path I was on talking to her friend It shows the girl this guy is cooler than my girl who is being a dumbass right now And I get apologized to you for girls friends all the time. Yeah, sorry. She's uh, she's drunk Okay Same thing would take our picture buy me a drink. Okay. Most girls that are cool generally won't Ask you that okay, but if they do they qualified in some way if you um the other night a couple weeks ago I had a I was talking to a group of girls one girl in particular and then this idiot girl Walks up take our picture. Take our picture. Take our picture like Fucking six times in a row like super uncalibrated retarded and I looked at her and I looked away and continued talking to her and And sure enough. She just she just apologized for it Then not less than a minute later. I say give me that camera. All right girls do this I'm like getting all posing so it's not it's not bad to take your girl's picture You just can't do it to that hole like they're trying to tool you kind of thing Okay, and it won't be a cool check you can probably assume if a girl's being a Shit head about trying to actually take their picture buy a drink She's probably not the girl you want to talk to you anyway, so you can kind of I'm kind of shy it shine her on What's going on here? Okay This all comes down to a really big important concept. Okay a girl's harshness is Child's play Jeff he's got a great quote. He's like he's like girls what girls talk when the girls speaks. It's just puffs of air It's just it's just farts in the wind. It goes it just dissipates and that's it doesn't mean anything Okay for me personally like you know, I've I've been in Lots of fights and stuff so to me the idea of a girl being harsh is kind of funny right like what's she gonna do? I've even had girls slap me and and then I had sex with them But but you know, but it whatever however they come out with it harsh. It doesn't mean anything guys It is just child play. Okay Yeah, I love that one get that down guys whatever happens. Don't get thrown off your game You're just looking at a funny girl. That's just yeah, right you'll deal with this crap throughout your entire Relationship with a girl, okay? You'll deal with it when you're even having sex with her. I'll get into that your behavior dictates her response. Okay, so She freaks out over something You don't react to it or you do respond to her but in a way that shows her That you're not upset over it in any way and she'll calm down and that's all there is to it You if you guys can get this down this would be one of the best things you ever learn Okay, your behavior to her crazy reaction Tells her everything she bases her behavior her subsequent behavior on that You know, she was completely nuts. I was I met this girl out in Michigan It was quick. We were back at her house within an hour of meeting her really cute girl She was taller than me for you guys are worried about height I I'm with girl that are taller than me all the time. You know, it doesn't matter get back to her place and We're having sex and Then I like hand her over and I'm like doing this and I kind of like pull on the night when I like Go back to penetrate her again Like I actually don't really like slip and like she thinks I'm trying to stick it in her ass and she Freaks out like angry fucking drag like Get out of here. She starts throwing her clothes back on Streaming like like I'm thinking this chick belongs in the fucking hospital. Like I can't we were just had sex girl But and I slowly, you know, all I do is I slowly like I'm just chilling. I'm not reactive at all I'm just hanging out with I'm staying calm and positive. You know, I think I slowly put my clothes back on Just whatever same thing. She's still screaming Maybe about 30 45 seconds into it. She calms down drastically. Okay, still talk to her So having that fun playful vibe with her letting her know it's all good, baby. Don't worry about it Two or three minutes later. She's like wait, why are you leaving? I'm like, I'm not baby and we go back to it. Okay Next one tell I was I was out of I think it was a subway This was a few years back and I walked up and the girls were chitchatting at the front I was in a hurry to get somewhere, but I was really hungry. I'm like, yo, can we speak this long? I really got to go and the girl in line turns around to me and gives me a dirty look and Like was waiting for my response. Okay, and I was simply there to get a sandwich and get out I wasn't there to be mean to somebody or anything at all like that But she was she wanted me to dip into that like whole like asshole dark realm Like like she just assumed that since I was telling him what to do I would of course be an asshole. Okay, and most guys feel the urge to I've got to act this role now Like yeah, I got it. I got it. Come on, you know, and I didn't I was like, I appreciate that Thanks a lot and it went from her being like like this to all of a sudden She's like, oh, this is a guy right here and there's like, you know, like a little chemistry there So, you know, like I mentioned before lead yourselves first Okay, you dictate your responses and your behavior and react to your reactions your mental state To everything that goes on do not allow a girl to dictate that to you. Okay. That's what this game is about Every year before I or you know every every time before I give a talk, I'll call up a buddy You know, like hey, what have you noticed? What should I talk about blah blah blah blah? He's like, I love how you walk in a group of girls or group of people just start telling him what to do I'm like really like what the fuck and He's just like, yeah, you can he's like, no, don't get me wrong. They love it He's like you're really fun with it, but you just start telling him what to do and they fall right in line and This has a lot to do with eye contact, which is which is pretty simple It's got a lot to do with your your tonality as well If you guys don't honestly at all check out one of Brad's video blogs It's the best example of Breaking rapport yet fun tonality. I've I've ever seen But yeah, you want back you like walk like just I think it was a couple weeks ago There was a bunch of girls with a camera and they were on it was a street set It was at the end of the night and I walk up laughing like yo, give me that camera Are you girls line up right here? I want to see a sexy face and they're like They're like they're like getting in line and stuff. I'm like, yeah And so I'm like taking pictures and I basically walking a group of people I don't know and just start ordering them around now in my mind. Am I ordering them around? No I'm just having fun, but it's something you guys want to pick up if you want to figure out how to like run a group Which is a really big deal and get that down. It's how you talk to them It's eye contact. You're making eye contact with all the girls and it's that tonality you have It's like boom firm, but I'm having fun to have fun with me It's a big deal as it sounds it's gonna sound a little bit harsher a big thing guys need to get down is You're the pimp and that's it you've got to reject all other realities in the field that tell you you're not, okay? You don't question yourself the field is not to question your tactics your techniques that shit's later Okay, don't worry about that. I'm the fucking pimp and if there's anything else that happens that tells me I'm not It's wrong and I reject it outright. Okay. This can be minor. You know like in your mind I'm like, oh whatever that's gay or you can actually verbalize something kind of harsh which happens from time to time I'm telling you But what this allows? You's not a bad word. I forgot I wrote that what this allows is it? It's almost like a momentum you build in yourself of having a dominant frame So say you walk up to a girl and she doesn't like you and you reject the fact that she's like You know like this and then the next story you walk up to you're like boom like you've actually created a dominant momentum Inside yourself to the next story you walk up to she's just all over your job So many stories of that fact. I guess I'm gonna tell one right now. So I was at a I was on another bootcamp and We just got out of seminar sauce a little bit like yeah a little bit toned down, but I was like boom, right? First girl I talked to walk right on the dance before I talked to her And she goes like this and I'm like fuck you right like this is bullshit So anyways, I'm like get out of here. So I keep walking. I see this girl Fucking hot-ass Latina girl You know pearl skin anyways She's she's she's scanning. I'm scanning we like like lock eyes for like less than a second I'm like, oh, it's on right and then she like looks off anyways I From about 15 feet away. I like start walking up on her like this and I'm completely sober by the way. I'm not a big drinker Especially on bootcamp no drinking at all. But yeah, I do this all sober mostly anyways Walk up to her and she sees me coming and she looks at me. She goes like this Like giving me the harshest blowout she can before I even get to her and it doesn't faze me at all Right, I get right up in her girl. I'm like boom blah blah blah blah blah and she doesn't say a single word Her face is stone impassive. She's just staring at me trying to make me go away, right? I'm like, you know, I'm still talking and She doesn't fucking say a word for 45 I mean, it's gotta been at least 45 seconds if not if not a minute So can you imagine? Walking up to a girl. She's already rejected you you walk up to her you start talking there And she doesn't say anything back. She just stares at you like this Like what's you know, what's going on in my mind? Nothing. I am just in a dominant friend like boom I'm here right anyways about About a minute in she says a word cracks and then a little bit after that she has she smiles a little bit I'm like goddamn right. I'm in right so I grab her. I'm like hey meet my friends I bring her over to bring her over to Tyler. There's a student here. Let them talk to her Rip her away to the bar. I'm all over the place and then And then I grab her face and I try to kiss her and she's like And I'm like you know, I grab her and try to kiss her again I'm like, you know, and then a couple minutes later Same thing. I think she rejects me trying to kiss her five or six times And since I'm just I have so much momentum. It doesn't faze me at all I finally grab her kiss her on like grab her ass like she's wearing this like little dress I'm like up here, you know, squeezing her luscious bottom and she finally like starts kissing me And she just opens up like a little flower. So she goes from being a rock-hard bitch one of the most impassive Girls I've ever talked to to all of a sudden being this beautiful little flower that just spreads herself all over me Take her on the club some more dancer Bouncer somewhere else go back to her place and and Railer all night long and in the morning Okay, so can you imagine how many times if you just stuck with it and just not even cared not being been emotionally reactive? How many you know, how many ladies, you know, how many time how many experiences with women you'd have right now, you know Oh Yes, this is a good one so so This was like this was a while ago. It's like five or six years ago we're at a taco shop in Pacific Beach in San Diego and I'm telling my buddy. I'm like, you know what? I'm like, it doesn't matter what you say As long as you say it with passion, right? Like that's where I was at in the game at that point, right? So he's like, okay, so if these two hot-ass girls can get out of a van And he walks up to me. He's just like this guy is so black tonight And I'm like, I didn't mean like that and they just it just but it opens them up all over the place Like they love it. So anyways they go inside He says sounds one of the girls and I think the other one's using the bathroom or ordering food and I sit down next to the girl and she immediately goes And I'm like I'm like sitting down just sat down not expecting this at all. I'm like Fuck you. I just like yeah, so get up and walk off, right? I'm like, this is whatever, okay? so sit down order some food start eating and The girls have kind of been like wow this guy told me to fuck off like oh, that's what kind of guy is this, right? I see this I walk up like 15 minutes later. I'm like, hey, I'm sorry. I'm like, oh, it's okay. Well, anyways, it ends up With me in the backseat of their I think it's a van or like an SUV They're playing rock-paper-scissors for who's gonna fuck me in the backseat and It was so surreal. This was five or six years ago I was like what the fuck's going on here and I kind of like a like a moment I was like, you know, and so they go look back like who's this guy? So it didn't end up happening, but if it happened this, you know today, I'd be all over it Yeah, oh, okay. I do this every year telling ridiculous stories with authority a Chill on caring vibe. It's all in a tonality. So I tell people yeah, I Would the bed till I was nine, okay? And there's no like feel sorry for myself like I'm such a bitch, right? It's just like, yeah I want the bed till I was nine, huh, huh? You can do that with anything just you control how people perceive what you say Strictly from your tonality and how you feel about it. Okay? I Have this ridiculous story. I tell people how my mother told me how to pee standing up Okay, and these are examples. I'm not some Tom all like this is all I talk about I'm saying this is two examples of like Weird shit, you know that just because the way I tell it it comes out hilarious. Okay. I had a buddy Dan he was talking to girl he met a girl at the club and He's having a good time with her and he's like, you know, I got a I got it with the bathroom She's like, I gotta go to the bathroom too. So when he goes in the guy's restroom waiting in line and she comes into view waiting in line for the girls bathroom and and You know, she looks at him and he's like like this and she's like like this and there's a couple urinal stalls Open but he's still waiting in line, right? So, you know, he was about to take a shit He was waiting a line to take a shit It was so obvious because the urinals were right here and he's not peeing He's waiting a line to get in the stall and it didn't matter. He just like like this And she's you know, they're doing this like flirty thing right there and whether she knew whether she realized it or not It doesn't matter. He was so boom. I'm here It didn't matter if he was about to drop a huge load at a bar, which is actually pretty nasty in itself Jedi mind tricks, I don't want to go into this too much just because I've I've shown him before and it starts getting abused and stuff But basically, I don't you know I'll kind of point you guys in the right direction and then you guys can you know by the time you get there You'll be ready for it if you remove any trace of emotion or ego from the way you talk to people You can get them to do funny things. Okay, like It's definitely I've got about I've got about 40 girls on video and pictures. I'm like fucking them and I'm taking video They're mine So they know I would never you couldn't pay me enough money to put my girls on on YouTube or whatever I just would never happen But when I'm doing it, that's kind of how I'm getting compliance. There's no ego. There's no I'm not following her Like is you got to know that they freak out sometimes They do and I have to calm them down and continue filming them telling them to get back to work kind of thing You can I get out of try I get out tickets with cops All the time. I don't get tickets You know It happens all the time say you need them to open up a new I need check out window in line at the supermarket You say hey, can you you open up a new one? You know, what however you guys want to do it There are so many situations where the way you the way you choose to communicate Dictates a response you got from the person you're talking to you. This is kind of going back into immersion Unreactedness to anything around you nothing exists, but you and her okay, you guys are in a little bubble This is not about being director indirect, but you have got to be just there with her eye contact Okay, unreactive to everything else going on doesn't matter if her girlfriends are screaming for her to come follow them Unreactive, okay There are so many times where they're trying to drag her off and simply because you're not reacting to that and you're Just staying there with her like this just calmly talking She's just rooted right in place and the world could be falling down around her But since you're right here with her. She's ignoring everything else as well. Okay, that's a big deal You're not grabby okay You're not you're just caught your confidence. He just quiet and pulls her in okay a lot of guys They get in this like mindset where somehow they're gonna batter her defenses down and convince her to go home with them And that's really not how it works You have to make her want to go home with you one way to do that is just like be there with her We'll get into the more of that later Huge This is a huge thing right here Existing outside of a social tension as man. It is our role our We it does we exist outside of social tension. I think the first time this was driven home was Tyler on the blueprint He said he's like look social there are socially tense situations that go on all the time You're gonna find yourselves in them constantly. It's like but as a male you that is not you you do not respond to tension You don't even feel it and you can have the craziest nonsense going on around you That's got nothing to do with how you feel right here Just the other night. I was out with libido and I see these two sexy ass girls And and I'm kind of like this. There's like a rail here I'm on a higher spot and then I'm talking to you know libido at the table two really cute girls probably the father where then where you're at and I'm like yo, and they don't hear I'm like Right and the new guy that was standing with libido just goes And like scampers off like five or six feet away, and I'm like dude I'm like if you can't stay with it, man, like it's not gonna work for you Okay, social tension is not you. It's not your role. You don't respond to it at all. Okay, forget it Oh, man, this is a good one. So I move out of my buddy's place. We're really good friends he has a two cute girls move in and One of them is I think more my style than the other I started making her up She wants to play Super Mario Wii with us, but she wants to go to Target and buy a pink controller So like, okay, right? So we go to Target. We're walking through. There's the bicycle section right here So I grab a bike off the rack I look at her like this and I climb on and I'm like I start pedaling towards you like this like fucking Jason with a ski mask and a sword coming at her and she goes and Starts running around and I'm like chasing her through Target on a bike Like like slowly like stalking her and shit like this look on my face Like I'm gonna get you right and she fucking loves it, but she's like she's like Fred Why is he doing this? Stop them, but you know, I mean that's the logical mind, but she's just like oh my god This is so hot and I wasn't thinking I mean sure it might have been nuts. I take a bike rack off Take a bike off. I'm chasing us through the supermarket. It's okay I'm sure the workers might have thought it was funny, but that was not in my reality at all anyways, I If I end up cornering her I try to like gracefully get off the bike So I can like sweep her off her feet and shit and I I hit the wrong brakes So I actually kind of like tumbled over the fucking handlebars almost landed on top of her still works out. Okay. I I banged her Not that day, but you know having a whatever points Next one bathroom poles. Okay, bathroom poles Relatively easy the social tension you guys are gonna be forced to deal with Getting a girl in the bathroom is the hard part. Okay, it's the social technique You can spy girls all night long They do want to have sex you right there. They know that Power to the people. What's that mean? 30 minutes left Jesus balls, okay So you got to deal with the fact that you're gonna be taking a girl in the bathroom people are gonna see people are gonna see you Come out okay when I come out of a bathroom with a girl. I'm left like I'm like yo the girls like So up in Michigan I'm pulling a girl home and She's already got a guy meeting up with her to do her right so the guy actually calls her We're walking back to her place. He calls her on the phone and says blah blah blah and she's like Oh, yeah instead of dealing with it and telling him anything she hands the phone to me So talk about like okay, so I'm like yo, dude. What's going on? It's like hey, I'm on my way I'm walking over to her house. I'm like, yeah Yeah, me and her on our way there right now So, yeah, I don't know man and you can hear it in his voice like oh And I you know and you're gonna and you know he he went home I I got her you know and then I faded back to San Diego and he probably had her for the rest of her life I don't know but you're gonna be putting these situations where you just have to deal with it And that's all there is to it. I'm gonna have to I'm gonna have to Hurry up here I'm gonna tell this Hollywood notebook one. So Halloween party my buddy's a referee He's got a notebook and he's got a bunch of phone numbers on it from girls he's collected for like some kind of tryouts He leaves the notebook in my car bad mistake. I start calling these girls up. I'm like, yeah, we're doing this tonight They're like, who is this? I'm like, I got your number from a notebook. So they're just assuming I'm this guy, right? I Get two of them to meet up. I End up banging one of them the same night that she came out the same night the same day I started talking to her my my buddies Has sex with the other one like a couple weeks later and I'm driving this girl back to her place and she's like She's like so how'd you um? How'd you get my number? I'm like, oh, I You know I was on that notebook. She's like so you just found the notebook and decided to call me I'm like, yeah So she you know she got to realize I got to watch it happen like wow this guy called up probably 10 12 13 numbers and And he fucked me out of that right there, right? So there's gonna be these situations you just you just deal with them You know sometimes you you are with a girl and you forget her name that kind of thing You're like, yeah, sorry it happens. Whatever check her mail This is very big part of communication, I don't generally argue with people at all I tell them I have a way of saying blah. Okay. This is what this is what it is generally that just this is how it works If I don't know about something I do generally just shut the fuck up, you know, I don't there's nothing there But when I do know about something I just I don't know I just I don't speak like there's like there's room for argument or discussion here We were we were had some girls out at a Hooters and a couple of guys were arguing with some of the girls about Sexual topic and the girls are like, no No sex before marriage Sex is wrong. I've only had sex with five guys and and I'm just like what are you and I told the good fuckers later I'm like, what are you doing? He'll argue with girls like this doesn't make any sense You just you have to like lead them right like otherwise. They're just gonna spit out random nonsense Well, my buddy, you know same thing he ends up railing the girl That uh that said that that she'd only had been with five girls and she was like this innocent little thing It's just like yeah, they have to say that right You don't argue with them over that stuff. You don't even bring that up and it's just not how it's supposed to be Don't push draw and kind of a big concept. I already kind of touched on it You don't want to be trying to batten down her doors trying to get at her trying to convince her You want to just be like showing so much value that she just gets emotionally drawn and pulled to you Okay, remember that if you are getting resistance from a girl don't be trying to let's logically convince her or Trying to like ah come on. We said this Show value make her laugh do whatever fucking You've got to be a guy that she wants to hang out with make her want make draw her to you Don't be trying like force her to do stuff. Oh That's a big one. Okay, so when I grab a girl I'm gonna hit on this one too at the same time. No, I'm not when I grab a girl. I'm manhandling her. Okay This is not traditional keynote like ha ha touch your arm like oh, yes You know like I am like I am like fucking like grabbing her like You know like uh Headlocks newbies, you know pick her up put her in trash cans. I am manhandling her This is not about getting reaction out of her I am simply physically enveloping myself around her and like to make her do things. Okay, if you think about it I mean back in the back in the caveman days Did they have like incidental and overt Kino or you know, whatever that whole whatever, you know Like traditional way of doing things. They really have a no like they just picked them up, right? It's just natural. That's how it's supposed to be So grab them do whatever without any thoughts of their reaction that being said though This is all about push-pull. See grab a girl pull her in push her back out Okay, you pick a girl up you try to put her in a trash can. Okay, you there's a push-pull here We're like you don't have me. I'm just playing with you. Boom get away from me, right all we push-pull is One of the most important concepts and everything we do. Okay, so same thing with Kino same thing with touching a girl You aren't grabbing her all the time a lot of guys like oh man who are such a caveman He must be bending girls over all the time like he must always be like wrapped around girls and shit. No I'm really not okay. A lot of times. I'm not even touching I'm not even touch a girl for the first half I'm just totally creating such sexual tension that she's just like dripping and like needs to be taken or I might walk up and grab her It's all it's all this, you know, whatever. It's all relative But I am definitely not all over all the time because that's just basically needy and it's just not natural I don't feel like doing that. It's just too much work Dominant grip versus gentle grip. So I Def I'm I have both sides of that. Okay, I can grab a girl and I can also lightly stroke her and that's a really big deal I broke into a cemetery with the girl. I'll tell the story later We we leave we leave the place and she's like She's like I just loved how gentle you were when you held me down from the fence I'm like after all the nasty fucked up things. I did you inside the cemetery. That's all you remember I'm like, this is fucking crazy. I'm like, oh, yeah, baby. It was like, okay, whatever No one would escalate hard. Okay Some people try to misconceive this as like predatory, you know physical But when a girl like starts getting that giggly like ha ha like that vulnerable take me now I'm surrendered thing like that's when I that's like blood in the water like I grab her and pull her in Okay, it's not sexual harassment. This is biology. She is putting herself Into a sexual state when you see here get all hyper or like like this. I'm like, yo That's that the queue. She's putting herself in a sexual state jump on that. That's where it's all at. Okay Prize keynote. Fuck you guys read my LMR series at all probably not What this is is like You're not you're not touching her to make her feel good Like you like demand that she touches you to make you feel good kind of like like You're like almost pull away like like this or like you like take her hands and like put on your dick So like she can start petting you and stuff you're kind of like you're it's not about you touching her It's about like, yo, I'm so badass that I want you to touch me now You just kind of standing like this and per and shit, you know But that's what what it what it tells a girl This is a badass guy and he likes to feel good and that's and this is a big thing nobody really talks about this I'll probably write more on this later But a big deal if you guys are having a if you guys trying to figure out what the fuck Why am I grabbing all these girls and they're misconcealing it as me being needy? It's not going anywhere. Try this prize stuff. Try push pull dominant gentle We're gonna exercise for puatrons. I showed this to Tyler. He fucking loved it He immediately went to the gym next day and started applying it, you know when you want to pick up a girl I have blown out because I couldn't pick a girl up For whatever reason I just I just had shoulder surgery. It pays to lift weights fuckers So we'll get in the gym a really important exercise you want to do if you want me to lift up girls Really well, you know the cables that are on the ground you stand like this Okay, and you grab them and this exercise right here. We lift up right here You keep your arms straight like this that is an exercise designed to pick up chicks Literally pick them up. You don't bet you don't bend your arms. You keep them straight cables right here like this It works everything you need to fucking launch girls up into the air. Where's my pointer? Okay It's on Kino. This is funny This is gonna maybe shock some of you guys and you'll be a little uncomfortable But man, this is where it's at Random random grabbing of girl to communicate what this is all about regardless of vibe. Okay, it could be sexual might not be so Just the other night about a month ago Do I tell the story here? I do tell the story here. Oh I I'm talking this girl And and it's just she's a she's a she's like fake titted Hollywood chicks. So I mean she's she's fucking hot She's got it all going on But she's an accountant at the same time So she doesn't even know how to be like, you know, like she's just got both things going on and as I'm talking to you We're in it's kind of cool And I'm like all right and I just I grab her tits like this and she's like what the fuck and I'm like Oh, yeah, and then I'm like grabbing like this grabbing her ass and she's like, oh my god You know and she doesn't like freak out and run off. It's all good. What it did is it showed her what this was about Okay, it communicated on a really clear level. What was going on here? Okay, we could have been talking about the weather, but I'm grabbing her boobs and her fucking ass And so she knows what's going on And it shows you're not hiding anything. Okay a lot of these creeper guys out there. They're like Like this and they're like ashamed of their like strong sexuality. Okay by doing this I'm literally like we'll make an eye contact with her and doing this and she can look at my eyes and be like, wow This guy's gonna rail me. Yes. Okay. Nothing to hide there. Um, so, yeah, I Ended up taking that girl home. She had absolutely no intentions of sleeping with me that night and I was to find that out later But by making this so clear, you know, I think the next time we hung out I think I think it was like a social situation and we didn't get to hang out at all together next time I come over Miss hot nerd comes out wearing a naughty school girl outfit Gives me a blowjob and then I fuck her like all night long and and this went from like zero to sixty simply because I'd already laid the foundation That I yeah, this is what I'm about. Oh, you know, so she just got to latch on to that and the next time we hung out Alone she was already there. Okay. There was no hiding. Okay. She knew I was like social like I was like in you know I wasn't like a weirdo. So yeah went down just like that learning sexual vibe really quick Playboy jokes from the magazine learn some dude. If you guys have a problem getting sexual in the field learn some jokes I did it. I used to have a whole repertoire, man. I tell them they're hilarious. Okay t-shirt hell.com I see one of these shirts. I had one that said If this shirt is lying on your floor tomorrow and on the back it said we totally fucked now Go make me some breakfast bitch and it was so badass and and regardless of if I was there or not I was getting the reactions that I was there So it allowed me to to get this kind of feedback that I'm this dude that is a sexually obnoxious And it actually helped me become that way so Get some of these fucking shirts you can there some of them are way out there And if you want to contact me, I'll be like, yeah get this one. Don't get that one kind of thing But t-shirt hell.com learn some playboy jokes. Okay initiating sexualness You can kiss a girl all that long you talk to all that long but until you make it real for her You are just another bar fly. You're just another fucking level in Mario. Oh, I had a fun night last night I remember who it was, but hey doesn't matter. Okay. I already went over physical boom boom, right? Like I kind of mentioned you can be talking to a girl about the weather. I Can be talking to go about the weather and it was like I'm like tweaking her on my tickling like this I'm like grabbing her butt or almost like what newbie you can't say clouds are bad You know kind of random stupidity, right? But that tells a girl what this is about. Okay sexual dialogue I wrote a post. It's a really good bite. I still like to read it. I'm like fuck. I wrote this It's called LMR series part 5 Sexual shit testing talks a lot about initiating sexual stuff through dialogue. Okay, I told this girl We were randomly we just you know, we started kissing and then I'm like I Want to eat your pussy and it was that was it done like we went home line and And we did it all night long Same thing. I want to kiss you a little bit weaker But it's good for girls that you have to kind of broach it and then get then get beyond that later Like I just use that I just saw what you look like having an orgasm This is for a girl. That's like a little bit like Coyer, but you know, it's like a naughty little chick Okay, but you got to make it a little bit softer I ended up I actually end up having a threesome with that girl and her friend that I'd said that to I'm going to do things to you another good one Sorry Volano girl. I'm running out so you guys can read that one. It's a it's a call two nights at the cave man It was from 2007 when I first came here and started speaking good one read it Fucking cool Quotes. Oh, yes. Okay. This is just I do this every year. Just fuck around stuff that just popped out of my head I only talked to girls and hook up on the first night. So there's some girls like we Second night. I'm like see you tomorrow. All right This girl was like beat me to the bathroom I'm like guys put my dick under the door and you got it towards the toilet like no, right? It's just like random stuff There's not a lot of people here. They all left. I'm like, yeah We should make some more right now. Yeah, she's like, oh my god Okay, I walked out of my room one time. There were some girls over early in the morning I'm like and I'm like like like wearing like a thin thing. I'm like, don't worry. It's not a burner. This is normal And they go like And if you really want to impress your friends, I'm selling this one for 499. I'm just kidding I heard big nipples are a sign of bad breeding Holy shit, walk up to a group of girls and say that okay. They're like, no No, my big nipples are nice like I will say this and there'll be a group of guys watching over here and they're like Like what does the guy say to walk up to a group of girls and have them just start flashing their titties at a bar, right? Fucking insane. There you go Okay See stripper quotes I saw we're gonna strip clothe and in no way that I want you guys to think that I only Go for strippers or not a girls. No, I'm I'm What's that mean power Okay, yeah, yeah, okay 15. Okay stripper quotes We have a girls keeps like insisting on asking you for a dance If you can't get her like just like chill out just like I can't go back there I will not keep my hands in myself kind of like I'm bad, you know, they might say you can touch me all over That's bullshit. You know, uh, I skip kindergarten. I don't play with all the well with others This is kind of like a playful diffuse the fucking tension here Um, I worked at one a strip club for a while Um, they're a little bit more Like they're they're pretty much down for whatever a lot of level-headed chicks. I respect a lot of them But there are sense of humor is just a little bit Off to the side right not getting totally identified with that So this girl one of the girls had a little lock box that she put her tips in I'm like, yo, I saw your locker box combination I'm gonna take a shit in it later when you're not looking she goes Like she's fucking starts busting out laughing Okay, like, uh, I'm like going around and I see this like one of those little glow-in-the-dark Braces that you put on your wrist right at like clubs or whatever I found one I pick it up walk up to one of the most beautiful girls. I worked there. I'm like I found your nuva ring, you know, she's like All right, you guys know what a nuva ring is. It's a birth control the ring a girl puts in her vagina. Okay um, anyways So about 15 minutes later. She's like walking by and she sees me and I have it and I go like this I'm like thinking I'm just teasing her and she's just like Oh, I was like really, okay. Well, yeah, just just random nonsense here. Okay Extracting pulling know your logistics beforehand. No shit, right? Okay, I mean if you drove with five of your buddies and you're the designated drunk bastard Not really looking too good for you, huh? No, what's gonna happen beforehand have a place to go moving girl around club beforehand probably Shit one of the most important things that defines guys That are really good with chicks and look great And the guys that actually take them home If you're not pulling a girl around the club and leading them around to the bar to the bathroom to meet your friends Blah blah blah blah blah You're gonna fail. You can't expect a girl. You're standing with a girl in one spot the whole night or you're dancing with her And all of a sudden you're like, hey Do you want to go home with me now? She's like what the fuck like no get her used to following you get her used to just going where you're going Get her it's just it's a momentum that builds so by the time By the time you say let's get out of here. She's like, yeah, we've been doing that all that long. It's fucking go outside now. Okay um bastard Baby steps. I don't I don't go say hey, let's go to my bed and fuck. I it's baby steps Okay, she knows she's hoping it ends in that okay, but I'm like yo, uh, I'm hungry. Let's get a burrito Okay, that's easy. Hey, I heard there's another barbie. Let's go over here. Okay, cool Alcohol, let's get alcohol. Okay. You're you're you're incrementalizing the process to get back to your house Okay, this ain't about this ain't about I mean you can you can literally just Go from like start to finish in one fell swoop, but it's so much easier You get so much more success if you just incrementalize what's going on here freebie Guys, come on. Hey girls. We got to get out of here. We got to get liquor before they close it too Done how easy is that what girl is going to say? No, I don't want to get alcohol before they close it too. Fuck. No, so, you know use that. It's a great way to extract Uh closing game is ruthless. This is k. We're getting down to like the nitty-gritty like the actual Penetration here closing game Is ruthless? Okay uh That that on that program where may not student pull those two checks I yanked my girl into the room within five minutes of being there He took a long time finally got to a room and she cried. She said About seven or eight years back. I the same thing happened from a girl from poland She'd get she'd get drunk take all her clothes off and then Jumped in my bed with me and I wake up and there'd be a hot-ass naked girl next to me I like this is fucking dreamland here, right? Anyways, same thing. I go to like do her and She's like I feel like such a slut I can't do this and I was like, oh, it's okay I won't have sex with you and of course like less than a week later. She's getting railed by some other guy Okay, like look don't it's not don't be fooled by it or don't be sensitive to girls But this doesn't count dude Biology dictates that girls have sex all she's doing is testing you to see how solid you are about it Okay, a girl crying does not have anything to do with with sex So don't be don't be thrown off your game with that man. I'm not trying to be insensitive. This is just biology speaking here uh, okay this is a good okay, so um I uh Had a couple of strippers come over. I I pulled one from the club first night. I met her Um Was banging her and then she pulled she told she had her was having her friend come over My buddy was supposed to have sex with her that was supposed to be his girl And I got selfish and ended up fucking them both because I'm a bastard so but anyways really important because um, the two girls were so Different from each other The one was like girl get over here and I could like put on her knees and like make her suck like in front of everybody I like rip her clothes off and stuff and the other one like Definitely, you know like I kind of the same thing like I walked her just like grab her um But when it came time for sex Or when it came time to like get play from both the girls like I couldn't tell her what to do because she immediately resisted Okay, so there's different forms of leading here and we've talked about this before So in the case of this particular girl, I had to inspire her I had to set the stage and just let things happen. So I'm sitting back on the couch. I'm like Like yeah, I would be so hot if both your girls sucked my dick And of course the one was already down for but the other one was like, okay You know like I didn't push her I wasn't like too aggressive about it I didn't try to grab her and like try to force her down But five minutes later I walk over I grabbed the one girl put her down. I'm like, yo, do you want to come here? And then she says let's just suck his cock together Probably the hottest thing I've ever heard in my life, right? You know, I mean gotta be one of them, right? So I'm like having like two badass girls, you know, um, and there's nothing better I don't think maybe three girls. I've never had three girls at the same time Maybe some of you have you But yeah, then back in The room I'm railing the one while the other one's like I got her like face planted down there and she wouldn't She she wouldn't let me grab her like I had to like seduce her so that she finally said, okay I'm ready and then I you know her too So always be aware of that be flexible. Don't think leading is all about being dominant being a being an ass No, there's different ways to lead different girls be flexible. Know what's going on with that Okay, taking video pics. I already touched on this um You know, it's gonna be different, you know some girls you're gonna be like uh boom and then others You know, you got to like deal with stuff that being said I would appreciate it If you guys didn't take advantage of this and start posting it on like my ex-girlfriend.com or whatever I have never done that one of the reasons why I take so many videos and pictures because they know I would never Break that trust. Okay. That is my stuff. That is my stuff with her uh hardcore kino this is This is good. Um, okay, so We were on boot camp pulled a couple of girls This was how I uh, this was how I closed her. I pulled her into her room The girls were going to cook for us before they started cooking and pulled her in her room I put her again pushed her against the wall kissed her took her shirt and ripped it down She was just like unlike her. She's all exposed. She's like, oh like this and then I grab her And just push her down on her knees and just boom like that. Okay, like there was no like Like, you know, like I don't know. There was nothing in between. I went from standing up to I just grabbed her and just did this And there are so do I tell this one? Yeah, there are so many times where that's just I'll walk into a girl's house There was another girl didn't know where that. Well, I'd had sex there before But I walked into her house immediately walked up to her went Uh grabbed her kissed her sit her on her knees and that was it. Okay, and don't you guys I mean if you guys think about it Isn't that the way you actually do want to take girls? Like don't you just fucking want to walk in and do that boom If you guys get in touch with that side of yourself, it is actually natural. I girl love it, man I think they do I don't really ask him Yeah, it's it's hot. They're into it Okay, nine's and tens a lot of guys are one of the misconception that they've got to be like Nicer to these girls because they're so high. That's bullshit They need to be they need to be even more ruthless like yo get over here Tossing her around super hot chicks Man, they get they get all the nice stuff they can fucking handle You got to give them some raw and naughty. Sure. There's plenty of time for fucking gentle love making But not this time around not with these girls. They know what they want. You got to give it to them. Okay The actual fucking part, okay It's like fishing. Okay, so um To be honest, I wasn't always like the best at this like there were plenty of chicks I was like, well, I wish I could make her come. She might call me back, but it's not going to happen, right? Well, I had to like learn how to do this stuff So the way I see it as you can rail at her All night long, but until you get into her sinking her rhythm It's like you feel that bite and you pull There'll be a certain time with the girl where you sense her going to a particular state Where she if you follow this path with her and and take it from there She will have an orgasm for you guys that that uh, you know Have sex regularly you guys understand what this is for me. It was just like, oh shit You know like so instead of like you wait for that and then you kind of like press matters there and see what's going on With that and that's that's generally how it happens for me Um Anal, I'm not really an anal that much. It's okay. I like to do it just because it's something to do with the girl Come shots. I definitely do like She says no you say yes And that's pretty much how it works. I swear to god I'm gonna come on your face. No Yes, and that's that's really how it goes Really, you know how like the Jedi mind tricks about taking the emotion out of your voice telling you that's how that works If there's no like you don't validate her her emotional, you know fear of what's going on it's going to happen Sex god method. I guess that guy was here. I would love to see him talk that book is the fucking shit It is awesome. It is awesome Turning your lot hard. Oh, okay, so cemetery Um, we break in her cemetery I'm like grabbing this girl. This girl is a ring girl in vegas model She's like six feet tall you know, um We break in her cemetery And I'm like, uh, and I think I don't know what it was I think I think she wanted to find a an actual a real tombstone to get naughty on But there was none around it was like it was the it was the cemetery that michael jackson's buried at It's all like scenery and stuff scenic anyways. I find a statue of the virgin mary I'm like get the fuck over here. I like fucking walk over like I like fucking throw her down like boom. I'm just like talking nasty to her the whole time. Like, yeah, you like Yeah, I'm not gonna Not gonna say it for the viewers out there, but you can imagine I'm like doing all kinds of shit I'm like, yeah, you want to swallow this and of course she does But you know, I'm sorry that that's the experience she wanted to have and I I did too. I gave it to her, right? So, um Yeah cemetery times good stuff. Okay managing your girls Um, yeah, sometimes I don't remember their name Whatever, uh, there's one time I railed a girl And uh, I didn't remember her name. So she leaves the room. I'm like fucking going through her mail I find her last name. She comes back and I'm like, hi miss samson or whatever And then she leaves again. I go through more of her mail. I finally find her like real name But you know, if you it's gonna happen like I've called girls by their wrong names and just you know It just happens just deal with it if you try to let them judge you or post past judgment on you They will but just don't let it affect you um So one of the a girl I'm dating She's a real big fan of saying this is the last time You're not my type You know, I just I just don't date guys like you and I listen to this like it's like what is that 10? Five fuck. So yeah, um, I listen to this like it's radio chatter, you know, like I don't care I don't even respond to it by not responding to it. It never becomes real So we you know, we've hung out seven or eight ten times since then, you know, and it's just it's not I never validated Okay, remember her reaction to you is shaped by your behavior. You dictate her reaction Oh, that's a good one. Okay. So I'm arguing with the chick You know, I'm just like babe. You freak out over random stuff. It's retarded Chill out and she's like she starts screaming gets even more out of control I'm like, whatever. I think this is the last time we're gonna hang out. Okay, whatever So anyways, we get back She goes to bed follow about five minutes later. I go to start macking her body and she was no What are you doing? I'm like just chill And that was it And uh, it was not love making what I did to her after that Like I don't think she enjoyed it at all. But basically what happened is by By saying just chill just chill Right. No emotion in my voice. I was communicating to her that she that we were not where we were before I did not validate her emotional response. I was right here right now with her and I was about to penetrate her And that's all that counted. She's like, okay um Okay, yeah, so, you know a lot of girls in my life I've known them for years and I'll text them. I'll find their number again. I'm like, oh, what's going on like? Hey, okay, and I never introduced negativity. So it never fades off. There's never a reason why it it ends A lot of my guys that are that are have these skills like they're like Oh, she didn't do this. So I'm dropping her. I'm going to argue with her a bitch at her. She's like, shut the fuck up Don't worry about that shit It's got nothing to do with you. Um They they do the right. It's it's not that I it's not the things that I do you to keep these girls around It's the fact that there's a lot of things I don't do I don't argue with them. I don't need to I don't introduce negativity My role as a male is to be solid and unchanging Okay, when they wrap themselves around a wheel mentally I'm just like, it's okay. I grab it. It's okay on don't worry about it. And that's it. That's my role I don't make it any bigger than that You know that and that's all they need is for Call out my girls. These leaders said that in a game of fucking how much time do I have? Two minutes, um What okay, so I got two minutes to go through slides and I better not uh, okay. Oh, this is big okay, a lot of guys are on this impression that um You have to build up value build up value build up value and then you get to cash it in and finally have sex with her and that's So wrong. Okay, you guys got to understand you guys got to get in the fucking mindset that you fucking her Is value you're communicating her like hi. I I'm into you. I am into you right like I like you Okay, like the value is you are finally giving her what she wants get that in your guys's heads Um, even if it's in the bar bathroom Okay, I'd love to tell these stories. God damn it. Do I really don't have time, huh? Okay, well, maybe we'll do that one next year. I'm sure Okay, okay. Well anyways guys, um, I had some more but I guess we're running out of time So I appreciate you guys being here and thanks a lot