 when the narcissist drags you through the courts The narcissist will drag you through the court They will start a legal case against you Even though you don't want it to happen They will get you caught up in difficult and complicated situations They want to make you have a bad experience Because they're angry and resentful They feel like they have been treated unfairly Because they have been forced to accept something that they don't like Maybe you're fed up of the abuse And you don't want to deal with them anymore But because narcissists lack empathy They cannot share your feelings or experience They are arrogant and entitled They see you as an object They see you as something that belongs to them And their feelings of jealousy will result in them trying to punish you It will result in them trying to regain control over you And they will do this by starting a legal case against you It may be based on an actual event that was in response to something they did to you Maybe it was reactive abuse Where they pushed and provoked you until you finally reacted to them And then they will take that and exaggerate it They will make it seem like it's more than what it actually is While leaving out the key details of what happened before the alleged event Or maybe you've found something out about them And they feel threatened that you are going to expose them So now they have to quickly turn the tables on you They have to portray themselves as the victims and make it seem like you are the abuser Because they're trying to gain an advantage over you They're trying to put themselves in a superior position where they have a greater chance of success And they don't care how they do it They don't mind misrepresenting the truth Which is why when you try to leave the narcissist It can be very dangerous for you Narcissists don't like to lose They will play dirty They will act in a dishonest and unfair way When they know that you've figured them out They will set out to destroy you They will call the police on you They will try to get you arrested They will try to get your children away from you They will try to get money from you They will abuse the legal system To gain an advantage over you To put themselves in a favorable position Narcissists are unstable people A relationship with a narcissist is never going to end well They're not going to let you leave with everything that you are And move on to live a happy and fulfilling life That's the last thing they want to see Narcissists want to hurt you They want to cause you pain They do not love you They do not care about you They're just using you for their own convenience And if you leave them You're taking those conveniences away Which will cause a narcissistic injury Where they will do anything to cause problems and difficulties in your life But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't leave My advice is for you to leave It will only get worse the longer you stay with them But you need to be aware of what they might try to do to you It will feel like you are stuck with a narcissist It will feel like you can't make them leave They will try to gain control of your own personal finances So that it makes it difficult for you to move on without them So that you can't get your own house They will try to make it appear as though you are the abuser So that they then have the court on their side And then they feel like they've won They feel like there's nothing standing in their way They can do whatever they want They can make your life extremely unpleasant They can drive you over the edge and make you want to kill yourself The narcissist will drag you through the courts They will make up all sorts of lies They will say that you stole from them They will say that you cheated on them When that may be what they did to you They will accuse you of whatever they're guilty of They will play the victim and make up reasons why they can't leave you alone They will make it seem like everything is so unfair to them As though you're trying to make their lives difficult by leaving them They will make it impossible for you to leave By holding on to things that belong to you And claiming them as their own Or saying that you said they could have it They will twist everything around Until they have messed themselves into every part of your life Where it becomes difficult to get them out And they will actually enjoy it They will enjoy getting you caught up with the police They will enjoy taking you to court It makes them feel powerful It makes them feel in control It makes them feel like they got the last laugh It gives them satisfaction to create all these difficulties for you They will even drag your children through the courts They will get them caught up with child protection services Because they have no empathy They don't care about the effects that this has on them They will try to take you down in front of the children They will try to strip you of everything that makes you who you are Until you're nothing but a shell of who you used to be They will put you in prison While they're in your house With their new relationship partner And this new person is around your children They're spending your money on this new person They're using it to buy themselves dinner at a nice restaurant Or to go on vacation While you're stuck in jail For something you've been falsely accused of Or even if they don't put you in jail They will put you out of work They will take up all your time by dragging you through the courts Where you have to miss work And whatever savings you have Will be wasted on lawyers and court fees Or they will run you into debt They will do whatever it takes to make your life miserable So many victims of narcissistic abuse Have been sent to prison for something they didn't do Many of them have lost their jobs and all of their savings Many of them have lost their children All because the narcissist lied to the courts Because they only care about themselves They're only concerned with their own advantage Regardless of how it affects you, the children, or anyone else Narcissists are notorious for taking people to court Most victims will not do that If they've been abused by a narcissist They will just want to be left alone They're not going to want to deal with any more drama But narcissists live for this Which is why they will pull out all the stops when you try to leave them They will come after you with vengeance They will make it their life's purpose to bring you down Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Thank you for watching Couching in Choirs You can email me at CouchingAtNarcSurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon