 Sadly, many of you are in a relationship. It's a cyber relationship. You spend more time texting on the phone than you actually spend time getting to know one another through physical bonding with one another. But that's a whole nother conversation. So I said, first you have to define what does a relationship look like for this? You ask him, what does a relationship look like for you? By the way, I'm gonna throw a little curve ball in here. You might always ask a man, does anybody else believe they're in a relationship with you? That's always a good question to be asking. But the follow-up question, once you've decided what a relationship looks like, the follow-up question is this.