 What's going on y'all welcome to the single guy channel my name is Lloyd so today where we're gonna talk about is we're gonna talk about how? To approach a woman the right way because let's be real 99.9% of the male population does not know how to approach in the right way usually when they do it They kind of creep the girl out Make her feel uncomfortable and then they feel bad about it Or they're just so nervous and in their head that they just don't know what to do And they end up not doing anything they demonstrate how to do this you can actually see footage of me doing this In the practical approaching system, which I released a few months ago, and I'm gonna be re-releasing right now So if you want some like it has like infield footage of me doing it I'm talking to a bunch of girls in the beach like models and you know different people So if you wanted access to that there's gonna be a link in the description box below Unfortunately, I can't show that stuff on YouTube. Alright, so let's talk about the first part of approaching women So you're probably pretty nervous at this time if you're walking outside And maybe you see somebody at a coffee shop or a bookstore or you know In a bar or whatever. Okay, you're probably a little bit nervous at first. That's okay. It's normal to be nervous Here's the other thing too. She's gonna be nervous about you as well The thing about men is that we're typically bigger than women So the biggest thing that you have to deal with at the beginning is that little bit of fear that's gonna be there And for some women it's gonna be a lot of fear So I wouldn't recommend approaching in these ways a lot of times guys will come in face to face They'll be like that that usually freaks people out. You feel like you're gonna fight them I wouldn't approach people from behind because it makes them feel like you're stalking a prey You don't want to be a stalker. You don't want to be a creep The best way in my opinion is to kind of come in from the side Okay, so if I see a girl leaning against the wall standing somewhere I'll kind of come in with her shoulders this way like let's say she's here. I'll come in like this I kind of want to be at the same level as her, you know If you face up to somebody a little bit too soon sometimes that freaks them out So like if she's leaning against the wall, I'll come in and lean against the wall, too And I'll talk to her like that That is gonna be a lot more comfortable for her than if somebody walks in because at first even if you're attractive Even if she likes you doesn't matter her survival comes first and then she's gonna put herself in fight or flight or fight mode And then it's just not gonna be in the mode of hey, do I like this guy or not? Which is where you want to get her to okay, so I usually like to come in from the side now if you've been talking for a little bit I'll usually say hey, what's up? My name is Lloyd or like I'll talk to her maybe I noticed something about her Maybe I'll ask or something about her if you're looking for like a list of What things to say or openers I have other videos I also cover it in the practical approaching system, but typically it's gonna be something that I've observed Okay, and then I can kind of ask her where she's from or you know what she's up to and I'll tell her what I'm up to and where I'm from then as we've been talking for a little bit And she gets more comfortable with me then I can start to move them square kind of square up with her a little bit So that would be like kind of like rotating my body So we're kind of more face-to-face and we can make better eye contact, but at first I'm gonna give her her space Okay, especially like you'll see in the practical approaching system where I'm talking to girls in the beach Like I don't get really close to them at the beginning a lot of times they're in a bikini They feel exposed you want to keep your distance a little bit at first And the other thing that you want to do is you don't want to like for lack of a better term You don't want to bitch out. Okay. You want to go in 100% dude Speak with a reasonable volume Speak like I'm speaking right now. That's totally fine. The more confident you sound The more authoritative you sound and you don't want to be barking orders at them right away They'll probably scare people up too, but you know calm relaxed, but also assertive That is going to get them to relax more Typically the guys that they're worried about the guys that creep them out are the guys that look like they're up to something The guys that are Awkward the guys that are like well you can even pull off awkward too But like in the right way just in general if you're hesitant if you're insecure about what you're doing You feel bad about it. Those are the guys that they're worried about if you feel confident like hey I know when I walk up like this girl's gonna have a fun time talking to me And I my job my goal is to make sure that when I leave her she's leaving with a little bit more happiness Than when I found her so whatever happens even if she doesn't like me I can still end with a high five I can still make her smile or make her giggle or something like that I'm 100% confident that I'm going to be able to do that so go in with a hundred percent don't But hesitate or do that sort of stuff if you're gonna do it do it If you're gonna mess up mess up with a hundred percent that I would much rather see that than a guy who's like Insecure about what he's gonna do so big thing that this is gonna take some courage now if you want to know how to build up That courage that's something else that I talk about in the practical approaching system and you know So there's some other videos on my channel where I talk about that too, okay? So if you've walked in you kind of come in from the side a little bit You've waited till she's kind of comfortable with you Then you can kind of square up and come a little closer to her then after that you're talking to her then that's the time where you know You feel free to be you know yourself You know be present to the moment give her the respect that she deserves And then I would talk for her for you know as long as he can as long as she'll let you if you feel like she's got to Go let her go that's totally okay But I like to the longer you talk to somebody typically the better connection that you can make with them Okay, so if you're in this position you guys I've done this so many times in fact You'll see during the practical approaching system. There was a two models that I started talking to you on the beach You know they're both in their swimsuits, and I walked up and I started talking to them and They liked me so much. They actually ended up coming back to my hotel room and hanging out later, okay? This is not something that is impossible for other people to do It's very very easy if you know what you're doing, but it does take practice It does take a little bit of confidence it does take you know you stepping outside of your comfort zone a little bit But the five guys and they did tell me this was true There was like five or six guys that had walked up and started talking to them Before they hung you know guy walked up to them and was like hey Can I hang out with you guys and like you know taking value and all this stuff like you want to you want to kind of come In at their energy and a little bit higher and it bring value that doesn't work Okay, and but it worked for me because I went by the process that I'm telling you guys So again if you want to see footage of that it's it's gonna be there But that's basically how to do it so hopefully from seeing this video You got an idea about exactly how to walk up and approach women and do this in the right way and if you get good at this It's almost like having a superpower like literally the world is Someone that you can open walk up and have a conversation with and see if you guys connect Like it's really powerful and really amazing and in the future I hope people become more confident and more respectful that we can start doing that more and more especially when all this Thanks for watching if you made today and consider subscribing I come up with videos like this every single week and good luck out there you guys