 that. Now ladies, let me just say something about red flags though. There's a big difference between a red flag and a deal breaker. That's right, a red flag and a deal breaker. A red flag actually means ask deeper questions. That's what a red flag is. So if a man did share with you that he's not looking for a serious relationship and begs to dig a little bit deeper on what he actually means with that. But today I want to share with you the more common phrase men say that is actually can be incredibly confusing and is actually a deeper red flag than the men red flag, excuse me, not red fly, a red flag versus the men who say I'm not looking for a serious relationship. Okay, so before we get into it, I think it's really important to identify the three active types of the three types of men who are actively dating to