 You want the narcissist to come back to you. You want them to miss you. And many people in these situations, they become very emotional. They become very reactive to whatever the narcissist is doing. But this actually pushes the narcissist away. When you become very needy, when you become very reactive to what's been displayed before you, this doesn't produce attraction. If you want the narcissist to miss you, you have to be absent from their life. Because how can they miss you if you're always there? They can't. It's impossible. Unless you're away from them. And as I said, when you're always reacting to the narcissist, this pushes them away. They feel like they've already got you. So then there's no desire to get you. But then when they feel like you're pulling away, then they chase after you. But how can they chase after you if you're not running away? And by running away, I mean focused on yourself. Focused on other things, things that should be more important in your life. Because that is really what makes the narcissist miss you more than anything. Because as we know, they can't really miss us as people. It's more our qualities and abilities, our achievements, money. That's what they will miss. So of course, when you move on and you become more successful, you make more money. Of course, narcissists are very superficial. They're going to want in on that. They're going to want to be involved in it. Because this is what narcissists value. Superficial things. So when they see that you're moving on and you're happy and whatever it is that they want, if you have it, they're going to miss you. It's really that simple. But of course, narcissists do not like to display any kind of weakness or vulnerability. They see it as though if they desire anything that you have, or if they desire to be with you, especially after they've gone and discarded you and said that someone else is so much better than you, the last thing they want to do is to openly come out and say that yes, they miss you after everything. Remember, the narcissist always wants to be in the superior position. They always want to be above you. In their minds, you're supposed to miss them. They're better than you. So why should they miss you? Why should they want you? At least, that's how it seems on the surface. But remember, underneath that is a very broken, vulnerable, weak and fragile person. Who, yes, if they think that it's now a better situation with you, of course, they are going to miss you at some level. But as I said, it's not really you as a person. They can't really see you as a person anyway. It's more your qualities and abilities, what you can do for their image, maybe money, all of the things they could buy with your money. Maybe it's a place to stay. Maybe you like to travel a lot. These are the kinds of things that the narcissist will miss. I mean, of course, they're going to miss those kind of things because we already know that narcissists want to be someone. They want to be something great. And if you have the ability to put them in that superior position and they think that if they didn't mess it up, if they didn't leave, of course, they're going to feel regret and miss you at some level. But again, this is beneath the surface, maybe in the subconscious mind. They're not going to openly say this to you in most situations because they have to portray this image of arrogance and grandiosity as though they're so much better than you. Why would they ever need you? Because on the surface they present as though they can do so much better. They can be so much better. But remember, this is all a front. It's not real. And that is why you may even see it sometimes. When you start slipping away, just look at how emotional they get. They get so angry. And they may even try to sabotage whatever it is that you've got going on. Why? Why would they do that? Because they're envious and jealous. There's really no other motivation behind that. And that should reveal to you a person who is envious and jealous. Deep down they feel like they're missing something. So yes, at some level, the narcissist does miss you. It's just not in the same way that we might miss someone. We might miss a person's character and personality. We might miss doing things for them. We might miss them doing things for us. But not so much on a superficial level. It could be a conversation or going to certain places together. Whether it's a certain restaurant or a beach. You might miss their mannerisms. Things that separate them from other people. Which is why you cannot so easily replace someone. But again, it's different with the narcissist. Because they don't value those kind of things. It does nothing for them. What they value are superficial things. Anything that can make them look good. So yeah, to make a narcissist miss you, hold back on your emotions. Don't be so emotionally responsive to the narcissist. And just focus on your own life. Get back to doing the things you love to do. Things that maybe you couldn't do when you were around the narcissist. Because of course they would get very angry. And they would punish you when you did that. But you can do that now. And when you do that, they will begin to miss you. Anyway, that's all I've got to say for this topic. Something I haven't spoken about for a while. But I think it is an important topic. Especially when you've been discarded. It's only natural that you may want the narcissist to miss you. Because they've made you feel so insignificant. As though you don't even matter. And you just want to feel like maybe that isn't true. Maybe you do matter after all. But with a narcissist it is only really superficial things that matter to them. But yeah, if this video helped you, give it a thumbs up. Share your thoughts in the comments. I do read them every day. And click that subscribe button. So you can receive the notifications for my future videos. Again, thank you all. And have a good day.