 Hi, she was seven. I'm back and this Video is gonna be about lunch dates. Okay lunch dates There they are a good alternative to a Date if you don't really know the person you want to get to know the person and it's a step up from the coffee date Okay, we all know my famous infamous video about the coffee date So I'm agree some don't I don't do coffee dates. Why because it's a waste of my money and time Even in I'm married. Okay. I never did coffee days even before I was married. Okay, so The thing is you want to present yourself in a certain way on a lunch day You don't want to be overboard. You don't want to be overly dressed up overly made up You don't want your hair to be all big and wild. You don't want to put like heavy perfume on you want to keep it You know nice simple, but you know classy So I actually have a video on my other channel that I Walk you through and I do my makeup. I tell you stories about dates and you know Give you some advice, you know the same as I do on this channel Except I'm just doing my makeup at the same time and giving you tips and pointers So I will link that below y'all go check it out after this video So lunch dates, what should you order? Should you order expensive things? Should you order something in the middle off the lunch menu blah blah blah blah blah? Well, here's my advice when you're on a lunch date most restaurants have a lunch menu on the back, okay, and You can order off this lunch menu and Still Get a good meal because they always have specials. Don't try to get the most expensive meal at lunch Okay, save that for dinner. Okay, save that for the dinner date because that's when they're really trying to impress you for dinner So go ahead and you know be cheap for the lunch date, but not too cheap, you know order what you want off the lunch Don't order wine I don't suggest ordering alcohol during lunch or the daytime because it kind of sends out the wrong vibe like oh Unless it's the weekend now if it's the weekend, that's fine Margarita Wine whatever but if it's a weekday and you're like just you know popping up for a lunch date You know doing your lunch break or whatever don't drink during the week. Okay, because that that sends out. Oh She drinks during the week. It's not even 12, you know, you don't want to put that impression out on a guy Okay, even if he drinks, you don't drink Okay, this way he thinks that you're not, you know Trying to get him for his money and that you're classy and that you have discipline this just sends like a whole Another perspective of yourself to him now say oh, yeah, I love drink I love drinks, but I prefer to drink later in the day, you know, I'm done with all my things and appointments and stuff like that So that makes him know that you have a level head and that you have your priorities in order. Okay Don't be like, oh, yeah, you're up. Oh, yeah, let's turn it up. Turn it up, you know, don't be like ordering the bar Getting iced tea a water period whatever, you know, make it look classy. Nope. I hate it. You know what? I'm sorry. I have to say I hate it when people order soda on dates. It's like it's so unclassy and it makes you look like you don't care about your health and That, you know, you're not used to nice things. So order something classy. Okay, I'm a classic drink Even if it's not alcohol, you know, like period, you have sparkling water. Oh, do you have peach iced tea? Don't be like, oh, I won't sweet tea. I won't I want a coke With a straw, you know, don't be Okay, that would turn me off about the guy. I'd be like, oh Actually, you know, it used to turn me off on dates when guys ordered soda as well Okay, anyway, that's just me though. I have high expectations. Okay, so next you're going to Choose your outfit. Don't show too much skin. You're at lunch. Okay. There are children present You're in the daytime and plus if he asks you out on a date for the evening and there's no difference between your look It's not gonna it's not gonna like wow him So you want to keep it simple for lunch and then if he asks you out on a different date Then you can wow him you can put out pull out your stops, right? But you want to look classic someone he can take home to the myth or me, you know, meet his family That's what you want to go for for the lunch. Look. Okay. You don't want to go all out. Okay, but you want to keep it simple but classy and Neutral, okay, you don't want to show too much skin. You don't want to be all, you know Jeweled up like a Christmas tree want to keep it simple So this is the advice I'm giving on my other video and also You know after that lunch date is over It's over You don't have to have the pressure of going for drinks afterwards going to a club afterwards going to the movies afterwards So you're just pretty much making an impression getting it in there and then leaving so you want to leave him with a good, you know Perception of you so you have to come clean classy elegant You don't want to drink you want him to know your priorities in order so he's serious So he wants to be serious about you. He's like, oh, I like her. She's classy. Look how she looks You didn't have all that, you know stuff on her I can tell she was a woman because a lot of these guys are complaining. Oh, yeah, I wear too much makeup We can't tell if y'all are men or women. We're gonna take y'all swimming on first dates and Okay, so you want you want at least show a little bit of your natural beauty on a lunch date So he knows that you know, you can go either way You can you can glam up or you could be natural And if you invite you on the coffee date like I said on my video that y'all haven't probably gone to sing yet But y'all will be for the coffee date y'all are gonna laugh because I Did a look for the coffee date. Okay, y'all gotta go check that out. It's hilarious. Well, it was to me Okay, I laugh at my own jokes. I don't know Okay, so now that the lunch dates over He's gonna walk you to your car make sure your car is clean Okay, because guys always walk you to your car on lunch dates. It's daylight. They're going the same way in the parking lot you met him probably and You need to have your car clean don't have all that nasty junk in the backseat or you know Your car all dusty and dirty clean your car because guys always say this. Oh, you can tell how a Woman's hygiene is by her car if it's clean or not Or her house so keep your car clean ladies or just go to the car wash right before you hit Your lunch date. Okay, make a car wash stop or clean it out the night before So you don't have to you know rush and run late But ladies keep that car clean. Okay. I don't care if it's a hoop tee I don't care if it's old and scratched neat paint job if it's clean you know, at least he sees that you care about things, okay and Make sure your nails aren't ragged y'all. Okay. I don't give you have short nails Long nails acrylic nails make sure they're either done you know retouched or You know go to the Dollar Tree and get you some fake nails and pop those things on I don't care But don't come in there with no crusty jaggedy nails That have chips in them because that is a turnoff to most guys and it shows that you don't care about yourself Now I have had chipped crusty nails But I haven't been going on dates. I'm married. I got kids. I got a life And I'm not trying to impress anybody But I do try to keep them at least decent. Okay So Y'all on the date do the nails. Don't skip that step If you can't do anything with your nails take off all the polish and cut them short. Okay quicky fix now Phones on on lunch dates phones on dates. Okay, if you're always in your phone, that's that's a turnoff Okay, I don't care if you are you know Taking pictures for Instagram. He don't know that you don't know what you're doing So if you if you're gonna take pictures for Instagram You have to tell him and just do one picture and then put your phone down because that's the rudest thing you can do on a date Is be on yourself when I if he's on his cell phone, you know, that's a red flag, you know And if he's on his cell phone for most of the time go ahead and order whatever you want Get his money girl because he's not into you if he's all into his cell phone So, you know that this is not gonna work. So you might as well get you a good meal out of it. Okay I that would make me so mad if I was on a date and the guy was just on his phone I would be so mad. I'm like, you know We could have stayed we could have just chatted on on Facebook And I said I just went through the draft through an order to pizza I didn't have to waste my time coming to meet you if you're just gonna be on your phone Or you could text him from your phone and be like get off the damn phone That's something I would do. I don't know y'all aren't that bold. I don't care Plus You know when you have a unique personality and you're witty and you're just you know Different than most girls. That's guys like that's what draws them in so you got to have a sense of humor You got to be different. You can't be like trying to be perfect and fit into a mold because Everybody does that you want to stand out you want to act Like you're a fun person and that he can have fun with you and that being with you won't be so uptight boring Okay, so Thank you all so much for watching and don't forget to go and subscribe to my other channel my beauty channel and Click on that video. I told y'all about so y'all can laugh with me get ready with me and get some advice as well And I'll see y'all next time. Bye