 Why do narcissists get bored so easily? They lose interest in you very easily and very quickly and they may try to convince you that it's because of you. They may try to make you believe that you are boring. You are not interesting but if you could look back through their previous relationship partners you would see that each time they got bored so easily. This has very little to do with the people they were with. Narcissists tend to target people who are fun and exciting. People who have a lot going on in their lives. They're not going to target someone who they consider to be boring. They want to be entertained. They want someone to provide them with amusement and enjoyment. They want someone to distract them from their miserable lives. So they will specifically target people who they consider to be fun and exciting. Narcissists get bored very easily but this has very little to do with you. You could be a really fun person. You could be living a fast-paced adventurous lifestyle but at some point they will still get bored of you. They will still want to move on and be with someone else. It's like they're eating a gourmet meal every day. The first day is great. The food tastes amazing. Everything seems so new but as time goes by it gets boring and tiresome as a result of repetition or over familiarity. It becomes dull and less intense. It lacks interest and excitement but that doesn't mean it lacks quality. That doesn't mean that it's not the standard that they desire or expect. It just means that they're sick and tired of having the same meal every day because that's all you really are to the narcissist. When they first met you they had an appetite. They had a craving for a gourmet meal but now dinnertime rolls around and they crave a McDonald's. They want something cheap and easy. That doesn't mean that McDonald's is better quality than the gourmet meal. That doesn't mean it's better for them. The gourmet meal just doesn't do it for them anymore because they're so used to having it around. So now they want something else. They want something else to satisfy their appetite but no matter what they have, no matter what they consume, it never really satisfies them. It's never enough. They always want more. They always want something else. They always want something to make them feel whole and complete but it's never what they need because what they need is meant to come from within. The reason why they get bored so easily. The reason why they can never be satisfied is because they are seeking people and things outside of themselves to make them feel complete. They are seeking attention from external sources when they should be going within and attending to themselves. They should be that which they seek because the reason why they have such an insatiable desire for love and acceptance is because that is what they need to feel complete. It's like there's a big gaping hole inside of them and the only way they can feel it is by attending to themselves and going within but it's too painful for them to deal with. There's a lot of unresolved issues in there and they need someone to dump it on so when they get bored of you, you become that person, the one they dump their unresolved issues onto and then they have to find someone who is going to attend to them. They have to find someone who is going to feed their inflated ego but it's only a matter of time until they get bored of them too because no one can satisfy the narcissist. They will always feel like they need something outside of them to make them feel complete because they don't want to go within and complete themselves. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you liked it tonight, my paypal link is in the video description. Coach the inquiries, you can email me at knocksovercoachingatyuma.com. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.