 Hi, it's Bridget. Welcome to Above Life Channel. Today's channel is, I think, I think it's going to be Dr. Wayne Dyer. And I, the reason why I say I think that's who it's going to be is because sometimes I have a different idea of who I want to channel and then somebody else comes in and that's kind of how it was this morning. I had somebody else in mind to channel but as I was getting ready to channel, I could tell that I was kind of resistant. And so I did some tapping, which is an EFT technique to kind of just clear and connect for myself. And when I was doing that, I realized that I was avoiding who was most present for channeling because nobody was jumping in first. I knew who I wanted to channel but that energy of that person was not available or just not stepping forward. It's kind of like I'm walking out at a talk show or something. And the studio audience is all of these spirit people, these former famous people, historic figures and all that. And they're all in the audience and I'm like, okay, so who's coming up? Kind of why? That's how it feels. And but I was resistant. I didn't even want to come out and ask. So you might want to know and I'll be really, really forthcoming in the conversation with Dr. Wayne Dyer. Why is it that I don't really, I'm not super keen on channeling him today? And so I will share that I did meet Dr. Dyer in Colorado at a hay house event, a writer's workshop weekend. And I, how do I describe this? I shouldn't say I met him. I didn't actually meet him. I didn't want to meet him. It was kind of interesting. I've kind of had this relationship with his teachings that are, he's got, he's a good teacher, a good college professor like teacher instructor and share great storyteller. I love the story telling portion of helping people understand, you know? And so his body of work is, is, is good. It's solid. You know, it's intellectual. It's academic. It's also profound and spiritual. However, I feel that his personality like as a person like his persona, his ego mind, his brain was a major driver for most of his life. And I think for myself, that's a part of me that I, for most of my, when I had my professional career and all that was really dominant for me. And I am one that if you've seen my other work over the course of the last 14 years, you would recognize that I, I do not villainize the mind. I believe that we have to partner with the mind and work with that as one of the aspects of who we are and really be a whole to be a whole. We can't just be spirit and forget about the mind. We have to connect with spirit, but we also have to connect with our mind. We have to help and connect with our body. We have to monitor, manage and support a healthy heart and feelings and emotions. And so there's all these aspects. So the ego mind part, I think is, has been the thing that kind of, I don't want to say puts me off about him, but kind of it does, because I can feel that part. But the reason why we get triggered by other people is because there's something within them that they're mirroring and us. So I must have some of that too. And so I'm willing to connect with him and channel with him and let him kind of lecture to me, because I kind of feel like that's what's going to happen here. He's going to be lecturing to me. And I'm going to try to be, allow myself permission to be as open as possible to receive the messages and to share them with you. But I'm going to let you know, but I feel personally this one's a little tough for me. And, and I want to be clear. I have a lot of respect for the body of work that and the legacy that Dr. Dyer leaves and how he's created and the tremendous amount of work that he has, he's done with like PBS in particular to get spiritual, intuitive information out that isn't, that is mainstream and, and in a way that, that everyone can understand and access and not like it's like exclusive. I hate that. I hate this exclusivity of spirituality and, oh, there's different levels of how good you are. And there's different levels of this and there's, oh, I do this kind of healing work or I do that kind of healing work. Oh, please come on. There's the hierarchy is ridiculous. And the reason why we have hierarchies is because we have what? Our minds. And so we're always going to have some of that. And I really do respect the fact that he was able to break down some of those barriers. So, and I can feel his energy. We're in my magical kitchen. This is where the magic happens as you know. So he's sitting across from me right now. So I'm ready to begin our conversation or dialogue. Remember, I'm clairvoyant. So I see, and I am kind of shy. Like, I don't really know what to say to him. It's not because I'm starstruck. I'm not soul struck. He says it's because I'm going to tell you things you don't want to hear, or maybe you're not ready to hear, or maybe you don't want to know. I'm like, yes, maybe, especially as I am sharing now channeling with the public. And I haven't done that before. And so that's a big kind of a big deal for me, especially dealing with celebrities and thinking about all the the stuff, you know, the legal stuff. And I don't want to I don't want to get myself into some sticky areas. And sometimes spirit tells you things that human people wouldn't tell you. And so you have to really be be mindful and respectful and walk an integrity, which I do. So it is nice to meet you in the afterlife. And he says it's nice to see you again. And he says tell tell the people that we have spoken before. Yes, we have. He very much came in like a mentor energy, like a college professor. He really feels like a college professor and I'm a TA. I'm going to graduate assistant or something. It feels like that. And I have a I respect that I totally love college and love education. So that that way, I vibe you. I vibe you, Mr. Mr. our doctor, Dr. Dyer, Dr. Dyer. Like, I feel like I need to say Dr. Dyer. And he says, you can, he says, Bridget, you can call me Wayne. Okay. He's like in the, you know, it's so different in the afterlife. So Wayne, what would you like to share with the people who are watching? He says, first of all, Bridget, you do not need to be afraid of my family. And he talks about specifically, there's a name that comes into my mind. And I don't want to say who it is in your family. They're not going to come get you for channeling me. That's probably why I was resistant. I'm like, I do not want to get sued by people for talking to their dead relatives. He says, you just need to get over that. Which brings us to the topic of our conversation today. What do other people think? You've heard me say before, this is him directly, you've heard me say before, that what people think of you is none of your business. And that's true. And unfortunately, we have to learn that the hard way at times, are you really going to let other people dictate your life choices? He never did it before. Why would you start doing it now? Do you remember as a rebellious teenager? Do you remember those years where there's this, I just need to be out from my out of my house and out of my the the dictatorship of my family structure, whatever your experience was, you can relate to that. I need to be free. I need to break free and be rebellious and rebel against the system, reject what I've been taught and do my own thing. Well, then why on earth or heaven would you, would you start now at this point in your life, at any point in your life, why would you ever, when you are an adult and you have the freedom and the capacity to be able to literally do whatever you want, whether it's Maui or Santa Barbara or Tokyo or whatever your want is, why would you ever let anyone else determine that your fate? That is not, it is a sell, it is indeed a self-fulfilling prophecy. And my friend Esther, the Abraham Hicks channels that I know that many of you listen to the law of attraction, very good stuff, good, very good vibration talks about that and these concepts as well. And at the same time, it really does seem like each of us has a different threshold for at what point in our life we will wake up to the fact and recognize that we don't have to live by other people's rules, whether it's a workplace or society or your community or the, you know, I lived in a place once where there were one of these homeowners associations and there was this woman who she was the one, you know, in the neighborhood, you know how everybody has those people in the neighborhood that are self-appointed guardians of all that is perfect in the landscape and all that is calm or just all that is ideal in the neighborhood. And I lived in a place like this once at one point and there, it made me just want to paint my house with polka dots or stripes or create, you know, if I hang a basket out and it's the wrong color or it's the, you know, little things that you can do to shake things up a bit, you know, I really, and it's not so much, it's not so much about conformity, but in the example of like a homeowner's association, you really are when you purchase that place or you rent, in this case, so you rent that place, you are agreeing to the terms and that means the little lady that takes care of the neighborhood and makes sure everybody does what they're supposed to do. And although she is well-meaning, she seems to maybe get into everybody's business and serves that role of the parent over the child and that teenager wanting to rebel, part of me really just wants to hang out that banner and really challenge her, but I wouldn't want to give the poor woman a heart attack and upset her deeply. Is it really worth that? No, but in my mind, I definitely made some contemplations with regard to what could I do to change the system, change the system of energy. So the outward reflection and whatever it is that we create or manifest in our human life experience is not necessarily reflective of what is going on inside of our soul. Sometimes the soul is separate. Sometimes that rebellious nature is more the mind testing itself than it is God, the spirit soul part of you moving through you. And it is in our nature as a human to want to crave experiences of contrast and difference and to recognize or see a set of rules that's placed upon you, whether it's as a student in a classroom or as an adult in a neighborhood. We are consistently put into situations and circumstances where we are are being made to choose which matters more to us and which desires are most important to us at that time. Now that's a good point about the timing of things. You, something that you cared deeply about five years ago, 10 years ago, may have no bearing in your life at this point. It may not, it may not even impact you. And so to with each day, even the moments of the day, even something that bothers you at breakfast will be gone by dinner or maybe lunch if you're lucky. And so the flow of energy is, it appears to be fast, life appears to move quickly. But that's because there are so many possibilities, so many bubbles of opportunity that is flowing throughout. And the tricky part for humans, for the human mind to, is to allow the natural unfolding of what bubbles get the biggest, to let the bubbles get the biggest and to allow them to be so big that you notice them, to let them grow, to not squash them and, and kill those dreams early on with naysaying and criticism and it's not going to work and all the reasons why it's not, reasons why it's not going to work. But rather give yourself the opportunity to let the bubbles grow, you know, like the little girl with the, blowing the bubbles in the sunlight and just blowing the bubbles and let the bubble get big, big, big and let it just flow it and flow it. You don't go and crush the bubble right away. Oh, it's done, ha ha. Unless that's what you want to do is make more bubbles and just keep, and that gives you joy, then that's your desire, then that's what you do. That fulfills you, then you do that. But it's not going to fulfill, fulfill you just as it's not going to keep that child content for more than 20, 30, maybe 40 minutes. This is the same with you, your desires and your dreams. This is, this is, it's quite fascinating, isn't it? In the afterlife too. It's profound to consider all of the possibilities. So how about you? What are you considering? What are you considering today? I knew this was going to happen. I knew we were going to talk about stuff for me and I don't know if I want to share that with everybody in a channeling, but okay, I guess I, I'll, we'll see. We'll see if I decide to share this depends on how much, how personal it is, right? He says it can't get much more personal than soul to soul. He's like, I'm dead. Can't get much more personal than that because not. So what is it? So what is the question? What is it that you want to work on? What is it that you are trying to bring into the world? What are you trying to make happen? He's like, and he sits like this, like he's going to listen to me like a counselor. I'm not sure. I don't know if I know the answer to that. I can share that right now where, where I feel the most energy in my life is around sharing what I'm good at, doing what I'm good at and doing what brings me joy, which is doing the channeling. I love it. I love, I'm going to get really emotional. I love channeling. I love it. I love how beautiful the energy is. I love how smart dead people are. I love the advice and the wisdom and the insight and the feeling of hope that comes through in the messages from the afterlife because the perspective is so much bigger than our view on earth. And I know that from talking to fabulously famous celebrities, well-known people, historic figures that it will spark the interest of people who may not normally recognize that there is this incredible soul light within them and that that light powers everything about them. It's like solar power and it can bring them into a better way of feeling about the things that they're doing in their lives. It doesn't mean they're going to all of a sudden get a brand new job and move to Hawaii. But it means that they can feel better, feel good, feel lighter, not so heavy, not so much anxiety, not so much stress, not so much worry about their family or their child or themselves or the world or globally or their country. They can just feel better because there's an energy connection to hope and to the soul and to this incredible positive powerful energy that we have that doesn't mean we have to go and change the world. It means we can change our world, ourselves, be happier and feel more fulfilled. That's why I love channeling because it's meaningful. It means so much. It means it could save someone. It could change their life in a positive way because they're inspired and that's exactly why I do it and I'm really emotional about it because I care. I care about this. This matters to me. It matters to me and I did not expect this. This is an example of healing, of the kind of open-hearted loving energy that comes through in session. When you channel someone, aren't channeling the weekly channels I do their sessions? They're like sessions, treat them like that. They're interesting, they're entertaining, they're fun, they're fascinating and sometimes thought-provoking or even a little, maybe a little scandalous, probably not too scandalous, but I feel grateful. What advice, what one piece of advice would you give to humans, to people? Right away he says trust yourself. There's a lot of distrust in the world and if you can't trust anybody else, the one person you can trust is yourself but you have to start acting like it. You have to start acting like it, he's saying. There's so much fear, he says. It's like a plague, a virus and it's killing everyone. You have to trust yourself and that starts, the trust starts within you. What would you suggest for people who want to learn to utilize their intuition more? I mean trust is a huge factor in that but what would you suggest for people who want to learn to use their intuition? Make it a priority. You have to actually do it. You actually have to have practices, you actually have to make the effort. Can you talk more about intuition so we can maybe understand it? It's that combination of God's voice within your soul, within your spirit. It's a part of your heart. It's a part of your memory. It's a part of your expanded growth. It's the whole universe within you and because of this it's hard to explain in great detail because it is also unique. You are unique but your intuition is a guidance system within you. It's a guidepost, a series of guideposts, mile markers on a path and you are presented at those markers, those points with the choice. Do you stop here, do you take, do you go to the left, do you go to the right, do you turn around and walk back on the path because it was so beautiful, no metaphor about past present or future, just choice. This is about the choice and so intuition, excuse me, my nose is so itchy right now, is connected with choice. That, no, Wayne I have not heard that before, spoken in that way so everybody pay attention. Intuition is about choice, it's connected to choice. I love that, that is powerful. I have not heard, I want to write that down. Mr. Dyer, see I have my pen and my paper because that's a Wayne thing, Dr. Dyer thing. Intuition is connected. He said maybe I did, you haven't read them all. I haven't, no. He says you can still buy my books, like I know, it's okay, I know, I know, thank you very much. I do have, I can see clearly now, I have that assigned copy from you, I have that. I would like to talk about health, okay. You are experiencing this Bridget and I think it is important to mention how much your physical well-being impacts your energy, your spirit, your ability to be happy and fulfilled. It affects your moods, it impacts every system and process within your body, your health. And I'm not talking about the cancer scare. He said referring to his own cancer scare, which did not lead to my demise. I simply went to bed and I did not wake up. And it looks like a, I don't really know if you had like a heart attack or it looks like a brain thing, almost like a stroke or aneurysm thing. It looks like a quick boom. I mean how beautiful, what a beautiful way to cross over. He says yes, surprise the heck out of me. He said, surprise the heck out of me. I wasn't feeling great, but I, I just thought maybe had a flu or something. I, you know, and he says like I went to bed. I just thought, I got a little bug and it'll work itself out. You know, just take some herbs and, you know, get some fresh, a good night's sleep and some fresh air in the morning on my morning walk and we'll see, you know, see how it goes. And I didn't really think and he said, surprise the heck out of me. I'm waking up in heaven. That would be a good book. Too bad you can't write that one, huh? Maybe you should. Oh no, that's okay. I got enough to do. Oh my gosh. Okay. All right. So the health, is there anything in particular you'd like to say about that? He says, you would be surprised at how much the, the techniques and the tools that you can do for stress relief, how much that will help your health. That will help your physical health, your mental health, your emotional health and your spiritual health. So any kind of stress relieving techniques or practices like a meditation or a yoga or breathing exercises, whatever speaks to you, whatever really works for you in your life and how much that really can impact and really improve the overall quality of all of your life. That I agree with 100%. I feel the same way. In fact, I want to do a video about what I consider spiritual fitness because, and I'm not talking about exercising, I'm talking about things we can do to keep our energy in a state of wellness, you know, in a state of wellness so that we feel good, like my energy and my mood, that really impacts if I can do this and how much work I can do for this as well. So this has been a roller coaster of emotions. Now I forgot, Wayne, I forgot that you were a counselor at one point, I think in your career, I think you talk about that in one of your books, like as a marriage counselor or some kind of counselor or something. I think you talk about that. And so I forgot that you were, so I should have been, maybe should have done a video just you and I, but you know, this is really good. This is good, very good content. I think that as far as a channel, Dr. Wayne Dyer, you've been very interesting to talk to. He says, have we overcome your fears, Bridget? Have we worked through some of that? I'm like, I don't know, I'm a work in progress. I am such a work in progress. This is not a science, this is an art. But it was nice to meet you. Thank you very much for, for making an appearance today. And clearly you were the right energy vibration at this moment in time, the right choice for our channel. Thank you for being here at Above Life channel. Make sure to subscribe so you never miss a channel. 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